Aries and Aries Placements - why y’all so rude to waiters?

I’ve been trying to figure this out for years.

I’ve declined many of eating invites because I don’t want my food spit in.

It’s the rudeness for me…

So what gives?

I've always been polite to waiters, even when they mixed up my order.

Aries Mars

Aries rising and always very polite.

My Aries ex once clicked his fingers in the air to a Waiter and i asked him what the hell was he doing 😐

So arrogant...

Examples? Share your traumatic experiences

I’ve hardly ever seen the inside of a restaurant as a customer to even have the opportunity to insult anyone. Beyond that, the only time I’ve lost my patience was at Meijer’s few years back when the worker blatantly refused to do their job & expected me to do it instead. Yeah… nahhh!!!

Venus in Aries 12th house

Posted by LadyNeptune

Examples? Share your traumatic experiences

I’ve bear witness to a few condescending conversations with between waiters and arians.

It’s so uncomfortable because you have these staff who are essentially blind sided by the smack down they’ve just received.

I’ve seen them go blank and in a state of shock over, imo, simple things.

But when I bring it up, the Arian has zero idea what I’m talking about. They don’t see themselves as rude. Instead they see themselves as “speaking up.”

I see myself as getting E. coli

I’m amazed that even sitting in the non dominant seated position, they still manage to dominate.

Just recently, Arian will order something off the menu and then change the ingredients, the way it’s prepared, add and take away. By the time their done ordering, it’s a totally different meal.

Food comes out and wouldn’t you guess it, it ain’t right and here comes the smackdown.

If you’re going to change the meal so much, go home and cook it yourself or go to a scratch kitchen.

It’s like they set themselves up for failure.

Meanwhile I’m praying the waitress doesn’t have Covid when she spits in my food.

Posted by DMV

I’ve declined many of eating invites because I don’t want my food spit in.

Lol!

Posted by LadyNeptune

Examples? Share your traumatic experiences

I am curious too.

Posted by DMV

Posted by LadyNeptune

Examples? Share your traumatic experiences

I’ve bear witness to a few condescending conversations with between waiters and arians.

It’s so uncomfortable because you have these staff who are essentially blind sided by the smack down they’ve just received.

I’ve seen them go blank and in a state of shock over, imo, simple things.

But when I bring it up, the Arian has zero idea what I’m talking about. They don’t see themselves as rude. Instead they see themselves as “speaking up.”

I see myself as getting E. coli

I’m amazed that even sitting in the non dominant seated position, they still manage to dominate.

Just recently, Arian will order something off the menu and then change the ingredients, the way it’s prepared, add and take away. By the time their done ordering, it’s a totally different meal.

Food comes out and wouldn’t you guess it, it ain’t right and here comes the smackdown.

If you’re going to change the meal so much, go home and cook it yourself or go to a scratch kitchen.

It’s like they set themselves up for failure.

Meanwhile I’m praying the waitress doesn’t have Covid when she spits in my food.

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“If you’re going to change the meal so much, go home and cook it yourself or go to a scratch kitchen”

....or shove it where the sun ☀️ don’t shine lol

Posted by DMV

Posted by LadyNeptune

Examples? Share your traumatic experiences

I’ve bear witness to a few condescending conversations with between waiters and arians.

It’s so uncomfortable because you have these staff who are essentially blind sided by the smack down they’ve just received.

I’ve seen them go blank and in a state of shock over, imo, simple things.

But when I bring it up, the Arian has zero idea what I’m talking about. They don’t see themselves as rude. Instead they see themselves as “speaking up.”

I see myself as getting E. coli

I’m amazed that even sitting in the non dominant seated position, they still manage to dominate.

Just recently, Arian will order something off the menu and then change the ingredients, the way it’s prepared, add and take away. By the time their done ordering, it’s a totally different meal.

Food comes out and wouldn’t you guess it, it ain’t right and here comes the smackdown.

If you’re going to change the meal so much, go home and cook it yourself or go to a scratch kitchen.

It’s like they set themselves up for failure.

Meanwhile I’m praying the waitress doesn’t have Covid when she spits in my food.

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Sounds like this may only be a Ram Sun issue vs placements in general?

Anyway, younger generation is pretty good at directing their anger where it needs to go. The potentially COVID contaminated spit would only be seasoning his food.

There was another Arian person who did the exact same thing.

She’s vegetarian. No problem with that.

So she will go into a restaurant and try to change a dish into a vegetarian dish.

Wouldn’t you know it, what she wanted versus what came out didn’t translate. And!! There was an extra charge for substitutions which was clearly stated on the menu. Waitress got berated and I felt bad.

Then while she waited she made a mess of the table. Sugar packets everywhere, sugar on the table, straw coverings, napkins. A toddler mess.



She then refused to tip and I asked why. She gave me a laundry list of problems as to why the wait wasn’t deserving.

She didn’t clean the table.

She didn’t ask me how my meal was.

She didn’t bring me a Togo cup.

She brought me out the wrong drink and even though she apologized and made good that she wouldn’t charge me..she didn’t take it back and it cluttered the table

Meanwhile the place was packed and there was a line waiting to get in. The girl was obviously swamped and a lil empathy would have gone a long way.

I’ve learned not to argue. Because the Arian never makes a valid point they just talk louder and louder.

I speak my mind and leave.

Posted by Wizardz_

Maybe you just have shitty friends 😂

I wouldn’t call them shitty.

Rude, definitely

Arians have big hearts.

Hmm my Tripple Aries behind must be out the loop but I was taught to treat everyone with respect including waiters. The only time I become rude is only when the person was disrespectful to me first.

Posted by Earthyfire

Hmm my Tripple Aries behind must be out the loop but I was taught to treat everyone with respect including waiters. The only time I become rude is only when the person was disrespectful to me first.

Could it be that Aries just doesn’t notice their behavior?

For example, as a Sagittarius, I am not really concerned with the person. I am more concerned with people.

Aries is a personal sign and Sagittarius is an interpersonal sign.

🤔

Nah.

- Mars in Aries

Not rude. Especially not to serving staff/ sales staff/customer service staff.

Mostly because I know what Its like to stand on your feet all day taking orders from others.

Posted by Earthyfire

The only time I become rude is only when the person was disrespectful to me first.

This is me also. They'd have to be exceptionally rude and disrespectful to get a rise out of me.

In my experience, they were Libras and Libra placements who were rude to waiters.

I am always polite and give nice tips. I don't like it when I ask kindly for a glass of water with my coffee and lemonade, and they don't bring it but I won't throw my drinks at them. If the food is bad, and they ask how it was, I will tell them my honest opinion and tip them anyway.

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Posted by DMV

There was another Arian person who did the exact same thing.

She’s vegetarian. No problem with that.

So she will go into a restaurant and try to change a dish into a vegetarian dish.

Wouldn’t you know it, what she wanted versus what came out didn’t translate. And!! There was an extra charge for substitutions which was clearly stated on the menu. Waitress got berated and I felt bad.

Then while she waited she made a mess of the table. Sugar packets everywhere, sugar on the table, straw coverings, napkins. A toddler mess.



She then refused to tip and I asked why. She gave me a laundry list of problems as to why the wait wasn’t deserving.

She didn’t clean the table.

She didn’t ask me how my meal was.

She didn’t bring me a Togo cup.

She brought me out the wrong drink and even though she apologized and made good that she wouldn’t charge me..she didn’t take it back and it cluttered the table

Meanwhile the place was packed and there was a line waiting to get in. The girl was obviously swamped and a lil empathy would have gone a long way.

I’ve learned not to argue. Because the Arian never makes a valid point they just talk louder and louder.

I speak my mind and leave.

What did you say after she gave you that laundry list?

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I laughed and paid the tip

You know @DMV some Aries can be blind to how they come off to people. I know when I talk to someone rudely, (unintentionally) especially if I’m trying to get my point across some of the words or how I say things can seem a little rude. I think most of the time we don’t mean to be rude but it happens and that is when we need to apologize and think of another way to get our pint across.

Oh and if us Aries are stressed out and haven’t had a release of our negative energy and we just blow up or take it out on a person, our attitude and rudeness will come out but like I said we need to apologize and check ourselves.

I fully understand servers got it bad cus there are some rude customers out there. And you don't have to have any Aries placements to prove me wrong. Even I myself did the inevitable when I ordered a steak rare and they gave it to me med-rare. And by doing the inevitable I don't mean physical harm. I went out of my cool calm and charming character and went off.

All in all I can fully understand this thing from both sides. This why I don't ever want a waiter job...ever. I know I'll explode.

Posted by Earthyfire

Oh and if us Aries are stressed out and haven’t had a release of our negative energy and we just blow up or take it out on a person, our attitude and rudeness will come out but like I said we need to apologize and check ourselves.

This I can relate to. I can work with this logic and maybe find some ways to diffuse situations.

Thank you for sharing your vulnerability

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Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter

I fully understand servers got it bad cus there are some rude customers out there. And you don't have to have any Aries placements to prove me wrong. Even I myself did the inevitable when I ordered a steak rare and they gave it to me med-rare. And by doing the inevitable I don't mean physical harm. I went out of my cool calm and charming character and went off.

All in all I can fully understand this thing from both sides. This why I don't ever want a waiter job...ever. I know I'll explode.

I had to return a steak for the same reason. I literally said I wanted it bloody. First one was what I would call well done brown in the middle, second pink. I don't eat steak out anymore because chefs think it is a health risk to do it blue.

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Damn straight. You don't mess up a man's steak. Steaks too expensive. And if any chefs thinks it's a health risk to eat blue and rare steaks shouldn't even be a chef to begin with.

Posted by DMV

Posted by Earthyfire

Oh and if us Aries are stressed out and haven’t had a release of our negative energy and we just blow up or take it out on a person, our attitude and rudeness will come out but like I said we need to apologize and check ourselves.

This I can relate to. I can work with this logic and maybe find some ways to diffuse situations.

Thank you for sharing your vulnerability

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Humble Aries 👍💋

My ex Aries was absolutely never like that. Big tipper too. Other Aries I’ve known weren’t either. A couple of Gemini’s yes though!! lol don’t think it’s sign related.

Thank you ! You guys I try !! 😌

I think people degrade service workers because just for a little bit, they get to pretend they are part of the owning class and not also just another worker.

I think people degrade service workers because just for a little bit, they get to pretend they are part of the owning class and not also just another worker.

I think people degrade service workers because just for a little bit, they get to pretend they are part of the owning class and not also just another worker.

Are the waiters spitting in the food also aries tho lmao