
Most occurrence of these sign men based on the toxic relationship threads on here. Anyone like to share any POSITIVE, HEALTHY relationship experiences with the sign of these men?



Posted by _Dazed
The relationship I have with myself is pretty healthy.

Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by _Dazed
The relationship I have with myself is pretty healthy.
I’m sure it is sweetieclick to expand

Posted by _DazedPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by _Dazed
The relationship I have with myself is pretty healthy.
I’m sure it is sweetie
Why the condescending attitude?click to expand

Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by _DazedPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by _Dazed
The relationship I have with myself is pretty healthy.
I’m sure it is sweetie
Why the condescending attitude?
It’s only condescending if you choose to take it that way
Either that or it’s just people in your dxp ‘inner circle’ only allowed to respond to you in a joking or sarcastic humorous tone without your panties getting in a bunchclick to expand

Posted by _DazedPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by _DazedPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by _Dazed
The relationship I have with myself is pretty healthy.
I’m sure it is sweetie
Why the condescending attitude?
It’s only condescending if you choose to take it that way
Either that or it’s just people in your dxp ‘inner circle’ only allowed to respond to you in a joking or sarcastic humorous tone without your panties getting in a bunch
The point of my comment is that before you can have a healthy relationship with anyone else, regardless of sign.. you must first have a healthy relationship with yourself. This is something most dxp users don't have.click to expand

Posted by tiziani
All the functional relationships are too busy having sex.

Posted by tizianiPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by tiziani
All the functional relationships are too busy having sex.
Pls tiziani. This is a very big misconception. Sex is no where near the main determinant of a functional, healthy relationship. In fact, it’s the sex that gets these people to post about their toxic relationships as if that’s the only thing they stay for in the relationships !
the only relationship formula that’s ever held up over time is that couples who have sex more than they argue stay together.click to expand

Posted by tizianiPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by tizianiPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by tiziani
All the functional relationships are too busy having sex.
Pls tiziani. This is a very big misconception. Sex is no where near the main determinant of a functional, healthy relationship. In fact, it’s the sex that gets these people to post about their toxic relationships as if that’s the only thing they stay for in the relationships !
the only relationship formula that’s ever held up over time is that couples who have sex more than they argue stay together.
Sure that sounds like an ideal place to be. Maybe it’s just me but I don’t hold sex up on such a high pedestal. There’s so much else in life and a companionship to explore alongside sex.
I don’t hold sex on a pedestal either. just pointing out why internet forums posting about working relationships is less common.click to expand

Posted by Antiphates
A good friend of me is a Cancer male.
Very tough love but one of the most loyal and helpful people I know.
Also one of the few people who saw and understood my mushy core from the get go, which is still quite rare.
Mostly happy in his married.
Best friend is a Scorpio male and is the first person that gave me the feeling of being valued as a human being and not just a tool.
Very soft and kind with occasional complete lack of empathy. Has always been in working longterm relationships so far.

Posted by Aqua-Marine
What are your placements op?

Posted by Aqua-Marine
I have found good men under all those signs more so than the rest. So this is a little marginalized.

Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by _DazedPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by _DazedPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by _Dazed
The relationship I have with myself is pretty healthy.
I’m sure it is sweetie
Why the condescending attitude?
It’s only condescending if you choose to take it that way
Either that or it’s just people in your dxp ‘inner circle’ only allowed to respond to you in a joking or sarcastic humorous tone without your panties getting in a bunch
The point of my comment is that before you can have a healthy relationship with anyone else, regardless of sign.. you must first have a healthy relationship with yourself. This is something most dxp users don't have.
I appreciate you elaborating your initial post. I agree with that. As much as there’s so much dislike for Geminis, I was surprised to find a lot of users on here married to male ones moreso than other signs. That’s why I’m curious for anyone to share any positive experiences with the signs above who are not the signs & a male themselves ya feel?click to expand

Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by tizianiPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by tizianiPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by tiziani
All the functional relationships are too busy having sex.
Pls tiziani. This is a very big misconception. Sex is no where near the main determinant of a functional, healthy relationship. In fact, it’s the sex that gets these people to post about their toxic relationships as if that’s the only thing they stay for in the relationships !
the only relationship formula that’s ever held up over time is that couples who have sex more than they argue stay together.
Sure that sounds like an ideal place to be. Maybe it’s just me but I don’t hold sex up on such a high pedestal. There’s so much else in life and a companionship to explore alongside sex.
I don’t hold sex on a pedestal either. just pointing out why internet forums posting about working relationships is less common.
Honestly that’s why I assume if a sign barely gets much threads about them it’s probably because they’re out in the real world having healthier relationships than the other signs and that for me are like Libras and Virgos for instance. I rarely find anyone posting much on them. The Virgo male seems like such a mystery figure to me cause no one literally talks about their experiences with them.click to expand



Posted by Isolde
I don’t think any of those signs are toxic. People perusing them don’t understand them hence the many threads.


Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by tizianiPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by tizianiPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by tiziani
All the functional relationships are too busy having sex.
Pls tiziani. This is a very big misconception. Sex is no where near the main determinant of a functional, healthy relationship. In fact, it’s the sex that gets these people to post about their toxic relationships as if that’s the only thing they stay for in the relationships !
the only relationship formula that’s ever held up over time is that couples who have sex more than they argue stay together.
Sure that sounds like an ideal place to be. Maybe it’s just me but I don’t hold sex up on such a high pedestal. There’s so much else in life and a companionship to explore alongside sex.
I don’t hold sex on a pedestal either. just pointing out why internet forums posting about working relationships is less common.
Honestly that’s why I assume if a sign barely gets much threads about them it’s probably because they’re out in the real world having healthier relationships than the other signs and that for me are like Libras and Virgos for instance. I rarely find anyone posting much on them. The Virgo male seems like such a mystery figure to me cause no one literally talks about their experiences with them.click to expand

Posted by _DazedPosted by Isolde
I don’t think any of those signs are toxic. People perusing them don’t understand them hence the many threads.
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Posted by PhoenixStormPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by tiziani
All the functional relationships are too busy having sex.
Pls tiziani. This is a very big misconception. Sex is no where near the main determinant of a functional, healthy relationship. In fact, it’s the sex that gets these people to post about their toxic relationships as if that’s the only thing they stay for in the relationships !
Why don’t I see Tiz posts?! Did this mf block me? 🤣😂🤣.
Damnit Tiz 👊🏼👊🏼click to expand

Posted by PhoenixStormPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by tiziani
All the functional relationships are too busy having sex.
Pls tiziani. This is a very big misconception. Sex is no where near the main determinant of a functional, healthy relationship. In fact, it’s the sex that gets these people to post about their toxic relationships as if that’s the only thing they stay for in the relationships !
Why don’t I see Tiz posts?! Did this mf block me? 🤣😂🤣.
Damnit Tiz 👊🏼👊🏼click to expand




Posted by xy_sighPosted by PhoenixStormPosted by _DazedPosted by PhoenixStormPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by tiziani
All the functional relationships are too busy having sex.
Pls tiziani. This is a very big misconception. Sex is no where near the main determinant of a functional, healthy relationship. In fact, it’s the sex that gets these people to post about their toxic relationships as if that’s the only thing they stay for in the relationships !
Why don’t I see Tiz posts?! Did this mf block me? 🤣😂🤣.
Damnit Tiz 👊🏼👊🏼
He deletes them after he posts them.
I knew you could hide posts I never knew you can delete them!
Tiz figured out the matrix.click to expand

Posted by xy_sighPosted by Pesto101Posted by xy_sighPosted by PhoenixStormPosted by _DazedPosted by PhoenixStormPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by tiziani
All the functional relationships are too busy having sex.
Pls tiziani. This is a very big misconception. Sex is no where near the main determinant of a functional, healthy relationship. In fact, it’s the sex that gets these people to post about their toxic relationships as if that’s the only thing they stay for in the relationships !
Why don’t I see Tiz posts?! Did this mf block me? 🤣😂🤣.
Damnit Tiz 👊🏼👊🏼
He deletes them after he posts them.
I knew you could hide posts I never knew you can delete them!
Tiz figured out the matrix.
Deleting posts can only be achieved via code manipulation or admin access.
And I repeat, Tiz figured out the matrix.click to expand


Posted by PinsAndNeedlesPosted by PhoenixStormPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by tiziani
All the functional relationships are too busy having sex.
Pls tiziani. This is a very big misconception. Sex is no where near the main determinant of a functional, healthy relationship. In fact, it’s the sex that gets these people to post about their toxic relationships as if that’s the only thing they stay for in the relationships !
Why don’t I see Tiz posts?! Did this mf block me? 🤣😂🤣.
Damnit Tiz 👊🏼👊🏼
I can't see his either. I did about two days ago and suddenly I can't, but I see posts. Glitch or we got ejected. 😂click to expand

Posted by GemiAwesomeAssPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by tiziani
All the functional relationships are too busy having sex.
Pls tiziani. This is a very big misconception. Sex is no where near the main determinant of a functional, healthy relationship. In fact, it’s the sex that gets these people to post about their toxic relationships as if that’s the only thing they stay for in the relationships !
No! He is right!
After my marriage I can spot couple who have sex and who don’t.
And if you will underestimate importance if sex in your rship - it’s doomed!click to expand





Posted by _DazedPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by _DazedPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by _DazedPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by _Dazed
The relationship I have with myself is pretty healthy.
I’m sure it is sweetie
Why the condescending attitude?
It’s only condescending if you choose to take it that way
Either that or it’s just people in your dxp ‘inner circle’ only allowed to respond to you in a joking or sarcastic humorous tone without your panties getting in a bunch
The point of my comment is that before you can have a healthy relationship with anyone else, regardless of sign.. you must first have a healthy relationship with yourself. This is something most dxp users don't have.
I appreciate you elaborating your initial post. I agree with that. As much as there’s so much dislike for Geminis, I was surprised to find a lot of users on here married to male ones moreso than other signs. That’s why I’m curious for anyone to share any positive experiences with the signs above who are not the signs & a male themselves ya feel?
But the assumption in the thread is that the toxicity is due to the men/signs mentioned. Is that the correct assumption?
Relationships are a two way street.click to expand

Posted by Isolde
I don’t think any of those signs are toxic. People pursuing them don’t understand them hence the many threads.

Posted by IsoldePosted by _DazedPosted by Isolde
I don’t think any of those signs are toxic. People perusing them don’t understand them hence the many threads.
Not everyone is designed to crack enigma codesclick to expand

Posted by ElvisStalinWoods
Agree with Taurus. As much as I like some of them, they're absolute horrors in relationships by my experience. The worst case was a Taurus in the forces that my bestie met on the rebound. This guy was so controlling that he nearly raged out when a friend and I were playing ping pong "the wrong way", despite the fact that we were on a binge weekend doing whatever we wanted and only invited him as courtesy of having been alongside our friend.
I had to warn her that I was very likely to kill him in the near future, if she started going off the radar due to his wishes.
Also noticed that a lot of the domestic abuse cases I've had to review at work had Taurus men as the perpetrator.

Posted by virgoOPPP
i'm scared of cancer and taurus men

Posted by jeanePosted by GemiAwesomeAssPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by tiziani
All the functional relationships are too busy having sex.
Pls tiziani. This is a very big misconception. Sex is no where near the main determinant of a functional, healthy relationship. In fact, it’s the sex that gets these people to post about their toxic relationships as if that’s the only thing they stay for in the relationships !
No! He is right!
After my marriage I can spot couple who have sex and who don’t.
And if you will underestimate importance if sex in your rship - it’s doomed!
going to reference dr phil here so a tonne of salt is needed here but he spouts that when a relationship is good, sex plays a 10% role. when it is not, sex becomes 90% of the issue.
here it is
MYTH #7: A GREAT RELATIONSHIP HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH SEX
The belief that sex is not important is a dangerous and intimacy-eroding myth. Sex provides an important time-out from the pressures of our daily lives and allows us to experience a quality level of closeness, vulnerability and sharing with our partners.
Sex might not be everything but it registers higher (90 percent) on the "importance scale" if it's a source of frustration in your relationship. If your sex life is unfulfilled, it becomes a gigantic issue. On the other hand, couples that have satisfying sex lives rate sex at only 10 percent on the "importance scale."
Don't restrict your thinking by considering sex to be something that only consists of the actual physical act. Touching, caressing, holding hands and any means by which you provide physical comfort to your partner can all be viewed as part of a fulfilling sex life.click to expand

Posted by jeane
i like to think i have a positive and healthy relationship with a taurus. they are not all bad!

Posted by Marai
I'm in relationship with a Scorp and it's smoothly. We're both water signs so we need our space. I think when you don't understand eachothers (love)language, any sign can be considered toxic.

Posted by rabidtalker
cancer male here (with pisces moon, leo rising, leo venus, aries mars)
some of my best friends and worst enemies have been taurus, cancer and scorpios but the best relationships, non-romantic and romantic have been with taurus, cancer and scorpio. I desire to end up with a taurus one day, maybe...based on a relationship i've had with one with a capricorn moon. One of my best female friends is a cancer with a virgo moon. scorps are the only ones who have been enemies with me, mostly before I even realize it to be the case. Some of my best friendships have also been with scorps.

Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by Isolde
I don’t think any of those signs are toxic. People pursuing them don’t understand them hence the many threads.
Something must definitely be wrong with them if they’re not able to be understood in a big number. Did the “Cancer man left me” thread get deleted?!click to expand

Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by IsoldePosted by _DazedPosted by Isolde
I don’t think any of those signs are toxic. People perusing them don’t understand them hence the many threads.
Not everyone is designed to crack enigma codes
Y’all ain’t enigmas, y’all just too extraclick to expand


Posted by ElvisStalinWoodsPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by ElvisStalinWoods
Agree with Taurus. As much as I like some of them, they're absolute horrors in relationships by my experience. The worst case was a Taurus in the forces that my bestie met on the rebound. This guy was so controlling that he nearly raged out when a friend and I were playing ping pong "the wrong way", despite the fact that we were on a binge weekend doing whatever we wanted and only invited him as courtesy of having been alongside our friend.
I had to warn her that I was very likely to kill him in the near future, if she started going off the radar due to his wishes.
Also noticed that a lot of the domestic abuse cases I've had to review at work had Taurus men as the perpetrator.
Were there any other signs that stood out? And what about when it came to any female abusers?
Not quite. I mainly picked Taurus because it's the only pattern where I realized their patterns/MO were consistent with other Taureans. Pisces men could be a runner up though.
Where the toxic version of taurus men use accusations, possessions and guilt-tripping, toxic pisces men will play mind games and emotional manipulation to keep the partner stranded in their small world.
For women, I'd say Scorpio or Cancer.
Cancer when toxic, is the worst perpetrator. Cancer will do shitty things and gaslight the fuck out of the partner and try to convince the partner that they (the cancer) have been the only victim.
Scorpio is only mentioned because I do not agree with the type of partner that expects everything and only wants to offer crumbs on the trust spectrum, while often playing games to constantly testing the partner. It's far from as damaging as other forms of abuse, but it's still abusive.click to expand

Posted by peachy06Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by Marai
I'm in relationship with a Scorp and it's smoothly. We're both water signs so we need our space. I think when you don't understand eachothers (love)language, any sign can be considered toxic.
What kind of scorp do you have yourself and how long have you two been together? Honestly I personally think water signs are the BEST for Scorpio and Cancer men. No other sign deserves to have to suffer with them lol. I believe water signs can set them straight the best if anyone can. Water signs and Geminis should take the Tauruses too.
No.click to expand

Posted by IsoldePosted by SassyKiwiPosted by Isolde
I don’t think any of those signs are toxic. People pursuing them don’t understand them hence the many threads.
Something must definitely be wrong with them if they’re not able to be understood in a big number. Did the “Cancer man left me” thread get deleted?!
The signs you have listed are hard work, and it’s takes a while with them. Would I ever wait around for them no, but some women want a challenge. So they think they are being clever by scoping out their birth-chart and unravelling them, it speaks more about the person who is pursuing them... not the subject.
The fact you mentioned Virgo men, how you don’t know anything about them tells me your not the brightest of spark.click to expand

Posted by IsoldePosted by SassyKiwiPosted by IsoldePosted by _DazedPosted by Isolde
I don’t think any of those signs are toxic. People perusing them don’t understand them hence the many threads.
Not everyone is designed to crack enigma codes
Y’all ain’t enigmas, y’all just too extra
Not sure you’ve grasped the concept of the word Toxic 🙄 let alone to try to even explain anything else.
Are you the type that requires instruction manuals for everything i.e if you had a baby it would de-stabilise your thinking cos it didn’t come with an ikea manual 😂click to expand

Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by IsoldePosted by SassyKiwiPosted by IsoldePosted by _DazedPosted by Isolde
I don’t think any of those signs are toxic. People perusing them don’t understand them hence the many threads.
Not everyone is designed to crack enigma codes
Y’all ain’t enigmas, y’all just too extra
Not sure you’ve grasped the concept of the word Toxic 🙄 let alone to try to even explain anything else.
Are you the type that requires instruction manuals for everything i.e if you had a baby it would de-stabilise your thinking cos it didn’t come with an ikea manual 😂
Lmao, ever heard of the concept of clickbait thread title that literally every other dxper uses? Try not to let your emotional water sun take things too literal and personal.click to expand
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