I am Scorpio girl and he is Sag male. We have been dealing with each other since July of last year off and on. We decided that we will not be in a relationship neither have sex because I will be going away for school in October since we don’t want the process of moving on from each other to be hard once I go out of state. Now we have gotten physical with each other a few times in the past which happened last year. But once this year started we decided to not get involved in any sexual activity but to keep the physical side of things light. We hug and kiss and get a little touchy and that’s it. We don’t meet up to do it a lot because the chemistry between us is extremely strong so we keep our meet ups and affection to a minimal because we really do not want to take the physical side of things too far into sex. I am just seeking opinions because we ran into this recent bump in the road which resulted in him blocking me and I blocking him and we went without talking to each other for 3 weeks but of course we started back talking again. Once we started back talking he said that he will keep me on block to help him keep a wall up to not get into anymore physical contact because he has a hard time resisting me. At first I asked him to think about it and he said that he would. A day past and he unblocked me and texted me to say that he thought about it like he promised and that his decision is to keep me on block. I said ok and thanks for texting me to let me know. Fast forward to 3 days we both found out we had gotten Covid from a party that we attended 3 days prior. He immediately unblocked me to check on me everyday to make sure I was ok and that my health was improving. After a week of checking on me he texted me saying he will put me on block. I asked him if he could reconsider and also spilled my heart out to him so that he can understand that what he is doing is not necessary. he said that he thought long and hard about it and that is his final decision. I said ok and thanks for being there for me while we were sick. A couple of days past and I got a message from him saying that he decided to unblock me on all platforms which was his phone Facebook and WhatsApp. I also unblocked him from Instagram and tik tok. And we are back to our friendship again. Later that night he asked to see me. I met up with him and we mostly hugged and kissed. And he said that he will like us to be physical more (with out sex of course) but basically he wants his freedom to do whatever he wants and for me to do whatever I want (those wasn’t his exact words but that’s basically what was said). He reassured me that he is not talking to other girls and he only feels something for me. He said that he will give me time to think about it and that he will contact me later to see what my answer is. Why are Sagittarius wishy washy lol. He was super adamant and so serious about keeping me on block then boom he unblocks me. I just want to hear other ppls opinions about what I’ve posted. Me and him have our ups and downs but overall he is a cool person. I am open to what anyone has to say. Plus Sagittarius is my favorite sign.
