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@LostinmyMind11
I just ran his info because he gave me his birth time last night when we were talking about everything.
He has a Libra Mercury retrograde as well. He talks like I do with saying one thing but meaning another, kind of saying stuff "just in case"
Can you tell me more about the placement in retrograde? He seems to have no issues being open, he's just contradicting.
Like 2 nights ago, he gave me a toothbrush and said now I have a tooth brush at his place, Last night he asked me if I was ready to go "home", but then he says he likes everything new but doesn't like when everything fits together well in the beginning and then fizzles out (The honeymoon Phase) He says he looses attraction or they loose attraction to him when things move to fast. But he seems to move fast with his Fire moon. It's like he's fast and slow at the same time, I'm actually like this as well.
I had to stop him talking and ask if he can take stuff day by day. lol He was oversharing tons and then taking it all back 😆
I just ran his info because he gave me his birth time last night when we were talking about everything.
He has a Libra Mercury retrograde as well. He talks like I do with saying one thing but meaning another, kind of saying stuff "just in case"
Can you tell me more about the placement in retrograde? He seems to have no issues being open, he's just contradicting.
Like 2 nights ago, he gave me a toothbrush and said now I have a tooth brush at his place, Last night he asked me if I was ready to go "home", but then he says he likes everything new but doesn't like when everything fits together well in the beginning and then fizzles out (The honeymoon Phase) He says he looses attraction or they loose attraction to him when things move to fast. But he seems to move fast with his Fire moon. It's like he's fast and slow at the same time, I'm actually like this as well.
I had to stop him talking and ask if he can take stuff day by day. lol He was oversharing tons and then taking it all back 😆
Pisces Moon can be cool.....Scorsese, De Niro, will.i.am, Danny Jones😘
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I get amazingly well with Aqua moons, both romantically and as friends. Pisces moons I am not so familiar with but anything Pisces is good in my book 😄
Never been attractive to a Taurus sun.
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The creepy Sag guy is a virgo moon and I feel nothing. When we first started "dating" I felt a weird attraction to him which confused the shit outta me because he's not really all that attractive...I think that was more due to he has planets that fall in my 8th house. He is sexually obsessed with me and we've never had sex nor will we ever have sex but he still tries. 🙄
POOR SAG 😆 We are so misunderstood! 😛
No this one was actually creepy asf. He the one that sent me naked pics of other girls and a pic with what looked like a head at the bottom.. it was and so he sent me the vid of him getting head and then would lash out and send lengthy texts because I couldn't hang out with him and that I was selfish because I wouldn't give him my time etc ....yeah, he was/is messed up in the head! He has virgo moon, sag Merc and Scorp Venus I do believe.
The hockey sag is cool asf.. we get along so well. He even made a comment on how similar we are. He didn't expect it. He's the one that randomly messaged me via FB because he thought he seen me at one of the hockey games. We've been talking ever since lol.
He has a Scorp moon, Merc in his 8th house and Scorp Venus in his 7th...go figure lol
Oh!!! That's GROSS!!! Wow! Poor guy didn't take rejection well AT ALL!
Glad you met another Sag and he has redeemed himself! I'm working with another Virgo with a fire moon that is pretty similar too me too! Seems like Earth/Fire and Fire/ Water go much smoother lol
It's like night and day for me. It's pretty refreshing
Nope he has not. He's tried every route with me and just keeps hitting that virgo brick wall 😂.
I think if this other sag didn't have a scorp moon then idk how I'd feel. Usually if they have a scorp moon it lands in my 1st house...his moon happens to conjunct my ASC exact...so I'm supposedly, according to the Astro world, what he would consider ideal probably looks wise or emotionally wise. Then with my jup in the 1st...I have sag qualities. Seems to work but alas.. he lives in another state 😂. Story of my life lol.
That's awesome that you meet another virgo...I hope things go better with this one...seems more your style 😊
Thanks we shall see. I'm seriously robbing the cradle with him but I was looking on YouTube and it said Virgos like older women, so I'm just taking it day by day. He's a jazz musician so he's an old soul anyways.
His moon is in my 7th house and my moon is in his 8th so I guess that's good. I don't know. I don't even pay attention to this stuff anymore, I take a quick peek but It doesn't matter cause in the end it will either work or not work lol
He's too young though, so I will just live and let live for now. I just need a baevaction with someone and he has a valid passport and some free time 😄
Ooooh....yeah, you're moon being in his 8th is probably gonna be something if anything comes of it. 🔥🔥🔥 Rob that cradle...he may be exactly what you need right now 😉.
I tried not to look but was like fuck it...nothing's gonna happen anyway and honestly good thing he's far away...we have quite a few Pluto aspects which of course one of them is that damn my moon squared to his Pluto this time it's exact as well...never had it that close before. Mars/Pluto square and trine dw. His Saturn square to my sun exact, and dw of Venus square the moon. We'd probably kill each other in person 🤷😂.
He and I have pluto aspects too. His Venus in Scorpio is natal in his 12th lol and his Mars and sun fall in my 12th house which is fine for me. I love all this dark, secretive, weird, obsessive stuff. It's super exciting for me lol
We have Mars/Pluto Square as well and Moon trine Saturn, even with his natal placements in my 12th.
I will see how it goes, so far he's talking about destiny and all that type of stuff. I'm so glad that type of talk doesn't scare me. It's the opposite and is comforting for some reason.
Whether anything is true, who knows but at least there are no fears when we talk openly lol
I dig it too... obviously with my rising and I have venus/Pluto natally. Same here...none of that scares me if I'm 💯 into the person...if I'm not all in, I'm like woah ummm let's back this train up please 😂.
This sag seems to talk pretty openly and responds pretty quickly with whatever I ask...which is a little rare especially for a scorp mooner but I know I'm only getting what he wants to give me for now lol.
Lol. I’m the same when I’m not interested 🤣🤣🤣
I have a water moon and I respond quickly too
But I don’t reach out, so responding quickly is the least I can do.
You Leo moons always have such interesting topics to talk about, such interesting stories, you like being listened to, and like a little communication here and there while we are listening. I really like the placement. I get along great with Leo moons. But in relationships, I fail 😂😂 It’s easier when there are no expectations. Otherwise I get weird and scared of the connection.
Luckily with the Scorpio placements, it will be intriguing for the Sag and you. I’m sure he feels the connection but there’s no pressure since you guys are far apart.
What is your mercury?
Same. It's rare that I reach out not because I don't care or don't particularly want to...I just don't wanna be a bother lol. I blame that on my sun and Venus retro.
Pretty much... especially if we are comfortable with you...the story teller, the jokester comes out but if just meeting even a couple times...I'm quiet and observing. I self sabotage...it's like I can never find the right balance. Either I'm too much (not even in a clingy sense...idk what it is...maybe just my presence 🤷) or too little and they think I'm not interested 😂. Tbh...I think I like the fantasy I have going on in my head then the real deal except for sex...idk how to work that out irl 😂
Yeah I'm not gonna put too much stock in him. Like it's cool I have someone to talk hockey with but it's just too hard to do the long distance thing but I do enjoy getting to know him. We were supposed to meet a couple weeks ago (he has family across the river) but it just didn't work out. So who knows we may one day.
I have a libra merc but it's retrograde...I hate it lol.
Wow you have a lot of retrograde aspects! But you still seem so open. 🧐
Are you just like this online?
I get along the best with Libra mercury. They are a good balance between super chatty Gemini Mercury, that foams at the mouth and always needs to talk about any and everything and quiet, observant but communicating Aqua mercury.
You really have the best of both air placements.
So since you have a few placements with the Virgo I’m seeing, I will probably shoot you a PM about this Virgo. He’s contradicting and I get confused easily 😅😂🤣
I’ll be using you for your knowledge and placements- I need an inside view. 😜
I’m headed out of town and need to think about some of the stuff he told me last night. When the fog clears, and I digest the hours of talking, I’ll probably have some questions. 🙃
Is this cool? 😃click to expand
I don't necessarily have a lot of retro planets ...only the ones that seem to matter 😂.
I write better than I talk. I fumble over my words in person...it feels like my thoughts can't keep up with my mouth. Writing is easier...I have time to think about what I wanna say. I don't like to be put on the spot and if I am...you're gonna get nothing from me but maybe a blank stare 😂. I hate it and I never used to be like that until I got older. Then there are days (usually when Merc is retrograde) that my communication in person is so much better.
Of course...I'm here to help anyway I can 😊
Are u a Venus in Virgo? It would make sense if his moon was also interacting with your Venus. Otherwise I don’t get the sexual attraction between sun and moon. I had a fling with a Virgo moon and his sun was my moon as well. It was like talking to a mirror and sexual attraction was there but only for a minute. I think it’s cuz his Venus was incompatible with mine. His Leo to my Scorpio just caused dry spell.
But now that I think of it I’ve often attracted people who’s sun sign was my moon sign so maybe there’s something there. Even jung talks about that. Smart of you not to start anything serious with him though, because his study showed they often end up in divorce.
But now that I think of it I’ve often attracted people who’s sun sign was my moon sign so maybe there’s something there. Even jung talks about that. Smart of you not to start anything serious with him though, because his study showed they often end up in divorce.
Posted by saggurl88
@LostinmyMind11
I just ran his info because he gave me his birth time last night when we were talking about everything.
He has a Libra Mercury retrograde as well. He talks like I do with saying one thing but meaning another, kind of saying stuff "just in case"
Can you tell me more about the placement in retrograde? He seems to have no issues being open, he's just contradicting.
Like 2 nights ago, he gave me a toothbrush and said now I have a tooth brush at his place, Last night he asked me if I was ready to go "home", but then he says he likes everything new but doesn't like when everything fits together well in the beginning and then fizzles out (The honeymoon Phase) He says he looses attraction or they loose attraction to him when things move to fast. But he seems to move fast with his Fire moon. It's like he's fast and slow at the same time, I'm actually like this as well.
I had to stop him talking and ask if he can take stuff day by day. lol He was oversharing tons and then taking it all back 😆
We tend to think and communicate in Libra. We look at both sides of things so are very open to other people's opinions and thoughts. I try and talk to people the way that I would want to be talk to...not that I haven't been known to snap but usually there is a good reason behind it...I just try and be fair and just.
With the retrograde aspect...like I said in my other post. I write better than I communicate in person. I need more time than most people to think about how I want to express myself verbally and can change my mind on things depending on information I was given...not that I don't have my own mind...I do but I like to have all the facts in the first place so again...I can be fair and just. So I can see where we might come off contradictory to some.
When younger I tended to keep things in but was better at communicating in person (more superficial, small talkish...seemed easier). Now that I'm older ...Im more blunt almost to a fault (I mean what I say and say what I mean) but fumble over my words (I think because it almost feels unnatural but necessary) but I do it in a way that not hurtful...if that makes sense? But piss me off and you'll wish you were dead and I was a mute 😂 (I blame my fire placements for that mixed with my sun and rising). I basically feel misunderstood and not heard a lot. It's very frustrating and makes me come off dumb at least to myself 😂
Posted by halalbaePosted by virgoOPPP
it's so weird coz there's no real mental/emotional connection between us. even annoys me when we talk coz i just wanna fuck him immediately every time i see him. it's timeless i'm telling you. i can fuck this guy forever. i'd regularly go for gem moons but this is different, more obsessive carnally. he's cold and distant.... almost robotic but so am i in the beginning. but when we're in bed, ohhh shit it's like waking a god. there's almost this sense of desperation when we fuck it's amazing. whenever i close my eyes and think about the hottest fuck ever, this Virgo moon always comes to mind.
I have Virgo Moon and it was the other way around for me with a Virgo Sun/Libra Moon. We had a mental, spiritual and emotional connection. I know usually it takes a lot of time and patience to build those connections with Virgos but he literally shared everything about himself with me, it was at peak right from the beginning. Maybe its his Libra Moon to my Gemini Sun
I always longed for that kind of connection... for so so long, but physically I just wasnt attracted to him. I wouldnt even let him hug me and Im huge on physical touch. He is GORGEOUS tho so thats not it. I know I can still count on him whenever I need someone but damn was I selfish with him and Im not like that at all... weird because he has my Moon as his Sun sign 🤔
And most Taurus Moons are super quick to put their all in to me romantically/platonically, idk why they lose all discipline but I like their passion. They still let me navigate my feelings and thoughts without making me feel judged or burdensome
Gemini Moons idk, their likability to me really depends on their Sun signclick to expand
discipline? i'm sexually OBSESSED with him. used to imagine and convince myself he's married coz i felt like i'm losing control of myself. and then i hooked up with other guys to try and get rid of it. even broke the whole arrangement with him by accusing him of being married then ghosting haha this is classic shit i do. coz it is so inconvenient for me to be sexually high all the time.
but i can't explain it, whatever is with my psyche that craves sex with this Virgo moon all the fucking time. my hormones feel like a teenager 24/7. every time now that i'm at work, i close my eyes and fantasize about it. at work, in the car, walking randomly.
honestly if i'm hooking up/dating someone, it's always a Gemini moon and i still don't know why but i'm actually the one that gets bored first in that relationship. then again, i get bored with other Taurus moons too.
Posted by BlueVelvet
Are u a Venus in Virgo? It would make sense if his moon was also interacting with your Venus. Otherwise I don’t get the sexual attraction between sun and moon. I had a fling with a Virgo moon and his sun was my moon as well. It was like talking to a mirror and sexual attraction was there but only for a minute. I think it’s cuz his Venus was incompatible with mine. His Leo to my Scorpio just caused dry spell.
But now that I think of it I’ve often attracted people who’s sun sign was my moon sign so maybe there’s something there. Even jung talks about that. Smart of you not to start anything serious with him though, because his study showed they often end up in divorce.
i have Venus in Leo and i am obsessed with the physicality of the whole thing.... the technicality of it.
coz like i said it's void of mental/emotional elements.
Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88
@LostinmyMind11
I just ran his info because he gave me his birth time last night when we were talking about everything.
He has a Libra Mercury retrograde as well. He talks like I do with saying one thing but meaning another, kind of saying stuff "just in case"
Can you tell me more about the placement in retrograde? He seems to have no issues being open, he's just contradicting.
Like 2 nights ago, he gave me a toothbrush and said now I have a tooth brush at his place, Last night he asked me if I was ready to go "home", but then he says he likes everything new but doesn't like when everything fits together well in the beginning and then fizzles out (The honeymoon Phase) He says he looses attraction or they loose attraction to him when things move to fast. But he seems to move fast with his Fire moon. It's like he's fast and slow at the same time, I'm actually like this as well.
I had to stop him talking and ask if he can take stuff day by day. lol He was oversharing tons and then taking it all back 😆
We tend to think and communicate in Libra. We look at both sides of things so are very open to other people's opinions and thoughts. I try and talk to people the way that I would want to be talk to...not that I haven't been known to snap but usually there is a good reason behind it...I just try and be fair and just.
With the retrograde aspect...like I said in my other post. I write better than I communicate in person. I need more time than most people to think about how I want to express myself verbally and can change my mind on things depending on information I was given...not that I don't have my own mind...I do but I like to have all the facts in the first place so again...I can be fair and just. So I can see where we might come off contradictory to some.
When younger I tended to keep things in but was better at communicating in person (more superficial, small talkish...seemed easier). Now that I'm older ...Im more blunt almost to a fault (I mean what I say and say what I mean) but fumble over my words (I think because it almost feels unnatural but necessary) but I do it in a way that not hurtful...if that makes sense? But piss me off and you'll wish you were dead and I was a mute 😂 (I blame my fire placements for that mixed with my sun and rising). I basically feel misunderstood and not heard a lot. It's very frustrating and makes me come off dumb at least to myself 😂click to expand
Awww ok. Well honestly, you are explaining how a Sag thinks when they have knowledge and form new opinions, so I can see how this is compatible.
Both he and I are Libra risings too. So that probably has a lot to do with how open we are.
I guess I will have to get to know him better when it comes to being contradicting.
He told me he needs a lot of space in friendships and relationships. And I told him I am the same way. I don’t know how good that’s gonna be lol.
I will give a person enough space that they are forgotten 😭😭😭😅
Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88
@LostinmyMind11
I just ran his info because he gave me his birth time last night when we were talking about everything.
He has a Libra Mercury retrograde as well. He talks like I do with saying one thing but meaning another, kind of saying stuff "just in case"
Can you tell me more about the placement in retrograde? He seems to have no issues being open, he's just contradicting.
Like 2 nights ago, he gave me a toothbrush and said now I have a tooth brush at his place, Last night he asked me if I was ready to go "home", but then he says he likes everything new but doesn't like when everything fits together well in the beginning and then fizzles out (The honeymoon Phase) He says he looses attraction or they loose attraction to him when things move to fast. But he seems to move fast with his Fire moon. It's like he's fast and slow at the same time, I'm actually like this as well.
I had to stop him talking and ask if he can take stuff day by day. lol He was oversharing tons and then taking it all back 😆
We tend to think and communicate in Libra. We look at both sides of things so are very open to other people's opinions and thoughts. I try and talk to people the way that I would want to be talk to...not that I haven't been known to snap but usually there is a good reason behind it...I just try and be fair and just.
With the retrograde aspect...like I said in my other post. I write better than I communicate in person. I need more time than most people to think about how I want to express myself verbally and can change my mind on things depending on information I was given...not that I don't have my own mind...I do but I like to have all the facts in the first place so again...I can be fair and just. So I can see where we might come off contradictory to some.
When younger I tended to keep things in but was better at communicating in person (more superficial, small talkish...seemed easier). Now that I'm older ...Im more blunt almost to a fault (I mean what I say and say what I mean) but fumble over my words (I think because it almost feels unnatural but necessary) but I do it in a way that not hurtful...if that makes sense? But piss me off and you'll wish you were dead and I was a mute 😂 (I blame my fire placements for that mixed with my sun and rising). I basically feel misunderstood and not heard a lot. It's very frustrating and makes me come off dumb at least to myself 😂
Awww ok. Well honestly, you are explaining how a Sag thinks when they have knowledge and form new opinions, so I can see how this is compatible.
Both he and I are Libra risings too. So that probably has a lot to do with how open we are.
I guess I will have to get to know him better when it comes to being contradicting.
He told me he needs a lot of space in friendships and relationships. And I told him I am the same way. I don’t know how good that’s gonna be lol.
I will give a person enough space that they are forgotten 😭😭😭😅click to expand
Call him out on it ...he may not even realize he's doing it.
Yeah, that might not end up good so you maybe the one that has to make more of an effort if you really like him but don't let him get away with not reciprocating or you'll get resentful. I'm the same unless I like ya...I may still need the space but I won't forget about you and I will make more of an effort especially when I've been told things seem one-sided.
calming/grounding effect for me....just being in the presence of taurus moons is therapeutic...
Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88
@LostinmyMind11
I just ran his info because he gave me his birth time last night when we were talking about everything.
He has a Libra Mercury retrograde as well. He talks like I do with saying one thing but meaning another, kind of saying stuff "just in case"
Can you tell me more about the placement in retrograde? He seems to have no issues being open, he's just contradicting.
Like 2 nights ago, he gave me a toothbrush and said now I have a tooth brush at his place, Last night he asked me if I was ready to go "home", but then he says he likes everything new but doesn't like when everything fits together well in the beginning and then fizzles out (The honeymoon Phase) He says he looses attraction or they loose attraction to him when things move to fast. But he seems to move fast with his Fire moon. It's like he's fast and slow at the same time, I'm actually like this as well.
I had to stop him talking and ask if he can take stuff day by day. lol He was oversharing tons and then taking it all back 😆
We tend to think and communicate in Libra. We look at both sides of things so are very open to other people's opinions and thoughts. I try and talk to people the way that I would want to be talk to...not that I haven't been known to snap but usually there is a good reason behind it...I just try and be fair and just.
With the retrograde aspect...like I said in my other post. I write better than I communicate in person. I need more time than most people to think about how I want to express myself verbally and can change my mind on things depending on information I was given...not that I don't have my own mind...I do but I like to have all the facts in the first place so again...I can be fair and just. So I can see where we might come off contradictory to some.
When younger I tended to keep things in but was better at communicating in person (more superficial, small talkish...seemed easier). Now that I'm older ...Im more blunt almost to a fault (I mean what I say and say what I mean) but fumble over my words (I think because it almost feels unnatural but necessary) but I do it in a way that not hurtful...if that makes sense? But piss me off and you'll wish you were dead and I was a mute 😂 (I blame my fire placements for that mixed with my sun and rising). I basically feel misunderstood and not heard a lot. It's very frustrating and makes me come off dumb at least to myself 😂
Awww ok. Well honestly, you are explaining how a Sag thinks when they have knowledge and form new opinions, so I can see how this is compatible.
Both he and I are Libra risings too. So that probably has a lot to do with how open we are.
I guess I will have to get to know him better when it comes to being contradicting.
He told me he needs a lot of space in friendships and relationships. And I told him I am the same way. I don’t know how good that’s gonna be lol.
I will give a person enough space that they are forgotten 😭😭😭😅
Call him out on it ...he may not even realize he's doing it.
Yeah, that might not end up good so you maybe the one that has to make more of an effort if you really like him but don't let him get away with not reciprocating or you'll get resentful. I'm the same unless I like ya...I may still need the space but I won't forget about you and I will make more of an effort especially when I've been told things seem one-sided.click to expand
Thanks. I actually did tell him he was contradicting. He just laughed. But the reason I recognized it, is because I am the same way. But I just need to figure out if he is contradicting in the same manner as me or if he actually believes these things. He was flipping back and forth so much!
Telling me he's fine with being alone, and then when I agreed that I was the same way and I told him tat I'm never lonely because I'm an introvert and comfortable with myself and my own company, he decided to switch and say that sometimes people need others and it's not about being alone.
Once I looked at his chart and saw he was a Libra Rising, I realized he has a need for companionship like me.
I will have more conversations with him, I'm sure.
We were talking so much headed to his house that I stopped in the middle of the street in order for him to open his garage and he didn't even want to do that. I had to tell him we would continue the conversation once I was parked and inside lol
It's so funny how he thinks out loud and lets me know "Good, cause this is a really good conversation"
Soon as I stepped inside the door it continued immediately. It was cute.
Hopefully things continue in this manner. I'm actually enjoying it a lot. Sucks that he's so young.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88
@LostinmyMind11
I just ran his info because he gave me his birth time last night when we were talking about everything.
He has a Libra Mercury retrograde as well. He talks like I do with saying one thing but meaning another, kind of saying stuff "just in case"
Can you tell me more about the placement in retrograde? He seems to have no issues being open, he's just contradicting.
Like 2 nights ago, he gave me a toothbrush and said now I have a tooth brush at his place, Last night he asked me if I was ready to go "home", but then he says he likes everything new but doesn't like when everything fits together well in the beginning and then fizzles out (The honeymoon Phase) He says he looses attraction or they loose attraction to him when things move to fast. But he seems to move fast with his Fire moon. It's like he's fast and slow at the same time, I'm actually like this as well.
I had to stop him talking and ask if he can take stuff day by day. lol He was oversharing tons and then taking it all back 😆
We tend to think and communicate in Libra. We look at both sides of things so are very open to other people's opinions and thoughts. I try and talk to people the way that I would want to be talk to...not that I haven't been known to snap but usually there is a good reason behind it...I just try and be fair and just.
With the retrograde aspect...like I said in my other post. I write better than I communicate in person. I need more time than most people to think about how I want to express myself verbally and can change my mind on things depending on information I was given...not that I don't have my own mind...I do but I like to have all the facts in the first place so again...I can be fair and just. So I can see where we might come off contradictory to some.
When younger I tended to keep things in but was better at communicating in person (more superficial, small talkish...seemed easier). Now that I'm older ...Im more blunt almost to a fault (I mean what I say and say what I mean) but fumble over my words (I think because it almost feels unnatural but necessary) but I do it in a way that not hurtful...if that makes sense? But piss me off and you'll wish you were dead and I was a mute 😂 (I blame my fire placements for that mixed with my sun and rising). I basically feel misunderstood and not heard a lot. It's very frustrating and makes me come off dumb at least to myself 😂
Awww ok. Well honestly, you are explaining how a Sag thinks when they have knowledge and form new opinions, so I can see how this is compatible.
Both he and I are Libra risings too. So that probably has a lot to do with how open we are.
I guess I will have to get to know him better when it comes to being contradicting.
He told me he needs a lot of space in friendships and relationships. And I told him I am the same way. I don’t know how good that’s gonna be lol.
I will give a person enough space that they are forgotten 😭😭😭😅
Call him out on it ...he may not even realize he's doing it.
Yeah, that might not end up good so you maybe the one that has to make more of an effort if you really like him but don't let him get away with not reciprocating or you'll get resentful. I'm the same unless I like ya...I may still need the space but I won't forget about you and I will make more of an effort especially when I've been told things seem one-sided.
Thanks. I actually did tell him he was contradicting. He just laughed. But the reason I recognized it, is because I am the same way. But I just need to figure out if he is contradicting in the same manner as me or if he actually believes these things. He was flipping back and forth so much!
Telling me he's fine with being alone, and then when I agreed that I was the same way and I told him tat I'm never lonely because I'm an introvert and comfortable with myself and my own company, he decided to switch and say that sometimes people need others and it's not about being alone.
Once I looked at his chart and saw he was a Libra Rising, I realized he has a need for companionship like me.
I will have more conversations with him, I'm sure.
We were talking so much headed to his house that I stopped in the middle of the street in order for him to open his garage and he didn't even want to do that. I had to tell him we would continue the conversation once I was parked and inside lol
It's so funny how he thinks out loud and lets me know "Good, cause this is a really good conversation"
Soon as I stepped inside the door it continued immediately. It was cute.
Hopefully things continue in this manner. I'm actually enjoying it a lot. Sucks that he's so young.click to expand
More than likely him saying he's fine with being alone was to gauge where you were at and when he heard you were the same...he tried to play it off that what he said wasn't his final stance on the matter (probably thought you were going to say something completely different than you did).
That seems to be the consensus for me with Sags...we can literally talk for hours and it doesn't seem like time goes anywhere. Lol. I like that...I need someone who is more talkative and asks questions to get me to be more talkative...or again, I'll sit there and listen and observe lol.
I hear ya on the age thing and I was totally against going for younger or really for that matter older...it felt weird but it's really not...as long as you click and they are of age lol...that's all that matters.
Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88
@LostinmyMind11
I just ran his info because he gave me his birth time last night when we were talking about everything.
He has a Libra Mercury retrograde as well. He talks like I do with saying one thing but meaning another, kind of saying stuff "just in case"
Can you tell me more about the placement in retrograde? He seems to have no issues being open, he's just contradicting.
Like 2 nights ago, he gave me a toothbrush and said now I have a tooth brush at his place, Last night he asked me if I was ready to go "home", but then he says he likes everything new but doesn't like when everything fits together well in the beginning and then fizzles out (The honeymoon Phase) He says he looses attraction or they loose attraction to him when things move to fast. But he seems to move fast with his Fire moon. It's like he's fast and slow at the same time, I'm actually like this as well.
I had to stop him talking and ask if he can take stuff day by day. lol He was oversharing tons and then taking it all back 😆
We tend to think and communicate in Libra. We look at both sides of things so are very open to other people's opinions and thoughts. I try and talk to people the way that I would want to be talk to...not that I haven't been known to snap but usually there is a good reason behind it...I just try and be fair and just.
With the retrograde aspect...like I said in my other post. I write better than I communicate in person. I need more time than most people to think about how I want to express myself verbally and can change my mind on things depending on information I was given...not that I don't have my own mind...I do but I like to have all the facts in the first place so again...I can be fair and just. So I can see where we might come off contradictory to some.
When younger I tended to keep things in but was better at communicating in person (more superficial, small talkish...seemed easier). Now that I'm older ...Im more blunt almost to a fault (I mean what I say and say what I mean) but fumble over my words (I think because it almost feels unnatural but necessary) but I do it in a way that not hurtful...if that makes sense? But piss me off and you'll wish you were dead and I was a mute 😂 (I blame my fire placements for that mixed with my sun and rising). I basically feel misunderstood and not heard a lot. It's very frustrating and makes me come off dumb at least to myself 😂
Awww ok. Well honestly, you are explaining how a Sag thinks when they have knowledge and form new opinions, so I can see how this is compatible.
Both he and I are Libra risings too. So that probably has a lot to do with how open we are.
I guess I will have to get to know him better when it comes to being contradicting.
He told me he needs a lot of space in friendships and relationships. And I told him I am the same way. I don’t know how good that’s gonna be lol.
I will give a person enough space that they are forgotten 😭😭😭😅
Call him out on it ...he may not even realize he's doing it.
Yeah, that might not end up good so you maybe the one that has to make more of an effort if you really like him but don't let him get away with not reciprocating or you'll get resentful. I'm the same unless I like ya...I may still need the space but I won't forget about you and I will make more of an effort especially when I've been told things seem one-sided.
Thanks. I actually did tell him he was contradicting. He just laughed. But the reason I recognized it, is because I am the same way. But I just need to figure out if he is contradicting in the same manner as me or if he actually believes these things. He was flipping back and forth so much!
Telling me he's fine with being alone, and then when I agreed that I was the same way and I told him tat I'm never lonely because I'm an introvert and comfortable with myself and my own company, he decided to switch and say that sometimes people need others and it's not about being alone.
Once I looked at his chart and saw he was a Libra Rising, I realized he has a need for companionship like me.
I will have more conversations with him, I'm sure.
We were talking so much headed to his house that I stopped in the middle of the street in order for him to open his garage and he didn't even want to do that. I had to tell him we would continue the conversation once I was parked and inside lol
It's so funny how he thinks out loud and lets me know "Good, cause this is a really good conversation"
Soon as I stepped inside the door it continued immediately. It was cute.
Hopefully things continue in this manner. I'm actually enjoying it a lot. Sucks that he's so young.
More than likely him saying he's fine with being alone was to gauge where you were at and when he heard you were the same...he tried to play it off that what he said wasn't his final stance on the matter (probably thought you were going to say something completely different than you did).
That seems to be the consensus for me with Sags...we can literally talk for hours and it doesn't seem like time goes anywhere. Lol. I like that...I need someone who is more talkative and asks questions to get me to be more talkative...or again, I'll sit there and listen and observe lol.
I hear ya on the age thing and I was totally against going for younger or really for that matter older...it felt weird but it's really not...as long as you click and they are of age lol...that's all that matters.click to expand
Thanks for your responses. I’ll just be taking it easy. I always think long term when it comes to someone that I like. It’s hard now cause the guys in their 20’s have barely had a 2 year relationship, so they think 6 months is a lifetime.
And I’m glad to be in my feelings again. I miss thinking about someone.
He doesn’t know his chart and he said that he actually doesn’t like thinking about someone all day and being consumed by thoughts of them. He said it was unhealthy of a person to go through that and it makes him sick, he doesn’t like the feeling of it.
He has a Scorpio Venus- should I let him in on the secret about his chart and that it’s perfectly normal for him to be like that? I told him that I am the same way but I like thinking about a person like that.
We talked about horoscope stuff a little, but he doesn’t know much about it.
But if there are parts of himself that he’s trying to work on and he doesn’t understand why he’s like this, I’m wondering if letting him take a look at his chart for a better understanding will help him or make him overthink even more.
What do you think, being a Virgo yourself?
Posted by alexscariesPosted by besarlalluvia
pisces moon men disgust me tbh
My friend is libra sun pisces moon. He's popular and friendly, he's also kiddy and mixed up inside.click to expand
that's nice
Posted by Phantom_Limbo
I just remembered something. My first real love/boyfriend/guy I lost my virginity to had Gemini moon (so I was the sun), and I was absolutely obsessed with having sex with him. It was partly the age and the novelty, but it was mostly chemistry. I am so lucky that my first sexual experiences were with someone so open and good at pleasing me. I've always been very attracted to my husband too, but the first thing I noticed with him was this nearly irresistible desire to lay my head on his chest and let him protect me (in this case I'm the moon). You're the sun right?
yes i'm the sun and he's the moon.
i'm obsessed with having sex with him. want to have him all the time. mindless lust. can't remember sweating this much over someone. it feels like we're equals. and there's something about all these that feels 'right.' srsly i rode this sexy ass Virgo moon for so long. used to think this man is way older than me but then he told me he's just 22. the men who are older than me want too much too soon, this why i keep ending up with Gemini moons hahaha.
Posted by JammerwheelsPosted by pisceswoman123
I get amazingly well with Aqua moons, both romantically and as friends. Pisces moons I am not so familiar with but anything Pisces is good in my book 😄
We are often misunderstood. I am impressed 😍😏click to expand
Thank you ☺️
Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88
@LostinmyMind11
I just ran his info because he gave me his birth time last night when we were talking about everything.
He has a Libra Mercury retrograde as well. He talks like I do with saying one thing but meaning another, kind of saying stuff "just in case"
Can you tell me more about the placement in retrograde? He seems to have no issues being open, he's just contradicting.
Like 2 nights ago, he gave me a toothbrush and said now I have a tooth brush at his place, Last night he asked me if I was ready to go "home", but then he says he likes everything new but doesn't like when everything fits together well in the beginning and then fizzles out (The honeymoon Phase) He says he looses attraction or they loose attraction to him when things move to fast. But he seems to move fast with his Fire moon. It's like he's fast and slow at the same time, I'm actually like this as well.
I had to stop him talking and ask if he can take stuff day by day. lol He was oversharing tons and then taking it all back 😆
We tend to think and communicate in Libra. We look at both sides of things so are very open to other people's opinions and thoughts. I try and talk to people the way that I would want to be talk to...not that I haven't been known to snap but usually there is a good reason behind it...I just try and be fair and just.
With the retrograde aspect...like I said in my other post. I write better than I communicate in person. I need more time than most people to think about how I want to express myself verbally and can change my mind on things depending on information I was given...not that I don't have my own mind...I do but I like to have all the facts in the first place so again...I can be fair and just. So I can see where we might come off contradictory to some.
When younger I tended to keep things in but was better at communicating in person (more superficial, small talkish...seemed easier). Now that I'm older ...Im more blunt almost to a fault (I mean what I say and say what I mean) but fumble over my words (I think because it almost feels unnatural but necessary) but I do it in a way that not hurtful...if that makes sense? But piss me off and you'll wish you were dead and I was a mute 😂 (I blame my fire placements for that mixed with my sun and rising). I basically feel misunderstood and not heard a lot. It's very frustrating and makes me come off dumb at least to myself 😂
Awww ok. Well honestly, you are explaining how a Sag thinks when they have knowledge and form new opinions, so I can see how this is compatible.
Both he and I are Libra risings too. So that probably has a lot to do with how open we are.
I guess I will have to get to know him better when it comes to being contradicting.
He told me he needs a lot of space in friendships and relationships. And I told him I am the same way. I don’t know how good that’s gonna be lol.
I will give a person enough space that they are forgotten 😭😭😭😅
Call him out on it ...he may not even realize he's doing it.
Yeah, that might not end up good so you maybe the one that has to make more of an effort if you really like him but don't let him get away with not reciprocating or you'll get resentful. I'm the same unless I like ya...I may still need the space but I won't forget about you and I will make more of an effort especially when I've been told things seem one-sided.
Thanks. I actually did tell him he was contradicting. He just laughed. But the reason I recognized it, is because I am the same way. But I just need to figure out if he is contradicting in the same manner as me or if he actually believes these things. He was flipping back and forth so much!
Telling me he's fine with being alone, and then when I agreed that I was the same way and I told him tat I'm never lonely because I'm an introvert and comfortable with myself and my own company, he decided to switch and say that sometimes people need others and it's not about being alone.
Once I looked at his chart and saw he was a Libra Rising, I realized he has a need for companionship like me.
I will have more conversations with him, I'm sure.
We were talking so much headed to his house that I stopped in the middle of the street in order for him to open his garage and he didn't even want to do that. I had to tell him we would continue the conversation once I was parked and inside lol
It's so funny how he thinks out loud and lets me know "Good, cause this is a really good conversation"
Soon as I stepped inside the door it continued immediately. It was cute.
Hopefully things continue in this manner. I'm actually enjoying it a lot. Sucks that he's so young.
More than likely him saying he's fine with being alone was to gauge where you were at and when he heard you were the same...he tried to play it off that what he said wasn't his final stance on the matter (probably thought you were going to say something completely different than you did).
That seems to be the consensus for me with Sags...we can literally talk for hours and it doesn't seem like time goes anywhere. Lol. I like that...I need someone who is more talkative and asks questions to get me to be more talkative...or again, I'll sit there and listen and observe lol.
I hear ya on the age thing and I was totally against going for younger or really for that matter older...it felt weird but it's really not...as long as you click and they are of age lol...that's all that matters.
Thanks for your responses. I’ll just be taking it easy. I always think long term when it comes to someone that I like. It’s hard now cause the guys in their 20’s have barely had a 2 year relationship, so they think 6 months is a lifetime.
And I’m glad to be in my feelings again. I miss thinking about someone.
He doesn’t know his chart and he said that he actually doesn’t like thinking about someone all day and being consumed by thoughts of them. He said it was unhealthy of a person to go through that and it makes him sick, he doesn’t like the feeling of it.
He has a Scorpio Venus- should I let him in on the secret about his chart and that it’s perfectly normal for him to be like that? I told him that I am the same way but I like thinking about a person like that.
We talked about horoscope stuff a little, but he doesn’t know much about it.
But if there are parts of himself that he’s trying to work on and he doesn’t understand why he’s like this, I’m wondering if letting him take a look at his chart for a better understanding will help him or make him overthink even more.
What do you think, being a Virgo yourself?click to expand
😂😂 That's so true. The Scorp told me that my 10 yr relationship must have been fake because it didn't fit his ideals...this coming from someone whose longest relationship wasn't even 2 yrs. and he's only 3 yrs younger. I laughed and laughed at that one.
I personally wouldnt mind if someone brought it up to me but I notice people who have no clue about Astro stuff seem to shrug it off or still deem you as kinda crazy. Like they may not say it but they give you that look 😂. I would probably use what you know about his chart for your own tool for now until maybe you get to know him a little better and see if he really does match your level. Or bring it up in doses.
Posted by Metatron
calming/grounding effect for me....just being in the presence of taurus moons is therapeutic...
I think we give that vibe in general to everyone 😄
Posted by BlueVelvet
Are u a Venus in Virgo? It would make sense if his moon was also interacting with your Venus. Otherwise I don’t get the sexual attraction between sun and moon. I had a fling with a Virgo moon and his sun was my moon as well. It was like talking to a mirror and sexual attraction was there but only for a minute. I think it’s cuz his Venus was incompatible with mine. His Leo to my Scorpio just caused dry spell.
But now that I think of it I’ve often attracted people who’s sun sign was my moon sign so maybe there’s something there. Even jung talks about that. Smart of you not to start anything serious with him though, because his study showed they often end up in divorce.
Why would they end up in divorce? Maybe I'm missing a part of the conversation.. are you referring to Sun/moon conjunctions?
Posted by PhoenixStorm
I have had crushes on scorp Mooners in the past but the few I’ve met could become very vindictive and evil when they get mad. My cancer moon is sensitive so I try to steer clear of it.
I love Cancer moons!! I think if I were to ever date a Scorpio again, I would like a Cancer moon, it would go well with my moon and Venus. 😍
Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88
@LostinmyMind11
I just ran his info because he gave me his birth time last night when we were talking about everything.
He has a Libra Mercury retrograde as well. He talks like I do with saying one thing but meaning another, kind of saying stuff "just in case"
Can you tell me more about the placement in retrograde? He seems to have no issues being open, he's just contradicting.
Like 2 nights ago, he gave me a toothbrush and said now I have a tooth brush at his place, Last night he asked me if I was ready to go "home", but then he says he likes everything new but doesn't like when everything fits together well in the beginning and then fizzles out (The honeymoon Phase) He says he looses attraction or they loose attraction to him when things move to fast. But he seems to move fast with his Fire moon. It's like he's fast and slow at the same time, I'm actually like this as well.
I had to stop him talking and ask if he can take stuff day by day. lol He was oversharing tons and then taking it all back 😆
We tend to think and communicate in Libra. We look at both sides of things so are very open to other people's opinions and thoughts. I try and talk to people the way that I would want to be talk to...not that I haven't been known to snap but usually there is a good reason behind it...I just try and be fair and just.
With the retrograde aspect...like I said in my other post. I write better than I communicate in person. I need more time than most people to think about how I want to express myself verbally and can change my mind on things depending on information I was given...not that I don't have my own mind...I do but I like to have all the facts in the first place so again...I can be fair and just. So I can see where we might come off contradictory to some.
When younger I tended to keep things in but was better at communicating in person (more superficial, small talkish...seemed easier). Now that I'm older ...Im more blunt almost to a fault (I mean what I say and say what I mean) but fumble over my words (I think because it almost feels unnatural but necessary) but I do it in a way that not hurtful...if that makes sense? But piss me off and you'll wish you were dead and I was a mute 😂 (I blame my fire placements for that mixed with my sun and rising). I basically feel misunderstood and not heard a lot. It's very frustrating and makes me come off dumb at least to myself 😂
Awww ok. Well honestly, you are explaining how a Sag thinks when they have knowledge and form new opinions, so I can see how this is compatible.
Both he and I are Libra risings too. So that probably has a lot to do with how open we are.
I guess I will have to get to know him better when it comes to being contradicting.
He told me he needs a lot of space in friendships and relationships. And I told him I am the same way. I don’t know how good that’s gonna be lol.
I will give a person enough space that they are forgotten 😭😭😭😅
Call him out on it ...he may not even realize he's doing it.
Yeah, that might not end up good so you maybe the one that has to make more of an effort if you really like him but don't let him get away with not reciprocating or you'll get resentful. I'm the same unless I like ya...I may still need the space but I won't forget about you and I will make more of an effort especially when I've been told things seem one-sided.
Thanks. I actually did tell him he was contradicting. He just laughed. But the reason I recognized it, is because I am the same way. But I just need to figure out if he is contradicting in the same manner as me or if he actually believes these things. He was flipping back and forth so much!
Telling me he's fine with being alone, and then when I agreed that I was the same way and I told him tat I'm never lonely because I'm an introvert and comfortable with myself and my own company, he decided to switch and say that sometimes people need others and it's not about being alone.
Once I looked at his chart and saw he was a Libra Rising, I realized he has a need for companionship like me.
I will have more conversations with him, I'm sure.
We were talking so much headed to his house that I stopped in the middle of the street in order for him to open his garage and he didn't even want to do that. I had to tell him we would continue the conversation once I was parked and inside lol
It's so funny how he thinks out loud and lets me know "Good, cause this is a really good conversation"
Soon as I stepped inside the door it continued immediately. It was cute.
Hopefully things continue in this manner. I'm actually enjoying it a lot. Sucks that he's so young.
More than likely him saying he's fine with being alone was to gauge where you were at and when he heard you were the same...he tried to play it off that what he said wasn't his final stance on the matter (probably thought you were going to say something completely different than you did).
That seems to be the consensus for me with Sags...we can literally talk for hours and it doesn't seem like time goes anywhere. Lol. I like that...I need someone who is more talkative and asks questions to get me to be more talkative...or again, I'll sit there and listen and observe lol.
I hear ya on the age thing and I was totally against going for younger or really for that matter older...it felt weird but it's really not...as long as you click and they are of age lol...that's all that matters.
Thanks for your responses. I’ll just be taking it easy. I always think long term when it comes to someone that I like. It’s hard now cause the guys in their 20’s have barely had a 2 year relationship, so they think 6 months is a lifetime.
And I’m glad to be in my feelings again. I miss thinking about someone.
He doesn’t know his chart and he said that he actually doesn’t like thinking about someone all day and being consumed by thoughts of them. He said it was unhealthy of a person to go through that and it makes him sick, he doesn’t like the feeling of it.
He has a Scorpio Venus- should I let him in on the secret about his chart and that it’s perfectly normal for him to be like that? I told him that I am the same way but I like thinking about a person like that.
We talked about horoscope stuff a little, but he doesn’t know much about it.
But if there are parts of himself that he’s trying to work on and he doesn’t understand why he’s like this, I’m wondering if letting him take a look at his chart for a better understanding will help him or make him overthink even more.
What do you think, being a Virgo yourself?
😂😂 That's so true. The Scorp told me that my 10 yr relationship must have been fake because it didn't fit his ideals...this coming from someone whose longest relationship wasn't even 2 yrs. and he's only 3 yrs younger. I laughed and laughed at that one.
I personally wouldnt mind if someone brought it up to me but I notice people who have no clue about Astro stuff seem to shrug it off or still deem you as kinda crazy. Like they may not say it but they give you that look 😂. I would probably use what you know about his chart for your own tool for now until maybe you get to know him a little better and see if he really does match your level. Or bring it up in doses.click to expand
Alright thanks again, I feel guilty about having a good understanding of some of the stuff he says. But I will use it to my advantage then, and just sound smart 🤓😝 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I’m just hoping the getting to know each other stage keeps going smoothly.
Retrograde has officially started for me. An old Taurus just came back for a chat and it’s been months. I’m praying 🙏🏽 that the Taurus that I liked a lot doesn’t come back. I will be in hell.
Stuff like this always happens to me and I end up messing everything up 😩😩😩😩
People only want to check on you when you aren’t interested in them.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88
@LostinmyMind11
I just ran his info because he gave me his birth time last night when we were talking about everything.
He has a Libra Mercury retrograde as well. He talks like I do with saying one thing but meaning another, kind of saying stuff "just in case"
Can you tell me more about the placement in retrograde? He seems to have no issues being open, he's just contradicting.
Like 2 nights ago, he gave me a toothbrush and said now I have a tooth brush at his place, Last night he asked me if I was ready to go "home", but then he says he likes everything new but doesn't like when everything fits together well in the beginning and then fizzles out (The honeymoon Phase) He says he looses attraction or they loose attraction to him when things move to fast. But he seems to move fast with his Fire moon. It's like he's fast and slow at the same time, I'm actually like this as well.
I had to stop him talking and ask if he can take stuff day by day. lol He was oversharing tons and then taking it all back 😆
We tend to think and communicate in Libra. We look at both sides of things so are very open to other people's opinions and thoughts. I try and talk to people the way that I would want to be talk to...not that I haven't been known to snap but usually there is a good reason behind it...I just try and be fair and just.
With the retrograde aspect...like I said in my other post. I write better than I communicate in person. I need more time than most people to think about how I want to express myself verbally and can change my mind on things depending on information I was given...not that I don't have my own mind...I do but I like to have all the facts in the first place so again...I can be fair and just. So I can see where we might come off contradictory to some.
When younger I tended to keep things in but was better at communicating in person (more superficial, small talkish...seemed easier). Now that I'm older ...Im more blunt almost to a fault (I mean what I say and say what I mean) but fumble over my words (I think because it almost feels unnatural but necessary) but I do it in a way that not hurtful...if that makes sense? But piss me off and you'll wish you were dead and I was a mute 😂 (I blame my fire placements for that mixed with my sun and rising). I basically feel misunderstood and not heard a lot. It's very frustrating and makes me come off dumb at least to myself 😂
Awww ok. Well honestly, you are explaining how a Sag thinks when they have knowledge and form new opinions, so I can see how this is compatible.
Both he and I are Libra risings too. So that probably has a lot to do with how open we are.
I guess I will have to get to know him better when it comes to being contradicting.
He told me he needs a lot of space in friendships and relationships. And I told him I am the same way. I don’t know how good that’s gonna be lol.
I will give a person enough space that they are forgotten 😭😭😭😅
Call him out on it ...he may not even realize he's doing it.
Yeah, that might not end up good so you maybe the one that has to make more of an effort if you really like him but don't let him get away with not reciprocating or you'll get resentful. I'm the same unless I like ya...I may still need the space but I won't forget about you and I will make more of an effort especially when I've been told things seem one-sided.
Thanks. I actually did tell him he was contradicting. He just laughed. But the reason I recognized it, is because I am the same way. But I just need to figure out if he is contradicting in the same manner as me or if he actually believes these things. He was flipping back and forth so much!
Telling me he's fine with being alone, and then when I agreed that I was the same way and I told him tat I'm never lonely because I'm an introvert and comfortable with myself and my own company, he decided to switch and say that sometimes people need others and it's not about being alone.
Once I looked at his chart and saw he was a Libra Rising, I realized he has a need for companionship like me.
I will have more conversations with him, I'm sure.
We were talking so much headed to his house that I stopped in the middle of the street in order for him to open his garage and he didn't even want to do that. I had to tell him we would continue the conversation once I was parked and inside lol
It's so funny how he thinks out loud and lets me know "Good, cause this is a really good conversation"
Soon as I stepped inside the door it continued immediately. It was cute.
Hopefully things continue in this manner. I'm actually enjoying it a lot. Sucks that he's so young.
More than likely him saying he's fine with being alone was to gauge where you were at and when he heard you were the same...he tried to play it off that what he said wasn't his final stance on the matter (probably thought you were going to say something completely different than you did).
That seems to be the consensus for me with Sags...we can literally talk for hours and it doesn't seem like time goes anywhere. Lol. I like that...I need someone who is more talkative and asks questions to get me to be more talkative...or again, I'll sit there and listen and observe lol.
I hear ya on the age thing and I was totally against going for younger or really for that matter older...it felt weird but it's really not...as long as you click and they are of age lol...that's all that matters.
Thanks for your responses. I’ll just be taking it easy. I always think long term when it comes to someone that I like. It’s hard now cause the guys in their 20’s have barely had a 2 year relationship, so they think 6 months is a lifetime.
And I’m glad to be in my feelings again. I miss thinking about someone.
He doesn’t know his chart and he said that he actually doesn’t like thinking about someone all day and being consumed by thoughts of them. He said it was unhealthy of a person to go through that and it makes him sick, he doesn’t like the feeling of it.
He has a Scorpio Venus- should I let him in on the secret about his chart and that it’s perfectly normal for him to be like that? I told him that I am the same way but I like thinking about a person like that.
We talked about horoscope stuff a little, but he doesn’t know much about it.
But if there are parts of himself that he’s trying to work on and he doesn’t understand why he’s like this, I’m wondering if letting him take a look at his chart for a better understanding will help him or make him overthink even more.
What do you think, being a Virgo yourself?
😂😂 That's so true. The Scorp told me that my 10 yr relationship must have been fake because it didn't fit his ideals...this coming from someone whose longest relationship wasn't even 2 yrs. and he's only 3 yrs younger. I laughed and laughed at that one.
I personally wouldnt mind if someone brought it up to me but I notice people who have no clue about Astro stuff seem to shrug it off or still deem you as kinda crazy. Like they may not say it but they give you that look 😂. I would probably use what you know about his chart for your own tool for now until maybe you get to know him a little better and see if he really does match your level. Or bring it up in doses.
Alright thanks again, I feel guilty about having a good understanding of some of the stuff he says. But I will use it to my advantage then, and just sound smart 🤓😝 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I’m just hoping the getting to know each other stage keeps going smoothly.
Retrograde has officially started for me. An old Taurus just came back for a chat and it’s been months. I’m praying 🙏🏽 that the Taurus that I liked a lot doesn’t come back. I will be in hell.
Stuff like this always happens to me and I end up messing everything up 😩😩😩😩
People only want to check on you when you aren’t interested in them.click to expand
😂😂😂
It's really not any different than before you knew about charts etc. You read people enough...you get a sense of who they are and usually you keep it to yourself unless they ask or it's brought up in some way. Just think of it like that.
Ask questions and if there is something that's not clear ask him to explain it I stead of make any assumptions and I think you'll be just fine with it going smoothly.
Exactly...it's like they can smell it and then pop in to fuck you up even more and then bounce until next time 😂🙄
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@LostinmyMind11
I just ran his info because he gave me his birth time last night when we were talking about everything.
He has a Libra Mercury retrograde as well. He talks like I do with saying one thing but meaning another, kind of saying stuff "just in case"
Can you tell me more about the placement in retrograde? He seems to have no issues being open, he's just contradicting.
Like 2 nights ago, he gave me a toothbrush and said now I have a tooth brush at his place, Last night he asked me if I was ready to go "home", but then he says he likes everything new but doesn't like when everything fits together well in the beginning and then fizzles out (The honeymoon Phase) He says he looses attraction or they loose attraction to him when things move to fast. But he seems to move fast with his Fire moon. It's like he's fast and slow at the same time, I'm actually like this as well.
I had to stop him talking and ask if he can take stuff day by day. lol He was oversharing tons and then taking it all back 😆
We tend to think and communicate in Libra. We look at both sides of things so are very open to other people's opinions and thoughts. I try and talk to people the way that I would want to be talk to...not that I haven't been known to snap but usually there is a good reason behind it...I just try and be fair and just.
With the retrograde aspect...like I said in my other post. I write better than I communicate in person. I need more time than most people to think about how I want to express myself verbally and can change my mind on things depending on information I was given...not that I don't have my own mind...I do but I like to have all the facts in the first place so again...I can be fair and just. So I can see where we might come off contradictory to some.
When younger I tended to keep things in but was better at communicating in person (more superficial, small talkish...seemed easier). Now that I'm older ...Im more blunt almost to a fault (I mean what I say and say what I mean) but fumble over my words (I think because it almost feels unnatural but necessary) but I do it in a way that not hurtful...if that makes sense? But piss me off and you'll wish you were dead and I was a mute 😂 (I blame my fire placements for that mixed with my sun and rising). I basically feel misunderstood and not heard a lot. It's very frustrating and makes me come off dumb at least to myself 😂
Awww ok. Well honestly, you are explaining how a Sag thinks when they have knowledge and form new opinions, so I can see how this is compatible.
Both he and I are Libra risings too. So that probably has a lot to do with how open we are.
I guess I will have to get to know him better when it comes to being contradicting.
He told me he needs a lot of space in friendships and relationships. And I told him I am the same way. I don’t know how good that’s gonna be lol.
I will give a person enough space that they are forgotten 😭😭😭😅
Call him out on it ...he may not even realize he's doing it.
Yeah, that might not end up good so you maybe the one that has to make more of an effort if you really like him but don't let him get away with not reciprocating or you'll get resentful. I'm the same unless I like ya...I may still need the space but I won't forget about you and I will make more of an effort especially when I've been told things seem one-sided.
Thanks. I actually did tell him he was contradicting. He just laughed. But the reason I recognized it, is because I am the same way. But I just need to figure out if he is contradicting in the same manner as me or if he actually believes these things. He was flipping back and forth so much!
Telling me he's fine with being alone, and then when I agreed that I was the same way and I told him tat I'm never lonely because I'm an introvert and comfortable with myself and my own company, he decided to switch and say that sometimes people need others and it's not about being alone.
Once I looked at his chart and saw he was a Libra Rising, I realized he has a need for companionship like me.
I will have more conversations with him, I'm sure.
We were talking so much headed to his house that I stopped in the middle of the street in order for him to open his garage and he didn't even want to do that. I had to tell him we would continue the conversation once I was parked and inside lol
It's so funny how he thinks out loud and lets me know "Good, cause this is a really good conversation"
Soon as I stepped inside the door it continued immediately. It was cute.
Hopefully things continue in this manner. I'm actually enjoying it a lot. Sucks that he's so young.
More than likely him saying he's fine with being alone was to gauge where you were at and when he heard you were the same...he tried to play it off that what he said wasn't his final stance on the matter (probably thought you were going to say something completely different than you did).
That seems to be the consensus for me with Sags...we can literally talk for hours and it doesn't seem like time goes anywhere. Lol. I like that...I need someone who is more talkative and asks questions to get me to be more talkative...or again, I'll sit there and listen and observe lol.
I hear ya on the age thing and I was totally against going for younger or really for that matter older...it felt weird but it's really not...as long as you click and they are of age lol...that's all that matters.
Thanks for your responses. I’ll just be taking it easy. I always think long term when it comes to someone that I like. It’s hard now cause the guys in their 20’s have barely had a 2 year relationship, so they think 6 months is a lifetime.
And I’m glad to be in my feelings again. I miss thinking about someone.
He doesn’t know his chart and he said that he actually doesn’t like thinking about someone all day and being consumed by thoughts of them. He said it was unhealthy of a person to go through that and it makes him sick, he doesn’t like the feeling of it.
He has a Scorpio Venus- should I let him in on the secret about his chart and that it’s perfectly normal for him to be like that? I told him that I am the same way but I like thinking about a person like that.
We talked about horoscope stuff a little, but he doesn’t know much about it.
But if there are parts of himself that he’s trying to work on and he doesn’t understand why he’s like this, I’m wondering if letting him take a look at his chart for a better understanding will help him or make him overthink even more.
What do you think, being a Virgo yourself?
😂😂 That's so true. The Scorp told me that my 10 yr relationship must have been fake because it didn't fit his ideals...this coming from someone whose longest relationship wasn't even 2 yrs. and he's only 3 yrs younger. I laughed and laughed at that one.
I personally wouldnt mind if someone brought it up to me but I notice people who have no clue about Astro stuff seem to shrug it off or still deem you as kinda crazy. Like they may not say it but they give you that look 😂. I would probably use what you know about his chart for your own tool for now until maybe you get to know him a little better and see if he really does match your level. Or bring it up in doses.
Alright thanks again, I feel guilty about having a good understanding of some of the stuff he says. But I will use it to my advantage then, and just sound smart 🤓😝 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I’m just hoping the getting to know each other stage keeps going smoothly.
Retrograde has officially started for me. An old Taurus just came back for a chat and it’s been months. I’m praying 🙏🏽 that the Taurus that I liked a lot doesn’t come back. I will be in hell.
Stuff like this always happens to me and I end up messing everything up 😩😩😩😩
People only want to check on you when you aren’t interested in them.
😂😂😂
It's really not any different than before you knew about charts etc. You read people enough...you get a sense of who they are and usually you keep it to yourself unless they ask or it's brought up in some way. Just think of it like that.
Ask questions and if there is something that's not clear ask him to explain it I stead of make any assumptions and I think you'll be just fine with it going smoothly.
Exactly...it's like they can smell it and then pop in to fuck you up even more and then bounce until next time 😂🙄click to expand
I already feel super comfortable talking to him so it’s fine. I’m actually much better talking in person because I’m so open. Sometimes I don’t like to get in too deep online since so many people are reading. 😄
I’ve told him that he makes me feel comfortable and luckily he asks a lot of questions just like me so it’s ok for now.
It won’t let me finish 🤪
I’ll tag you TBC
@Lostinmymind11
Most guys I date have always wanted to see what I’m like when I’m upset/ mad. I never knew why. And now I completely understand
He’s so sweet and pleasant and he says he’ll get irritated with stuff and not like the person because of it and I am actually wondering what the examples are. He actually likes a good argument as long as they are with in boundaries. He says he likes suffering a little sometimes and I’m the same way (Again our Venuses)
I just told him time will give way to all that. You can’t know anyone in a few weeks. It can take months.
The only thing with both of the Virgos that I came across is they want to date and have sex with multiple people at once, while they are getting to know each other. The other guy was just a fwb- I knew there wasn’t any type of relationship that I wanted from him so I didn’t care. He actually used to get pissed that I didn’t ask who he was dating or anything about them.
This guy I told him that it would be fine for him to do right now, but if we are still dating 6 months down the line, I would have a problem with it and my solution to not being a priority is to cut someone off and end it. 🤓
He just looked at me 😂😂😂
I don’t know how much he’s digging how open and honest I am 🤷♀️
Most guys I date have always wanted to see what I’m like when I’m upset/ mad. I never knew why. And now I completely understand
He’s so sweet and pleasant and he says he’ll get irritated with stuff and not like the person because of it and I am actually wondering what the examples are. He actually likes a good argument as long as they are with in boundaries. He says he likes suffering a little sometimes and I’m the same way (Again our Venuses)
I just told him time will give way to all that. You can’t know anyone in a few weeks. It can take months.
The only thing with both of the Virgos that I came across is they want to date and have sex with multiple people at once, while they are getting to know each other. The other guy was just a fwb- I knew there wasn’t any type of relationship that I wanted from him so I didn’t care. He actually used to get pissed that I didn’t ask who he was dating or anything about them.
This guy I told him that it would be fine for him to do right now, but if we are still dating 6 months down the line, I would have a problem with it and my solution to not being a priority is to cut someone off and end it. 🤓
He just looked at me 😂😂😂
I don’t know how much he’s digging how open and honest I am 🤷♀️
Posted by saggurl88
@Lostinmymind11
Most guys I date have always wanted to see what I’m like when I’m upset/ mad. I never knew why. And now I completely understand
He’s so sweet and pleasant and he says he’ll get irritated with stuff and not like the person because of it and I am actually wondering what the examples are. He actually likes a good argument as long as they are with in boundaries. He says he likes suffering a little sometimes and I’m the same way (Again our Venuses)
I just told him time will give way to all that. You can’t know anyone in a few weeks. It can take months.
The only thing with both of the Virgos that I came across is they want to date and have sex with multiple people at once, while they are getting to know each other. The other guy was just a fwb- I knew there wasn’t any type of relationship that I wanted from him so I didn’t care. He actually used to get pissed that I didn’t ask who he was dating or anything about them.
This guy I told him that it would be fine for him to do right now, but if we are still dating 6 months down the line, I would have a problem with it and my solution to not being a priority is to cut someone off and end it. 🤓
He just looked at me 😂😂😂
I don’t know how much he’s digging how open and honest I am 🤷♀️
what is your venus?
liking suffering what the-?
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88
@Lostinmymind11
Most guys I date have always wanted to see what I’m like when I’m upset/ mad. I never knew why. And now I completely understand
He’s so sweet and pleasant and he says he’ll get irritated with stuff and not like the person because of it and I am actually wondering what the examples are. He actually likes a good argument as long as they are with in boundaries. He says he likes suffering a little sometimes and I’m the same way (Again our Venuses)
I just told him time will give way to all that. You can’t know anyone in a few weeks. It can take months.
The only thing with both of the Virgos that I came across is they want to date and have sex with multiple people at once, while they are getting to know each other. The other guy was just a fwb- I knew there wasn’t any type of relationship that I wanted from him so I didn’t care. He actually used to get pissed that I didn’t ask who he was dating or anything about them.
This guy I told him that it would be fine for him to do right now, but if we are still dating 6 months down the line, I would have a problem with it and my solution to not being a priority is to cut someone off and end it. 🤓
He just looked at me 😂😂😂
I don’t know how much he’s digging how open and honest I am 🤷♀️
what is your venus?
liking suffering what the-?click to expand
Lol he and I are both Scorpio Venus
Just means we don’t mind the hurt of heartache if it’s worth it in the end. It makes it worth it and ok. You know it has staying power, I guess.
He was talking about arguments and how they don’t bother him. He just doesn’t want people giving up so easily, I guess. I understood where he was coming from. But I don’t think he’s even been in a long relationship. He said people give up on him or lose interest in him.
I can’t see why yet. He said he hides his flaws. I told him I don’t have any lol 😬
Posted by saggurl88
@Lostinmymind11
Most guys I date have always wanted to see what I’m like when I’m upset/ mad. I never knew why. And now I completely understand
He’s so sweet and pleasant and he says he’ll get irritated with stuff and not like the person because of it and I am actually wondering what the examples are. He actually likes a good argument as long as they are with in boundaries. He says he likes suffering a little sometimes and I’m the same way (Again our Venuses)
I just told him time will give way to all that. You can’t know anyone in a few weeks. It can take months.
The only thing with both of the Virgos that I came across is they want to date and have sex with multiple people at once, while they are getting to know each other. The other guy was just a fwb- I knew there wasn’t any type of relationship that I wanted from him so I didn’t care. He actually used to get pissed that I didn’t ask who he was dating or anything about them.
This guy I told him that it would be fine for him to do right now, but if we are still dating 6 months down the line, I would have a problem with it and my solution to not being a priority is to cut someone off and end it. 🤓
He just looked at me 😂😂😂
I don’t know how much he’s digging how open and honest I am 🤷♀️
I tend to do that too. It's like I need to know what I'm dealing with when they are mad or upset and I guess whether I can deal with that aspect of them or not...not 💯 sure on why tbh but it happens lol.
I'm the same way with the suffering too and liking a good argument..keeps things exciting at least for me 😂.
Must be a virguy thing...at least for me, dating multiple guys at the same time is exhausting... eventually I would have to end it with everyone ...too much lol.
Honestly that would be the best way to go about it...I wonder if he thought the same hence the look lol.
Honesty is good but giving too much may get boring for him ...make things fizzle out before they even get started. Gotta leave a little mystery.
I can't imagine dealing with a Scorpio sun IMO
Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88
@Lostinmymind11
Most guys I date have always wanted to see what I’m like when I’m upset/ mad. I never knew why. And now I completely understand
He’s so sweet and pleasant and he says he’ll get irritated with stuff and not like the person because of it and I am actually wondering what the examples are. He actually likes a good argument as long as they are with in boundaries. He says he likes suffering a little sometimes and I’m the same way (Again our Venuses)
I just told him time will give way to all that. You can’t know anyone in a few weeks. It can take months.
The only thing with both of the Virgos that I came across is they want to date and have sex with multiple people at once, while they are getting to know each other. The other guy was just a fwb- I knew there wasn’t any type of relationship that I wanted from him so I didn’t care. He actually used to get pissed that I didn’t ask who he was dating or anything about them.
This guy I told him that it would be fine for him to do right now, but if we are still dating 6 months down the line, I would have a problem with it and my solution to not being a priority is to cut someone off and end it. 🤓
He just looked at me 😂😂😂
I don’t know how much he’s digging how open and honest I am 🤷♀️
I tend to do that too. It's like I need to know what I'm dealing with when they are mad or upset and I guess whether I can deal with that aspect of them or not...not 💯 sure on why tbh but it happens lol.
I'm the same way with the suffering too and liking a good argument..keeps things exciting at least for me 😂.
Must be a virguy thing...at least for me, dating multiple guys at the same time is exhausting... eventually I would have to end it with everyone ...too much lol.
Honestly that would be the best way to go about it...I wonder if he thought the same hence the look lol.
Honesty is good but giving too much may get boring for him ...make things fizzle out before they even get started. Gotta leave a little mystery.click to expand
I’m naturally secretive lol. I told him that too 🤣🤣🤣 The look he gave me was priceless. But again he is secretive too. He’s a snake in Chinese astrology like me 🙄 I don’t know why he was so surprised that I told him that.
He doesn’t know what I’m secretive about 😬
Usually it’s money. I don’t let anyone know anything about my money 💰 🤐
But I don’t offer information, I only give it when asked. I hardly ever talk about myself cause I like listening so much to the other person.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88
@Lostinmymind11
Most guys I date have always wanted to see what I’m like when I’m upset/ mad. I never knew why. And now I completely understand
He’s so sweet and pleasant and he says he’ll get irritated with stuff and not like the person because of it and I am actually wondering what the examples are. He actually likes a good argument as long as they are with in boundaries. He says he likes suffering a little sometimes and I’m the same way (Again our Venuses)
I just told him time will give way to all that. You can’t know anyone in a few weeks. It can take months.
The only thing with both of the Virgos that I came across is they want to date and have sex with multiple people at once, while they are getting to know each other. The other guy was just a fwb- I knew there wasn’t any type of relationship that I wanted from him so I didn’t care. He actually used to get pissed that I didn’t ask who he was dating or anything about them.
This guy I told him that it would be fine for him to do right now, but if we are still dating 6 months down the line, I would have a problem with it and my solution to not being a priority is to cut someone off and end it. 🤓
He just looked at me 😂😂😂
I don’t know how much he’s digging how open and honest I am 🤷♀️
I tend to do that too. It's like I need to know what I'm dealing with when they are mad or upset and I guess whether I can deal with that aspect of them or not...not 💯 sure on why tbh but it happens lol.
I'm the same way with the suffering too and liking a good argument..keeps things exciting at least for me 😂.
Must be a virguy thing...at least for me, dating multiple guys at the same time is exhausting... eventually I would have to end it with everyone ...too much lol.
Honestly that would be the best way to go about it...I wonder if he thought the same hence the look lol.
Honesty is good but giving too much may get boring for him ...make things fizzle out before they even get started. Gotta leave a little mystery.
I’m naturally secretive lol. I told him that too 🤣🤣🤣 The look he gave me was priceless. But again he is secretive too. He’s a snake in Chinese astrology like me 🙄 I don’t know why he was so surprised that I told him that.
He doesn’t know what I’m secretive about 😬
Usually it’s money. I don’t let anyone know anything about my money 💰 🤐
But I don’t offer information, I only give it when asked. I hardly ever talk about myself cause I like listening so much to the other person.click to expand
Sags and their money.
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88
@Lostinmymind11
Most guys I date have always wanted to see what I’m like when I’m upset/ mad. I never knew why. And now I completely understand
He’s so sweet and pleasant and he says he’ll get irritated with stuff and not like the person because of it and I am actually wondering what the examples are. He actually likes a good argument as long as they are with in boundaries. He says he likes suffering a little sometimes and I’m the same way (Again our Venuses)
I just told him time will give way to all that. You can’t know anyone in a few weeks. It can take months.
The only thing with both of the Virgos that I came across is they want to date and have sex with multiple people at once, while they are getting to know each other. The other guy was just a fwb- I knew there wasn’t any type of relationship that I wanted from him so I didn’t care. He actually used to get pissed that I didn’t ask who he was dating or anything about them.
This guy I told him that it would be fine for him to do right now, but if we are still dating 6 months down the line, I would have a problem with it and my solution to not being a priority is to cut someone off and end it. 🤓
He just looked at me 😂😂😂
I don’t know how much he’s digging how open and honest I am 🤷♀️
I tend to do that too. It's like I need to know what I'm dealing with when they are mad or upset and I guess whether I can deal with that aspect of them or not...not 💯 sure on why tbh but it happens lol.
I'm the same way with the suffering too and liking a good argument..keeps things exciting at least for me 😂.
Must be a virguy thing...at least for me, dating multiple guys at the same time is exhausting... eventually I would have to end it with everyone ...too much lol.
Honestly that would be the best way to go about it...I wonder if he thought the same hence the look lol.
Honesty is good but giving too much may get boring for him ...make things fizzle out before they even get started. Gotta leave a little mystery.
I’m naturally secretive lol. I told him that too 🤣🤣🤣 The look he gave me was priceless. But again he is secretive too. He’s a snake in Chinese astrology like me 🙄 I don’t know why he was so surprised that I told him that.
He doesn’t know what I’m secretive about 😬
Usually it’s money. I don’t let anyone know anything about my money 💰 🤐
But I don’t offer information, I only give it when asked. I hardly ever talk about myself cause I like listening so much to the other person.
Sags and their money.click to expand
If I make it, it’s mine. He’s a jazz musician, I don’t ask him about his and never would, cause it’s none of my business.
I just want to be able to spend or save my money however I want. If someone else didn’t help me make it, they have no right to it.
😉🙃🙂
I’m not taking care of a man. It’s 50/50 where I stay lol. Unless I plan something and want them to come along. Like my baecation Im trying to take. He might get a free trip if we are still talking in a few months. I’m generous if it’s something that I want. I don’t like being asked though. I’m also Jewish, so there’s that! 😜😋
I can get down much better with Leo moons then other Leo Suns. I get along with fellow Leo Suns, but the moons tend to stick for the long term. The fact I have Leo Sun with Scorpio moon can throw a Leo moon off at times though. They will have to learn to let me be, and realize I'm extremely self absorbed or in my own world majority of the time. Leo moons can also be self absorbed, but not in the same way as a Scorpio moon. Truth be told majority of the people closest to me are Leo moons. They are wise enough to know that under my walled up and sometimes dark mindset is a truly loyal and dedicate companion in life. Im reliable af, even when I shouldn't be or don't want to be. They can take my intense aspects with a grain of salt, because they know once I open up and finally have some fun I'm a completely different person. I respect them for that, and think it somewhat has to do with the fact my Sun is Leo. So on a life style level we both can still relate, which is important for both Leo moon and Scorpio moon.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by saggurl88
@Lostinmymind11
Most guys I date have always wanted to see what I’m like when I’m upset/ mad. I never knew why. And now I completely understand
He’s so sweet and pleasant and he says he’ll get irritated with stuff and not like the person because of it and I am actually wondering what the examples are. He actually likes a good argument as long as they are with in boundaries. He says he likes suffering a little sometimes and I’m the same way (Again our Venuses)
I just told him time will give way to all that. You can’t know anyone in a few weeks. It can take months.
The only thing with both of the Virgos that I came across is they want to date and have sex with multiple people at once, while they are getting to know each other. The other guy was just a fwb- I knew there wasn’t any type of relationship that I wanted from him so I didn’t care. He actually used to get pissed that I didn’t ask who he was dating or anything about them.
This guy I told him that it would be fine for him to do right now, but if we are still dating 6 months down the line, I would have a problem with it and my solution to not being a priority is to cut someone off and end it. 🤓
He just looked at me 😂😂😂
I don’t know how much he’s digging how open and honest I am 🤷♀️
I tend to do that too. It's like I need to know what I'm dealing with when they are mad or upset and I guess whether I can deal with that aspect of them or not...not 💯 sure on why tbh but it happens lol.
I'm the same way with the suffering too and liking a good argument..keeps things exciting at least for me 😂.
Must be a virguy thing...at least for me, dating multiple guys at the same time is exhausting... eventually I would have to end it with everyone ...too much lol.
Honestly that would be the best way to go about it...I wonder if he thought the same hence the look lol.
Honesty is good but giving too much may get boring for him ...make things fizzle out before they even get started. Gotta leave a little mystery.
I’m naturally secretive lol. I told him that too 🤣🤣🤣 The look he gave me was priceless. But again he is secretive too. He’s a snake in Chinese astrology like me 🙄 I don’t know why he was so surprised that I told him that.
He doesn’t know what I’m secretive about 😬
Usually it’s money. I don’t let anyone know anything about my money 💰 🤐
But I don’t offer information, I only give it when asked. I hardly ever talk about myself cause I like listening so much to the other person.
Sags and their money.
If I make it, it’s mine. He’s a jazz musician, I don’t ask him about his and never would, cause it’s none of my business.
I just want to be able to spend or save my money however I want. If someone else didn’t help me make it, they have no right to it.
😉🙃🙂
I’m not taking care of a man. It’s 50/50 where I stay lol. Unless I plan something and want them to come along. Like my baecation Im trying to take. He might get a free trip if we are still talking in a few months. I’m generous if it’s something that I want. I don’t like being asked though. I’m also Jewish, so there’s that! 😜😋click to expand
i don't like money being brought up
i'm generous with it for sure but i'd rather we go dutch or pay alternate times
Posted by Soul
I can get down much better with Leo moons then other Leo Suns. I get along with fellow Leo Suns, but the moons tend to stick for the long term. The fact I have Leo Sun with Scorpio moon can throw a Leo moon off at times though. They will have to learn to let me be, and realize I'm extremely self absorbed or in my own world majority of the time. Leo moons can also be self absorbed, but not in the same way as a Scorpio moon. Truth be told majority of the people closest to me are Leo moons. They are wise enough to know that under my walled up and sometimes dark mindset is a truly loyal and dedicate companion in life. Im reliable af, even when I shouldn't be or don't want to be. They can take my intense aspects with a grain of salt, because they know once I open up and finally have some fun I'm a completely different person. I respect them for that, and think it somewhat has to do with the fact my Sun is Leo. So on a life style level we both can still relate, which is important for both Leo moon and Scorpio moon.
for some reason, i like the way you talk/type things out.
feels very familiar and comfortable somehow.
maybe it's my taurus moon 8H.
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Most guys I date have always wanted to see what I’m like when I’m upset/ mad. I never knew why. And now I completely understand
He’s so sweet and pleasant and he says he’ll get irritated with stuff and not like the person because of it and I am actually wondering what the examples are. He actually likes a good argument as long as they are with in boundaries. He says he likes suffering a little sometimes and I’m the same way (Again our Venuses)
I just told him time will give way to all that. You can’t know anyone in a few weeks. It can take months.
The only thing with both of the Virgos that I came across is they want to date and have sex with multiple people at once, while they are getting to know each other. The other guy was just a fwb- I knew there wasn’t any type of relationship that I wanted from him so I didn’t care. He actually used to get pissed that I didn’t ask who he was dating or anything about them.
This guy I told him that it would be fine for him to do right now, but if we are still dating 6 months down the line, I would have a problem with it and my solution to not being a priority is to cut someone off and end it. 🤓
He just looked at me 😂😂😂
I don’t know how much he’s digging how open and honest I am 🤷♀️
I tend to do that too. It's like I need to know what I'm dealing with when they are mad or upset and I guess whether I can deal with that aspect of them or not...not 💯 sure on why tbh but it happens lol.
I'm the same way with the suffering too and liking a good argument..keeps things exciting at least for me 😂.
Must be a virguy thing...at least for me, dating multiple guys at the same time is exhausting... eventually I would have to end it with everyone ...too much lol.
Honestly that would be the best way to go about it...I wonder if he thought the same hence the look lol.
Honesty is good but giving too much may get boring for him ...make things fizzle out before they even get started. Gotta leave a little mystery.
I’m naturally secretive lol. I told him that too 🤣🤣🤣 The look he gave me was priceless. But again he is secretive too. He’s a snake in Chinese astrology like me 🙄 I don’t know why he was so surprised that I told him that.
He doesn’t know what I’m secretive about 😬
Usually it’s money. I don’t let anyone know anything about my money 💰 🤐
But I don’t offer information, I only give it when asked. I hardly ever talk about myself cause I like listening so much to the other person.
Sags and their money.
If I make it, it’s mine. He’s a jazz musician, I don’t ask him about his and never would, cause it’s none of my business.
I just want to be able to spend or save my money however I want. If someone else didn’t help me make it, they have no right to it.
😉🙃🙂
I’m not taking care of a man. It’s 50/50 where I stay lol. Unless I plan something and want them to come along. Like my baecation Im trying to take. He might get a free trip if we are still talking in a few months. I’m generous if it’s something that I want. I don’t like being asked though. I’m also Jewish, so there’s that! 😜😋
i don't like money being brought up
i'm generous with it for sure but i'd rather we go dutch or pay alternate timesclick to expand
I’m the same way. I don’t expect a man to pay all the time. I’d rather split the cost. Money isn’t a big deal to me. But I still don’t like someone being busy about my finances. That’s usually the one thing that’s off limits unless we live together and are buying something together.
I would never have a joint bank account with someone.
I don’t even attract aqua moons... weird .
Posted by Soul
I can get down much better with Leo moons then other Leo Suns. I get along with fellow Leo Suns, but the moons tend to stick for the long term. The fact I have Leo Sun with Scorpio moon can throw a Leo moon off at times though. They will have to learn to let me be, and realize I'm extremely self absorbed or in my own world majority of the time. Leo moons can also be self absorbed, but not in the same way as a Scorpio moon. Truth be told majority of the people closest to me are Leo moons. They are wise enough to know that under my walled up and sometimes dark mindset is a truly loyal and dedicate companion in life. Im reliable af, even when I shouldn't be or don't want to be. They can take my intense aspects with a grain of salt, because they know once I open up and finally have some fun I'm a completely different person. I respect them for that, and think it somewhat has to do with the fact my Sun is Leo. So on a life style level we both can still relate, which is important for both Leo moon and Scorpio moon.
This is so weird. I’m a Leo moon, but Scorpio moons are highly drawn to me. Y’all are very secretive, it alway seems like their holding something back from me. Which at times runs me the wrong way esp when I find out they actually are hiding something from me lol. Leo moons we’re very open once we create a bond with you. I’ve had a lot of Scorpio moons be really weird with me. I’m talking about friendship wise btw. The Scorpio moons I’ve dealt with I know usually end up forgetting that we’re friends lol not enemies. I’ve had one try to sleep with or get attention of any man I wanted. And another go one day being besties with me and then the next act like she doesn’t me at all.
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