Sun and Moon or Moon to Moon?

In your opinion which has worked better for you? Harmonious Sun and Moon aspects or Harmonious Moon To Moon aspects?

Posted by Pulsy

Sun n moon unrequited or for the moon it feels never enough

Really? Unrequited? Even in sextile or trine? You may be on to something there 😩

male's moon opposite female's sun

Posted by BlueStar

Posted by virgoOPPP

male's moon opposite female's sun

NO

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what you don't want a sag moon man?

you gotta admit this is probably the strongest attraction aspect/connection

@BlueStar

i used to crap on this connection until it happened to me lol.

it's just that i saw the males as being way too creepily obsessed with the females in this particular connection.

like i start shit with their gf and they defend her to the death (even if she's dead wrong) but the gf is like mehhh.

just B L I N D when it comes to the female.

will not, can not, absolutely refuses to acknowledge anything wrong with her.

i used to think of this as the 'simp connection.'

but then i realized that this connection really brings out the female's ego/personality which might actually be for the best (if you believe that whole thing where a relationship's better when the male is more invested than the female).

Trine and or conjunct aspect in sun to moon is chemistry and moon to moon is compatibility.

Don’t forget venus mars too

Posted by BlueStar

Posted by virgoOPPP

@BlueStar

i used to crap on this connection until it happened to me lol.

it's just that i saw the males as being way too creepily obsessed with the females in this particular connection.

like i start shit with their gf and they defend her to the death (even if she'd dead wrong) but the gf is like mehhh.

just B L I N D when it comes to the female.

will not, can not, absolutely refuses to acknowledge anything wrong with her.

i used to think of this as the 'simp connection.'

but then i realized that this connection really brings out the female's ego/personality which might actually for the best (if you believe that whole thing where a relationship's better when the male is more invested than the female).

I dun wanna date a Sag Moon man 🥴

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they're cheap misers ime

i'm keeping my pisces moon man ❤️️

Posted by Bklatt

In my experience sun to sun and moon to moon. Ive noticed women tend to like the sun to moon which makes sense since it fits the gender archetype.

In long term sun to sun is definitely important unless theres a compatible house in the sun. Ive seen endless long term misunderstandings with incompatible suns.

The allure of strong emotions(moon) or primitive sexual energy (moon/mars) is strong enough to attract but not to maintain.

Which is why we see the case where the woman admires and the man only sees the woman as an emotional and sexual outlet. Which some might be comfortable with.

But Sun-Sun and to a lesser degree Moon-Moon grants true undesrtanding and bonding.

fits the gender archetype?

how do you mean?

from what i've seen though, men find this to be an easy connection (i have NO idea why coz i'm not a dude) but women i've observed get really vain/selfish/bratty in these relationships acting like feudal lords.

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by Bklatt

In my experience sun to sun and moon to moon. Ive noticed women tend to like the sun to moon which makes sense since it fits the gender archetype.

In long term sun to sun is definitely important unless theres a compatible house in the sun. Ive seen endless long term misunderstandings with incompatible suns.

The allure of strong emotions(moon) or primitive sexual energy (moon/mars) is strong enough to attract but not to maintain.

Which is why we see the case where the woman admires and the man only sees the woman as an emotional and sexual outlet. Which some might be comfortable with.

But Sun-Sun and to a lesser degree Moon-Moon grants true undesrtanding and bonding.

fits the gender archetype?

how do you mean?

from what i've seen though, men find this to be an easy connection (i have NO idea why coz i'm not a dude) but women i've observed get really vain/selfish/bratty in these relationships acting like feudal lords.

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Feudal lords lol. I had this with the Aries. Sun opp Sun and Sun opp moon. But i certainly didn't become vain/selfish ect from it.🤔

There is such a natural and easy flow, when he was not lying.

Posted by Bklatt

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by Bklatt

In my experience sun to sun and moon to moon. Ive noticed women tend to like the sun to moon which makes sense since it fits the gender archetype.

In long term sun to sun is definitely important unless theres a compatible house in the sun. Ive seen endless long term misunderstandings with incompatible suns.

The allure of strong emotions(moon) or primitive sexual energy (moon/mars) is strong enough to attract but not to maintain.

Which is why we see the case where the woman admires and the man only sees the woman as an emotional and sexual outlet. Which some might be comfortable with.

But Sun-Sun and to a lesser degree Moon-Moon grants true undesrtanding and bonding.

fits the gender archetype?

how do you mean?

from what i've seen though, men find this to be an easy connection (i have NO idea why coz i'm not a dude) but women i've observed get really vain/selfish/bratty in these relationships acting like feudal lords.

You mean in mans Sun to womans Moon?

Moon represents female and Sun represents male. Moon being a constant emotional initiator/reactive and Sun being a constant physical motivator/proactive.

It also has strong attraction both ways mans moon / womans sun

When man uses his moon as primary attraction he will always be at a disadvantage which would make sense why the woman would take advantage. It can go so many ways because everyone has different combos. Masculine sun/fem moon, masc.sun/masc.moon etc etc etc

And each combo can reinforce different behaviors/outcomes if you undestand what i mean. It can be confusing how i explain it.

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i was referring to male's moon opposite female's sun

but the other way around i haven't really observed yet

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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by Bklatt

In my experience sun to sun and moon to moon. Ive noticed women tend to like the sun to moon which makes sense since it fits the gender archetype.

In long term sun to sun is definitely important unless theres a compatible house in the sun. Ive seen endless long term misunderstandings with incompatible suns.

The allure of strong emotions(moon) or primitive sexual energy (moon/mars) is strong enough to attract but not to maintain.

Which is why we see the case where the woman admires and the man only sees the woman as an emotional and sexual outlet. Which some might be comfortable with.

But Sun-Sun and to a lesser degree Moon-Moon grants true undesrtanding and bonding.

fits the gender archetype?

how do you mean?

from what i've seen though, men find this to be an easy connection (i have NO idea why coz i'm not a dude) but women i've observed get really vain/selfish/bratty in these relationships acting like feudal lords.

Feudal lords lol. I had this with the Aries. Sun opp Sun and Sun opp moon. But i certainly didn't become vain/selfish ect from it.🤔

There is such a natural and easy flow, when he was not lying.

I have it with my husband. According to the astrology one reads in books, the downside of it can be that the moon becomes too subservient to the sun.

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What is your personal experience within your relationship?

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by Bklatt

In my experience sun to sun and moon to moon. Ive noticed women tend to like the sun to moon which makes sense since it fits the gender archetype.

In long term sun to sun is definitely important unless theres a compatible house in the sun. Ive seen endless long term misunderstandings with incompatible suns.

The allure of strong emotions(moon) or primitive sexual energy (moon/mars) is strong enough to attract but not to maintain.

Which is why we see the case where the woman admires and the man only sees the woman as an emotional and sexual outlet. Which some might be comfortable with.

But Sun-Sun and to a lesser degree Moon-Moon grants true undesrtanding and bonding.

fits the gender archetype?

how do you mean?

from what i've seen though, men find this to be an easy connection (i have NO idea why coz i'm not a dude) but women i've observed get really vain/selfish/bratty in these relationships acting like feudal lords.

Feudal lords lol. I had this with the Aries. Sun opp Sun and Sun opp moon. But i certainly didn't become vain/selfish ect from it.🤔

There is such a natural and easy flow, when he was not lying.

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maybe i'm just saying that coz i'm a shitty gf lol. but honestly, the brattiest i've ever been is with this pisces moon man. not that i haven't had moments of protecting him from judgy family members or crying over him or being supportive. but overall, if push came to shove.... i'll recover faster than him. you'll feel this advantage even in relationships you'd think are 'fairly equal.' you can tell from a mile away the consequence of a choice committed by either side and you can roughly measure who holds more power.

also there's something that levels the ground for sun opposite sun along with moon opposite moon.

opposite energies = power in equilibrium

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by Bklatt

In my experience sun to sun and moon to moon. Ive noticed women tend to like the sun to moon which makes sense since it fits the gender archetype.

In long term sun to sun is definitely important unless theres a compatible house in the sun. Ive seen endless long term misunderstandings with incompatible suns.

The allure of strong emotions(moon) or primitive sexual energy (moon/mars) is strong enough to attract but not to maintain.

Which is why we see the case where the woman admires and the man only sees the woman as an emotional and sexual outlet. Which some might be comfortable with.

But Sun-Sun and to a lesser degree Moon-Moon grants true undesrtanding and bonding.

fits the gender archetype?

how do you mean?

from what i've seen though, men find this to be an easy connection (i have NO idea why coz i'm not a dude) but women i've observed get really vain/selfish/bratty in these relationships acting like feudal lords.

Feudal lords lol. I had this with the Aries. Sun opp Sun and Sun opp moon. But i certainly didn't become vain/selfish ect from it.🤔

There is such a natural and easy flow, when he was not lying.

maybe i'm just saying that coz i'm a shitty gf lol. but honestly, the brattiest i've ever been is with this pisces moon man. not that i haven't had moments of protecting him from judgy family members or crying over him or being supportive. but overall, if push came to shove.... i'll recover faster than him. you'll feel this advantage even in relationships you'd think are 'fairly equal.' you can tell from a mile away the consequence of a choice committed by either side and you can roughly measure who holds more power.

also there's something that levels the ground for sun opposite sun along with moon opposite moon.

opposite energies = power in equilibrium

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I see, with him we also has sun pluto conjunction which if anything turned very obsessive, not that i don't mind that sort of relationship too much, but when its good, its good and when its not... its completely fucked up. Takes a while to come back from that shit

Posted by virgoOPPP

male's moon opposite female's sun

No.

Posted by _Dazed

Posted by virgoOPPP

male's moon opposite female's sun

No.

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why not?

what did you observe?

Thanks guys. Love is hard lol

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by _Dazed

Posted by virgoOPPP

male's moon opposite female's sun

No.

why not?

what did you observe?

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Aquas are a no go for me.

So bring a Libra Cancer I would probably do better with a Aqua Taurus than a Taurus Aqua

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Posted by ladylibra21

So bring a Libra Cancer I would probably do better with a Aqua Taurus than a Taurus Aqua

? Why would you want either of those? 😂 lol but aqua sun yes

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Lmaoooo. I’m missing a Taurus Aqua who is silent and an Aqua Taurus is chasing me 🤦🏽‍♀️Lol

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Posted by BlueStar

Posted by virgoOPPP

@BlueStar

i used to crap on this connection until it happened to me lol.

it's just that i saw the males as being way too creepily obsessed with the females in this particular connection.

like i start shit with their gf and they defend her to the death (even if she'd dead wrong) but the gf is like mehhh.

just B L I N D when it comes to the female.

will not, can not, absolutely refuses to acknowledge anything wrong with her.

i used to think of this as the 'simp connection.'

but then i realized that this connection really brings out the female's ego/personality which might actually for the best (if you believe that whole thing where a relationship's better when the male is more invested than the female).

I dun wanna date a Sag Moon man 🥴

they're cheap misers ime

i'm keeping my pisces moon man ❤️️

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Where was your Sag moon man’s venus?

"Meh" to moon.. unpopular opinion but the moon is so secondary to me, it has little to no bearing on my psychological makeup at all. I can name Leo or Sag moon and we barely have anything in common. I had an aries best friend growing up, but that is the extent my moon has had in every relationship since then.

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by BlueStar

Posted by virgoOPPP

@BlueStar

i used to crap on this connection until it happened to me lol.

it's just that i saw the males as being way too creepily obsessed with the females in this particular connection.

like i start shit with their gf and they defend her to the death (even if she'd dead wrong) but the gf is like mehhh.

just B L I N D when it comes to the female.

will not, can not, absolutely refuses to acknowledge anything wrong with her.

i used to think of this as the 'simp connection.'

but then i realized that this connection really brings out the female's ego/personality which might actually for the best (if you believe that whole thing where a relationship's better when the male is more invested than the female).

I dun wanna date a Sag Moon man 🥴

they're cheap misers ime

i'm keeping my pisces moon man ❤️️

Where was your Sag moon man’s venus?

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i've dated sags like 2 mins lol

one had a pisces moon and the other a sag moon

i can't recall beyond that but i feel i must've made a thread about it in the past