Synnastry Overlays

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According to astrolibrary.com

This particular fraction of the particle explains it all to my case.

Sun in 2nd House Synastry Overlay

The Sun in the partner’s second house of a synastry overlay makes the house person a valuable asset to the Sun person. The Sun person sees something of value in the house person. However, this is not necessarily romantic or intimate (although it can be). It may just be that Sun person thinks that the house person can help them achieve some goal.

~The house person gets the sense that the Sun person wants something from them. You (the house person) may give in to their demands even though you sense that the attraction is not based on romance. Depending on the individual characteristic of the house person, this overlay can cause them to feel used. For “serving types” such as Virgo or Pisces types, this will not pose a big problem. For some, this overlay can actually enhance your self-esteem. You may like feeling that you’re needed for something. However, for many, this would be a difficult challenge to overcome.~

My husband's sun is my 2nd house in Capricorn.

And I feel the latter.

I am no pisces even tho my sun is in 12th house pisces and 10th house virgo. I feel used.

But I just found out from a shaman that my energy is bad for him in a way that it brings him down (if not thw pit of hell).. the shaman told me that my husband is confused about everything.

Lmao at my sun in scorpio in 12th house. He really catch the vibe.

Sigh..

But he haa got some energy clearing and I am down to hear the news so I am going to create invisible distance from him (even tho we share the same bed under the same roof).

It's about time for him to take the stand.

But I am gonna clear myself away from him and let him handle the steer.

🤷‍♀️



Btw, do you experience that the synnastry overlay apply to your dynamic?

I'll see

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My husband's Libra sun is in my 11th house

The Sun in the partner’s 11th house of a synastry overlay creates an atmosphere of friendship between you. Your relationship usually begins as a friendship, or as “friends with benefits.”

In this relationship, you tend to accept a “no strings attached” arrangement from the beginning. The Sun person sees the 11th house person as someone they can hang out with.

With the Sun in the partner’s 11th house, both partners can enjoy a rewarding and hassle-free relationship without a lot of nitpicking. You treat each other in a friendly, non-judgmental manner. Other couples may wonder how the two of you get along so well.

You accept each other’s differences and flaws. You tolerate their idiosyncrasies. Because you create this non-judgmental environment, you both feel free to confide in each other regarding any problems or anxieties that you face.

You are good sounding boards for each other’s pipe dreams — you encourage them rather than put them down.

Even in marriage, you have the tendency to treat each other as friends. This is not a deep, emotional overlay for relationships, but a positive one, nevertheless.

I have not drawn up my husband’s chart so I don’t know how it is the other way around. But this is accurate in the sense that friendship is central to our relationship. I don’t know about him but there was never any infatuation from me towards him. Everything’s always been easy going, steady, consistent and stable. I found it emotionally healthier than all the times I was overwhelmed and obsessed with someone. Before marriage a shaman had mentioned my husband was a good person but I have a huge obstacle (my MIL but F her, that never stopped me). Not everything’s been perfect or rosy at all but I’ve learned to turn anything negative into positive. Nothing can stop me from cultivating what I want. Your mindset is the only thing that matters, nothing else.
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That sounds great! Marriage with strong friendship as a foundation is good. I totally agree that it makes a more stable and non-judgmental attitude toward each other. There are some who need deep emotional bond even though it can also create emotional upheavals but I also have learnt that with marriage, it is not going to favor me in a long term.

Well.. MIL can be a problem and thats what my husband experiences too about my mom and trust me it gives me headaches too.

In my case, I have yet to learn to turn negative to positive. Most of the problem comes from myself, there seems to be this really wicked version of me that keeps getting in a way to reach happiness.

Steamy battles inside.

My mind control and other controlling actions must be directed toward myself instead of others.