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What is the proper response to "How much do you love me?"

What exactly is a person expecting to hear? What is the right answer?

Posted by Hamsthetics

There is no right or wrong answer, just tell them exactly what you feel and let them decide by themselves if the answer is what they're looking for 🙂

lol I've always got disappointed looks with my answers, which is why I am looking for something new to say. I have no clue what I'm supposed to say 😆

I'm doing something wrong.

I love you as much as you love me!

Posted by jukey

Sounds like a bait depending on the tone

It probably is, I don't mind that. I just need to know what a guy or girl is actually expecting to hear.

Posted by geminiflyby

I love you as much as you love me!

OMG!!!! This is a good one!!! Deflecting won't cause disappointment lol Thank you!

emm.. just.. give em a big ol' hug 😅 really depends WHO is asking in my opinion haha

Sounds like someone is feeling a little uncertain? Or just a rhetorical question. OR a trap!

What would be ENOUGH for you, you demanding little bastard? Haha! I pray someone doesn't ask me this.

Posted by geminiflyby

I love you as much as you love me!

that could easily backfire if they're about to confess about falling out of love with you 😆

Well, then you would know the truth @allrounder. And truth >than false love.

I love you enough not to kill you.

That's good enough for anybody.

Posted by Weeds

I love you enough not to kill you.

That's good enough for anybody.

Hahahaha! This is also cute and funny. I like it!

To the moon and back 😍

Posted by ImperfectStorm

Posted by saggurl88

What is the proper response to "How much do you love me?"

What exactly is a person expecting to hear? What is the right answer?

I don’t know why but this would annoy me if someone ever asked this. This feels like a question that a Leo mooner would ask 😂

Being the child that I am, I would probably extend my arms out to my sides like “I love you THIS big” and they better be happy with that answer damnit. Lol

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LMAO. That's kind of cute too. I can see from these responses that I have been a little too logical with my answers, and I need to be more playful about it.

To answer by sign:

Aries - I love you better than anyone else could love you

Taurus - I love you more than cake

Gemini - Well, I love you TODAY

Cancer - I will love you forever even after you're gone

Leo - I love you almost as much as I love me

Virgo - I love you despite your flaws

Libra - I love you if you love me

Scorpio - I love you because you belong to me

Sagittarius - I love you as much as I loved the last one

Capricorn - I love you more than you love me

Aquarius - If I believed in love, I would love you

Pisces - I love you, don't you know that already?

Posted by Wizardz

I would say

"You see/know that ... " (point to or talk about something really good) "I love you 100 times as much as that"

Then you satisfy their need for being told you love them a lot, without actually seriously declaring your love for them because it's playful, thus leaving you a get-out clause later if things get too much, because obv you were joking around

Hahaha I don't need a way out. I just need to know what I should say.

Love is wide open like the sea.

How can I put a "how much" to it. I don't see a cap on it. But that answer is too logical and boring lol

“To the moon and back” followed by a nose boop, of course.

Posted by Antiphates

"I'm okay with you being a complicated human being."

Ahhhh, Acceptance! A breathe of fresh air. I love it!

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

To the moon and back 😍

Would a person believe that, since it's a cliché answer? Maybe the hopeless romantics?

I would be interested in asking "What would you say if I said to the moon and back?" I'd be interested in the authentic response.

But thanks nonetheless. It's still a phrase to think about.

Posted by geminiflyby

To answer by sign:

Aries - I love you better than anyone else could love you

Taurus - I love you more than cake

Gemini - Well, I love you TODAY

Cancer - I will love you forever even after you're gone

Leo - I love you almost as much as I love me

Virgo - I love you despite your flaws

Libra - I love you if you love me

Scorpio - I love you because you belong to me

Sagittarius - I love you as much as I loved the last one

Capricorn - I love you more than you love me

Aquarius - If I believed in love, I would love you

Pisces - I love you, don't you know that already?

Hahahahaha!!!! The Sag one!!! And you see why I am asking the question! 🤪🥴

Posted by King_Tommy

Wtf is the context?

Inside of a relationship. Do friends ask someone something this crazy? lol

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Posted by Wizardz

I would say

"You see/know that ... " (point to or talk about something really good) "I love you 100 times as much as that"

Then you satisfy their need for being told you love them a lot, without actually seriously declaring your love for them because it's playful, thus leaving you a get-out clause later if things get too much, because obv you were joking around

Hahaha I don't need a way out. I just need to know what I should say.

Love is wide open like the sea.

How can I put a "how much" to it. I don't see a cap on it. But that answer is too logical and boring lol

With moon in cancer your love is abundant.. I agree that it can’t really be measured or even contained so that’s why I think I would be annoyed by the question as well 😂 I feel like the ones that we love should just be able to **feel** how much we love them based on how we nurture and pour into them with our actions.

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EXACTLY!!! But I know men still need to hear it. I get annoyed because I don't actually know what I'm supposed to say to this. A few guys have asked me this in the past, so I think it's me that's the problem 🥴

Now with it coming up again, I need to be prepared 🙃

It's a stupid question and I've never known what to say.

Kinda with Wizardz on this one. If it is a playful question, then answer that way. If it looks like they are trying to really figure out how you feel about them, then it's time to ask THEM some questions. Why are you asking me this? Don't you feel like I care? The best part of being single is not having to deal with this stuff.

Posted by Gobbie

Leos will never love you more than they love themselves.

I'm betting he will since my Moon is in his 7th house. lol

And I believe people should always love themselves more. How can a person love you, when they don't love themselves. You have to take care of home first.

I just need to be more romantic and cute, instead of funny and serious. It's a buzz kill lol

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Hamsthetics

There is no right or wrong answer, just tell them exactly what you feel and let them decide by themselves if the answer is what they're looking for 🙂

lol I've always got disappointed looks with my answers, which is why I am looking for something new to say. I have no clue what I'm supposed to say 😆

I'm doing something wrong.

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“I love 💕 you like a fat kid love cake 🎂 “, in my 50 voice 😂😂

Posted by Wizardz

It's not a serious question

"How much do you love me?"

They're not expecting you to say "umm I love you a bit more than my Aunt but not as much as I loved my ex"

The only answer is "I love you soooo much" and variations on that theme

Don't worry, everyone knows its not a real question needing a real answer

I've been asked this and

"On a scale of 1-10, how much do you love me"

I say "15!"

he says "Ahh, no, that can't be"

Like should I have said "2, up your game!" instead. Like WTF 😆

Stop asking me how much. If I say I love you- that is all. If you need to hear it more, tell me that instead. Ugh. I don't get it.

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Posted by Hamsthetics

There is no right or wrong answer, just tell them exactly what you feel and let them decide by themselves if the answer is what they're looking for 🙂

lol I've always got disappointed looks with my answers, which is why I am looking for something new to say. I have no clue what I'm supposed to say 😆

I'm doing something wrong.

“I love 💕 you like a fat kid love cake 🎂 “, in my 50 voice 😂😂

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That's actually a good laugh!

Posted by Weeds

I love you enough not to kill you.

That's good enough for anybody.

😂😂👍🏽

I just want to hear what you come up with lol please, please make me laugh!! 😆

Posted by Gobbie

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Posted by Gobbie

Leos will never love you more than they love themselves.

I'm betting he will since my Moon is in his 7th house. lol

And I believe people should always love themselves more. How can a person love you, when they don't love themselves. You have to take care of home first.

I just need to be more romantic and cute, instead of funny and serious. It's a buzz kill lol

I'm afraid I can't answer that for you, as I threw in the towel with Leos a LONG time ago.

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Thanks anyways. He's a fire sign, so I get some stuff, but not others. It's all a learning curve. Thank goodness I learn, grow, and adapt. That's the best I can do for a person.

Posted by AbbyNormal

I just want to hear what you come up with lol please, please make me laugh!! 😆

It's boring. I said it previously in a different post. The "how much" throws me off. So it's not a funny question at all. I end up being too logical instead. No one wants a boring logical answer

If you love them lots

To the 🌝 and ⭐️⭐️⭐️ and back

😀

Posted by Wizardz

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by AbbyNormal

I just want to hear what you come up with lol please, please make me laugh!! 😆

It's boring. I said it previously in a different post. The "how much" throws me off. So it's not a funny question at all. I end up being too logical instead. No one wants a boring logical answer

Tell him to stop being such a bitch asking lame ass questions that a 6 year old would ask its mommy 😂

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LMAO!!! Ugh. I need cute answers. I don't mind those types of questions. I just have to stop being such a moron when handling it.

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Posted by Hamsthetics

There is no right or wrong answer, just tell them exactly what you feel and let them decide by themselves if the answer is what they're looking for 🙂

lol I've always got disappointed looks with my answers, which is why I am looking for something new to say. I have no clue what I'm supposed to say 😆

I'm doing something wrong.

“I love 💕 you like a fat kid love cake 🎂 “, in my 50 voice 😂😂

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That's actually a good laugh!

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😂

It’s impossible for me to be serious in romantic situations, I’m too silly 🙃and easily embarrassed at times like that, so I would say something funny and just laugh 🤦🏽‍♀️.

Posted by peachy06

It depends of the person. If I don't care about their tiny existence, I'd say it.

LOL I wouldn't embarrass a person if I didn't love them. It's a vulnerable question, and I don't want to hurt someone when they are open to me like this.

I don't think I've ever been asked that by someone I didn't care about.

I take this question as a sign that they care about me and want to know how I feel about them.

I would be a little more crazy with the answer if it was said in a joking way.

I've sent a " Happy 2 year anniversary to NOT loving me" text before to a friend who sent back a "Cheers to 2 more 🥂 "

LMAO, So I can have fun with no love involved. I just don't want to crush someone if there is love there. Every bit counts 🙃

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Posted by Wizardz

I would say

"You see/know that ... " (point to or talk about something really good) "I love you 100 times as much as that"

Then you satisfy their need for being told you love them a lot, without actually seriously declaring your love for them because it's playful, thus leaving you a get-out clause later if things get too much, because obv you were joking around

Hahaha I don't need a way out. I just need to know what I should say.

Love is wide open like the sea.

How can I put a "how much" to it. I don't see a cap on it. But that answer is too logical and boring lol

With moon in cancer your love is abundant.. I agree that it can’t really be measured or even contained so that’s why I think I would be annoyed by the question as well 😂 I feel like the ones that we love should just be able to **feel** how much we love them based on how we nurture and pour into them with our actions.

EXACTLY!!! But I know men still need to hear it. I get annoyed because I don't actually know what I'm supposed to say to this. A few guys have asked me this in the past, so I think it's me that's the problem 🥴

Now with it coming up again, I need to be prepared 🙃

It's a stupid question and I've never known what to say.

Hmm I wonder if it’s because cancer moons are so guarded, maybe our declarations of love are not as outwardly obvious as we think they are. During a therapy session with my ex, I remember he told our therapist “I didn’t realize how much she loved me” and I was borderline shocked and insulted. Like WTF do you mean you didn’t know?! Lol but I also have libra stellium so maybe I appear detached at times, and maybe with your sag sun, maybe you come across as being detached as well?

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Yes, I'm extremely detached, but ask me a question and I will answer it. But that can be boring too.

I don't do grandeur displays of affection. I'm more like that in person. I can be too rigid emotionally and for some reason I don't mind, but it can bother others. I don't know if therapy can help with this, since I really think showing huge displays of emotions make me feel weird. I don't like the feeling at all. I feel like I'm being fake, since it's not natural.

I just need a good balance of being both ways, so I'm getting ideas from the nice people here 🙂

Posted by RealDumbo

Look into my eyes, then we kissed and were lost sort of.I didn't count but a hour or two without saying anything. Now that i remember this from my teen years it's sort of stupid and funny.

You two looked into each others eyes for hours? This sounds like tantric eye gazing 🥰

Yell "this much" while throwing your arms wide and then launch yourself at him and give him a bear squeeze. And legit try to squeeze the life outta him. Leo energy can be needy and wants all the hugs.

If he isn't already laughing start tickling him in all the places he hates.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Yell "this much" while throwing your arms wide and then launch yourself at him and give him a bear squeeze. And legit try to squeeze the life outta him. Leo energy can be needy and wants all the hugs.

If he isn't already laughing start tickling him in all the places he hates.

In person I'm super dramatic, I think it's funny with Leos. They always pretend like they don't want it, while soaking it up!

He asked this over the phone though 😢

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Posted by peachy06

It depends of the person. If I don't care about their tiny existence, I'd say it.

LOL I wouldn't embarrass a person if I didn't love them. It's a vulnerable question, and I don't want to hurt someone when they are open to me like this.

I don't think I've ever been asked that by someone I didn't care about.

I take this question as a sign that they care about me and want to know how I feel about them.

I would be a little more crazy with the answer if it was said in a joking way.

I've sent a " Happy 2 year anniversary to NOT loving me" text before to a friend who sent back a "Cheers to 2 more 🥂 "

LMAO, So I can have fun with no love involved. I just don't want to crush someone if there is love there. Every bit counts 🙃

You do what you want as long as you're honest and it makes you feel good.

Lol at your stories, you're always funny.

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I have another one that I'm not sure I want to post. lol I have too many non emotional stories 😭

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by LadyNeptune

Yell "this much" while throwing your arms wide and then launch yourself at him and give him a bear squeeze. And legit try to squeeze the life outta him. Leo energy can be needy and wants all the hugs.

If he isn't already laughing start tickling him in all the places he hates.

In person I'm super dramatic, I think it's funny with Leos. They always pretend like they don't want it, while soaking it up!

He asked this over the phone though 😢

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tell him, next time I see you I'll show you how much *winky face emoji

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Yell "this much" while throwing your arms wide and then launch yourself at him and give him a bear squeeze. And legit try to squeeze the life outta him. Leo energy can be needy and wants all the hugs.

If he isn't already laughing start tickling him in all the places he hates.

In person I'm super dramatic, I think it's funny with Leos. They always pretend like they don't want it, while soaking it up!

He asked this over the phone though 😢

tell him, next time I see you I'll show you how much *winky face emoji

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Hahahaha! For sure lol

Posted by saggurl88

What is the proper response to "How much do you love me?"

What exactly is a person expecting to hear? What is the right answer?

Packup.

That's needy AND insecure behaviour right there. A red flag for more neediness to come in the future.

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Posted by saggurl88

What is the proper response to "How much do you love me?"

What exactly is a person expecting to hear? What is the right answer?

Packup.

That's needy AND insecure behaviour right there. A red flag for more neediness to come in the future.

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I like neediness 😆

I'm one of the rare Sags that like neediness and clinginess.

I will sooth any insecurities or worries, no problem! Use me up, I'm at your disposal.

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Posted by Wizardz

I would say

"You see/know that ... " (point to or talk about something really good) "I love you 100 times as much as that"

Then you satisfy their need for being told you love them a lot, without actually seriously declaring your love for them because it's playful, thus leaving you a get-out clause later if things get too much, because obv you were joking around

Hahaha I don't need a way out. I just need to know what I should say.

Love is wide open like the sea.

How can I put a "how much" to it. I don't see a cap on it. But that answer is too logical and boring lol

With moon in cancer your love is abundant.. I agree that it can’t really be measured or even contained so that’s why I think I would be annoyed by the question as well 😂 I feel like the ones that we love should just be able to **feel** how much we love them based on how we nurture and pour into them with our actions.

EXACTLY!!! But I know men still need to hear it. I get annoyed because I don't actually know what I'm supposed to say to this. A few guys have asked me this in the past, so I think it's me that's the problem 🥴

Now with it coming up again, I need to be prepared 🙃

It's a stupid question and I've never known what to say.

Hmm I wonder if it’s because cancer moons are so guarded, maybe our declarations of love are not as outwardly obvious as we think they are. During a therapy session with my ex, I remember he told our therapist “I didn’t realize how much she loved me” and I was borderline shocked and insulted. Like WTF do you mean you didn’t know?! Lol but I also have libra stellium so maybe I appear detached at times, and maybe with your sag sun, maybe you come across as being detached as well?

Yes, I'm extremely detached, but ask me a question and I will answer it. But that can be boring too.

I don't do grandeur displays of affection. I'm more like that in person. I can be too rigid emotionally and for some reason I don't mind, but it can bother others. I don't know if therapy can help with this, since I really think showing huge displays of emotions make me feel weird. I don't like the feeling at all. I feel like I'm being fake, since it's not natural.

I just need a good balance of being both ways, so I'm getting ideas from the nice people here 🙂

What is your rising and Venus?

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Libra Rising and Scorpio Venus 👼

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What is the proper response to "How much do you love me?"

What exactly is a person expecting to hear? What is the right answer?

Packup.

That's needy AND insecure behaviour right there. A red flag for more neediness to come in the future.

I like neediness 😆

I'm one of the rare Sags that like neediness and clinginess.

I will sooth any insecurities or worries, no problem! Use me up, I'm at your disposal.

LMAO what are you ? A toilet paper ?

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I don't get it? Is soothing someone's insecurities a bad thing? Does it seem like I'm wiping up shit? If I'm non emotional. It's the least I can do.

Edited to add- Men are way less clingy and needy then women. So it's not a big deal for me.

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Posted by saggurl88

What is the proper response to "How much do you love me?"

What exactly is a person expecting to hear? What is the right answer?

Packup.

That's needy AND insecure behaviour right there. A red flag for more neediness to come in the future.

I like neediness 😆

I'm one of the rare Sags that like neediness and clinginess.

I will sooth any insecurities or worries, no problem! Use me up, I'm at your disposal.

LMAO what are you ? A toilet paper ?

I don't get it? Is soothing someone's insecurities a bad thing? Does it seem like I'm wiping up shit? If I'm non emotional. It's the least I can do.

Edited to add- Men are way less clingy and needy then women. So it's not a big deal for me.

I didn't mean to offend you, sorry, was just kidding.

I have a hard time understanding your nurturing Cancer moon. If people are insecure they have to overcome it themselves.

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Oh. I just didn't understand the toilet paper comment.

I'd rather have any insecurities be talked about and communicated openly and directly, so they can be handled and squashed like adults, then to play games like we are in a circus somewhere.

I attract and stick to what I like and what works for me.

Insecurities are the least of a persons problems, since they can always be overcome, like you mentioned. I'm here to help, if they need the support.

Humor is my weapon in uncomfortable situations!