@AngelicaBlackstone
7 Years
For what reason(s) might you make it seem that you don't have feelings for someone when you do?
Reasons for Hiding True Feelings in Relationships
People often conceal their feelings due to fear of rejection, vulnerability, or wanting to protect themselves. Sometimes they hide emotions to avoid conflicts or to maintain control. Understanding these reasons can help improve communication and emotional honesty in relationships.
Whenever your feelings are unrequited.
When you’re not in a relationship and feelings don’t matter
When you’ve fallen for someone taken and there’s no need to recognize them.
When you know he/she doesn’t feel the same way.
Emotion is uncomfortable and we feel very strongly - we just can’t handle keeping at that level constantly.
It’s all about the risk. If we aren’t 100% sure that we won’t be risking our inner selves which we hide almost constantly and can’t trust someone then we will act abrasive and cold.
Where were you all this while? I wish i had known this a couple years ago. But still i got to know this firsthand dealing with one. But you saying clarified my doubts.
Simply put : When you know it won't work.
From what I have seen from Gemini men, it is usually when they have sat down and analyzed the pros and cons of the relationship, and then determined that there are conflicting personal life style choices, religious views, or something else within both himself and the other person, that they have determined would eventually undermine the relationship in the long run.
this was very informative
Posted by ididntbut_itstillhurt
When the feelings are just too too strong.... it like a pup and their bone... they love their bone so so much that they have to dig up hole and hide it.
what's your sun moon mars and Venus?
Emotion is uncomfortable and we feel very strongly - we just can’t handle keeping at that level constantly.
It’s all about the risk. If we aren’t 100% sure that we won’t be risking our inner selves which we hide almost constantly and can’t trust someone then we will act abrasive and cold.
what's your Venus moon and mars?
Posted by ididntbut_itstillhurt
Posted by ididntbut_itstillhurt
When the feelings are just too too strong.... it like a pup and their bone... they love their bone so so much that they have to dig up hole and hide it.
what's your sun moon mars and Venus?
Leo, Scorpio, Virgo and Virgo.. respectively
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interesting
Posted by ididntbut_itstillhurt
Posted by ididntbut_itstillhurt
Posted by ididntbut_itstillhurt
When the feelings are just too too strong.... it like a pup and their bone... they love their bone so so much that they have to dig up hole and hide it.
what's your sun moon mars and Venus?
Leo, Scorpio, Virgo and Virgo.. respectively
interesting
Why interesting? Bc u feel the same way😁
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sometimes
Ego
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For what reason(s) might you make it seem that you don't have feelings for someone when you do?