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Signs a GEMINI man or woman are falling in love... (Page 2)
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Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by Phantom_Dangus
So, I can tell what it's really like for me, but it's embarrassing, and I don't know which placements cause it. Once I feel "allowed" to admit I'm falling for someone, I get so knocked out by the hormones involved in the "falling in love" stage I start acting like a stereotypical lovesick fool, thinking everything about that person is great. They can do no wrong. I hang on their every word. I am always excited to hear from them and panic if too much time passes. I can't sleep or eat properly and begin to lose weight. I do everything in my power to keep them from knowing how bad it is, so I've never been sure how much it shows. Eventually, if things progress between us, and he makes me feel loved back, that feeling eases into a deeper love. I know I've reached it when I feel a mixture of irritation and "d'aw" when he does one of his annoying habits, instead of not even noticing he can be annoying, and I relax and feel secure enough not to get jealous easily. I've only made it that far three times. Things would usually blow up in the middle of the infatuation stage. I've been married for a very long time now, so we've been through many other stages.
Aww this is so cute. This looks similar to what I’m noticing and it’s getting worse. How long you been married?
I hated feeling like I wasn't in control of myself and thoughts and emotions. I felt bad too that it was almost like a bait and switch to my partner because I would go from chill to suddenly intense. And then when things finally leveled out, back to chill again. 16 years married (I think I said 17 recently, lol) and 20 years together.click to expand
Lol it’s ok. At least you were aware and can admit it. I’m happy for you 2. Did you ever admit it when you switched or apologize?
From my perspective being with a fire dominant gem, they want to show you off/are really proud to introduce you as ‘my’ gf, wifee, etc. They need someone who can hang in social situations with friends, coworkers, etc, both at their side and on your own.
Also your the first one they tell the good and bad to.
Also your the first one they tell the good and bad to.
Posted by WateryGem
For me, I think they will see that look in my eyes and I actually get really nervous when I start to feel like I am falling for someone. That shit is scary!! Lol
Another way for me is if I have sex with you making deep eye contact, like I want to merge into your heart and soul.
That sounds like your scorpio venus talking lol
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by Phantom_Dangus
So, I can tell what it's really like for me, but it's embarrassing, and I don't know which placements cause it. Once I feel "allowed" to admit I'm falling for someone, I get so knocked out by the hormones involved in the "falling in love" stage I start acting like a stereotypical lovesick fool, thinking everything about that person is great. They can do no wrong. I hang on their every word. I am always excited to hear from them and panic if too much time passes. I can't sleep or eat properly and begin to lose weight. I do everything in my power to keep them from knowing how bad it is, so I've never been sure how much it shows. Eventually, if things progress between us, and he makes me feel loved back, that feeling eases into a deeper love. I know I've reached it when I feel a mixture of irritation and "d'aw" when he does one of his annoying habits, instead of not even noticing he can be annoying, and I relax and feel secure enough not to get jealous easily. I've only made it that far three times. Things would usually blow up in the middle of the infatuation stage. I've been married for a very long time now, so we've been through many other stages.
Aww this is so cute. This looks similar to what I’m noticing and it’s getting worse. How long you been married?
I hated feeling like I wasn't in control of myself and thoughts and emotions. I felt bad too that it was almost like a bait and switch to my partner because I would go from chill to suddenly intense. And then when things finally leveled out, back to chill again. 16 years married (I think I said 17 recently, lol) and 20 years together.
Lol it’s ok. At least you were aware and can admit it. I’m happy for you 2. Did you ever admit it when you switched or apologize?
Aw shit. I answered you but I was only half logged in, and i don't know where it went. Into the ether, I guess.
I didn't really apologize for doing that when I did it because it is only with the benefit of hindsight and detachment from those events that I can see the pattern in what was happening.click to expand
He just understood from previous conversations? So that’s where the detachment comes from as well? If you don’t mind me asking, what’s his sign?
Posted by LadyNeptune
From my perspective being with a fire dominant gem, they want to show you off/are really proud to introduce you as ‘my’ gf, wifee, etc. They need someone who can hang in social situations with friends, coworkers, etc, both at their side and on your own.
Also your the first one they tell the good and bad to.
That’s a good thing huh?
Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by LadyNeptune
From my perspective being with a fire dominant gem, they want to show you off/are really proud to introduce you as ‘my’ gf, wifee, etc. They need someone who can hang in social situations with friends, coworkers, etc, both at their side and on your own.
Also your the first one they tell the good and bad to.
That’s a good thing huh?click to expand
I think so.
Pride in their partner and transparency. All good things in my book.
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by WateryGem
For me, I think they will see that look in my eyes and I actually get really nervous when I start to feel like I am falling for someone. That shit is scary!! Lol
Another way for me is if I have sex with you making deep eye contact, like I want to merge into your heart and soul.
That sounds like your scorpio venus talking lolclick to expand
Lol It might be my moon in Scorpio and venus in Cancer.
OP you guys been together at least a year, right? Has he brought up the future with you? Any discussions on moving in together? Have you guys taken any trips together? Have you met his family and friends? Do you guys spend Holidays together? More importantly, are you part of his life or just a part of it?
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by Phantom_Dangus
So, I can tell what it's really like for me, but it's embarrassing, and I don't know which placements cause it. Once I feel "allowed" to admit I'm falling for someone, I get so knocked out by the hormones involved in the "falling in love" stage I start acting like a stereotypical lovesick fool, thinking everything about that person is great. They can do no wrong. I hang on their every word. I am always excited to hear from them and panic if too much time passes. I can't sleep or eat properly and begin to lose weight. I do everything in my power to keep them from knowing how bad it is, so I've never been sure how much it shows. Eventually, if things progress between us, and he makes me feel loved back, that feeling eases into a deeper love. I know I've reached it when I feel a mixture of irritation and "d'aw" when he does one of his annoying habits, instead of not even noticing he can be annoying, and I relax and feel secure enough not to get jealous easily. I've only made it that far three times. Things would usually blow up in the middle of the infatuation stage. I've been married for a very long time now, so we've been through many other stages.
Aww this is so cute. This looks similar to what I’m noticing and it’s getting worse. How long you been married?
I hated feeling like I wasn't in control of myself and thoughts and emotions. I felt bad too that it was almost like a bait and switch to my partner because I would go from chill to suddenly intense. And then when things finally leveled out, back to chill again. 16 years married (I think I said 17 recently, lol) and 20 years together.
Lol it’s ok. At least you were aware and can admit it. I’m happy for you 2. Did you ever admit it when you switched or apologize?
Aw shit. I answered you but I was only half logged in, and i don't know where it went. Into the ether, I guess.
I didn't really apologize for doing that when I did it because it is only with the benefit of hindsight and detachment from those events that I can see the pattern in what was happening.
He just understood from previous conversations? So that’s where the detachment comes from as well? If you don’t mind me asking, what’s his sign?
He's a Pisces. Haha, no. I think he had no clue what was going on but liked me, then loved me, enough to go along for the ride. Also, he still to this day can never get tired of hearing affectionate, encouraging comments, so he probably loved the intense phase.
He put his foot down really hard once. He broke up with me after about a year together because I kept making jealous scenes when we went out with friends (and I got drunk). He wasn't really interested in why I kept doing it; he just wasn't going to put up with it anymore. I got into therapy and quit getting drunk, and we never had that particular problem again.click to expand
Yes, like me! This is really making my day. I’m just taking it day by day. Your story has made me reevaluate some things.
Posted by Moonbutter
OP you guys been together at least a year, right? Has he brought up the future with you? Any discussions on moving in together? Have you guys taken any trips together? Have you met his family and friends? Do you guys spend Holidays together? More importantly, are you part of his life or just a part of it?
Yes we been talked about the future and still are to this day. We have been talking about moving in together. I’ve met part of his family like his kids and a cousin. His mom will be here this month where we live. We spend some holidays together depending on our work schedules. I’m about of his life, like I’ve been there when his own family hasn’t. Whenever he wants to vent, he knows I’m a call or text away.
Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by Moonbutter
OP you guys been together at least a year, right? Has he brought up the future with you? Any discussions on moving in together? Have you guys taken any trips together? Have you met his family and friends? Do you guys spend Holidays together? More importantly, are you part of his life or just a part of it?
Yes we been talked about the future and still are to this day. We have been talking about moving in together. I’ve met part of his family like his kids and a cousin. His mom will be here this month where we live. We spend some holidays together depending on our work schedules. I’m about of his life, like I’ve been there when his own family hasn’t. Whenever he wants to vent, he knows I’m a call or text away.click to expand
So, it sounds good on “paper” but why are you unsure of his feelings for you? Are we missing something or just you got a feeling something is off?
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by Phantom_Dangus
So, I can tell what it's really like for me, but it's embarrassing, and I don't know which placements cause it. Once I feel "allowed" to admit I'm falling for someone, I get so knocked out by the hormones involved in the "falling in love" stage I start acting like a stereotypical lovesick fool, thinking everything about that person is great. They can do no wrong. I hang on their every word. I am always excited to hear from them and panic if too much time passes. I can't sleep or eat properly and begin to lose weight. I do everything in my power to keep them from knowing how bad it is, so I've never been sure how much it shows. Eventually, if things progress between us, and he makes me feel loved back, that feeling eases into a deeper love. I know I've reached it when I feel a mixture of irritation and "d'aw" when he does one of his annoying habits, instead of not even noticing he can be annoying, and I relax and feel secure enough not to get jealous easily. I've only made it that far three times. Things would usually blow up in the middle of the infatuation stage. I've been married for a very long time now, so we've been through many other stages.
Aww this is so cute. This looks similar to what I’m noticing and it’s getting worse. How long you been married?
I hated feeling like I wasn't in control of myself and thoughts and emotions. I felt bad too that it was almost like a bait and switch to my partner because I would go from chill to suddenly intense. And then when things finally leveled out, back to chill again. 16 years married (I think I said 17 recently, lol) and 20 years together.
Lol it’s ok. At least you were aware and can admit it. I’m happy for you 2. Did you ever admit it when you switched or apologize?
Aw shit. I answered you but I was only half logged in, and i don't know where it went. Into the ether, I guess.
I didn't really apologize for doing that when I did it because it is only with the benefit of hindsight and detachment from those events that I can see the pattern in what was happening.
He just understood from previous conversations? So that’s where the detachment comes from as well? If you don’t mind me asking, what’s his sign?
He's a Pisces. Haha, no. I think he had no clue what was going on but liked me, then loved me, enough to go along for the ride. Also, he still to this day can never get tired of hearing affectionate, encouraging comments, so he probably loved the intense phase.
He put his foot down really hard once. He broke up with me after about a year together because I kept making jealous scenes when we went out with friends (and I got drunk). He wasn't really interested in why I kept doing it; he just wasn't going to put up with it anymore. I got into therapy and quit getting drunk, and we never had that particular problem again.
Yes, like me! This is really making my day. I’m just taking it day by day. Your story has made me reevaluate some things.
Good luck! I wish all of us who get a little extra in the beginning had like a freshness date "will be calmed down and sane again by 11/2019".click to expand
Yessss, thank you!
Posted by MoonbutterPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by Moonbutter
OP you guys been together at least a year, right? Has he brought up the future with you? Any discussions on moving in together? Have you guys taken any trips together? Have you met his family and friends? Do you guys spend Holidays together? More importantly, are you part of his life or just a part of it?
Yes we been talked about the future and still are to this day. We have been talking about moving in together. I’ve met part of his family like his kids and a cousin. His mom will be here this month where we live. We spend some holidays together depending on our work schedules. I’m about of his life, like I’ve been there when his own family hasn’t. Whenever he wants to vent, he knows I’m a call or text away.
So, it sounds good on “paper” but why are you unsure of his feelings for you? Are we missing something or just you got a feeling something is off?click to expand
I’m just a over thinker and it’s making me feel crazy.
Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by MoonbutterPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by Moonbutter
OP you guys been together at least a year, right? Has he brought up the future with you? Any discussions on moving in together? Have you guys taken any trips together? Have you met his family and friends? Do you guys spend Holidays together? More importantly, are you part of his life or just a part of it?
Yes we been talked about the future and still are to this day. We have been talking about moving in together. I’ve met part of his family like his kids and a cousin. His mom will be here this month where we live. We spend some holidays together depending on our work schedules. I’m about of his life, like I’ve been there when his own family hasn’t. Whenever he wants to vent, he knows I’m a call or text away.
So, it sounds good on “paper” but why are you unsure of his feelings for you? Are we missing something or just you got a feeling something is off?
I’m just a over thinker and it’s making me feel crazy.click to expand
Don’t overthink, that’s the Gemini’s job 😝
Posted by MoonbutterPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by MoonbutterPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by Moonbutter
OP you guys been together at least a year, right? Has he brought up the future with you? Any discussions on moving in together? Have you guys taken any trips together? Have you met his family and friends? Do you guys spend Holidays together? More importantly, are you part of his life or just a part of it?
Yes we been talked about the future and still are to this day. We have been talking about moving in together. I’ve met part of his family like his kids and a cousin. His mom will be here this month where we live. We spend some holidays together depending on our work schedules. I’m about of his life, like I’ve been there when his own family hasn’t. Whenever he wants to vent, he knows I’m a call or text away.
So, it sounds good on “paper” but why are you unsure of his feelings for you? Are we missing something or just you got a feeling something is off?
I’m just a over thinker and it’s making me feel crazy.
Don’t overthink, that’s the Gemini’s job 😝click to expand
Yeah your right about that lol😉
Posted by WateryGemPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by WateryGem
For me, I think they will see that look in my eyes and I actually get really nervous when I start to feel like I am falling for someone. That shit is scary!! Lol
Another way for me is if I have sex with you making deep eye contact, like I want to merge into your heart and soul.
That sounds like your scorpio venus talking lol
Lol It might be my moon in Scorpio and venus in Cancer.click to expand
Oops yes. I see i read your placements wrong lol. Aye but yeah sounds like your Scorpio moon😁
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by WateryGemPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by WateryGem
For me, I think they will see that look in my eyes and I actually get really nervous when I start to feel like I am falling for someone. That shit is scary!! Lol
Another way for me is if I have sex with you making deep eye contact, like I want to merge into your heart and soul.
That sounds like your scorpio venus talking lol
Lol It might be my moon in Scorpio and venus in Cancer.
Oops yes. I see i read your placements wrong lol. Aye but yeah sounds like your Scorpio moon😁click to expand
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