A big mistake.

There is a male Aquarius that I have been talking to for a while now. To be honest, he constantly told me that he wanted me physically. Whatever else he said I always thought that it was because he wanted to have sex with me (that I'm beautiful, smart, etc). And I am genuinly attracted to him, but I didn't get emotionally attached because who would with someone who you thought wanted you only for your body. Anyway I've been flirting with him. One day, a few days ago, I was kinda not sober and he askedme if I love him. I was shocked and said no. That really seemed to hurt him and he lashed out at me. I don't understand why but he comforted me moments later. I think it has been bothering him for the last few days but he seems better now. I feel bad, and I do care for him and like him, but I dont know what to do. Now that I know there was emotion behind what he said, everything looks different. I don't know what to do, please help.

What is the mistake? That you said no to loving him??

I see a lot of mistakes. One thing including not explaining any of what i thought, think or feel. He thought that I was disgusted with him and the thought of being with him. He called me a tease. It was a mistake that I read his intentions wrong when I typically pride myself in reading people very well. Sorry I didnt include that.

Posted by swatches
I see a lot of mistakes. One thing including not explaining any of what i thought, think or feel. He thought that I was disgusted with him and the thought of being with him. He called me a tease. It was a mistake that I read his intentions wrong when I typically pride myself in reading people very well. Sorry I didnt include that.

I would have a talk with him about what you are describing. Open up. He will feel better I am sure.

^^ good advice.

I'd say leave the past where it is. Being guarded is natural for a lot of people and sure if it happened to me my feelings would be hurt too but momentarily. If it wasn't enough to dissuade him then perhaps you mean a lot more to him than what you thought, you probably know that now.

When things bother me personally it's strange, in this instance, I probably wouldn't be able to hide the fact I'm disappointed but vocalising the issue wouldn't do much good either so like him I'd probably just keep quiet til I've gotten over it in my head.

I wouldn't say guilt tripping is an Aquarius thing so maybe think of it as a clean state now that you guys have gotten that out of the way.