Am I on an aquarius' hook?

So I've been hanging out with an aquarius a lot lately. We talk everyday and when I don't text her she sends me random question. To me it feels like she wants to talk and is trying to get me to respond. I do like her but we both feel like we're not ready for anything; however, it's a bit more her not being ready.

I told her not too long ago that I was scared how much I was willing to chase her and said I had to stop. I can't keep stopping myself from thinking and acting like am idiot chasing her. She asked why I was admitting this to her and I felt like it just needed to be said how i felt even though I was sure it wasn't reciprocated. She said to not assume things and she liked me, which is confusing to her now and that she just isn't anywhere near ready.She mentioned that she went on a few dates but cut them out cause it just wasn't going anywhere but I was the exception.

Now her taurus jealous "best" friend has been having dramatic attention seeking meltdowns with a mutual friend over the aquarius hanging out with me and my buddies. She is acting very possessive over her. So in her most recent fit she told a mutual friend that the aquarius actually doesn't like me and is just using me for attention. She doesn't find me attractive, would never date me, and the thought of us being physical repulsed her.

Now my question is, does it seem like she's does have me on the hook? Honestly I do like her but I also have my leo pride and can't stand to be used like that. If she's not interested then stringing me on while keeping her distance is enough to ruin our friendship.

Her signs if it helps. Aquarius sun, taurus moon, venus capricorn, scorpio mars.

Thanks for the insight. I can't judge which side of the fence she's on. When I look at her aquarius traits I can her he liking me. If I look at the taurus moon it's just a feeling of simple and safe. I was confused until I just accepted that she'll be on the fence for a whole. I don't think I want to be involved in this much longer. It's fun and dramatic hanging out with her. This is unlike my last relationship that was just boring.

She's using you. I unfortunately love doing stuff like this. I enjoy using and playing with guys that like me. Its kind of like playing with a cat toy. I don't want to lose the attention so i keep them around when they start to retreat I give them enough to stay and I use men to make other men jealous all the time. It is ridiculously entertaining as fucked up as it is. She may like u an inkling but if it came down to actually doing something about it she'd run. We know how to drive men crazy when we want them or don't and both are entertaining. Sorry if this is frank its just my personality and sounds a lot like what other aquarious's I know do to. If we like you... YOU WILL KNOW.

I do love getting called out on my bullshit and getting checked. It might be way to seriously get her attention if not ignoring her when she's throwing you crumbs will drive her fucking crazy thats the only way to flip the switch on me. I start over analyzing and thinking about what i might have fucked up and try to actually get the man i have to chase.

i talk to an aqua man and he does the q thing everytime.... so weird and random lmao

Dealt with an Aqua sun Taurus Moon, they play people like fiddles. Ive sat and watch them do it to other people, and they are so smooth they'll have you thinking they wont do it to you, but THEY WILL if they are emotionally immature. Ill tell you EXACTLY what to do ........................ IGNORE HER. They act like they dont care but they do. The dont care act, is the biggest misconception about Aqaus, they care ALOT, they just are MASTERS of hiding there true feelings. Get an Aquarian DRUNK, and you'll see EXACTLY how they feel. If you notice alot of them dont like to get drunk around you, because thats when they release there true feelings. Thats how I found out they HATE to be ignored, and LOVE attention and admiration. Ignore her and keep your EMOTIONS out of the situation, put your emotions into another girl and ignore her and watch how Aqua will try to get back into your life. Make it to the point where she has to meet you and is eager to see you, not you seeing her. If you have a pretty girl you can show you are with thats even better, they def get jealous, they just act like they dont really well. Aqua ignored me, we did the "friend" thing, showed her some girls that were pursuing me that I was ignoring, (make sure they look good), didnt mind letting her know because we were just "friends". Her "interest" in me magically appeared out of nowhere.

Posted by virgotruth
Dealt with an Aqua sun Taurus Moon, they play people like fiddles. Ive sat and watch them do it to other people, and they are so smooth they'll have you thinking they wont do it to you, but THEY WILL if they are emotionally immature. Ill tell you EXACTLY what to do ........................ IGNORE HER. They act like they dont care but they do. The dont care act, is the biggest misconception about Aqaus, they care ALOT, they just are MASTERS of hiding there true feelings. Get an Aquarian DRUNK, and you'll see EXACTLY how they feel. If you notice alot of them dont like to get drunk around you, because thats when they release there true feelings. Thats how I found out they HATE to be ignored, and LOVE attention and admiration. Ignore her and keep your EMOTIONS out of the situation, put your emotions into another girl and ignore her and watch how Aqua will try to get back into your life. Make it to the point where she has to meet you and is eager to see you, not you seeing her. If you have a pretty girl you can show you are with thats even better, they def get jealous, they just act like they dont really well. Aqua ignored me, we did the "friend" thing, showed her some girls that were pursuing me that I was ignoring, (make sure they look good), didnt mind letting her know because we were just "friends". Her "interest" in me magically appeared out of nowhere.

Very accurate about aquas. That aloofness is a shield to protect ourselves, but you're right. People think we don't care, but we really do. Good thing I don't drink. Lol. As for anyone playing people like fiddles, that's pretty disgusting. This must be an aqua/Taurus combo because I would never use anyone and in fact I hate even leading someone on. I do have Aqua friends who lead people on just because they like the attention they receive from the person being led on. I think that's despicable and I actually call those friends out

Posted by virgotruth
Dealt with an Aqua sun Taurus Moon, they play people like fiddles. Ive sat and watch them do it to other people, and they are so smooth they'll have you thinking they wont do it to you, but THEY WILL if they are emotionally immature. Ill tell you EXACTLY what to do ........................ IGNORE HER. They act like they dont care but they do. The dont care act, is the biggest misconception about Aqaus, they care ALOT, they just are MASTERS of hiding there true feelings. Get an Aquarian DRUNK, and you'll see EXACTLY how they feel. If you notice alot of them dont like to get drunk around you, because thats when they release there true feelings. Thats how I found out they HATE to be ignored, and LOVE attention and admiration. Ignore her and keep your EMOTIONS out of the situation, put your emotions into another girl and ignore her and watch how Aqua will try to get back into your life. Make it to the point where she has to meet you and is eager to see you, not you seeing her. If you have a pretty girl you can show you are with thats even better, they def get jealous, they just act like they dont really well. Aqua ignored me, we did the "friend" thing, showed her some girls that were pursuing me that I was ignoring, (make sure they look good), didnt mind letting her know because we were just "friends". Her "interest" in me magically appeared out of nowhere.

Truth right here. My Aqua/Taurus played with me for YEARS, although he would never admit to it. Not until I went no contact did he stop acting like a player and actually showed me his feelings for me. 3 months of no contact, and I never expected him to come back. After that, total commitment.

Well, I may be jumping to conclusions...but if a girl I was with played all these unneeded head games, ignoring bs, assuming they do or don't care and spend all this time elaborating some huge ulterior schemE... Sorry to say, you would've pushed me to girl #2 as well. I'd prefer to just be with her. Just be. Just flow. Not everyone needs to question a blooming flower if it's liking the sun. It just grows.