Another Aquarius Man

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Strongpisces
@Strongpisces
9 Years

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Hello all,

I recently started dating another Aqua man (ugh lol) 3 months ago and things are great when they're great but when they're bad they're awful lol! I just wanted some insight into some of his behavior. I have dated an Aqua male before and I def see some similarities between the two of them in their behavior, emotional aloofness etc at times. Are Aqua men just unable to fully feel emotions as deeply?

My Aqua male is EXTREMELY intelligent and driven. He inspires me so much with his work ethic. Even though he has a good job and a side business he still hustles here and there and is always loooing for ways to improve himself; BUT has a habit of being extremely sarcastic and almost condescending at times. When we first started dating it didn't bother me so much and he says he doesn't intend to come off that way he just doesn't understand how others don't 'get it'. It's almost as if he lacks patience for people who are unlike him intellectually and mentally. It's becoming frustrating now.

He also thinks I'm hypersensitive and whenever we have an issue I try to talk about it, he usually shuts down or doesn't want to talk and then gets distant and/or upset. I just like to talk about how I feel and he doesn't really like to. Are all Aquas this way? Sometimes he's like a robot when it comes to feelings and gets upset when I want to talk about issues etc because he says that it's not a huge deal. I'm so confused. Sometimes I think he's interested and other times I feel like he's losing interest. Maybe we moved too fast? I spend a few nights a week at his place and we typically talk every other day. Help.
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MrR78
@MrR78
8 Years

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I cant speak for Aqua males, but I dated an Aqua female and some of the things you have described in your write up, I can relate to.

Generally speaking (someone better will come along and give specific advice) from experience, they do have an issue talking about emotions, unless they are comfortable in doing so.

There were a few instances with my ex, where she was upset and I asked her to talk about it and she said "I don't want to talk about it." I could clearly see it was bothering her but as she wasn't one to open up I left it.

I told her on numerous occasions to be open and talk to me and we can try to resolve the issue to no avail.

When we split up she did so without giving any explanation or answering my questions in detail. I think they do have a tendency to shut down emotionally when things get too much for them.

In my case its been almost 8 months since my break up, my ex has moved on but the barriers to some degree are still up which to me doesn't make any sense (I am a Leo). So they do have a rather unusual way of dealing with their emotions, which only an Aqua can understand. They can be quite unconventional with things and rebellious.

What is your sign btw - that may help in explaining the behaviour to you in a way you understand as opposed to giving you general advice.