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Scorp moons cant talk their way in and out of emotions, we have to feel our way around.
Talking things out isn't our strong suit.
Talking things out isn't our strong suit.
So from what ive read, his lack of consistency in your eyes gives you pause. Inviting, uninviting, inviting, uninviting.
I dont have an easy answer for this. Inconsistent men dont do it for me.
Also, i get.why his drunken revelation gave you pause. Sometimes we scorp moons have a plan for how things should go. When it doesn't its odd to us and gives us pause.
Also, Leo Suns and Scorp moons like some sort of control in their relationships but so do Aqua suns.
Aqua men also do tend to baby it out when they feel slighted. Dont be suprised if hes an absolute child about things.
Think about if you really want something from this man or just a good time.
I dont have an easy answer for this. Inconsistent men dont do it for me.
Also, i get.why his drunken revelation gave you pause. Sometimes we scorp moons have a plan for how things should go. When it doesn't its odd to us and gives us pause.
Also, Leo Suns and Scorp moons like some sort of control in their relationships but so do Aqua suns.
Aqua men also do tend to baby it out when they feel slighted. Dont be suprised if hes an absolute child about things.
Think about if you really want something from this man or just a good time.
Posted by sultrykittyPosted by aec90Posted by sultrykittyThanks for all the insight sultry 🙂Posted by vanballmoosPosted by sultrykitty
He was drunk, he meant what he said, and now based on your reaction he's either regretting that he was that open to you, or taking the time to consider whether you're worth opening up to again.
Ball's in his court.
If he feels that way (either one) then why did he even contact OP twice after the fact?
To test the waters. Aqua will take one step forward and two steps back if he feels like he went too far. It's classic.
I didn't bring up what he said when he reached out to me but I was still receptive and my usual self. Wasn't that enough of a green light for him?
It could be.
What I noticed about mine is that he doesn't like when girls act like they're expected to when it comes to guys. And they're extremely perceptive. So he may be avoiding you to avoid you asking about that night. And to see if you're going to blow his phone up. It may take a while before he feels like enough time has passed and the "event" has blown over. Once you've gotten to that point, he'll start to be like he was before--IF he feels like you're worth trying again with.
Always be yourself though. If he cares about you, anything that might annoy him about your reactions will be overlooked.
Edited: and yes, they *will* give up easily if they are worried that you might hurt them. Even if they're head over heels.
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OP listen to SultryKitty... I'm a female Aqua and I have the traits
she's describing.... She knows what she's talking about. I will most definitely give up easily if I felt I poured my heart with no response because I don't usually give emotional gestures but when I do if it wasn't met with some acknowledgement I'd be crushed and it'd take me forever to open up again.
Posted by aec90Posted by Pandora101Oh so I'm guessing aquas aren't ones to spill their feelings huh? This is my first aqua guy so I'm still learning.
No, he is not done with, he is just recovering from his extreme openness 🙂 its not easy for aquas to say, what he told you....
just contact him with some fun and nice stuff, be gentle and wait patiently, until he recovers 🙂
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No they are not. If you get some kind of feeling talk from them, rejoice and make sure they are rewarded for it. By reward, I mean to make sure they have no doubt about your feelings as well. They don't go out on a limb often and need to know that limb won't break if they do.
Send him a text and say he's the only one you want to date. Or you haven't had the hots for anyone but him since you met him. Out of the blue is ok. Just don't feel bad if he doesn't respond to it, the fact that he knows is enough.
Posted by DMVno it isn't. water moons aren't at all. not even my husband, who has 12th house.
Scorp moons cant talk their way in and out of emotions, we have to feel our way around.
Talking things out isn't our strong suit.
when I read something that is too papercut/robotic, I have a difficult time even formulating any sentences coherent enough to make a good understanding.
writing in stories and poetry is the best way to do it.
this is the incompatibility of a lot of people. for years, around here people have been telling others what is not good for other people.
so if this aqua man has water placements, especially moon, and moon is in a water house, just leave him alone.
Trust me, you don't want to bother with these men if you keep hounding and harassing them.
they will be DRIVEN to drink because they are deeply emotional and will DRINK themselves to hell because they can't stand nagging women.
something I've noticed too even with water sun men, they HATE nagging women.
my ex pisces sun, hated his mother nagging and nagging. it drove him to drink but yes I know, it's not an excuse but remember ...DEEPLY sensitive people.
edit - he had a scorpio father, who left his mother too
and my husband's mother does NOT nag, she is very compassionate.
the only problems which is HUGE between her ex was the MONEY /financial issue.
my ex pisces sun, hated his mother nagging and nagging. it drove him to drink but yes I know, it's not an excuse but remember ...DEEPLY sensitive people.
edit - he had a scorpio father, who left his mother too
and my husband's mother does NOT nag, she is very compassionate.
the only problems which is HUGE between her ex was the MONEY /financial issue.
Posted by missmissyPosted by ShrewdsharpShrewdsharp, I'm not sure if you saw or not but OP said that her guy has told her before, and sober, that he likes her, enjoys spending time with her etc.Posted by aec90
Met an aqua guy a few months ago and things were going well. Last week we were out bar hopping with some friends and he got drunk. A man was hitting on me and told me "fuck him". "I don't own you and you're free to do what you want but I'm letting you know that if you talk to other guys it's going to hurt my feelings. I like you a lot and there's no one else. You're my baby". He eventually tells me to look at him and pulls me closer and said, "can we stop? let's stop playing games, it's just you and me okay?" I just said okay.
The next day we didn't really talk about it. He then contacted me two days in a row and then went silent on me. Eventually I ran into him and he said he was just joking about saying fuck the other guys and then said he didn't think it was a good idea to go to this formal event together that he had asked me to attend with him weeks ago.
We haven't talked since last week. I guess he's done with us.
Things were fine between us before he got drunk, we event spent 4 days together before this. I'm just very confused...
I don' t he meant it either, I think he just had a few too many. Who wants someone to be drunk to confess their feelings what a mess.
Plus, if you say something while drunk that you don't mean that regret sets in immediately and OP's guy said he remembered what he said,so why not have just said he didn't mean it when he had her in person? Definitely when he contacted her again those next few days later?
It's not like OP brought up what he said and he thought "oh crap I didn't mean what I said and she's gaga over me". OP didn't say anything to him about his drunken rant so why the feel the need to back track a week or so later? All of a sudden, "I was just kidding". He could've told her that in person the very next day but he didn't, because he meant what he said.click to expand
The OP said when he was sober he said he was just joking about saying treetrunk the other guys and then said he didn't think it was a good idea to go to this formal event together that he had asked me to attend with him weeks ago. That doesn't sound like a man who meant what he said
Many people sleep with people when they are drunk that they wouldn't sleep with if they were sober. This man had months to pursue her sober, it wasn't until he got drunk that he whispered sweet nothings. Then we he sobered up he backed off. I would pay more attention to a sober's man actions than a drunk man's action.
Well things ended up working out 🙂
My aqua told me repeatedly how he was sorry for how he handled things.Also repeatedly told me he missed a lot. I said thanks for the apology but it seemed like he was full of it before this. He said he understands why I would think that but he isn't and said he did want to be exclusive.
He was extremely affectionate lol. Forehead kisses, holding my hands, kissing my hands, just kept staring at me all night.
He surprised me with a birthday cake and a gift the next day. He's just been open about his feelings since.
So all is well, thanks for all the advice!
My aqua told me repeatedly how he was sorry for how he handled things.Also repeatedly told me he missed a lot. I said thanks for the apology but it seemed like he was full of it before this. He said he understands why I would think that but he isn't and said he did want to be exclusive.
He was extremely affectionate lol. Forehead kisses, holding my hands, kissing my hands, just kept staring at me all night.
He surprised me with a birthday cake and a gift the next day. He's just been open about his feelings since.
So all is well, thanks for all the advice!
Posted by aec90Good, I know he wasnt "done" . Just remember, Aquas sometimes feel moral hangover after they open up and need to recover from it, if they are not reassured
Well things ended up working out 🙂
My aqua told me repeatedly how he was sorry for how he handled things.Also repeatedly told me he missed a lot. I said thanks for the apology but it seemed like he was full of it before this. He said he understands why I would think that but he isn't and said he did want to be exclusive.
He was extremely affectionate lol. Forehead kisses, holding my hands, kissing my hands, just kept staring at me all night.
He surprised me with a birthday cake and a gift the next day. He's just been open about his feelings since.
So all is well, thanks for all the advice!
good luck and keep us updated 🙂
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