Aqua man is suddenly distant..

So...I met an Aquarius man in August while I was in a relationship. He fell hard for me, quickly..always calling, texting, wanting to see me....spending all of his extra time with me...missing sleep just to make sure he could see my face. I eventually broke up with my now ex in October because to my surprise, I ended up falling for him as well. I also realized that what I had with my ex was a lack in communication and passion. The aqua man brought me on board to his weekend job and we've been working together on weekends for a few months now. We became intimate about 2 months into "talking"...so I don't feel that I rushed and there was definitely a lot of sexual tension leading up to this point. I took my time and made sure that he was someone that I could trust with my intimacy. We talk like best friends...he has brought me into his most inner circle...I've hung out with him and his brother, cousins, go to his kids soccer games and this week he invited me to his daughters school chorus concert. We see each other almost daily...talk daily. He opens up to me and confides in me when he confides in no one else. Tells me that he couldn't possibly turn to anyone else in such vulnerable times. That he can be completely himself around me and it makes him so happy. Ironically, the roles switched and I am now the one who would like a relationship and he wants to take things very slowly. Understandable. I value friendship and getting to know one another over time. Very confused though, seeing as how he begged me to let my walls down, only to still be slightly guarded.

The problem is as of recent. This past weekend, we were working and I found out that he was texting and smiling lovingly at his phone...ended up being a woman he has cared for deeply for 16 years..yet she wont be with him. has slept with him a few times and that's it. I know how aqua men love mysteries and seem to want what they cant have. I'm sure her allure drives him insane. He realized that I was upset and tried to console me even though I didn't really act out..tried to buy me something, make me laugh. Gave me a kiss. but I wouldn't let him buy me anything. Everything went pretty smoothly the next day but that following Monday, he was very distant. Didn't speak to me almost the entirety of the day. When we did finally talk, he was very sweet, flirty...said he needed to see me. We went out to eat that night and on the way there, he told me he really does love me and that he figured it out..that he thought about it intently and realized just how much. smiled goofily at me all night. Kept saying how he thought about me all day and couldn't stop thinking about me/us. he drove me home...we talked..he fell asleep in the car trying to spend at much time with me as possible. I offered to get a hotel room..we went and got one...we were intimate and after, we cuddled the whole night...light kisses felt on my forehead and cheek while I was asleep. Tight hugs. Ever since then, he has been so dis

tant. Not really sure what is going on. He still reaches out and calls..texts..but very short and to the point. Robotic..almost emotionless. I really want to know why he was so expressive in his love and so affectionate, but then completely went and did a 360. I feel almost intrusive to him within a day or two time period. If anyone could lend some advice, I am all ears. I know that I didn't do anything wrong. Kind of upset because I just purchased concert tickets to see The Roots right after Christmas. Music is a big connection between us and I wanted to surpise him. Feeling kind of silly now. Don't really know where to go from here. I want more with him..but even if he only wants a friendship..I'd like to do whatever I can to make that work. I love him..a lot.

Our Charts-

Sun- Aquarius
Moon- Gemini
Rising- Sagittarius
Mercury- Pisces
Mars- Pisces
Venus- Aquarius
Jupiter- Libra
Saturn- Libra
Uranus- Scorpio
Neptune- Sagittarius
Pluto- Libra
North Node- Leo
South Node Aquarius
Chiron- Taurus
Lillith Moon- Scorpio


Me-

Sun- Taurus/Gemini cusp
Moon- Pisces
Rising- Leo
Mercury- Gemini
Mars- Gemini
Venus- Taurus
Jupiter- Aries
Saturn- Sagittarius
Uranus- Sagittarius
Neptune- Capricorn
Pluto- Scorpio
North Node- Aries
South Node- Libra
Chiron- Gemin
Lillith Moon- Cancer

aqua sun gem moon...lol he is probably the male version of a gypsy

Funny because thats how I view myself. I feel like I've met my match. Plus a Sag rising...very free spirited.

Give it some time, see what happens. Don't allow yourself to be insecure about it.