Aqua on rebound

How weird would it be for an Aquarius guy to move in with a rebound girlfriend only a few weeks after a breakup? (He has never lived together with anyone ever since he moved out from his parent's place.)

Does the appartment run under your name? Or both of u? Does he pay for the rent or u alone? Or did you look for a new appartment together?

Posted by AquaNextDoor
Does the appartment run under your name? Or both of u? Does he pay for the rent or u alone? Or did you look for a new appartment together?

I am the one who was dumped. : ) The apartment is his.

The question might be vague, but the particulars could fill a book, or rather an encyclopedia. The question is, does he claim this moving in to hurt me and get into my head and at the same time make it clear that he has moved on after quite a short time honestly.

He may have been dealing with her before you all broke up...so she may not be as new as he's portraying. Which could be the answer to why he moved in so quickly.

I think it's weird for anyone to move in with someone after 3 weeks.....especially after a fresh break up.



But I have talked to an Aquarian guy who I thought moved pretty quickly. Like talking marriage and children after a month or two. Kind of weirded me out.

Posted by happyface1
He may have been dealing with her before you all broke up...so she may not be as new as he's portraying. Which could be the answer to why he moved in so quickly.

I think it's weird for anyone to move in with someone after 3 weeks.....especially after a fresh break up.

Yes, that is a possibility, I know. What puzzles me though is the very fact that he can endure the company of anyone in his small flat. (Also, he dumped me, but I did something stupid. Not cheating, not break of trust, just something annoying and he, impatient and irritable as he is, has had enough.)

Posted by happyface1
He may have been dealing with her before you all broke up...so she may not be as new as he's portraying. Which could be the answer to why he moved in so quickly.

I think it's weird for anyone to move in with someone after 3 weeks.....especially after a fresh break up.



But I have talked to an Aquarian guy who I thought moved pretty quickly. Like talking marriage and children after a month or two. Kind of weirded me out.

My Aqua is 50 years old, doesn't want children, and NEVER shared a flat with anyone for other than a day. I have known him for 15 years, by now I know all the love stories in his life, from him, and from others. 🙂 But all is possible, also I can totally see him doing this just to prove everybody wrong lol

Posted by workingirl

Posted by happyface1
He may have been dealing with her before you all broke up...so she may not be as new as he's portraying. Which could be the answer to why he moved in so quickly.

I think it's weird for anyone to move in with someone after 3 weeks.....especially after a fresh break up.



But I have talked to an Aquarian guy who I thought moved pretty quickly. Like talking marriage and children after a month or two. Kind of weirded me out.

My Aqua is 50 years old, doesn't want children, and NEVER shared a flat with anyone for other than a day. I have known him for 15 years, by now I know all the love stories in his life, from him, and from others. 🙂 But all is possible, also I can totally see him doing this just to prove everybody wrong lol

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I've never seriously dated an Aqua...maybe he doesn't want to be alone after being used to being in a relationship with you for so long...like trying to numb the emptiness with a quick fix

Im aquarius woman, and i can tell you that we usually do weird things and we sometimes "ME" take decisions in 1 second, is pretty sure he knows that person from before, even if they were not dating, for us to move and live and share our lives w someone needs to be somebody we know and we trust and feel comfortable around that person... I woulndt walk a mile with someone i dont know well.

He is trying to move forward with life. Or it could be that the lady he's dating insisted that they move in together so she can monitor his movements cause the Aqua detachment characteristics can really drive a lady into serious insecurities. So if she lives with him , she has full control over his movements including you cropping back to him. Don't be jealous though , cause it won't be happily ever after. He'll sneak out to come win u back, most men do that whn a gal moves in with them too quick , they get bored of them.

I get more of a Mid Life Crisis feel, than an Aqua feel.

Oops.. Forgot to write an update. The moving in was not true. A male friend went to see him, just casually, and my Aqua doesn't know he told me... I did not confront him, guess it was his way of trying to set boundaries for me and himself, I don't. I can't blame him, he has all this wild stories about crazy women handling breakups the most horrible way in the past, like lurking around his house, threats, sending harassing emails lol. So, there's things for us to work out if this is ever going to go anywhere in its own unique way, which would be cool. Like, he has so many prejudice from crazy past experiences that it was hard for me to deal with it when the chips were down and he has so many quirks that I need to accept because they aren't going to change and to be honest they are cute as heck, just not always so in the heat of the moment or when I'm feeling down in general. So, my tactic is going to be this: I'm gonna blow his mind again, and show him that I am much more mindblowing that he ever gave me credit for. Some time later. Until then we do need a little separation and then perhaps can be friends first. One totally good thing coming out of this breakup is our ability to talk openly and with ease about everything, not just silly light stuff. I miss him like crazy because he is my buddy and that's not likely to change. Hope he feels something similar, too. End of story, for now. : )