Aquarius

How do you detach from emotions? Im not an Aquarius but i have alot of aqua friends my sister gives good advise i ask her all the time...how do i not care. I wish i was like her in some ways I hate being a cancer who cares all the time. I dont show my emotions but in rel things bother me. My sister can easily just let ppl go not care me on the other hand not so much.

My mom Aquarius moon her my sister will x a rel real quick. They kind of like players in a way. My sister neber gives 100 of her she has a guard up so does my mom they get what they want from ppl me on the other hand i feel bad to do that I always get hurt too

Yeah sweetie we are like that unfortunately. There's no way we would change. Your sister here, I always get hurt too.

Aquas a built like that! I am always the one who dumps people, never been dumped, and I have noticed that in all those whom I dump, they still want me even today.

Posted by Aquastic
Aquas a built like that! I am always the one who dumps people, never been dumped, and I have noticed that in all those whom I dump, they still want me even today.

And I also mean friends, toxic family members, jobs, anything. When it serves no purpose in my life I let go, but it is never easy, for an aqua to come to a decision to let go, you must have really pissed them off to the core, and there is no turning back!

Ever heard of fake it til you make it?

I'm not exactly the best aqua to ask but I usually give it my all before I give up on anyone.

Posted by aquasnoz
Ever heard of fake it til you make it?

I'm not exactly the best aqua to ask but I usually give it my all before I give up on anyone.

pretty much this.

Aquas do care they just have a great poker face.

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I agree

Posted by kissmygrits
Aquas do care they just have a great poker face.

Ok how do u manage with ur poker face?

Posted by lovely77

Posted by kissmygrits
Aquas do care they just have a great poker face.

Ok how do u manage with ur poker face?

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you either have one or you don't lol

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Posted by kissmygrits
Aquas do care they just have a great poker face.

Ok how do u manage with ur poker face?

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I'm a Cancer. My brother is an Aqua. They just do it. He thinks whatever is bothering him is his alone to handle. It drives me crazy sometimes but I deal with it. LOL!

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Posted by kissmygrits
Aquas do care they just have a great poker face.

Ok how do u manage with ur poker face?

I'm a Cancer. My brother is an Aqua. They just do it. He thinks whatever is bothering him is his alone to handle. It drives me crazy sometimes but I deal with it. LOL!

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I like your bro, I think we'll get along.

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Posted by kissmygrits
Aquas do care they just have a great poker face.

Ok how do u manage with ur poker face?

I'm a Cancer. My brother is an Aqua. They just do it. He thinks whatever is bothering him is his alone to handle. It drives me crazy sometimes but I deal with it. LOL!

I like your bro, I think we'll get along.

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He's pretty cool. We're not just siblings we are best frands. In school we threw the best parties. 😄

I think you hit the nail on the head though.

A lot of what I go through (especially emotions) is for me only so when you think of it like that it's a lot easier to detach it from other people because everything is formed by our head, it has nothing to do with the other person and by that logic it's only us that can control how we act and feel to whatever situation it is.

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Posted by kissmygrits
Aquas do care they just have a great poker face.

Ok how do u manage with ur poker face?

I'm a Cancer. My brother is an Aqua. They just do it. He thinks whatever is bothering him is his alone to handle. It drives me crazy sometimes but I deal with it. LOL!

I like your bro, I think we'll get along.

He's pretty cool. We're not just siblings we are best frands. In school we threw the best parties. 😄

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Loll i can relate my sister was the cool kid. Aquarius def have swag popularity. I know things bother them but there good at the poker face walk away game ppl chase them go crazy over them

just don't pry lol.

I usually say to my aqua friends "well I'm not beating around the bush, spill it all our when you're ready so I can get ready to care"

Posted by aquasnoz
I think you hit the nail on the head though.

A lot of what I go through (especially emotions) is for me only so when you think of it like that it's a lot easier to detach it from other people because everything is formed by our head, it has nothing to do with the other person and by that logic it's only us that can control how we act and feel to whatever situation it is.

Yes exactly. I see my brother putting on a front when I know better. I just let it be known "hey I'm here if you need to vent". Sometimes he does, sometimes he takes it out on the xbox.

It's interesting that you asked this question, because I (a fellow Cancerian) was going to ask the same thing, haha.
I'm so envious of how Aquarians can just turn that switch off.
What goes through your minds about the other person that allows you to just stop caring?
Please tell us your secrets! 😉

Interesting question.

Aquas don't show it. We just come across as something isn't fazing is but deep down we're crying. We truly live in our heads and inside we are doing our own therapy. There's several reasons why we don't put our emotions on display

1) Ours to deal with it alone;
2) We don't want to burden someone else with our woes;
3) They won't get what we're feeling;
4) No one will do our therapy better than our own self.

Posted by Keres
It's interesting that you asked this question, because I (a fellow Cancerian) was going to ask the same thing, haha.
I'm so envious of how Aquarians can just turn that switch off.
What goes through your minds about the other person that allows you to just stop caring?
Please tell us your secrets! 😉

Exactly lol i need to know the juice

As a fiery Aqua i wish i was better at this. I can do it with some stuff in my life but when it comes to emotions, nope, nope, nope... I blame my Saggie bits. I wear my heart on my sleeve.. thanks Sag moon, mars, venus.. you get the point. 😆

Posted by Aqualady84
I'm an aqua sun, cancer moon, scorp Mars so I'm a mess lol. I can give a F about most things and I've had people tell me I play games, don't seem like I have compassion or care etc. BUT if I fall for someone who is just as laissez-faire as I am it presents a challenge and I end up getting my feelings hurt. After going into hermit mode to research my feelings and behavior I come back unphased a couple of days. My new fav. Term is "unfuckwithable". I too have past lovers that would take me back in a heartbeat. LOL just a mess I tell ya!

Lol it's funny how past lover are hanging around waiting for us to change our minds about them.It's unfortunate sometimes that when we fall out of love , there is no changing it.

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Posted by Keres
It's interesting that you asked this question, because I (a fellow Cancerian) was going to ask the same thing, haha.
I'm so envious of how Aquarians can just turn that switch off.
What goes through your minds about the other person that allows you to just stop caring?
Please tell us your secrets! 😉

How much we hate them and they ruined our lives..

I internalize my anger so much towards someone, it boils like hot lava but on the surface you just see me brushing it off.

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So true