I slept w/Aquarian

I made a post a few days ago about how Aquarius cancelled on me, well now we finally, the other day we met up again for our second time, this time we had sex. And it was good. So good I can't get it out if my head. The next day he messages me and asks if I'm free that day, I said yeah and asked if he wanted to come over to mine this time, and he said sure and that hell be over that night, then, surprise surprise he canceled on me last minute, again - I messaged him this morning and asked if he was free tonight - now he's ignoring me, he hasn't even bothered to open my text but he's posting on social media.

I saw potiental relationship but now that we've had sex this is all I'm wanting rn - is that a problem for Aquarius? Or is being too "available" a turn off for him? though being a Taurus I'll probably fall in love sooner or later with just a sexual connection but rn idec.

Side note: the first time we met he did mention he also had a crush on another girl but that's all I know about that. Idk if they have met or anything else.

Oh I forgot to add, "why is he ignoring me?"

Be blunt I really don't mind if y'all bring bad news and say "he just wanted to have sex" or "he's not into you" I can handle it.

.... You know the answer.

Posted by Hemispheres
.... You know the answer.

If I did I wouldn't have made a post...

Posted by Koniucha
To me, it would totally turn me off if he said he had a crush on someone else.

That's exactly what I thought, too.

OP, you pretty much signed up for FWB. He told you upfront he was checking for someone else. You sent him the message that you non-verbally agreed to be the temporary distraction until he can get the one he wants by even continuing on with this.

do the same thing he is doing.... ignore him, we hate to be ignore....act like u dont care, that drives us crazy when we see somebody we intimate act like they dont care...if he talks to u... do the same thing he is doing now... haha... we are weird creatures!!

and if you want to talk to him... ask him straight up... ask him to be blunt and he will be.... well we always are... thats why he told u about the other girl.

if he got a glimpse of you falling for him, that could of be the reason why he walked away...... i did the same thing when one guy i was hooking up told me he loves me.... i left him without warning.... same as your guy... never answered him. and made myself unavailable.... cuz i knew i wasnt feeling the same way and i didnt wanted to play him.

You already had concerns whether he was into you or not, concerns about him canceling, concerns about another girl. Did you think sex would change things?

Cancel on him next time.

Posted by xshizzera
do the same thing he is doing.... ignore him, we hate to be ignore....act like u dont care, that drives us crazy when we see somebody we intimate act like they dont care...if he talks to u... do the same thing he is doing now... haha... we are weird creatures!!

and if you want to talk to him... ask him straight up... ask him to be blunt and he will be.... well we always are... thats why he told u about the other girl.

if he got a glimpse of you falling for him, that could of be the reason why he walked away...... i did the same thing when one guy i was hooking up told me he loves me.... i left him without warning.... same as your guy... never answered him. and made myself unavailable.... cuz i knew i wasnt feeling the same way and i didnt wanted to play him.

Every time I make a post about aqua, everyone guesses I'm on some other level than him. There are zero feelings for this guy, us Taurus only really fall for people we know KNOW. So the desires I have for him currently are only sexual. And the other girl would only bother me if we at least had a "thing" otherwise when has there honestly been a time where you've only been interested in one person at a time...

Thanks for the advice tho, I guess if he does contact me back I'll ignore him or does sounding unavailable all the time better? Idk.

Posted by killerwhalemoon
Do you guys have mental chemistry? Not just physical and "we like the same colors" kinda chemistry. If you cant win over an aquas mind and be on the same page as us you have no luck.

No we don't, not yet? But I'm not really seeing a relationship with him at this moment, I really just want the sex to be regular cause it was good.

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Posted by xshizzera
do the same thing he is doing.... ignore him, we hate to be ignore....act like u dont care, that drives us crazy when we see somebody we intimate act like they dont care...if he talks to u... do the same thing he is doing now... haha... we are weird creatures!!

and if you want to talk to him... ask him straight up... ask him to be blunt and he will be.... well we always are... thats why he told u about the other girl.

if he got a glimpse of you falling for him, that could of be the reason why he walked away...... i did the same thing when one guy i was hooking up told me he loves me.... i left him without warning.... same as your guy... never answered him. and made myself unavailable.... cuz i knew i wasnt feeling the same way and i didnt wanted to play him.

Every time I make a post about aqua, everyone guesses I'm on some other level than him. There are zero feelings for this guy, us Taurus only really fall for people we know KNOW. So the desires I have for him currently are only sexual. And the other girl would only bother me if we at least had a "thing" otherwise when has there honestly been a time where you've only been interested in one person at a time...

Thanks for the advice tho, I guess if he does contact me back I'll ignore him or does sounding unavailable all the time better? Idk.

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Wait, wait, you just need advice to keep the sex on the regular? Jesus, just ask him. "I like you, you're great, the sex is amazing, but I don't want a relationship, are you cool with that?" Some Aquas don't care that much, some Aquas care too much (oh watery Aquas you poor things), but either way, other than Sags and Aries, we're the sign you can be blunt and honest with.

Posted by rungs
I made a post a few days ago about how Aquarius cancelled on me, well now we finally, the other day we met up again for our second time, this time we had sex.

I saw potiental relationship but now that we've had sex this is all I'm wanting rn - is that a problem for Aquarius?

Or is being too "available" a turn off for him?

No and no. The problem here isn't that you had sex with him too soon or are too available.

The problem is you allowed his behavior, didn't call him out on standing you up, and then took it one step further by REWARDING him with sex.

You've set the precedent. He knows he can blow you off and go ghost on you but as soon as he calls/texts you'll answer with open legs.

I also wanted to add, this is a personality thing, not an AQUA thing

whats his venus moon, mars merc??

cause if he's a Scorpio moon, his libido probably is excellent for your taurus sun.

Remember, Robbie Williams Aqua sun/Scorpio moon/taurus mars (OOPS.... taurus mars libido there)

is married to a Taurus sun/Aqua moon/Aries venus.

sooooooooo look for the MARS/ house aspects

to keep on having a good time. 😄 😄

anyway, he's a jerk or basically flipping you off. and he knows it. he dont give two fucks. his dick only cares.

if you can get BOTH, his dick and his mind, you're IN.

emotionally he will want to FEEEL you, though. so there has to be a connection:

Posted by Westsidekodak
Women give the worst advice I swear.

Seriously

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Posted by capricornmoon

Posted by Westsidekodak
Women give the worst advice I swear.

Well WWWSKD? Oh wise one, lol

Say to yourself that he doesn't care because he stood me up and doesn't respect me. And its time to find someone who can love me wholeheartedly, not keep giving myself to people who dont deserve my time, let alone my body.

But that's just a cats POV.

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This +1000

Unless of course you don't mind being used.

Posted by Arielle83
Well he cancelled cuz the other chick was probably free and he wanted to try her on for size - around his penis.

He told you there are others so don't expect him to be consistent, you're just dating.

😆

i remember the study that was done in the UK,some institute i was watching years ago, which i mentioned on here...

and they picked out a bunch of men, to look at stuff and describe it.

also they had these men go into a kind of control group vs. free group or whatever it is...

and the scientists gave them something to stimulate their dicks.

they were hard for putting their dicks into anything!!! i

it's been awhile, but i remember that research, and how men just put it into anything. gross.

Posted by rungs
Oh I forgot to add, "why is he ignoring me?"

Be blunt I really don't mind if y'all bring bad news and say "he just wanted to have sex" or "he's not into you" I can handle it.

He got what he wanted. Sex. You state you just want the sex but you making this thread, the other one says otherwise. You are interested or you wouldn't be questioning what was happening.

Pick your dudes wisely and have the conversations and set boundaries before participating in sex. Makes life so much easier.

Oh gosh, does anyone ever bother to read the comments? I'm not in love with the dude or interested in him that way, I'm a Taurus, I fall in love with more than a penis. I need our connection to be physically, spiritual, mental and social. Just because I'm a girl, doesn't mean I want romantic advice, ffs, if he's trying to use me maybe idm cause I'll end up using him right back for sex?

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Posted by Westsidekodak

Posted by capricornmoon

Posted by Westsidekodak
Women give the worst advice I swear.

Well WWWSKD? Oh wise one, lol

Say to yourself that he doesn't care because he stood me up and doesn't respect me. And its time to find someone who can love me wholeheartedly, not keep giving myself to people who dont deserve my time, let alone my body.

But that's just a cats POV.

This +1000

Unless of course you don't mind being used.

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I hope your comment is aimed at bother sex's.

Posted by lisabethur8
whats his venus moon, mars merc??

cause if he's a Scorpio moon, his libido probably is excellent for your taurus sun.

Remember, Robbie Williams Aqua sun/Scorpio moon/taurus mars (OOPS.... taurus mars libido there)

is married to a Taurus sun/Aqua moon/Aries venus.

sooooooooo look for the MARS/ house aspects

to keep on having a good time. 😄 😄

anyway, he's a jerk or basically flipping you off. and he knows it. he dont give two fucks. his dick only cares.

if you can get BOTH, his dick and his mind, you're IN.

emotionally he will want to FEEEL you, though. so there has to be a connection:

I have no idea. I don't know him well enough to ask where and what time he was born lol

Posted by rungs
Oh gosh, does anyone ever bother to read the comments? I'm not in love with the dude or interested in him that way, I'm a Taurus, I fall in love with more than a penis. I need our connection to be physically, spiritual, mental and social. Just because I'm a girl, doesn't mean I want romantic advice, ffs, if he's trying to use me maybe idm cause I'll end up using him right back for sex?

So WTF do you bring this on dxpnet? If you just want some dick, there are specialised sites where you can get some.

This Aqua is interested in other women. He doesn't want your private bits whenever you offer them. Have some dignity, FFS!

Maybe it wasn't as amazing for him?