Aquarius and Virgo Compatibility

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Posted by 69virgo
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These two signs seem to always pair up, especially Aqua female and Virgo male. It leads to marriage without divorce for many couplings. Considered a successful partnership. But I believe there is an amount of coldness inherent in the coupling. Sort of like chills sometimes, but apparently it works



But I believe there is coldness* that's how rumours get started right there! If you're not speaking facts,don't speak at all...it ain't no more coldness then any other relationship...
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Ok I believe I do have lack of specific knowledge, so I am backing out on this one.
You do seem very happy btw, 69Virgo.. so I believe it's not cold, it's just the winter breeze coming in right now.
Anyway, Aquarius seems a bit earthy to me, just a bit.. and virgo is an earth sign, but mutable one, so I think it's an almst perfect union. Aqua (females usually) seem to be endeared by the virgonic male practical intelligence.. it seems to charm them. So... anyway I have witness successful unions. If you have kids may I know what signs they are?
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Has anyone ever dated or been in a relationship with a Virgo? and if so, how did things work out? I've read that these signs are not compatible..I'm struggling with a virgo that i'm currently dating lol



What do you wanna know? Yes my wife is a 1/22 aqua,been together 22 wonderful years..😉 I'm 9/3 by the way...synastry in out charts is...her Leo moon my Venus in Leo...are best friends.😉 I'm just babbling ...question?
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his wife is Jan Aqua..a cusper..aqua/cap... like my mom and that is why it has greater chance of working. Many Jan aqua's act more like Cap suns to an extent.
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My friend is Aqua sun taurus moon and her boyfriend is a Virgo.

I heard it works well, You should ask virgo69 he has an aqua wife, although he is cheating her with a Saggi...

might work well for the virgo in the end.

Some Virgo men are a bit pervert, lol. Although I believe I cannot generalize on all.



her taurus moon would mesh with virgo because we often act more like our sun sign as we age.
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Well I know I was crazy about one a few months ago..we were seeing each other *I am a Virgo;Aqua* and MAN when it was good it was good....but it seemed to be more bad between us. He kept saying he loved me all the time.. I mean ALL the time...was the first one to say it. His actions to me did not match up to it but mine did! We have not talked since Sep..he wont even respond to email..so I left it alone*We had a big fight..he would say mean things alot..and I felt like I was walking on glass and did not want to say anything to rock it* But I keep actracting Aqua men..lol..so I don't know. I know an Aqua guy and Virgo woman who is married..he loves her to death! lol..I loved our convos,closness but he seemed more angry to me. Dont know if that is an Aqua trait or just a hurt man trait. Either way I love him..I just had to let it go emotionally..now eehh..blank.
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sorry i haven't responded guys! been crazy with the holidays and all..the reason i ask this question is because i've been dating a virgo chick for a while (i'm an aquarius chick)...about 5 months now and things still haven't been made official..im TERRIBLE at expressing my emotions and how i feel about her whenever we do see each other..she has opened up to me a little bit a few times but i feel like we are both holding back from really expressing our emotions...ahh i'll have to continue typing the rest later i gotta go to work! lol but anyway, do u guys think 5 months is long enough to be dating eachother? shouldn't things be taken to the next level? i sure want them to..
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sorry i haven't responded guys! been crazy with the holidays and all..the reason i ask this question is because i've been dating a virgo chick for a while (i'm an aquarius chick)...about 5 months now and things still haven't been made official..im TERRIBLE at expressing my emotions and how i feel about her whenever we do see each other..she has opened up to me a little bit a few times but i feel like we are both holding back from really expressing our emotions...ahh i'll have to continue typing the rest later i gotta go to work! lol but anyway, do u guys think 5 months is long enough to be dating eachother? shouldn't things be taken to the next level? i sure want them to..




Yes. You know she has feelings for you so what exactly are you afraid of? Getting what you want? Rejection doesn't seem likely here.
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let me copy and paste something i posted in another thread:

So this month makes 5 months since we've started dating and there still hasn't been any topic of commitment that was brought up yet..i'm an aquarius and its pretty tough for me to talk about such a topic with her and emotions in general..till this day she still does the push-pull actions but it hasn't been AS often as it used to when we first started dating..she did make it a point that she didn't want a relationship (in general) because she wanted to focus on school and finish her stuff before she gets into a relationship..i pretty much threw in the towel mentally and detached myself from the situation and didn't put much effort anymore in contacting her..i noticed when i did this she blew up my phone like crazy after a week of not talking to me..texting/calling me every day/night..we hung out this past weekend and she was the one who asked me to come over..we went out for a bit and at the end of the night she admitted to me that i was the only one who she makes time for to see during the week..she told me that she doesn't make time to see her friends really, but for me she does. i didn't really know how to respond to that you know, i didn't want to fall back into things and feel vulnerable and just told her i appreciated that..i feel like shes giving me mixed signals and i'm still just keeping things cool and not getting wrapped up again like how i was when we first started dating..i
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continued..
.i just don't want to feel disappointed..any thoughts on the sitch? should i even bother keeping up with this chick?



i saw her briefly last week..we went for some coffee but i didn't have time to get into a serious convo about "us" because she had to go to a dr.'s appointment in an hour..i spoke to her today while i was at work and she told me she misses me and wants to see me...i told her i was free tonight after work and she said to come over...plans got cancelled because she ended up going out earlier and was still out...ehh of course i was disappointed but now i'm just whatever with it, i'm getting used to her ways now lol..i just don't know if i should keep persuing this or let if fizzle out..i do still have feelings for her but the way she's been acting makes it seem like she doesn't..idk what to think honestly, i know she is interested in me since she stuck around for this long..feedback? i wanted to talk to her tonight about everything but that opportunity failed lol
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These two signs seem to always pair up, especially Aqua female and Virgo male. It leads to marriage without divorce for many couplings. Considered a successful partnership. But I believe there is an amount of coldness inherent in the coupling. Sort of like chills sometimes, but apparently it works



But I believe there is coldness* that's how rumours get started right there! If you're not speaking facts,don't speak at all...it ain't no more coldness then any other relationship...
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I could say virgo is maybe the most emotional sign of all... a bit egocentric here and there.
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Posted by risingabovethemasses
gotta keep in mind that i have an Aqua Moon virgo69 so go figure 🙂 and am fascinated by how detached i can be... hahaha

hey that,s a nice moon, my father has it. he is a libra, but he isn,t a libra he is an aquarius.

he has principles in fact it says it,s typical of the aquarius moon, he has all the traits of an aquarius especially because of the sun of libra being the one representing justice, he is sociable and has lots of friends, the libras i know are so full of their narcissistic shit (and they arent that goodlooking!) that miss out the idea of justice and friendship.


so ya i love that moon.
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hey guys just an update on the situation with this virgal..i think i'm just gona give up on this chick lol..we were supposed to see eachother this past week..she bailed on me twice already including today for school reasons (shes a grad student taking a class online)..i'm getting sick of her excuses..i guess its time for me to move on..i'm getting the impression that she's not interested anymore after 5 months of dating..i'm surprised she stuck around this long..thoughts?
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Posted by nyc125
you cant give up my dude just be patient, That grad class its probably whats on her mind, virgos take their school matters VERRRYY seriously. TO the point where they wouldnt even mention it to any one because it might get them out of their zone. when virgoes arent interested in someone they tell them straight up. just be busy and everyhting will fall into place



I knowwww..i'm trying to be patient..i actually saw her this past weekend, it wasn't so bad..we kissed, held hands and such so I'm taking it that she's still interested..i noticed when we're around others though (i.e. her friends) she doesn't like to do that stuff, very reserved..but when its just me and her shes more touchy-feely with me..I guess i felt that i should give up because this month makes 6 months of dating and not being exclusive...isn't that a long time? even for a virgo? i want to take things to the next level..i didn't get a chance to talk to her about that kind of stuff because we ended up going to a party..ahh hopefully next time, who knows when that will be when i see her lol
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hey guys just an update on my situation with the virgo gal i??ve been dating (i have posted above before on my sitch). This month makes 6 months of dating, still not official! crazy right? She went away for 5 days with her friends for a mini vacay and i didn't hear from her the whole time. The communication between is MUCH better than it was the past few months we've been dating. I didn't expect her to contact me during her trip. THe day she came back she blew up my phone like crazy and wanted to come see me. Now keep in mind, she has NEVER been to my house before. I always went to her place. this is the FIRST time she came over! all those other times i would invite her, she would come up with an excuse last minute to not come. leaving me dissapointed. I think this is a big step on her part hahaha cuz i was honestly shocked when she actually came to see me. She stayed for a little while, not too long because she had to head home and get some rest. I didn't get a chance to talk to her on a more deeper level about being officially in a relationship with her. The next time i see her i will definitely bring it up and find out where she stands between us. 6 MOnths of dating is the longest i??ve ever done with one person lol. usually i'm in a relationship within 3-4 months the most! I'm an aquarius and i'm verrrry attracted to this girl even though she put me through emotional hell when she did the push-pull thing with me hahaha but i can't seem to let go of her. I haven't heard from her since I saw her, I'm guessing she's taking time to analyze things again, being it was her first time ever to come to my house. what do you guys thinK? i??ve been trying to get in contact with her but no answer to my calls or texts. oh well, i guess i gotta wait another week to hear from her once again lol. i'm so used to it already. she's definitely still interested in me though if shes stuck around for this long right? thanks guys!
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As a virgo male, I felt Aqua girls can be so cold. They seem to have a big ego and they talk too highly of themselves.
That said, first meeting is amazing - it's instant familiarity and attraction. The intellectual discussion is great and for us virgos, stimulating. All in all, aquarius women confuse me - it's a sort of love/hate situation as the big plan thinking and mental strength is certainly admirable.
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All 3 of my past relationships have been with virgo men (I'm an aqua female). Definite chemistry between us (nothing earth shattering though - I have that with my current aqua man 🙂) but at least with me, no potential for long term success. Clearly, since we are not together and there is no chance for it.

Great friends, excellent mental stimulation, but the romance just wasn't there for the last 2 of the 3. Oddly enough, my first virgo boyfriend (we were in high school at the time) was the most romantic young man! He spoiled me for the rest. We are still friends (as I am with all the other virgo exes) but he has since lost his romantic side. I shake my fist at the cold cold world and his exes who might have ruined him! (Oh. Maybe that was me? Whoops.) But the other two GROWN virgo men I've dated had no romantic side whatsoever. They were night and day though. One was the worst boyfriend ever, but there was definite chemistry but he was manipulative and a liar. The other was a virgo-libra cusper who was so rigid and set in his ways, that my freespirit aqua tendencies (which ironically drew him in in the first place) eventually wore on him, with him calling me "so dramatic" any chance he got.

My bestest friend/soulsista is a virgo female, however. I have the deepest love/hate relationship with her though. She is the most interesting, fascinating, passion-filled person I've ever known, yet she frustrates me like no one else can.