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Aquarius do you avoid confrontation or welcome them? (Page 2)
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Confrontation i come across mainly is verbal from personal relationships usually, and when it happens i stand my ground and become constructively stern. Setting the vibe and using a respectful sincere tone, has almost always worked for me to re-calibrate intense emotions and get past whatever issues arise.
Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
Aquarius males welcome physical confrontation with another man as long as there's another man around who will have their back.Lol bunching all the apples in the basket i see. From my own personal experiences, i never inflated my sense of self with friends around me. I've trained in multiple martial disciplines most of my life but not once did i ever act tough or go looking to fight just cause. Highly moronic behavior and superficial if those are the aquas you've come across.
Unfortunately those are the type of Aqua males I've come across.
If it doesn't apply to you then don't take it personally. Otherwise it makes you look like you're overcompensating because something I said must ring true for you.
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@alicia Nothing personal taken here. Benefit of the doubt, when i read ur post I was assuming you were talking about previous experiences. I apologize if it seems i came at you a bit too direct.
for me I avoid confrontation, I don't want trouble.
I don't get bothered in real life. so it makes me very happy and PEACEFUL.
my husband is the same way. he wants PEACE.
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could be because we are homebodies and love our peace. we love the countryside and go on vacations in the countryside every year.
this year to the U.S., and maybe Canada and the islands.
Posted by aquanib
Because your ego doesn't allow you to take shit, so every once in a while, the foot must come down hard to reassert yourself.
if someone comes at me, what am I suppose to do?
be a doormat?
I don't have people bothering me so it's good and peaceful.
Posted by librawomen7
I am trying to figure out why I don't avoid confrontation - I am Libra Sun, with an Aquarius moon. I thought it was the Aquarius moon that caused the confrontational nature.Libra, you arn't argumentative, but you have an affinity for fairness and discussion, what you may try to avoid, is someone being overly dramatic and emotional.
You didn't answer her question, you chose to evade by deflecting.
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I chose to give her a little more insight, than just no, Aqua Moons arn't confrontational. The starting point for every Aqua Moon I know is "Emotions are Messy" and that attitude is adjusted through mars, and filtered through mercury.
Try finding ways to relax and be calm. Stay away from snapped and anger movies. My ex loved watching snapped all day ¶
Posted by Shrewdsharpe
I like the episode with Monique Johnson I think - she snapped and shot Tony the policeman.
I remember that episode she just got four years for shooting a police officer.
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
I avoid confrontation because I go overboard when I'm confronted and its hard to predict what i'll do when I'm confronted.....I know its because I over think things I tend to get excited when I smell blood in the water I will either go for the jugular or diffuse depending on the situation.there are times when I let things slide, and then take my revenge out in non direct ways like cleaning the toilet with said persons tooth brush, or piss in their shampoo bottle so I get some satisfaction but its never enough hahah
What' up with you and the Libra?
Posted by librawomen7
I am trying to figure out why I don't avoid confrontation - I am Libra Sun, with an Aquarius moon. I thought it was the Aquarius moon that caused the confrontational nature.If your moon is opposite or square in your natal chart, you don't naturally develop the detachment from anger that Aqua moons are known for. If its conjunct, even an Aqua Moon would be like "You just piss me off, bye Felicia", because Moon conjunt Mars people are highly excitable
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LOL, whose Felicia.?
The only Virgo I have is my Asc, I'm an Aqua Stellium, Sun-Moon-Merc-Venus. But just to add some spice to that, I have Mars in Cancer opposite Moon *smh*
Out of those who have their moon aspected by mars, the prevailing theory is that trine/sextiles indicate a harmony and least likely to fly off the handle. Conjunctions indicate high emotional intensity both positive and negative, and squares/opposites indicate defensive aggression, as they have a more difficult time dealing with their own emotional vulnerability.
There is something very soothing about you; Why do you supposed Astrologers claim that crazy people are soothed by Aquarius?
Posted by Ryoko
My mother is an Aquarius amd she likes to start shit and enjoys playing the victim.
She is confrontationalSounds familiar.
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Libra sun with an earth rising must be nice to be grounded like that. I am all air. Sun air, moon air, Venus air, Mercury air, I think I do have fire but it's in like in Jupiter or something. I forgot.
Posted by Pair_a_Dice_711
Confrontation i come across mainly is verbal from personal relationships usually, and when it happens i stand my ground and become constructively stern. Setting the vibe and using a respectful sincere tone, has almost always worked for me to re-calibrate intense emotions and get past whatever issues arise.
Damn sounds pretty mature. I can do that if I smoked some weed. But we get random drug tests on the job.
Posted by ElTigre25
Some can be. I had an Aquarius acquaintance ( seems that's as far as a title some of them like to go) who flaked on me. I set a date and time for us to meet up downtown to have drinks. The day of, I called him and the phone rang and rang so I try to reach him by text. (I'm already furious, btw) I'm cussing and telling him how it's a coward move to just ignore my texts/calls and if he couldn't make it he should have communicated that.This dude finally picks up the phone, I start chewing him out because I'm really not trying to listen to some lame excuse at that point. He hangs up on me (or as he said "my phone is messing up". After he texts that, I try to call back but it kept going to voicemail. I'm not a fool, I knew I had gotten blocked.
Are you two still friends?
Posted by lisabethur8
for me I avoid confrontation, I don't want trouble.I don't get bothered in real life. so it makes me very happy and PEACEFUL.
my husband is the same way. he wants PEACE.
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could be because we are homebodies and love our peace. we love the countryside and go on vacations in the countryside every year.
this year to the U.S., and maybe Canada and the islands.
cool
Posted by lovely77
Try finding ways to relax and be calm. Stay away from snapped and anger movies. My ex loved watching snapped all day ¶
LOL, my favorite was Carla Hughes.
Posted by lovely77
Try finding ways to relax and be calm. Stay away from snapped and anger movies. My ex loved watching snapped all day ¶LOL, my favorite was Carla Hughes.
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Why was it yr fav 👀👀
The only Virgo I have is my Asc, I'm an Aqua Stellium, Sun-Moon-Merc-Venus. But just to add some spice to that, I have Mars in Cancer opposite Moon *smh*
Out of those who have their moon aspected by mars, the prevailing theory is that trine/sextiles indicate a harmony and least likely to fly off the handle. Conjunctions indicate high emotional intensity both positive and negative, and squares/opposites indicate defensive aggression, as they have a more difficult time dealing with their own emotional vulnerability.
There is something very soothing about you; Why do you supposed Astrologers claim that crazy people are soothed by Aquarius?
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If I had to guess, it is because we are the sign that is associated with madness, so we speak crazy combined with the fact that air-centric Aquarius' don't bleed emotions in outward energy.
On a more specific note, it's human nature to fear or become uncomfortable by the strange and unfamiliar. People with mental or emotional issues by action and existence bring that to the fore if the person exposed to it has not had training. Aquas seem to be broken in the respect of not having alarm bells go off by weirdness. We will in fact sometimes, just play along to see where the rabbit hole goes.
Posted by librawomen7
I am trying to figure out why I don't avoid confrontation - I am Libra Sun, with an Aquarius moon. I thought it was the Aquarius moon that caused the confrontational nature.If your moon is opposite or square in your natal chart, you don't naturally develop the detachment from anger that Aqua moons are known for. If its conjunct, even an Aqua Moon would be like "You just piss me off, bye Felicia", because Moon conjunt Mars people are highly excitable
LOL, whose Felicia.?
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It's slang meaning: I could give two shits about you and I already forgot your name.
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
I avoid confrontation because I go overboard when I'm confronted and its hard to predict what i'll do when I'm confronted.....I know its because I over think things I tend to get excited when I smell blood in the water I will either go for the jugular or diffuse depending on the situation.there are times when I let things slide, and then take my revenge out in non direct ways like cleaning the toilet with said persons tooth brush, or piss in their shampoo bottle so I get some satisfaction but its never enough hahah
What' up with you and the Libra?
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you didnt hear? we broke up in feb, yeh we were on different paths and we called it quits, we're still friends but yeh
Posted by librawomen7
I am trying to figure out why I don't avoid confrontation - I am Libra Sun, with an Aquarius moon. I thought it was the Aquarius moon that caused the confrontational nature.If your moon is opposite or square in your natal chart, you don't naturally develop the detachment from anger that Aqua moons are known for. If its conjunct, even an Aqua Moon would be like "You just piss me off, bye Felicia", because Moon conjunt Mars people are highly excitable
LOL, whose Felicia.?
It's slang meaning: I could give two shits about you and I already forgot your name.
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I am really really good at that. No but seriously.
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
I avoid confrontation because I go overboard when I'm confronted and its hard to predict what i'll do when I'm confronted.....I know its because I over think things I tend to get excited when I smell blood in the water I will either go for the jugular or diffuse depending on the situation.there are times when I let things slide, and then take my revenge out in non direct ways like cleaning the toilet with said persons tooth brush, or piss in their shampoo bottle so I get some satisfaction but its never enough hahah
What' up with you and the Libra?
you didnt hear? we broke up in feb, yeh we were on different paths and we called it quits, we're still friends but yeh
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Yeah but you two were going back and forth for a minute. But his family was off the muthafucking hook.. Did you ever recover the shit his crystal meth dad stole?
I avoid confrontation unless I want to fire verbal salvos at the other end.
Posted by bumboklatt
yes avoid confrontation at all costs. I would even go as far as to blame all the stereotypical Aquarius awkwardness on our efforts to avoid being noticed and or recognized.
REALLY?
Depends if aqua's are in the mood
Posted by bumboklatt
yep feelings scare us because we dont want to dissapoint anyone. Thats probably why we get slong so well with libra #1 people pleasers lol
Yes I love Aquarius, but I am Libra of 7degees so the people-pleasing didn't kick in. I am very confrontational.
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Lol bunching all the apples in the basket i see. From my own personal experiences, i never inflated my sense of self with friends around me. I've trained in multiple martial disciplines most of my life but not once did i ever act tough or go looking to fight just cause. Highly moronic behavior and superficial if those are the aquas you've come across.