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He said he was Pisces.
Thank you!
Interesting Info about the Aqua women.....Im dating a Feb 7 Aqua and she shows allot of these traits.....could never really understand her angle sometimes, so this is much help for me. Cancer Guy here.
It just amazes me sometimes she'll go out of the way for her friends at the drop of a hat with no question and they wouldnt do the same thing for her.......She has a few very close friends but everyone else she considers friends I would pretty much consider distant associates.....And I noticed that relationships arent super important to her in the public eye, we could be at one of her family gatherings or Friend(associate) functions and its like im ignored the entire time. It seems if I am there for show while she mingles with everyone else as if we showed up as friends....I dont understand it but i never forget these things just trying to understand them before I decide if i wanna commit 100% to this aqua.
Posted by fundamental
"its just sex" -
aquas, both men AND women feel deeply about sex, but whether they admit that fact is a different story...now just because an aqua may not be AWARE that he/she feels deeply about sex, it does not change the the underlying fact
but about the sex, no matter how blase aquas seem to be about sex, i RARELY meet promiscuous aquas who sleep around non-discrminiately like a gemini broad would...
and most aqua females are fanatical about condoms...its crazy...
but even my good aqua male friends are really looking for love...ON THEIR OWN TERMS, so i find it hard to believe that the women are not seeking the exact same thing...they want someone to be comfortable with i find, but its just so hard for them to relate to many people on that INTIMATE level..
and intimacy is not in the definition of most aquarian vocabularies in my experience..
+ strong plus 1 here!! You know your aquas quite well!!!!! I agree with a lot of what you say even though you are dishing out aqua secrets. We feel deeply about sex when it comes to our mind. However, doing it just as passionately as we envisioned it in our mind is a whole different story. Also, even I'm looking for someone I'm comfortable with or someone who is more a friend than a lover when it comes to a relationship. You are spot on with the freedom loving obsession. I'm obsessed with my freedom and independence. When I start to feel strongly about someone, I disappear because I don't like dealing with emotions. They are so messy for me. And besides the idea of being vulnerable or dependent on someone scares me. Ladies and gentleman, my advice is you listen to fundamental on aquas. He knows aquas!!
Posted by Fundamentalism
Aquarius for Dummies (chapter 1,987)
Never Give up!
if it's true love it will work..a lot of times, it just takes a looooong time for them to be absolutely sure whether it's true love...on your part that is...(especially if the aqua is a girl and her b'day is feb. 9th!)
and if you are still there knocking on their door after years of dealing with their notorious bs, they won't be able to deny that it's true love...in my experience the aqua most likely knew it was true love all along but they want to be absolutlely certain that YOU are aware that it's true love...and once again this is due to their overwhelming amount of insecurity and fear of rejection, which they hide like masters of disguise....
I like you even more now!! My bday is Feb 9th!!! Yeah!!!!!!
Posted by fundamental
and the reason aquas usually can't see the anger in themselves that OTHERS see in them WHEN they become upset, is because aquas are usually not in touch with their feelings so while they can OUTROSPECT very well and dissect the behavior of others, often quite well, they are not very capable of quality INTROSPECTION- which leads them to confusion...
they are pretty naive in that sense...
Yep! I seldom get angry, but when I do it is quite entertaining for others. They tell me that I'm the first girl they like making angry. Lol. In fact, after I've cooled off and think back to what I said or did out of anger, I laugh at myself. lol. It truly is entertaining! It doesn't happen often, but when it does, holy!!! Also when I get angry ad shoot my mouth off, I don't realize the emotional damage I bring in someone else's life, because to me, what I'm saying to another, I can handle it if someone else said it to me. So you're right on not understanding our emotions bit as well.
Nice thread.
Bumpity Bump Bump! This is my favorite thread on dxp in the aqua board!!Tjis is for all the ladies and gents seeking help on aquas!
Moral of the story is, unless you like eating air cakes and windpies and ending up empty handed, leave these damn Aquas alone, especially if they are female.
They are way more trouble than they are worth.
They are way more trouble than they are worth.
Posted by SagiScorpsounds like you got attached to one. 😕Posted by Fundamental2016I have to agree. It's not worth the effort. If they initiate, then go ahead and have fun if you want. Otherwise, just leave them alone.
Moral of the story is, unless you like eating air cakes and windpies and ending up empty handed, leave these damn Aquas alone, especially if they are female.
They are way more trouble than they are worth.
They're more logical than anything else and think very highly of themselves. If it isn't logical for them to give you their time and/or commitment, they won't. That simple. They won't let "feels" change this decision.
However, aquas enjoy entertaining people and making them feel good. It's part of their humanitarian trait. So most people get "mixed signals" and go into denial when an aqua isn't into them.click to expand
sometimes people seem to fall in love with an "ideal"...what you want, desire, and then realize it's unrequited.
I have my own ideal, and wants and needs, and my husband fulfilled that need, desire.
you should go for an earthy sign , earth sun, with fire moon, or air moon (depending on your houses/elements) because the earthiness will ground you, SagiScorp.
Posted by Fundamental2016Ouch that hurts. We aren't that bad!
Moral of the story is, unless you like eating air cakes and windpies and ending up empty handed, leave these damn Aquas alone, especially if they are female.
They are way more trouble than they are worth.
How's your law career going, just curious. I just finished my first year and am interning for a criminal defense/ immigration law firm. You live in D.C.? That place must be flooded with attorneys. Is it hard to find work there?
Posted by BsmurrayI actually like what he said that is why I didn't say anything.Posted by Fundamental2016Ouch that hurts. We aren't that bad!
Moral of the story is, unless you like eating air cakes and windpies and ending up empty handed, leave these damn Aquas alone, especially if they are female.
They are way more trouble than they are worth.
How's your law career going, just curious. I just finished my first year and am interning for a criminal defense/ immigration law firm. You live in D.C.? That place must be flooded with attorneys. Is it hard to find work there?
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there is truth to that.
you're a MAN and you seem more complacent and kind.
Posted by Fundamental2016Always wondered how that relationship ended. This dude made the most on-point thread I have ever seen in the Aqua forum ............
Moral of the story is, unless you like eating air cakes and windpies and ending up empty handed, leave these damn Aquas alone, especially if they are female.
They are way more trouble than they are worth.
Posted by SagiScorpI think so. I can see what you mean, when you see a very attractive man who is also (seems self assured, confident because he is easy with people) you admire that, even from afar. You like what you see. and then he is also talking to you, in his easy way and you feel like he is laser focsed on you. but in actuality he is NOT.Posted by lisabethur8Correct, I became attached. I've learned quite a lot from my mistakes however, and kept replaying Einstein's definition of insanity in my mind along the way.
sounds like you got attached to one. 😕
sometimes people seem to fall in love with an "ideal"...what you want, desire, and then realize it's unrequited.
I have my own ideal, and wants and needs, and my husband fulfilled that need, desire.
I won't make the same mistakes again. I won't put in any effort unless it's also coming from the other end. That's a common mistake people tend to make, not only with Aquarians, but with the other signs too. However, in my opinion it's more common with Aquarius, since like I said earlier their humanitarian trait gives off the wrong impression.click to expand
he is just being himself. While in truth he could care less if you were the granny he helped earlier when he picked up her groceries and put them in her car. I mean of course he cares about people but that's just it, he cares about people, but doesn't want to get involved because they are so many people he interacts. it is NOT DEEP okay?
when he gets deep into a relationship with someone, you'll know in my experience.
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so basically a lot of women and maybe men too, dream up illusions in their head...and get carried away.
when he gets deep into a relationship with someone, you'll know in my experience.
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so basically a lot of women and maybe men too, dream up illusions in their head...and get carried away.
Aquarians born on February 7 are private people. They need to express strong opinions but do so in a gracious and nonthreatening way. Others may sense that they have a private agenda they are not willing to share. Although this may be the case, their great personal charm and sweetness make them popular.
Friends and Lovers
People born on February 7 have a secret side they only show to those closest to them. They have integrity and place their friends on the same level as family. They may be slow to commit to love, but once they do, the relationship takes on a spiritual significance. They are not traditionally romantic; they dislike sentimentality.\
REPEAT:
They have integrity and place their friends on the same level as family.
Friends and Lovers
People born on February 7 have a secret side they only show to those closest to them. They have integrity and place their friends on the same level as family. They may be slow to commit to love, but once they do, the relationship takes on a spiritual significance. They are not traditionally romantic; they dislike sentimentality.\
REPEAT:
They have integrity and place their friends on the same level as family.
Posted by LiquidAir29Run while you can. You're looking for this Aqua to center her love around you, it's never going to happen. You want her to center herself around the hearth and home...as a couple. It's never going to happen. Even if you somehow manage to convince her to change to learned behavior to suit what you need as a Cancer, you've effectively just killed what made her special to you and those around her.
It just amazes me sometimes she'll go out of the way for her friends at the drop of a hat with no question and they wouldnt do the same thing for her.......She has a few very close friends but everyone else she considers friends I would pretty much consider distant associates.....And I noticed that relationships arent super important to her in the public eye, we could be at one of her family gatherings or Friend(associate) functions and its like im ignored the entire time. It seems if I am there for show while she mingles with everyone else as if we showed up as friends....I dont understand it but i never forget these things just trying to understand them before I decide if i wanna commit 100% to this aqua.
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This is very interesting indeed. I am so glad I stumbled upon this! Why? Well, I am a Aqua/Pisces cusp and always thought there was something wrong with the way I acted. LOL
Now I know it was just my sign after all. It is a relief and maybe a curse to know about this! At least now I have some awareness of this and can act accordingly.
As for the comment about Aquarius people not liking that people don't like them. I would have to disagree..slightly. Recently, I have been trying to mend my fences with people not because I need them to like me but because I want to right my wrongs. In the past, I would have cared less if I hurt people's feelings so I am trying to change that.
And by the way, Fundamental, what sign are you? I most likely missed it while I was skimming through.