Aquarius Man Libra Woman Help!

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I met a beautiful aquarius man at the store who helped me and my mom with a jump when her battery went out. I was dumbfounded by his caring nature his patience and the kindness he showed towards me and my mother. He was very patient and kind. Sweet, sweet, sweet. He even thanked God for the ability and the opportunity to be of service to people who were in need especially women. He drove us home from the store to get some cables, attempted to fix my moms car in the rain, he drove us back to the store to wait for ALLSTATE roadside service and catered to my mom's needs. For some reason this country boy brings out the humor in me and we spend most of our time laughing. However something that he stated disturbed me enough to not have returned any of his calls and I wanted to get some insight. I asked him about the women in his neck of the woods. This is the text..

He said these women are "dependent on a good MAN WITH A GOOD JOB. THESE RATCHET THIEVES GOOD FA NOTHING!"

That feels uneasy to me, what do think about his sudden outburst? Do you think that he hates women? he's angry with women? Is he potentially dangerous?
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Posted by balanceduser
I met a beautiful aquarius man at the store who helped me and my mom with a jump when her battery went out. I was dumbfounded by his caring nature his patience and the kindness he showed towards me and my mother. He was very patient and kind. Sweet, sweet, sweet. He even thanked God for the ability and the opportunity to be of service to people who were in need especially women. He drove us home from the store to get some cables, attempted to fix my moms car in the rain, he drove us back to the store to wait for ALLSTATE roadside service and catered to my mom's needs. For some reason this country boy brings out the humor in me and we spend most of our time laughing. However something that he stated disturbed me enough to not have returned any of his calls and I wanted to get some insight. I asked him about the women in his neck of the woods. This is the text..

He said these women are "dependent on a good MAN WITH A GOOD JOB. THESE RATCHET THIEVES GOOD FA NOTHING!"

That feels uneasy to me, what do think about his sudden outburst? Do you think that he hates women? he's angry with women? Is he potentially dangerous?
I'm a country gal. Let me tell ya, there is nothing to worry about. He's just wanting a better class of woman.

Sounds like a great guy. Really sweet.

I ♡ aqua me.
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I think OP you should observe him more because aquas really do not attack people like that usually. I agree probably there are some traumatic experiences that makes him hold on to those belief but i think its pretty unhealthy to do that. He might unconsciously carried on that belief into his relationships & always be wary of woman. If on the positive side, it will be what truecap has mentioned. If you wish to know whether he just hold onto that belief or actually has a grudge/hate towards these woman, discuss this with him face & face and observe his attitude. If he gets mad & emotional that means its an unhealthy one & you must be wary.

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Posted by balanceduser
Posted by truecap
Men, not me.

Lol!

Is this normal behavior of country men? It is really hard to take in. His kindness is as terrifying as his sudden burst of capitol letters referring to women as ratchet thieves. U don't think that is a red flag?
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I'm not truecap, and I'm not familiar with "country men", but I do have plenty of Aquarius friends, male and female. That text of him calling women "ratchet thieves" in capital letters would definitely be a red flag to me. Unless truecap or other Aquas can explain what that was about.

And I defintely agree with Angmodurian, who's an Aqua. If he says be wary, then I too think you should.

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It made me think of those miserable redneck trailer park gals who stay at home expecting men to take care of them while they downgrade their men.
No, most country girls aren't like that. But there are a lot who are.

No I mean country boys. Lol! Is his behavior normal for country boys or is he a really nice guy? He's so nice people think that this is a fake story! That is something! i have a hard time believing it too.
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It made me think of those miserable redneck trailer park gals who stay at home expecting men to take care of them while they downgrade their men.
No, most country girls aren't like that. But there are a lot who are.

This was the answer to the question. So I asked again and it looks like you misunderstood the question again so then I asked again and it seems as if you understood it the third time.

And in regards to you thinking that I'm a troll you're completely free to think whatever you want to think. I thank you for your contributions. I belong to many many forums with people with all kinds of different personalities ...so whatever blows your hair back. ☺