Gemgyal
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Aquarius not responding after fight
He said hurtful things and you said hurtful things. You both can dish it but he definitely couldn't take it. You seem more forgiving and quicker to move forward. Him? Not so much. But in reality, stating that someone is disloyal isn't harsh....if it's true. Same for you.
What should you do? Leave dude alone. Why beg and force someone to receive you back into their life if they no longer want you there? They might just return with resentment.
You two will never be the same again in respects to the perception you have of one another. Sad but true. Words change everything.
Besides, once a huge fight comes to light, it becomes easier and easier to "go there again."
What should you do? Leave dude alone. Why beg and force someone to receive you back into their life if they no longer want you there? They might just return with resentment.
You two will never be the same again in respects to the perception you have of one another. Sad but true. Words change everything.
Besides, once a huge fight comes to light, it becomes easier and easier to "go there again."
Posted by sweetpea2977
He said hurtful things and you said hurtful things. You both can dish it but he definitely couldn't take it. You seem more forgiving and quicker to move forward. Him? Not so much. But in reality, stating that someone is disloyal isn't harsh....if it's true. Same for you.
What should you do? Leave dude alone. Why beg and force someone to receive you back into their life if they no longer want you there? They might just return with resentment.
You two will never be the same again in respects to the perception you have of one another. Sad but true. Words change everything.
Besides, once a huge fight comes to light, it becomes easier and easier to "go there again."
Thanks for your reply. It’s just really hard for me. As I already moved on and he came back into my life. A lot of things have been left unsaid too many times and this was just an explosing on both sides.
I do really feel bad. I hope I can let him go. And i will just leave him alone then.
This is normal aqua behavior. Give him lots of space and message him again in a month. Don’t mention anything from the fight. You already said what you need to. He’s listening and processing right now. If you give him space, he’s more likely to come back.
.....don't wait too long though, fixed signs can hold out and be stubborn and life is to be lived 🎉
Posted by pinkbird03
This is normal aqua behavior. Give him lots of space and message him again in a month. Don’t mention anything from the fight. You already said what you need to. He’s listening and processing right now. If you give him space, he’s more likely to come back.
Thank you! Do you think I should message him for his birthday next week? Or should I totally go NC
Posted by MyStarsShine
.....don't wait too long though, fixed signs can hold out and be stubborn and life is to be lived 🎉
I feel you on this. When would be appropriate to contact him? And do you think I can congratulate him for his birthday?
Posted by GemgyalPosted by MyStarsShine
.....don't wait too long though, fixed signs can hold out and be stubborn and life is to be lived 🎉
I feel you on this. When would be appropriate to contact him? And do you think I can congratulate him for his birthday?click to expand
I'd wish him a happy birthday and see how it goes....if he doesn't respond after that then step back and enjoy your life. No bloke is worth waiting around for indefinitely
Good luck! 🙂
Let him cooled off. He is hurt.
I would definitely send a happy birthday message but don’t expect anything from him.
You said sorry and did your part. Let him come to you when he is ready.
Meanwhile just live your life and make sure you don’t make him jealous or do anything silly to get a reaction from him if he takes his time. That will make him move on for good.
I would definitely send a happy birthday message but don’t expect anything from him.
You said sorry and did your part. Let him come to you when he is ready.
Meanwhile just live your life and make sure you don’t make him jealous or do anything silly to get a reaction from him if he takes his time. That will make him move on for good.
Posted by GemgyalPosted by sweetpea2977
He said hurtful things and you said hurtful things. You both can dish it but he definitely couldn't take it. You seem more forgiving and quicker to move forward. Him? Not so much. But in reality, stating that someone is disloyal isn't harsh....if it's true. Same for you.
What should you do? Leave dude alone. Why beg and force someone to receive you back into their life if they no longer want you there? They might just return with resentment.
You two will never be the same again in respects to the perception you have of one another. Sad but true. Words change everything.
Besides, once a huge fight comes to light, it becomes easier and easier to "go there again."
Thanks for your reply. It’s just really hard for me. As I already moved on and he came back into my life. A lot of things have been left unsaid too many times and this was just an explosing on both sides.
I do really feel bad. I hope I can let him go. And i will just leave him alone then.click to expand
Its my hope that you find the strength to as well 💙
Posted by pisceswoman123
Let him cooled off. He is hurt.
I would definitely send a happy birthday message but don’t expect anything from him.
You said sorry and did your part. Let him come to you when he is ready.
Meanwhile just live your life and make sure you don’t make him jealous or do anything silly to get a reaction from him if he takes his time. That will make him move on for good.
Thanks for replying. Yes was thinking the same thing. Well we don’t have eachother anywhere so don’t think I can get a reaction out of him.
He really likes one artist and coincidentally that artist is coming to perform near his place. Do you think it will be too much if i buy tickets for him to go and see him as a birthday gift? He doesn’t even have to go with me.. and i do not expect a reply.
Posted by GemgyalPosted by pisceswoman123
Let him cooled off. He is hurt.
I would definitely send a happy birthday message but don’t expect anything from him.
You said sorry and did your part. Let him come to you when he is ready.
Meanwhile just live your life and make sure you don’t make him jealous or do anything silly to get a reaction from him if he takes his time. That will make him move on for good.
Thanks for replying. Yes was thinking the same thing. Well we don’t have eachother anywhere so don’t think I can get a reaction out of him.
He really likes one artist and coincidentally that artist is coming to perform near his place. Do you think it will be too much if i buy tickets for him to go and see him as a birthday gift? He doesn’t even have to go with me.. and i do not expect a reply.click to expand
It’s a lovely idea if you were in a good place with him, but personally I think he will feel pressure, so I wouldn’t do it.
Oh forget him and stop kissing his ass. He said hurtful things to you first and you defended yourself by saying hurtful things back at him. To me, he owes you the apology. You should have never contacted him apologizing but waited for him to apologize first. If not then move on. You are giving him the upper hand and he'll take it.
Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by GemgyalPosted by pisceswoman123
Let him cooled off. He is hurt.
I would definitely send a happy birthday message but don’t expect anything from him.
You said sorry and did your part. Let him come to you when he is ready.
Meanwhile just live your life and make sure you don’t make him jealous or do anything silly to get a reaction from him if he takes his time. That will make him move on for good.
Thanks for replying. Yes was thinking the same thing. Well we don’t have eachother anywhere so don’t think I can get a reaction out of him.
He really likes one artist and coincidentally that artist is coming to perform near his place. Do you think it will be too much if i buy tickets for him to go and see him as a birthday gift? He doesn’t even have to go with me.. and i do not expect a reply.
It’s a lovely idea if you were in a good place with him, but personally I think he will feel pressure, so I wouldn’t do it.click to expand
Thank you! I will just send him a casual Happy Birthday. Do you think him not blocking me and still replying is a way to still keep the communication open for us? I deleted the conversation we had but he still has it on his phone eventho he hasn’t saved my number.
If i was really done with someone as a gemini i would just block and delete so you couldn’t contact me
Posted by DonnaLibra
Oh forget him and stop kissing his ass. He said hurtful things to you first and you defended yourself by saying hurtful things back at him. To me, he owes you the apology. You should have never contacted him apologizing but waited for him to apologize first. If not then move on. You are giving him the upper hand and he'll take it.
Yeah, i get where you’re coming from. But sometimes i just think there has to be a time and place to put your pride aside. And i really felt bad about what I said i kinda took it very far. But yeah i still get what you’re saying. I will only congratulate him on his birthday. Then we will have been in NC for 3 weeks if he doesn’t reply i will let it go. Thanks for your reply tho!
Posted by GemgyalPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by GemgyalPosted by pisceswoman123
Let him cooled off. He is hurt.
I would definitely send a happy birthday message but don’t expect anything from him.
You said sorry and did your part. Let him come to you when he is ready.
Meanwhile just live your life and make sure you don’t make him jealous or do anything silly to get a reaction from him if he takes his time. That will make him move on for good.
Thanks for replying. Yes was thinking the same thing. Well we don’t have eachother anywhere so don’t think I can get a reaction out of him.
He really likes one artist and coincidentally that artist is coming to perform near his place. Do you think it will be too much if i buy tickets for him to go and see him as a birthday gift? He doesn’t even have to go with me.. and i do not expect a reply.
It’s a lovely idea if you were in a good place with him, but personally I think he will feel pressure, so I wouldn’t do it.
Thank you! I will just send him a casual Happy Birthday. Do you think him not blocking me and still replying is a way to still keep the communication open for us? I deleted the conversation we had but he still has it on his phone eventho he hasn’t saved my number.
If i was really done with someone as a gemini i would just block and delete so you couldn’t contact meclick to expand
I think he is just upset and needs time while he figure things out.
Aquarius are unpredictable that way.
Uranus ruled , fixed sign ... can be all over the place..
Posted by GemgyalPosted by pisceswoman123
Let him cooled off. He is hurt.
I would definitely send a happy birthday message but don’t expect anything from him.
You said sorry and did your part. Let him come to you when he is ready.
Meanwhile just live your life and make sure you don’t make him jealous or do anything silly to get a reaction from him if he takes his time. That will make him move on for good.
Thanks for replying. Yes was thinking the same thing. Well we don’t have eachother anywhere so don’t think I can get a reaction out of him.
He really likes one artist and coincidentally that artist is coming to perform near his place. Do you think it will be too much if i buy tickets for him to go and see him as a birthday gift? He doesn’t even have to go with me.. and i do not expect a reply.click to expand
Yes I think that's too much at this point. First off it will put pressure on him to respond because you bought him an expensive gift. Plus who do you think he'll take to the concert? If it isn't you you might feel hurt.
Posted by Aquarelle
His actions speak louder than words at this point. He is hurt and doesn't want to talk to you now. Don't buy him the tickets, don't contact him. Let him miss you for a while. If he doesn't come back, you have your answer.
Prepare yourself that he may not give you closure either, but don't let that affect you. Create your life without him. Seems you need somebody who is mature enough and cares enough to talk things through after an argument. Not this guy who can't do that.
Thanks for your reply. Yes, i agree i won’t buy him the tickets. But do you also think I shouldn’t congratulate him on his birthday?
Yeah! I really agree with you! I really need someone who is mature enough to want to talk things through. I really don’t like conflict that’s why i wanted to solve it and be mature about it and talk about it. But he is not having it, when we were arguing he said ‘now i see what you’ve always been holding in wanted to say to me all along. That’s why they say you really need to make someone mad before they show their true colors?’
He was the one who started all of this but okay.
Yes, i will i know i will be okay in a month or so. Just now its hard
Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by GemgyalPosted by pisceswoman123
Let him cooled off. He is hurt.
I would definitely send a happy birthday message but don’t expect anything from him.
You said sorry and did your part. Let him come to you when he is ready.
Meanwhile just live your life and make sure you don’t make him jealous or do anything silly to get a reaction from him if he takes his time. That will make him move on for good.
Thanks for replying. Yes was thinking the same thing. Well we don’t have eachother anywhere so don’t think I can get a reaction out of him.
He really likes one artist and coincidentally that artist is coming to perform near his place. Do you think it will be too much if i buy tickets for him to go and see him as a birthday gift? He doesn’t even have to go with me.. and i do not expect a reply.
Yes I think that's too much at this point. First off it will put pressure on him to respond because you bought him an expensive gift. Plus who do you think he'll take to the concert? If it isn't you you might feel hurt.click to expand
Yes true, i will only congratulate him and leave it at that. Just thought it was a nice gesture, but seeing what y’all are saying i won’t and true. I might feel hurt
Posted by Aquaman2
Do not send him tickets....just text Happy Birthday 😇at 12 night will work. Till then do not make any contact.. 1 day after birthday i.e. 3rd day from birthday ....text him to hangout at eve...he should probably reply👍🏻
Why at 12 night? And not during the day..? Yeah i dont know about that hang out part, he is really flaky and don’t want to be dissapointed.
Posted by GemgyalPosted by Aquaman2
Do not send him tickets....just text Happy Birthday 😇at 12 night will work. Till then do not make any contact.. 1 day after birthday i.e. 3rd day from birthday ....text him to hangout at eve...he should probably reply👍🏻
Why at 12 night? And not during the day..? Yeah i dont know about that hang out part, he is really flaky and don’t want to be dissapointed.
I will not send him the tickets hahaclick to expand
Posted by Aquaman2Posted by GemgyalPosted by Aquaman2
Do not send him tickets....just text Happy Birthday 😇at 12 night will work. Till then do not make any contact.. 1 day after birthday i.e. 3rd day from birthday ....text him to hangout at eve...he should probably reply👍🏻
Why at 12 night? And not during the day..? Yeah i dont know about that hang out part, he is really flaky and don’t want to be dissapointed.
Its 00:01 (24hrs) time, when his birthday starts....will only show that you remember and care etc...
Most probably he will thank you for being the first to wish. If not he will surely reply on 3rd day to hangout.click to expand
Yeah if u put it that way i get where you’re coming from. I might do that but idk about the hangout part. He also has aqua sun and venus cap with an aries moon
Posted by GemgyalPosted by Aquaman2
Do not send him tickets....just text Happy Birthday 😇at 12 night will work. Till then do not make any contact.. 1 day after birthday i.e. 3rd day from birthday ....text him to hangout at eve...he should probably reply👍🏻
Why at 12 night? And not during the day..? Yeah i dont know about that hang out part, he is really flaky and don’t want to be dissapointed.click to expand
I agree. Don't put yourself in a position to be rejected by him. Wait for him to ask to see you.
Posted by GemgyalPosted by DonnaLibraPosted by GemgyalPosted by Aquaman2
Do not send him tickets....just text Happy Birthday 😇at 12 night will work. Till then do not make any contact.. 1 day after birthday i.e. 3rd day from birthday ....text him to hangout at eve...he should probably reply👍🏻
Why at 12 night? And not during the day..? Yeah i dont know about that hang out part, he is really flaky and don’t want to be dissapointed.
I agree. Don't put yourself in a position to be rejected by him. Wait for him to ask to see you.
Thank you! Thats what i thought!
Even the sending a text right on the dot at 00:00 kinda seems too much. Like i don’t want to look desperateclick to expand
Posted by poeticseraphimPosted by GemgyalPosted by Aquarelle
His actions speak louder than words at this point. He is hurt and doesn't want to talk to you now. Don't buy him the tickets, don't contact him. Let him miss you for a while. If he doesn't come back, you have your answer.
Prepare yourself that he may not give you closure either, but don't let that affect you. Create your life without him. Seems you need somebody who is mature enough and cares enough to talk things through after an argument. Not this guy who can't do that.
Thanks for your reply. Yes, i agree i won’t buy him the tickets. But do you also think I shouldn’t congratulate him on his birthday?
Yeah! I really agree with you! I really need someone who is mature enough to want to talk things through. I really don’t like conflict that’s why i wanted to solve it and be mature about it and talk about it. But he is not having it, when we were arguing he said ‘now i see what you’ve always been holding in wanted to say to me all along. That’s why they say you really need to make someone mad before they show their true colors?’
He was the one who started all of this but okay.
Yes, i will i know i will be okay in a month or so. Just now its hard
Be genuine.
Hi ...gemini woman here.
I wish you a happy birthday and i hope you have a lovely day.
xx
P.S i would love to see you sometime.click to expand
Thank you! I was thinking about sending something like that minus the p.s. lol
Posted by GemgyalPosted by pinkbird03
This is normal aqua behavior. Give him lots of space and message him again in a month. Don’t mention anything from the fight. You already said what you need to. He’s listening and processing right now. If you give him space, he’s more likely to come back.
Thank you! Do you think I should message him for his birthday next week? Or should I totally go NCclick to expand
If you want, but do it at the end of the day. Like 8pm
I'm assuming that's your boyfriend. I don't know about you but personally I wouldn't be able to "let it go" for a month and delay reaching out for extended period of time. He's your man after all and he has to have maturity level to discuss issues and seek solutions. Either too young or not invested fully, you know him better than any of us
Posted by pisceanloves
I'm assuming that's your boyfriend. I don't know about you but personally I wouldn't be able to "let it go" for a month and delay reaching out for extended period of time. He's your man after all and he has to have maturity level to discuss issues and seek solutions. Either too young or not invested fully, you know him better than any of us
True, but i’ve tried calling him, texting him, apologizing he doesn’t want to hear it. There’s only so much a human being can do, right?
I want to talk things through like an adult, he’s not up for it. Besides that i’m also really busy with my own life. So i will just let him come to me ( if he wants)
Posted by GemgyalPosted by pisceanloves
I'm assuming that's your boyfriend. I don't know about you but personally I wouldn't be able to "let it go" for a month and delay reaching out for extended period of time. He's your man after all and he has to have maturity level to discuss issues and seek solutions. Either too young or not invested fully, you know him better than any of us
True, but i’ve tried calling him, texting him, apologizing he doesn’t want to hear it. There’s only so much a human being can do, right?
I want to talk things through like an adult, he’s not up for it. Besides that i’m also really busy with my own life. So i will just let him come to me ( if he wants)click to expand
That’s all you can do
Enjoy your life without him!
I think you are appearing very weak as a person, mentally. You are not at fault for saying bad things, and you are failing to see that he said bad things to you.
Do not wish him happy birthday, be strong, and show strength of will.
You shouldn’t have chased him, but what’s done is done. You should have let him come to you, if he wanted, and if he didn’t want to, then he isn’t for you. Be strong.
Only chance you have now, and this is only if you want it. I would say three months, not one month.. it has to be three, because you really chased him. You need to give him time to think about whether he still has you in his back pocket or not. This is if he does any thinking at all. He needs to come to you. Try to go out and keep you mind busy on other things, and try to enjoy your life without him, try to see some benefit from this situation. At least you have your freedom back.
Then if you are really still bothered after three months, message him and saying you saw something which reminded you of him, and ask how he is. This is when everything has completely calmed down, but know this.. if you really do have to wait three months, then he really isn’t into you.. maybe he is a little, but not 100% .. and do you really want to settle for someone not 100% into you?
Do not wish him happy birthday, be strong, and show strength of will.
You shouldn’t have chased him, but what’s done is done. You should have let him come to you, if he wanted, and if he didn’t want to, then he isn’t for you. Be strong.
Only chance you have now, and this is only if you want it. I would say three months, not one month.. it has to be three, because you really chased him. You need to give him time to think about whether he still has you in his back pocket or not. This is if he does any thinking at all. He needs to come to you. Try to go out and keep you mind busy on other things, and try to enjoy your life without him, try to see some benefit from this situation. At least you have your freedom back.
Then if you are really still bothered after three months, message him and saying you saw something which reminded you of him, and ask how he is. This is when everything has completely calmed down, but know this.. if you really do have to wait three months, then he really isn’t into you.. maybe he is a little, but not 100% .. and do you really want to settle for someone not 100% into you?
Just out of interest.. if he had been the one to come back grovelling and begging and chasing, and saying sorry constantly and calling you.. if it was him who wasn’t willing to give you space to think.. would you find him attractive?
Gemgyal I will answer your messages as soon as I am able to get into my account. No one will let me verify my email so I can't read my messages.
Posted by DonnaLibra
Gemgyal I will answer your messages as soon as I am able to get into my account. No one will let me verify my email so I can't read my messages.
No problem girl!
Posted by AriesJo
Just out of interest.. if he had been the one to come back grovelling and begging and chasing, and saying sorry constantly and calling you.. if it was him who wasn’t willing to give you space to think.. would you find him attractive?
Thanks for your reply. I didn’t beg, i just apologized for my part and tried calling him before apologizing but he didn’t want to picj up the phone. So i just sent him that message saying i’m sorry.
I get what you’re saying he has always been the one to come back to me and we talk things through and continue.
But this time it went too far that’s why apologized. I haven’t contacted him since i apologized ( that’s a week ago) but i do get what you’re saying
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