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Posted by Scenic
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people fail to notice that we really all are different not all aqua are how our sign claims us to be we come in different shapes and sizes 😄 SOOO i have met the aqua person who thinks he is funny and i have meant the ones who are open to their feelings or just plain blunt (thats what i am) people dont like that about me i had somebody yell at me becuase i told her the TRUTH then she told me not all things are meant to be said and i told her you asked so i told you stop bitching about it



That is definitely something my aqua would do. He is especially blunt and mean to people he doesn't care much for. Though, for some reason these people keep coming back to talk to him. He is very good at using words to hurt people (on purpose). On the other hand, he is also extremely good at making people like him when he knows he can get something out of them. His social skills are pretty diverse, which I admire.
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well your aqua sounds like he can be my mental twin when i want to hurt somebody i know the RIGHT thing to say to get to them and in my school i know i can get something from the people there so hey why not get them to like me 😄
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people fail to notice that we really all are different not all aqua are how our sign claims us to be we come in different shapes and sizes 😄 SOOO i have met the aqua person who thinks he is funny and i have meant the ones who are open to their feelings or just plain blunt (thats what i am) people dont like that about me i had somebody yell at me becuase i told her the TRUTH then she told me not all things are meant to be said and i told her you asked so i told you stop bitching about it



Thats another thing I like about aquas. Ask them a question and you get the truth! So refreshing! If I didn't want to know your real answer, I wouldn't have asked the question. I'd rather you tell me what you really think than sugar coat it and tell me what I want to hear.
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well its glad to see somebody actually LIKE us being blunt but i still has to say BEWARE there are ones who are the opposite and just lieee liee liee ALL THE TIME i cant stand that lying
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Posted by BlackIndian22
@bubblyaquarius i just don't see why anyone can hate y'all. Your personality is awesome. I mean you can't hate a whole sign just because you met one bad cookie. I haven't met but 1 bad aquarius in my life. But the rest im sure are great people. Too me, you guys seem very nice. I love the way you go about doing things. Lol i could go on, but not now unless you guys want me say more sweet things about you")

its not about hating a sign becuase u met one bad person people are just haters but as i said before they have to DEAL WITH IT
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NotYourAverageAquarius
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Posted by bubblyaquarius
I think there are many people on this site who dislike Aquas, I don't think we are very popular here, but idc. I'm not "new", so I just disagree...but Aquas have a bad rap here. Well, there def aren't too many who "love" us around here. Some other signs I feel are sorta not mentioned around here and aren't very popular either. This site has it's favorites and it's cliques. Eh, it is what it is. We are getting some new Aquas around here though so hopefully things will change. ^_^



Yea. I agree with you that DXP is an odd place that is cliquish in the extreme. DG said that those awards should have been called the water awards and shoulda been on the Pisces board. Lol. It was so true! and I didn't even really notice it til she said it. The cliques are mainly all water sign peeps. Air signs are under represented on this site but it's pretty obvious why.

I actually think Aquarius is the most liked air sign tho.

I see way more gem and libra hate than aqua hate. I'll be reading a thread that has nothing to do with libras, then all of a sudden people start bashing libras. And I'm like where did that even come from? Or, people will just come into a thread on the libra board and drop off hate nuggets in a thread that has nothing do with what they're saying! That's my fav. I think I'm the only one over there who isn't totally chilled out to the max. So I get all irritated and fire one back at 'em. Ugh....lol. I try to ignore people but sometimes I can't help myself!

I'm all for people being free to their opinions. But when they express it in a malicious way, that's when it bothers me.

It's very possible that I see it this way because I'm a libra not an aqua 😉. Nevertheless!
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Yeah that Capricorn guy even said he posted on the libre board because of how inactive it was lol....
Supposedly this board and the scorpio board use to be the most active I would presume because we are the signs people have the most difficulties with or w/e but this board has been hella dead ever since I've been here lol. This is the most active it's been since I joined!
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Awww, awww, well I'll just say I like all of you air people! I feel like air signs are generally just so nice an sociable. Less manipulative crap going on than with water, more exciting and less strict than perhaps earth, and not as arrogant or brash as fire.
There's a lot of hate going on for my sign, too, and since no one really talks to me (this sounds so sad, though I'm just stating a fact), I don't belong to a clique. But, oh well. I'd rather not be in one. I thought aquas didn't care about fitting in! Just kidding.
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Posted by Scenic
Awww, awww, well I'll just say I like all of you air people! I feel like air signs are generally just so nice an sociable. Less manipulative crap going on than with water, more exciting and less strict than perhaps earth, and not as arrogant or brash as fire.
There's a lot of hate going on for my sign, too, and since no one really talks to me (this sounds so sad, though I'm just stating a fact), I don't belong to a clique. But, oh well. I'd rather not be in one. I thought aquas didn't care about fitting in! Just kidding.



Hah! Good point... I guess I only care because it seems like everyone has something to say about us.... But they have a lot to say about all air signs I suppose....
I guess I'm just being a baby huh lol like waa boo hoo why no one talks good about me haha :p
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Posted by bubblyaquarius
I think there are many people on this site who dislike Aquas, I don't think we are very popular here, but idc. I'm not "new", so I just disagree...but Aquas have a bad rap here. Well, there def aren't too many who "love" us around here. Some other signs I feel are sorta not mentioned around here and aren't very popular either. This site has it's favorites and it's cliques. Eh, it is what it is. We are getting some new Aquas around here though so hopefully things will change. ^_^



Yea. I agree with you that DXP is an odd place that is cliquish in the extreme. DG said that those awards should have been called the water awards and shoulda been on the Pisces board. Lol. It was so true! and I didn't even really notice it til she said it. The cliques are mainly all water sign peeps. Air signs are under represented on this site but it's pretty obvious why.

I actually think Aquarius is the most liked air sign tho.

I see way more gem and libra hate than aqua hate. I'll be reading a thread that has nothing to do with libras, then all of a sudden people start bashing libras. And I'm like where did that even come from? Or, people will just come into a thread on the libra board and drop off hate nuggets in a thread that has nothing do with what they're saying! That's my fav. I think I'm the only one over there who isn't totally chilled out to the max. So I get all irritated and fire one back at 'em. Ugh....lol. I try to ignore people but sometimes I can't help myself!

I'm all for people being free to their opinions. But when they express it in a malicious way, that's when it bothers me.

It's very possible that I see it this way because I'm a libra not an aqua 😉. Nevertheless!
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pff you're practically aquarius yourself 😛 Aqua asc!! lol And besides, other air signs bash other air signs too LOL
that's the funny part! hohohohoho.
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anyway...i want to share this, because it seems some of you care too much. Caring is awesome yes, but in this vein...*sigh*

if a person or person(s) try and elevate your ego, and say how wonderful you are, and ect and boost it (as i've seen in real life and in movies, films) and then turn around and backstab you, snickering to their buddies, "look at her/look at him being all egotistic and thinking they are the best" when all the while, it was those people who had done the backstabbing putting you up on the pedastal laughing all the while.
I've seen it alot. That's why the suspiciousness. The only ego balm that is HONEST is one from your parents that LOVE YOU for who you are, your significant other, your children ect, because they have no motivation to HURT you. They love you all for your flaws and virtues. We should be able to trust them on a deeper level because they are your family and they are the loves of your life. Sure, on another intracate level, we can get into disagreements but there's loyalty there.
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^^^That's an interesting view. Though, if I'm understanding what you're saying, to me at least, I don't fully agree. I'd rather have a stranger give me an 'ego boost' rather than those close to me, because in a way, I feel they're almost obligated to. If you do well on a test and you come home to tell your parents, of course they're going to say 'good job, you're awesome', etc. Same with an s/o. While they're sincere most of the time, they're going to want to stay on your good side, too. I just feel like those things aren't as genuine and that they're more fake. But, if I stranger came up to me and said "Wow, good job on winning that art project. I saw it and it was really nice. You can be a professional!", it would have much more of an effect on me. But, as far as trusting goes, that would depend on how trusting you are as a person. I'm not worried about being back stabbed, etc, because to me, that kind of stuff dosn't hurt. I just move on from childish things like that. I don't have time to waste to stop and worry about whether people will turn around and do a 180 on me or not. I give compliments and 'ego boosts', because it's how I feel. I feel like it should be okay to say nice things that you mean. It's interesting to see other people's point of views on that.

Is it an Aquarius trait to be untrusting and worried about back stabbing? I wonder how that correlats as far as the other signs. I know Scorpio would be a major player in the 'everyone is suspicious' category.
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^^ hey we've got birdies 😄

in a work place, for example, your boss ect or those higher up would say good job, youve done a fine job, or even in a school environment, your teachers, professors, whoever, then yes that's genuine. UNLESS there's something suspicoius going on...like if they want to get MORE from you in a shady way. Never know....
it's always good to be suspicious. Watch your back. Cause you don't know if your promotion will be taken from right under you kind of thing. Of course, in general we'd love to believe all is roses and beautiful and everything but after awhile, *sigh*
you realise people are just out to get no.1 (for the most part) Thankfully not everyone. But! you never know. Even in competition for your hand in marriage. You don't know if the guy you're with is only going to want you for a "trophy" and because he has "IDEALISED" you? Then later, he's backstabbing you cause then you're not what he thought he'd want. But in the first place, he has never loved you because he has IDEALISED you and not loved you for who you are: flaws and all.

Also a stranger coming up to you because you did something beautiful, somethng artistic. What kind of stranger? Was it a man who thought you would look nice on his mantel?? You never know. He probably thought secretly your art wasn't all that but wanted YOU for a trophy instead. It's all perspective you see. Though in a work place, if you have a wonderful employer ect then you dont have to worry about getting taken in when the boss wants to give you a diamond necklace, wishing he could have you for more than dessert. *puke*
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I think that Aquarius and Scorpio have a lot of correlations in what they like and their attitudes towards situations....
Just Scorpios motivations and Aquarius motivations are probably slightly different and for damn sure they both go about things in very different ways but it is ultimately to attain the same damn thing.

I'd say all fixed signs are relatively the same I guess but Scorpio/Aquarius are closer to being similar...

Who knows maybe we could say that Leo/Taurus is closer to being similar too I never really thought about it for sure...

One thing too...
I have found that a lot of times when I meet someone and I don't know they are Aquarius ... I almost always get a preconceived notion about them. Like I dunno but a lot of times(this could only apply to the immature ones)when I meet an Aquarius and I don't know they are Aquarius the crazy shit they talk about with me usually gets me thinking they are just plain dumb!?
^.^?
I know right why would I think that but I guess the subject matter they choose to talk about seems so fucking out there from what I'm used to from everyone else I just assume they are below par intelligence wise. Funny thing is I bet I have this same effect on other people and I just don't practice enough introspection to realize it. Anyways, after I actually open my ears and really listen to what they are saying and get to know them.... I end up being given a WAKE UP call and realize that this person is far deeper then I realized initially... and far sharper as well... I usually end up respecting them a lot more as result too. Then I find out ...they are Aquarius.

We are so misleading aren't we with are... youthful whimsical ways... and the dreamy stuff we come up with. I don't doubt that we often come across as little children to most people... at least until you mature in the ways of communicating in society.
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We are bird icon buddies! I didn't think of it in terms of work or school, though those conditions do provide more competition and thus, probably backstabbing. I've seen enough topics on these boards about work place drama, etc. I'd say, I'm always willing to give people the benefit of a doubt, first. Though, if something were to appear out of place, I would probably become more suspicious in a working environment. While I say I can trust stranger's words, I do think I have a good sense of who is a bad character and who is not. So, when I say I would trust what strangers say, it would be the ones who give off good vibes. Family and those close to me, I still say have an obligation of sorts. I'm convinced half my family only talks to me because of niceties.

And yes, it seems that when it comes to identifying Aquarius, you gotta pay attention to their words. The only conversation I remember having with my first Aquarius was about aliens....he acted so immature, but he was sweet and calm in a private environment. My Aquarius now talks about some crazy stuff, too. I knew he was smart from the beginning,though, because he would tell me all his intelligence-related accomplishements. Haha. I also do seem some of the same traits in my Aquarius as I did my Scorpio ex, but that may just be more because I'm attracted to certain people and not because of their sign.
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^^ yep bird icon buddies 😄

well...*sigh* don't get me wrong, I still get disillusioned from time to time. I end up believing in people anyway, only to be disillusioned again and again. It's a never ending battle. 😢
You want to believe, and it's wonderful to believe then your heart hurts cause you just got hurt again due to being delusional about people. You get vulnerable and they take advantage of that vulnerability.
But yes, usually "good" vibes help alot, trusting your intuition always.
I trust my family though, so i guess it depends on the individual's families and their histories behind it. *nod*

And about it being male...well it's probably WORSE if the perpetrator was a woman cause women vs. women are the worst! they want to get the best man, the best job, the best everytihng and stomp you down to the ground. It's horrible. Sometimes you believe that womankind should stick together and be gal pals and help eachother.But that's not always the case see??
They will tear you down, make you look bad to your boss, or your group of friends and then what? You feel bad cause you chose some friends who you thought were loyal to you only to find out that they were only friends with you to get the goods? To get into your circle so they can tear you down, find out your vulnerabilities and then report to the boss by twisting the way you work or your ethics? Gah! so much! it's a terrible world out there 😢
And sometimes, it's also beautiful. Just gotta be careful.
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Posted by lisabethur8
^^ yep bird icon buddies 😄

well...*sigh* don't get me wrong, I still get disillusioned from time to time. I end up believing in people anyway, only to be disillusioned again and again. It's a never ending battle. 😢
You want to believe, and it's wonderful to believe then your heart hurts cause you just got hurt again due to being delusional about people. You get vulnerable and they take advantage of that vulnerability.
But yes, usually "good" vibes help alot, trusting your intuition always.
I trust my family though, so i guess it depends on the individual's families and their histories behind it. *nod*

And about it being male...well it's probably WORSE if the perpetrator was a woman cause women vs. women are the worst! they want to get the best man, the best job, the best everytihng and stomp you down to the ground. It's horrible. Sometimes you believe that womankind should stick together and be gal pals and help eachother.But that's not always the case see??
They will tear you down, make you look bad to your boss, or your group of friends and then what? You feel bad cause you chose some friends who you thought were loyal to you only to find out that they were only friends with you to get the goods? To get into your circle so they can tear you down, find out your vulnerabilities and then report to the boss by twisting the way you work or your ethics? Gah! so much! it's a terrible world out there 😢
And sometimes, it's also beautiful. Just gotta be careful.



Wow you must not be having a good day that is about the most negative comment I've ever heard you make on this message board!
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Girls can definitely be nasty creatures. Guys are usually a lot more straight forward with each other and less dysfunctionally competitive. And just generally don't care about certain things as much as girls. Thankfully, I haven't had to see that in action too many times, but I'm sorry if you have. : (

Nothing is stupid to cry over! If ya feel it, ya feel it. I don't like to cry but God if I don't tear up at the silliest things. Don't worry, you're normal at least. I hope tomorrow is a better day for you!
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Girls can definitely be nasty creatures. Guys are usually a lot more straight forward with each other and less dysfunctionally competitive. And just generally don't care about certain things as much as girls. Thankfully, I haven't had to see that in action too many times, but I'm sorry if you have. : (

Nothing is stupid to cry over! If ya feel it, ya feel it. I don't like to cry but God if I don't tear up at the silliest things. Don't worry, you're normal at least. I hope tomorrow is a better day for you!



Oh don't worry. I haven't ever seen that in action in real life either. I'm just imagining it, so it gets a bit depressing.
I read way too many books, and watch a lot of films that surround those themes. Get a bit caught up. I accept that it happens out there, but it's still sad.
Besides, if they go and do that kind of thing, then what they consider best to get to the top or whatever really isn't the best, when after all, the goal was way too easy, or something like that.
but thanks, i'm good.
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Posted by bubblyaquarius
Wow, I red 1/10th of all those long messages? I check back and all the Aquas are monologueing! Did I even spell that right? Either way, not a surprise. -_- I can't do this. I have other things to read people!!!

NO MORE LONG MESSAGES! I'm MELTINGGG!!!!



LOL not sure what to say I'll try to be more concise..? Sorry for the inconvenience ^.^?
I do like to say a lot when I got something to say so my bad.
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Hey!

I play the flute 🙂

I'm yet to met someone that was on the fence about liking me. They either LOVE me or they HATE me.

I spent 2012 in my emotions and I cant stand being in my emotions. Like even when I'm able to rationalize a situation I still feel emo about it. NOT good.

As of late, I've been able to tap back into my logical mind and I'm starting to feel better about myself and life in general.

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Posted by Aqukeen
Hey!

I play the flute 🙂

I'm yet to met someone that was on the fence about liking me. They either LOVE me or they HATE me.

I spent 2012 in my emotions and I cant stand being in my emotions. Like even when I'm able to rationalize a situation I still feel emo about it. NOT good.

As of late, I've been able to tap back into my logical mind and I'm starting to feel better about myself and life in general.



it's probably the "fixed" nature of you. Fixed = all or nothing. Unless packed with other modes.

Look at Sarah Palin (Stellium Aquarius, tons of it, and she's super loved and super hated)
I'm guessing other super duper fixed signs get that reaction too.