Robobob
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Aquarius woman struggles
@vixen: I didn't even think about that. You might be right. Being a rebound has always been a big unwanted part of my history. I'll definitely have to keep that in consideration.
@shakedown it is very messy. I think it's always been this way though. Maybe I'm just here for the clean up process? I guess that kind of goes into the rebound part.
In the military world we have an expression. "She's not yours, it's just your turn to f*** her." It's used for when young soldiers latch onto the first person that shows interest in them in a coed environment. It's definitely been circulating in my head. I'm 28 now, red flags aren't so invisible anymore. I know there is baggage but I'm pretty good at carrying stuff. I'll stay on my wits though. Or try at least.
@shakedown it is very messy. I think it's always been this way though. Maybe I'm just here for the clean up process? I guess that kind of goes into the rebound part.
In the military world we have an expression. "She's not yours, it's just your turn to f*** her." It's used for when young soldiers latch onto the first person that shows interest in them in a coed environment. It's definitely been circulating in my head. I'm 28 now, red flags aren't so invisible anymore. I know there is baggage but I'm pretty good at carrying stuff. I'll stay on my wits though. Or try at least.
Also try the fish sometime. We can be total garbage but we are capable of amazing things once we get a grip on things.
I refer to myself as like a fish, not because I'm Pisces, but because I like shiny things (women). Im not saying women are objects, it's just for the analogy.
But so it's like a fish in a pond and there's a bunch of fishers. Lots of shiny things floating around. I'll nibble here and nibble there, but once I get caught I'm hooked. Then we just go with the flow until the hook gets ripped out and leaves a scar, or we are kept.
It's interesting that in some pictures, 1 fish goes towards heaven and 1 goes towards hell. It really all depends on which direction the Fisher takes me. Myself, I'm a mirror. It helps me adapt and master my surroundings. Take me to hell and you'll see me be the king. Take me to heaven and you'll see just how much of an angel I can be.
Or something like that. It's 3am for me lol
I refer to myself as like a fish, not because I'm Pisces, but because I like shiny things (women). Im not saying women are objects, it's just for the analogy.
But so it's like a fish in a pond and there's a bunch of fishers. Lots of shiny things floating around. I'll nibble here and nibble there, but once I get caught I'm hooked. Then we just go with the flow until the hook gets ripped out and leaves a scar, or we are kept.
It's interesting that in some pictures, 1 fish goes towards heaven and 1 goes towards hell. It really all depends on which direction the Fisher takes me. Myself, I'm a mirror. It helps me adapt and master my surroundings. Take me to hell and you'll see me be the king. Take me to heaven and you'll see just how much of an angel I can be.
Or something like that. It's 3am for me lol
Posted by vixen14The shade 😂Posted by RobobobLol too late. I’m with a sheep 🐑 now. But he does have Mercury in Pisces 🐟 so that must count for something right?
Also try the fish sometime. We can be total garbage but we are capable of amazing things once we get a grip on things.
I refer to myself as like a fish, not because I'm Pisces, but because I like shiny things (women). Im not saying women are objects, it's just for the analogy.
But so it's like a fish in a pond and there's a bunch of fishers. Lots of shiny things floating around. I'll nibble here and nibble there, but once I get caught I'm hooked. Then we just go with the flow until the hook gets ripped out and leaves a scar, or we are kept.
It's interesting that in some pictures, 1 fish goes towards heaven and 1 goes towards hell. It really all depends on which direction the Fisher takes me. Myself, I'm a mirror. It helps me adapt and master my surroundings. Take me to hell and you'll see me be the king. Take me to heaven and you'll see just how much of an angel I can be.
Or something like that. It's 3am for me lol
Pisces as friends are such sweethearts. I’ve actually dated a few and it just didn’t fit. Too soft and nice. I always felt like I could walk all over them. You guys are too sweet. I have a strong character so I need someone who can handle that with ease ... while not making me feel guilty about it.click to expand
Mate, all I can say is prepare for the worst roller coaster in your life with this woman.
June 2016: after my breakup from my ex wife, the Aqua starts chasing me (she was a 5-6 years divorcee with a kid). November 2016: we finally got into some sort of a relationship. She constantly tells me its too much for her, that she has high walls after being single for the last 5 years, she runs, but comes back in a day or 2. December 2016: she backs away for good, for a couple of weeks, I fall into her trap, get really involved and start chasing her with no success. End of January 2017: she tells me we will never be together. I back away, no contact. February 2017 until today: we keep in contact, at moments we talk daily, other times 1-2 weeks pass without contact. She ALWAYS comes back. She says she cant imagine her life without me lol. She touches parts of me that were never touched by others (metaphorically speaking). But we are not together. And I dont know if we will ever be.
LEARN to control your emotions with her, otherwise this coming and going will drive you insane. Do your own things and try not to think too much about her.
And keep this in mind: "Too soft and nice. I always felt like I could walk all over them. You guys are too sweet. I have a strong character so I need someone who can handle that with ease ... while not making me feel guilty about it.". Its true!
June 2016: after my breakup from my ex wife, the Aqua starts chasing me (she was a 5-6 years divorcee with a kid). November 2016: we finally got into some sort of a relationship. She constantly tells me its too much for her, that she has high walls after being single for the last 5 years, she runs, but comes back in a day or 2. December 2016: she backs away for good, for a couple of weeks, I fall into her trap, get really involved and start chasing her with no success. End of January 2017: she tells me we will never be together. I back away, no contact. February 2017 until today: we keep in contact, at moments we talk daily, other times 1-2 weeks pass without contact. She ALWAYS comes back. She says she cant imagine her life without me lol. She touches parts of me that were never touched by others (metaphorically speaking). But we are not together. And I dont know if we will ever be.
LEARN to control your emotions with her, otherwise this coming and going will drive you insane. Do your own things and try not to think too much about her.
And keep this in mind: "Too soft and nice. I always felt like I could walk all over them. You guys are too sweet. I have a strong character so I need someone who can handle that with ease ... while not making me feel guilty about it.". Its true!
Do you know her birthday? It would help to have her entire chart. I personally have a lot of Pisces friends but when it comes to dating I have found that all too easily I was able to walk all over them (not intentionally of course). There is this natural disconnect in terms of emotions. I'd definitely give her space and be patient. Ideally, though, I would move on. If I'm interested in someone I'll make a lot more effort! You deserve that kind of attention.
Posted by lesenfantterriblesI only read the first paragraphs and I also wentPosted by vixen14+1
reading this - it melts me heart...click to expand
"awwee he's so sweet! it melt my heart" 🙂
@Op
maybe you should think of Private messaging some of these single ladies.
instead of the open relationship woman who is wishy washy.
it looks like a dead end to me dude. :/
if you have no money and no house to support her since she has a child too,
and if she dosn't have a career to support herself and her children,
she's not gonna be going after some lovey dovey quest on some knight errand, to whisk her away...
unless you got the money honey.
maybe you should think of Private messaging some of these single ladies.
instead of the open relationship woman who is wishy washy.
it looks like a dead end to me dude. :/
if you have no money and no house to support her since she has a child too,
and if she dosn't have a career to support herself and her children,
she's not gonna be going after some lovey dovey quest on some knight errand, to whisk her away...
unless you got the money honey.
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