Aquarius Women and Relationships

I'm very confused about what I read about Aquarius women and relationships. If somebody can enlighten me that would be amazing!

-What does an Aquarius woman needs from a relationship?

-How is an Aquarius woman in a relationship? She's definitely not like a cancer woman, needing cuddles and lots of attention. So how are they?

I think all women are into cuddling.

Thanks to everyone for your answers!

I think @ aqulibini has hit exactly what I was wondering. Does makes me wonder more, especially since it's a sign that I have a hard time understanding. Let me ask;

1-How about the perfect evening for an Aquarius woman?

2-I kept on reading that aquarius woman are very intellectual, so what's a conversation with an aquarius woman like? Is it that she mostly sees things from an intellectual point of vue? Doesn't talk much with her feelings or talking about feelings either?

from what you wrote aqulibini1, I'm guessing light conversation is anything that won't create any kind of argument or make an aquarius feel judged or criticized? So talking about her interest might be a good subject of conversation, I would imagine.

How about the perfect date for an aquarius woman? Something to stimulate her mind?

So any conversation that shows you have a brain is what Aquarius wants but needs in someone? So if you show that you have a brain and are using it then there you go! as long as you don't pretend to know things or exaggerate your knowledge, I would imagine.

In the end, can we say that an aquarius woman will rate or prefer brain over muscles?

Posted by Leo1212
I'm very confused about what I read about Aquarius women and relationships. If somebody can enlighten me that would be amazing!

-What does an Aquarius woman needs from a relationship?

-How is an Aquarius woman in a relationship? She's definitely not like a cancer woman, needing cuddles and lots of attention. So how are they?

- She needs love and a good reason why you love her, something superficial isn't enough. They need to be loved for their minds more than their bodies "maybe just a tiny bit more" lol for the men its definitely more for the mind than the body, The aquarian ego also the most precarious??_.one minute we're the shit, the next we are shit??_so someone to reaffirm we are not the latter is a plus.

- Absentminded??_??_.brought on by an acute case of TBTPS??_Thousand, Brilliant, Thoughts, Per, Second??_..When she does this its a good time to hold her hand.

So how does an aquarius woman see the world? Does she look at people and analyze them with her intellect primarily?

Aquarian girls are just so sweet and real??_??_

I wouldn't say analyse, more like deducing, we see the world through prescription glasses, electronic microscope, magnifying glass, telescope and

binoculars because we are observers and we love our detective work its more satisfying than sex. People are big blobs of first impressions, reputations and

ego, the mystery always lies within.. We carve the bullshit away with questions, situations and a lot of split second intuitive thinking so we eventually come

up with our own unique view of that person mind you the whole time you don't have a clue this is going on??_we are very subtle and can easily disarm or

distract you you won't know shit.

our point of view is sacred for us its where we witness magic unfold??_??_our point of view is us and the world and universe revolving around us??_.every

human, animal, planet everything is of equal worth and makes up the whole picture but certain things like loved ones shine brighter than the rest??_.if your

the leo in her life, the sun in her sky its your job to shine bright to keep her warm and be a fixed point in her sights

It seems it would be hard to know if you are just one of her multiple acquaintances or more than a friend so, how does an aquarius woman goes about selecting a mate?

does it start with those light conversion, then create friendship, and later as she gets to know you, if she is interested, she goes deeper, or she just outright tells you that she wants moe than friendship at that point?

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Posted by Leo1212
I'm very confused about what I read about Aquarius women and relationships. If somebody can enlighten me that would be amazing!

-What does an Aquarius woman needs from a relationship?

-How is an Aquarius woman in a relationship? She's definitely not like a cancer woman, needing cuddles and lots of attention. So how are they?

- She needs love and a good reason why you love her, something superficial isn't enough. They need to be loved for their minds more than their bodies "maybe just a tiny bit more" lol for the men its definitely more for the mind than the body, The aquarian ego also the most precarious??_.one minute we're the shit, the next we are shit??_so someone to reaffirm we are not the latter is a plus.

- Absentminded??_??_.brought on by an acute case of TBTPS??_Thousand, Brilliant, Thoughts, Per, Second??_..When she does this its a good time to hold her hand.

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lol yes..loved for their minds more than their bodies 🙂

TBTPS 😉

Posted by Leo1212
It seems it would be hard to know if you are just one of her multiple acquaintances or more than a friend so, how does an aquarius woman goes about selecting a mate?

does it start with those light conversion, then create friendship, and later as she gets to know you, if she is interested, she goes deeper, or she just outright tells you that she wants moe than friendship at that point?

Depends on the person.

I will sometimes tell someone right out. I have to have a good amount of trust and rapport built to be direct. But that is just me. If I am interested, yes I will let more walls down and create a deeper friendship, true intimacy is sharing your inner self with another and I personally want that in a partner, it goes beyond friendship. Be careful to not get friend zoned however. It's a fine line and sometimes us (or me) wanting to be better friends gets us friend zoned by a guy. We want a Best friend & lover.

Posted by aqulibini
one cannot put every aquarius woman on the same radar. i mean we don't go about following a particular sequence. or its not like we plan out on how to go about. we arn't virgoes 😉we are too random to be them. think opposite.

its not like if one follows these n these things they can get an aquarius to love them. No. every woman is different and so is the aquarius woman. each is unique in her own way. in fact they say no other sign has more variety of individuals than aquarius sign. so if u try to be a type, one aqua may like another may completely dislike that type.

yes its hard for people to know if the aqua is interested in them. she may be but you may not know. even if she flirts with you she may not be interested. on the other hand, she may be interested but may not flirt with you at all unless she trusts u enough and sure abt her feelings for u. so u know what...go figure! lol

things happen spontaneously, just go with the flow. she is as spontaneous about her feelings as she is about anything else, u cannot boil it down to a fixed time when she will want more than friendship.

they select partner based on something about them that she finds very different. that she values but has not found in regular men. she got to respect you as a human being. something about you may touch her deep which she may not have experienced with other men whom she has friend zoned.

but u will know if she has friend zoned u when she frequently refuses offers and invitations. she will hint u that she is not interested in you. but if she is interested she may keep u guessing. so i guess u will know when she is clearly not interested in anything more than friendship.

lastly i want to tell u if u r dating an aqua or planning on one. just forget about this bs..and go with the flow..if she has seen tht special thing in u, she will like u. then these suggestions about the a

Go with the flow. Aquas do not want a game run on them, they want honest & REAL.

No worries! Not trying to follow a guide but to understand my opposite sign! 😉 The more you guys talk the more I'm understanding something totally different to who I am! So thank you everyone for your time and help 🙂

Posted by Leo1212

-What does an Aquarius woman needs from a relationship?
-How is an Aquarius woman in a relationship?

Of course consider Venus, Mars & all other placements first.

But in my personal opinion as an Aquarius, I'd say 1 of the deepest needs I have in a relationship is the feeling & knowing of being UNDERSTOOD by my partner. That is huge for me! We want you to notice our eccentric & sometimes unpredictable, yet different (in a good way) persona, but we don't want you to think that we're so far out there that you feel left hanging on earth. We want you to understand us b/c we cannot achieve the ultimate level of vulnerability with you unless their is a deep degree of understanding b/w the both of us.

Aquarians can be 1 way in the beginning & do a complete 180 the next. She may come off as very aloof, eccentric, intellectual, conversational, spontaneous & slightly detached/distant in the beginning. You'll probably notice her observing everything you say/do. You'll probably notice that she's expecting you to have an enormous amount of patience with her even though she may not have the same level of patience for you. Once she decides that she's really into you beyond lust, you'll also probably see her experiencing the infamous Aqua battle of mind vs. heart.

Once she's yours though, she's 100% yours. She'll be 110% more affectionate, open, vulnerable & trusting of what you say/do, only this time w/o needing to observe & dissect your every move to be able to trust you 1st like she did in the beginning. i.e. there will be no more need for the "tests." She'll be faithful, experimental in the bedroom & will hope & pray that you can handle her wild inhibitions that she figured you didn't see coming in the beginning.

She'll probably be extremely emotional, but won't allow you to see that side of her until she's sure that she can trust you (around the time she commits to you). She'll want you to understand that just b/c you may not be able to see it, doesn't mean it's not there or in her.

Again, I'm not speaking for all Aquas. Just my personal opinion based on how I am & the many other Aquarian women I know =)

Posted by Leo1212
No worries! Not trying to follow a guide but to understand my opposite sign! 😉 The more you guys talk the more I'm understanding something totally different to who I am! So thank you everyone for your time and help 🙂

I agree with everyone when they say that you can't put all of 1 sign in a box, but oh come on, part of the reason astrology has drawn us so into it is b/c of the eerily scary way it seems to accurately describe some of us born under the same sign!

Someone will get on a thread & say "All Scorpios are freaks" or "All libras are indecisive" & you'll see your share of the people in that sign agreeing & calling it a "Libra" or "Scorpio" thing b/c that particular trait may be found moreso in them than with most other signs. Doesn't mean that other signs can't or don't possess the same trait, but just that some signs have their own SIGNATURE traits that are more dominantly shown in their personalities than in others of a different sign.

So yes there should be a balance & open-mindedness. Know that although an astrology book would label an Aquarius as non-emotional, you could very well find one that is a complete emotional wreck in the beginning lol.

Posted by GandalftheGrey
just be yourself and stop asking Aquarius women for advice. she will be either repulsed by you or attracted to you. You should move on if she does not show interest.

Don't make him feel bad for asking for advice. There's nothing wrong with someone wanting a small heads up about Aquarians, no different than there's nothing wrong with women or men searching google for the top perfumes/colognes that turn the opposite sex on OR people searching google for sweet poems or vows, not b/c they don't have their own minds, but b/c there really is something to seeing how other people have successfully navigated through certain worlds. And Aquarius women aren't the easiest or most simple creatures to understand all the time. There's nothing wrong with that.