Are Aquarius and Libra really the perfect match ?

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Posted by IllaLupus
Relationship wise I could never date am Aquarius, they make great friends for me but relationship wise no.




Same. Super fun friends but I don't like to depend on my Aqua friends for serious stuff because they're flakey. In fact, my Aqua friend did my hair for my wedding day (super talented stylist) and I was nervous that she might not show on time or at all so I had a back up plan. Interestingly, I have Scorpio in my chart as well as prev poster I quoted. I like the dependability and stability of earth signs best for relationships.
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....I wouldn't say I would *never* date an Aqua though. I'm always open-minded. I wouldn't have wanted to date my Aqua chick friends. I would probably like one w Cap Merc, Venus or other earth. Taurus Sun I dated was not substantive & intellectual enough for me. Interestingly my Virgo husb has Aqua Mars and Taurus Moon so my Libra clearly likes a little bit sprikled here and there.
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Posted by 1thgirls
idk about it yet. I have a crush on aqua guy right now..
What I'm feeling right now is he likes to play with my emotion ALOT!



They don't like to play with emotions. People ASSUME they do.

Aqua doesn't understand emotional decisions. They can't read minds either.

And they are independent.

If you can't handle it, then that's your deal. Don't blame them.
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I agree Libra is the most emotional air sign but not remotely water. Sharing emotions makes me uncomfortable and I even have water in my chart. Yes we do want to do EVERYTHING together in the EARLY days of love but once settled into the relationship i NEED independence, space, plenty of alone time.

I understand emotional decisions but I consider it stupid to rely much on emotions to make any decisions. Logic is extremely necessary.

I agree w feby, i like the mental connection w Aqua but prefer it as a fun friend thing, unlikely romantic.

My husb is Lib Asc and we think it's funny when peopl are nauseated by our lovie gush. 😛
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this comes up alot. but i understand because of the "trine".

No, i have never been attracted to air suns, particularly gemini and libra. I'm sorry. No offense.

but there's plenty of women out there who are.

and i've never been attracted to air moons either.

although i do notice that some and only some have strong libra in their charts and they get with libra sun men. I notice this wih some sun signs like Leo suns too, but the leo suns here don't really like libra men but in real life there is the libra mars/libra dominant Anna Paquin, who is married to a double libra man. It would make sense because they are both dominant libra.




but even if you don't have libra in the sun or moon there is Matthew McConnaughy who is a libra venus and for some reason, his dominant planet is libra.

His wife is an Aquarius Sun but her top three dominant is also libra. Hmm but if you look closer, they are both water in personal planets which "get" eachother, and the libra dominant is there.



libra men don't bother me in real life as i've said before. I have relatives who are of this sun sign and they're okay, Always laughing and giggling. as if the world is but a laugh bowl. there's also the quiet nice ones, like my cousin and my brother in law.

My sister has a little libra boy with a cancer moon. And my other sister has a taurus sun baby. So they both birthed Venusian men.

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Posted by DirtyFrank
Yes they can be but one should not ignore moon as well. Its funny people also ignore venus in case of lib as venus can be either in libra in its own sign as well as horrible placement in virgo(In vedic nearly they are always virgo venus :O).

In my opinion I think both have to be mature as both tendency to flow and not settle can create problem. Personally I like them; Infact Most of my good friends in the past have been libra but that does not mean I like all libras I have met. Obviously depending upon person and time certain traits are liked or hated. For e.g. I like how they are kind and generous and fair(except if you have virgo moon ). I like their company because they are very interesting and funny, even woman are funny and see things that other signs don't get. But same traits can be neagative as well like they can be annoying in a sense like they like to debate and turn everything into argument , some times when they choose middle ground I find it weak and without conviction , other times I find them timid and kiss ass haha , sometimes I hate it when they let themselves get taken advantage . But again not all libras are balanced and aquas have their fairs share of crazies as well.

Relationship wise I think both of them have many attractive qualities and have too many choices for their own good ( generally speaking). Both of them are therefore act like spoiled brats . Also both them move on quickly as well. However stats say different things as both venusian signs are least married sign for aqua male last time I checked. Still you have to look at a person( and moon). and their background, availability and all. Not all aquas are friendly and humanitarian, not all Libras are fair and peaceful.

In female Personally I like shy ones.They are surprisingly interesting . I like how they can bring us out of our shell.IDK about Lib guy and aqua woman though. John lenon and yoko Ono



Pretty much the same I have seen in Librans. I love them as friends for sure. More than half a chance of making good companions as well imo. 🙂
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Posted by DirtyFrank
Its funny people also ignore venus in case of lib as venus can be either in libra in its own sign as well as horrible placement in virgo(In vedic nearly they are always virgo venus :O).





So very true!! Venus in virgo for a libra is a horrible placement. That placement just destroys a libra sun and make them utterly manic depressant. Libra is already an insecure sign and that virgo with its innate need for achieving perfection in oneself can really make them feel like they are not good enough ever or nothing they do is good enough. They keep striving to do better, but it just gets too much for them to handle.
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Posted by DirtyFrank
Its funny people also ignore venus in case of lib as venus can be either in libra in its own sign as well as horrible placement in virgo(In vedic nearly they are always virgo venus :O).





So very true!! Venus in virgo for a libra is a horrible placement. That placement just destroys a libra sun and make them utterly manic depressant. Libra is already an insecure sign and that virgo with its innate need for achieving perfection in oneself can really make them feel like they are not good enough ever or nothing they do is good enough. They keep striving to do better, but it just gets too much for them to handle.
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You just simplified the analysis too much! You are not correct about Virgo's effect on Venus in a Libra. It doesn't destroy Libra's sun nor takes them to be "manic depressant". Libra sun's energy is too strong plus the scales is a cardinal sign!!

Libras aren't more insecure than other signs... (in fact they have much more self-cofindence than Aquarius that's for sure, the Vessel always act very cool but when push comes to shove they usually break while Libra is the other way around::🙂

Even when a Libra goes on a self-criticizing rampage and downs themselves you have to remember their seek for scales and Dual personality. Virgo in Libra will push them to achieve perfection and be super critical on themselves. Yes, Libras will feel overwhelmed and that's when the scales kick in and Libra remembers they can't critic themselves forever so at some point more evolved Libras will ignore that placement and use it more wise

The worst part of Virgo in Venus in a Libra isn't the self-criticism and lack of temprorary self-confidence. It's when they combine that energy to the Libra's Sun innate search for harmony and perfection which results on turning the tables against YOU and start to criticize and destroy your self-confidence.
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Cool story^^

My ex was a libran and first person I lost my virginity to was libran, I don't know if if libran is bad for aqua in general I just know they weren't good for me.

Don't get me wrong there are some really smart Librans out there and I would love to rack their brains but there's something about cardinal signs that really test my patience.

Another thing I hate about librans is their ability to find the chink in my armour and exploit it
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I'm a libra woman... I had date or still dating a Aquarius .why I said had or still dating a Aquarius is because Aquarius are unpredictable.... I see the pattern maybe us libra can see it ... What pattern— Libra woman and Aquarius man going to have the perfect date .... Fun time great conversation a lot of laughs... Libra looking beautiful and all eyes on her when she dress .... Aquarius most of them tall ,handsome and smart ... The problem start here we libra wow I'm having the a great time this is the prefect man smart , fun to be with Aquarius guy always changing routine for example one he invited you to the beach, another day at a great restaurant another at a club .. Well the first date wow where this guy had been— Wow I'm so happy....... Here come the problem —?? when you go home ....,,, why he disappears—?? He now ignoring me !!!!!! Now I'm confused!!!!!! What I did wrong —? Opssss I forget he a Aquarius!!!! He different that the rest of the sign !!!!!!!! And alway going to be modest not traditionally... That the clue !!!!!!! I don't why they said libra is the best match to Aquarius because Us Libra like attention and Aquarius like they space .... I'm going to share a story about libra and Aquarius maybe you guys can help or I can help you... And what I had learned.... I'm libra 28 years old well I don't want to sound like a hoe ... We libra are charming pretty attractive and fun smart ... The problem we libra maybe try to find the prefect pattern.. I do met guy online most are doctor or I choose them but I think are the most players in my experience and more arrogant.. We libra like to be taken seriously.. Then come the oops I'm so confused who I don't who to choose.. And give chance when people messed up.. Where I first met this Leo man now he come contact me after everything was going perfect he went back with he ex. Now after 3 months he come back maybe to confuse me after I move on... He a doctor... Before leo I was dating a Aquarius but I got tired because Aquarius confuse you .. Why because Aquarius you have the best conversation great time fun to be with but after you go out with them or typically Aquarius they ignore you they don't want to be in a relationship the more Aquarius like you the more they ingore you then you as a libra will or make he fall in love with you till you get tired of trying your best if you don't call the Aquarius he don't call you then when you dating or move on this Aquarius man call we spend time together he cook for me we go out sometime now he sweet to me or I see a little change I get tired of chasing him then he call me when I alteast expected my trick or what is working date another man go out with my friends.I see him I spent the best time with him I never asked him what are we .... I have good conversations with him I treat him as my best friend but never what are we .., are talk about the future... He a doctor too... When he started getting close when I always when out with him and I get tried of chasing him and I told he I want to have sex with him ... I really like him and I through to myself I'm going to have sex with him and move on that date I send him a text and told him I want to have sex with you him was shock and didn't believe me because I always regret him . I want to have sex with because I felt chemical with him I love to spend time with him but I thought at the end I'm get tired maybe he don't want a relationship but I need to move on that date he invited me over put rose in the floor all over the house in the bed too candle romantic song cook for me wine and everything I have sex with then I call after 2 weeks he was a a conference of work then I was like I need to move on then he text me this week I didn't expect . We when out then he cook for me and have sex .. Oh well let see what happens till I find the the right man or move on .... You probably think we'll now he calling you to have sex ... maybe I love it every thing from he the way he treat me .. Well then this day I was dating a Capricorn is true Capricorn are all of money business and successful this Capricorn is busy maybe I met his in the wrong stage in life he busy opening he new business place which he don't have time for no one.... It all about he business now and I understand him... I also met this Scorpio man which is my best friends brother he want something serious with me and I didn't like he ... Why I think he shorts which I didn't have a problem but act like a chihuahua dog very possessive.. Joke thinking he funny.. Like if a man looking at me he give all this guy those look libra are attractive very classy woman and this scorpion take me out but I just don't like he is like a little man with this attitude like a chichuahua ... Beside he height don't help is more about he attitude.. I'm not going to date he anymore ...
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In conclusion we libra can seen like a hoe ,, we are picky ... What Aquarius is the love of my life... But the trick is to have a get time with them be smart, intelligent , never tell them about you want a relationship with them ... Don't call him or text him ... After you see him don't tell him I have a great time with you. ... Play the same game with him .... Always change routine always different things... Be mysterious too .... Be a fun person... Well what I think they say libra woman get along Aquarius is because we libra will try to make you feel in love with her try plans "A" and plan " B" Before we leave but we give the best then we get tired ... Until we find someone to be in a stable relationship we give chance... Then libra get tried of doing everything to attractive a Aquarius and Aquarius the more they like you the more they going run .... We then start thinking everytime we together we had a great time what wrong — Then we libra start dating people even if Aquarius is the love of our life... Then he call you when you atleast expected ... So date other intil Aquarius make he mind or you find someone better ... Then he starts spending more time with you .... Aquarius first you have to be they friend first and all that stage of relationship take progressive in the mean time just day another person I guess ... Be busy ....