Birthday vent..:(. Started my birthday ending things with my Aqua this morning. (Page 2)

Posted by Shrewdsharp
Don't cry sweet lady, I hate to see a woman cry. We may have different views about marriage, but you are sweet. Everything will be okay. He will come crawling back and then you get to decide if you want to continue. I promise. ☺

Aw you are too sweet and very kind too...🙂 lots of tears today.. though they stopped now.. I'm grateful instead if he didn't hurt me so much( for not doing anything for me) I would have not learnt why Birthday mattered to me soooo much..( back to my broken childhood) it all made sense.. there's always deep learning from pain... and the only person I can control and choose to grow is myself... I feel stronger, wiser and more adult from all of this ... so I thank the experience truly..🙂 painful but worth it..( except the lubricant part) that I can never get over lol

Posted by Adreamuponwaking
To be fair some guys use lube to masturbate

......not saying that he was actually faithful....

but possession of lube doesn't necessarily indicate infidelity.

Regardless to whether he was cheating you are not he doesn't sound like a good partner.

There are better suitors out there and, you definitely deserve better.

Happy Birthday by the way !!!

Thank you so much.. I do agree about I deserve better the partner part.. though, the lube.. really? Men carry lube to masturbate?? Hehe.. right lol.. seriously? nah... he use it on other women.... I am 1000 right about that... I can never get over that....sadly

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Adreamuponwaking
To be fair some guys use lube to masturbate

......not saying that he was actually faithful....

but possession of lube doesn't necessarily indicate infidelity.

Regardless to whether he was cheating you are not he doesn't sound like a good partner.

There are better suitors out there and, you definitely deserve better.

Happy Birthday by the way !!!

Thank you so much.. I do agree about I deserve better the partner part.. though, the lube.. really? Men carry lube to masturbate?? Hehe.. right lol.. seriously? nah... he use it on other women.... I am 1000 right about that... I can never get over that....sadly

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It's true. Especially if they use a male masturbator.

I learned of this recent phenomenon at a sex workshop hosted by two world renown sex educators.

Lube doesn't only enhance sex with two people it's also amazing for solo play.

I've since incorporated the use of lube...and let me tell you....

it definitely was a "game changer"lol.

But anywho like I said he definitely is probably cheating on you.

I just wanted to voice that there is a trend to use lube for solo play by both men and women.

Men more so though i think.

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Posted by Shrewdsharp
What are you going to do when he comes crawling back? I see him trying to come back...2 of cups....I see him crying miserably- 9 of swords. And He may come with a gift....

Who leaves a good Taurus woman?

Right Taurus women are marriage material?

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According to one of my favorite astrologer Taurus is the number sign Libra men marry; They are faithful (unless they have Venus in Gemini), hard-working, affectionate, hippy, sexual, and stable.

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Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Shrewdsharp
What are you going to do when he comes crawling back? I see him trying to come back...2 of cups....I see him crying miserably- 9 of swords. And He may come with a gift....

Who leaves a good Taurus woman?

Right Taurus women are marriage material?

According to one of my favorite astrologer Taurus is the number sign Libra men marry; They are faithful (unless they have Venus in Gemini), hard-working, affectionate, hippy, sexual, and stable.

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lol unless they have a venus in Gemini...



too funny

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Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Shrewdsharp
What are you going to do when he comes crawling back? I see him trying to come back...2 of cups....I see him crying miserably- 9 of swords. And He may come with a gift....

Who leaves a good Taurus woman?

Right Taurus women are marriage material?

According to one of my favorite astrologer Taurus is the number sign Libra men marry; They are faithful (unless they have Venus in Gemini), hard-working, affectionate, hippy, sexual, and stable.

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Hahaha ' I am faithful n I have venus in Gemini. I have learnt to put that Gemini under control lol

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Adreamuponwaking
To be fair some guys use lube to masturbate

......not saying that he was actually faithful....

but possession of lube doesn't necessarily indicate infidelity.

Regardless to whether he was cheating you are not he doesn't sound like a good partner.

There are better suitors out there and, you definitely deserve better.

Happy Birthday by the way !!!

Thank you so much.. I do agree about I deserve better the partner part.. though, the lube.. really? Men carry lube to masturbate?? Hehe.. right lol.. seriously? nah... he use it on other women.... I am 1000 right about that... I can never get over that....sadly

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Of course they do, lol! Or for gay sex, if he is so inclined.

Who uses lube on a woman younger that 70..?!!

Anyway, you are better without him. He was making you unhappy...resentment was building up.

Posted by Undine

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Adreamuponwaking
To be fair some guys use lube to masturbate

......not saying that he was actually faithful....

but possession of lube doesn't necessarily indicate infidelity.

Regardless to whether he was cheating you are not he doesn't sound like a good partner.

There are better suitors out there and, you definitely deserve better.

Happy Birthday by the way !!!

Thank you so much.. I do agree about I deserve better the partner part.. though, the lube.. really? Men carry lube to masturbate?? Hehe.. right lol.. seriously? nah... he use it on other women.... I am 1000 right about that... I can never get over that....sadly

Of course they do, lol! Or for gay sex, if he is so inclined.

Who uses lube on a woman younger that 70..?!!

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Seriously?? Ofcoz men wud use lube if women r dry right?

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Undine

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Adreamuponwaking
To be fair some guys use lube to masturbate

......not saying that he was actually faithful....

but possession of lube doesn't necessarily indicate infidelity.

Regardless to whether he was cheating you are not he doesn't sound like a good partner.

There are better suitors out there and, you definitely deserve better.

Happy Birthday by the way !!!

Thank you so much.. I do agree about I deserve better the partner part.. though, the lube.. really? Men carry lube to masturbate?? Hehe.. right lol.. seriously? nah... he use it on other women.... I am 1000 right about that... I can never get over that....sadly

Of course they do, lol! Or for gay sex, if he is so inclined.

Who uses lube on a woman younger that 70..?!!

Seriously?? Ofcoz men wud use lube if women r dry right?

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Why would a woman who consents to have sex be dry...— Most of them have the opposite problem...we and our environment have plenty of estrogen...the latter thanks to the pill and HRT. I use tissue paper during sex to dry my excess of natural juices, so I could feel him rubbing, not swimming. Not lube!

Lube is not for women, unless they are way post menopausal and refuse to take HRT.

Posted by Undine

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Undine

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Adreamuponwaking
To be fair some guys use lube to masturbate

......not saying that he was actually faithful....

but possession of lube doesn't necessarily indicate infidelity.

Regardless to whether he was cheating you are not he doesn't sound like a good partner.

There are better suitors out there and, you definitely deserve better.

Happy Birthday by the way !!!

Thank you so much.. I do agree about I deserve better the partner part.. though, the lube.. really? Men carry lube to masturbate?? Hehe.. right lol.. seriously? nah... he use it on other women.... I am 1000 right about that... I can never get over that....sadly

Of course they do, lol! Or for gay sex, if he is so inclined.

Who uses lube on a woman younger that 70..?!!

Seriously?? Ofcoz men wud use lube if women r dry right?

Why would a woman who consents to have sex be dry...— Most of them have the opposite problem...we and our environment have plenty of estrogen...the latter thanks to the pill and HRT. I use tissue paper during sex to dry my excess of natural juices, so I could feel him rubbing, not swimming. Not lube!

Lube is not for women, unless they are way post menopausal and refuse to take HRT.

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That was my first inclination. It could be the same sex. Because lube for a woman sounds weird unless he pre planned anal.

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Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Undine

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Adreamuponwaking
To be fair some guys use lube to masturbate

......not saying that he was actually faithful....

but possession of lube doesn't necessarily indicate infidelity.

Regardless to whether he was cheating you are not he doesn't sound like a good partner.

There are better suitors out there and, you definitely deserve better.

Happy Birthday by the way !!!

Thank you so much.. I do agree about I deserve better the partner part.. though, the lube.. really? Men carry lube to masturbate?? Hehe.. right lol.. seriously? nah... he use it on other women.... I am 1000 right about that... I can never get over that....sadly

Of course they do, lol! Or for gay sex, if he is so inclined.

Who uses lube on a woman younger that 70..?!!

Seriously?? Ofcoz men wud use lube if women r dry right?

Why would a woman who consents to have sex be dry...— Most of them have the opposite problem...we and our environment have plenty of estrogen...the latter thanks to the pill and HRT. I use tissue paper during sex to dry my excess of natural juices, so I could feel him rubbing, not swimming. Not lube!

Lube is not for women, unless they are way post menopausal and refuse to take HRT.

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Really? Interest

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Posted by saweetz1988

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Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Adreamuponwaking
To be fair some guys use lube to masturbate

......not saying that he was actually faithful....

but possession of lube doesn't necessarily indicate infidelity.

Regardless to whether he was cheating you are not he doesn't sound like a good partner.

There are better suitors out there and, you definitely deserve better.

Happy Birthday by the way !!!

Thank you so much.. I do agree about I deserve better the partner part.. though, the lube.. really? Men carry lube to masturbate?? Hehe.. right lol.. seriously? nah... he use it on other women.... I am 1000 right about that... I can never get over that....sadly

Of course they do, lol! Or for gay sex, if he is so inclined.

Who uses lube on a woman younger that 70..?!!

Seriously?? Ofcoz men wud use lube if women r dry right?

Why would a woman who consents to have sex be dry...— Most of them have the opposite problem...we and our environment have plenty of estrogen...the latter thanks to the pill and HRT. I use tissue paper during sex to dry my excess of natural juices, so I could feel him rubbing, not swimming. Not lube!

Lube is not for women, unless they are way post menopausal and refuse to take HRT.

That was my first inclination. It could be the same sex. Because lube for a woman sounds weird unless he pre planned anal.

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Ok this is interesting coz lately he's been poking his fingers into Ma anal lol the time before our last encounter he poked into my anal n I said I loved it and said we need lube for next time.... shit that explains some things

Anyway, it's all over now. Farewell goodbye ..... I blocked him from fb n phone ...( suggested by dxpnet user here) apparently I have to play some game... meh, the time is all off... would b better to connect 5 months from now wud b much better.....

Posted by saweetz1988
He didn't do anything at all for me... no wine.. no presents no cake... just a happy birthday song he sang to me at midnight.. n on top of that, i felt his distant since last time we met.. colder and colder... also, saw a lubricant in his jacket which we never ever use ever... after sex( no kiss) on the lips... when I hugged him from behind when he went straight to his computer to do his assignment after sex.. I saw messages in another language with this girl.. a tongue emoticon and lots of capitals !!! Not sure what that was about but that's when I realised.. I can not see him anymore. I'm not doing this to myself.. no matter how much I love him, my love tank is way too empty... I can't be with someone who is growing more distant and who does not care enough about me. I told him how much my birthday meant to me because of my child hood and he said he's very sorry n asked me what I wanted n I said no, that's fine .. I don't want anything ( it shudnt work like that) .. last birthday I made sure I asked him what he wanted to do n if he planned anything special for a week before!!! And I got him a few small gifts even though I only knew him for a few months then..: it's been 5 with us... but he didn't even ask me anything ... I can c he's extremely crazily busy with his uni and work( or maybe another woman) but seriously man. I'm done... I walked him out and told him I can't see him anymore n gave him a good bye n he said what is this all about. I told him about the lubricant and he says... ah babe I carry them around with me..( seriously?) lol. So I just said that's fine u don't have to try to explain anything I know it's not for me... n he says ok babe I know you don't trust me then went to kiss me on the lips— I refused and hes like seriously—? n I'm like I'm very serious I'm sorry.... n he's like, ok I don't have time for this I need to go to work.... anyway... my birthday with 30 mins sleep... sufferered the whole night coz I was thinking heaps n he was snoring next to me. I was so angry I wanted to just kick him out lol..... anyway, it's over now. I don't wanna hear from him... I don't know if I wanna be friends. I'm not ready now..'I need to move on....😢

You are ungrateful.