Breaking friendship with aquarius woman

How do u guys feel when someones chooses to distance themselves from u aqua women!!! i fell in love withthis aqua woman but sadly she sees me as a brother etc.....and she asked me to help her find a guy cuz she was strugglin in that matterwhich i did but anyway!! I notice recently i couldnt stand her anymore and chose to take my distance from her......it came out a lil sour as she was trying to look out for me n i said go away n never text me anymore!!

Posted by Jimbayou
How do u guys feel when someones chooses to distance themselves from u aqua women!!! i fell in love withthis aqua woman but sadly she sees me as a brother etc.....and she asked me to help her find a guy cuz she was strugglin in that matterwhich i did but anyway!! I notice recently i couldnt stand her anymore and chose to take my distance from her......it came out a lil sour as she was trying to look out for me n i said go away n never text me anymore!!

Rejection sucks. You don't owe her anything but you don't have to be bitter about it either. Just keep your distance and find someone who sees you as boyfriend material. I wouldn't hang with a person so inconsiderate of my feelings for them that they try and get me to help them find somebody. You better find your way out of my damn face.

EveryOunce



I agree but fuck that shit i was annoyed its not reallyabout being bitter just need to move on.....at the same time i wonder if shes angry or simply indifferent about it i wonder!!!

I may reject someone but im not that inconsiderate to ask him/her to find me someone knowing he/she likes me rather i make sure she doesnt find out as to not hurt the person who likes me more,its the right thing to do your protecting your heart

Did you tell her you like her?

Aquarius09



Yes i did told her at least three times!! the first time she was weird for a week & said if i was serious i wouldve called n told on the phone but she even avoids talkin on the phone so afterall i was just sick and tired of being that brother and empty texting to make her feel better about her skinny ass

Aqua woman are a little weird. The earthy aquas can go from madly in love to friend zoning in a heartbeat. I remember i was having sex with this aqua woman and dating another woman. Months passed by after not making the relationship move, she stopped the sex and started the friendzone period. She bragged how i pleased her the best from all the men she has been with, but she didnt want sex anymore. I respected that and became good friends with her.

Posted by Jimbayou
Aquarius09



Yes i did told her at least three times!! the first time she was weird for a week & said if i was serious i wouldve called n told on the phone but she even avoids talkin on the phone so afterall i was just sick and tired of being that brother and empty texting to make her feel better about her skinny ass

Okay. I'm sorry this happened to you but realize that our expectations of other cause our own heartbreak. You see, to her you're a friend and she treats you like one given the things she does with you or asking you to find her a guy.

To you, she's more and therefore you were expecting her to reciprocate your feelings. She made it clear that she's not into you romantically. At that point you should've asked yourself whether you're okay with just being friends and doing those things for her as a friend. If you were being good to her with an ulterior motive of reciprocation of your feelings, then you caused your own heartbreak because you stayed around for something you weren't going to get.

Aquarius09

I am not putting all dis on her i am 200% mad at myself but look!!! I have a few aqua female friends and they told me to stick around etc cuz they most of the time end up with their male best friend ....it was the case for them!!!i realize i cant do that shit im a lil too prideful for that...... n i need to get me someone asap!! I wonder if i hurt her feelings or watever cuz she never shows emotions etc

Jimbayou, what's your sign if you don't mind me asking? What I'm about to say won't help you with your Aqua, but may help if you meet another Aqua (or another sign) down the line.

I'm currently dating an Aqua lady and I still treat her the same as any other sign (I just move slower than my usual speed with her). I found with the Aqua lady it's best to remain "friendly", but not to solely act as just friends. An Aqua woman is still a woman, and she needs that spark/mystery that being only friends doesn't provide.

So your Aqua lady friends weren't necessarily wrong. It could be that your Aqua never saw you as more than a friend, but really it could be that by acting as just a friend, you gave her the "only" friendship vibe.

Best option is to just leave her alone. If you REALLY want to burn the bridge with her then get super passive aggressive and hostile towards her. I don't recommend this though as you will come across as psychotic.

Posted by Jimbayou
How do u guys feel when someones chooses to distance themselves from u aqua women!!! i fell in love withthis aqua woman but sadly she sees me as a brother etc.....and she asked me to help her find a guy cuz she was strugglin in that matterwhich i did but anyway!! I notice recently i couldnt stand her anymore and chose to take my distance from her......it came out a lil sour as she was trying to look out for me n i said go away n never text me anymore!!

There is a possibility you could have gone along with it, hung out with her alot during the process, she meets a few guys and it don't work out and by that time she is comfortable enough with you that she decides one day that she looks at you as more. Even if yall never have a relationship she would have at least let you have the goods for being a good sport and friend towards her. I mean Aquarius people roll that way alot lol

Unless she was your actual brother its not like it couldn't change but I understand how you feel. You probably want something more straightforward in the beginning but it would have been better not to make comments and now make it look like she was justified in not seeing you as more at this very moment. It makes you come off an insecure, I know because ive been there before.

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High Tide

She knows me as much as i know her!!! but this entire thing was totally unpredictable ....inever thought id do it but i need to move on !! I am in a mental state where i just need my space n focus on other stuff ....havin her around only made me feel worse about myself!! I honestly never expected her to be straighfoward im very patient.... but right now im done ....im goin bald already lol !!! I need someone to rub this baldhead



Actually im a pisces-taurus ascendant