Breath of fresh air.

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by Huntress on Friday, December 21, 2012 and has 19 replies.

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@Huntress
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I've been popping up here lately. Hi. πŸ˜›

I've been freed from a long term relationship (engaged couple years). Since then an Aqua Sun/Leo Moon whom always interested me seamlessly flowed back into my life. Years back we'd talk frequently til twilight - sometimes would enjoy wine together and make out. We had a spark yet on different wavelengths at the time. We began dating other people, drifted, occasionally spoke.

My last ex had a chart full of Scorpio. He became annoyed and off-put with the alone time that I sometimes need. Always prying, poking. I need to recharge and vibe out. He was too intrusive for me.

This Aquarius and I aren't dating. We're taking it how it comes. We're friends first and foremost - romantically inclined second, lovers last.

He's the one person that I feel is judgment-free with me and encourages my independence. I'm NOT a tangible personality and indulge in various quirky interests. He's a positive person (I'm opposite), intelligent, and freaking hilarious. We talk about everything from abstract to concrete - history to scientific discovery.

He's dynamic and as lovers, appreciates that I switch from dominant to submissive (vice versa) without warning. He instantaneously adapts. He appeals to the feline in me, with always stroking my hair, back, neck without seeking sexual return. Romantically, he initiates - asking to see me, contacting me, dropping what he's doing if I need help. He expressed that he *really* liked me and emphasized that it was romantic - not sexual. I replied that I'm starting to like him more - because that's just me πŸ˜›

Whether this fades away and we drift, or stick around and feed the fire.. I'm enjoying the moment. No pressure. πŸ™‚

I know I'm rambling - but I SORT OF have a point: I'm a douche and I'm sorry. I did the worst; I judged Aquarians and assumed the sign was emotionally reclusive and flaky. This probably comes from some family members that have heavy Aqua placements - I deduced, illogically. I created a logical fallacy resultant of encountering family affairs, flaky individuals, and being immature.

So yeah. I'm sorry. Big time.

tl;dr I was wrong. You rock.

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@Huntress
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Posted by peanutsNcrackers
Ha, wonder what this guy's chart is, we seem to have a lot in common in terms of behavior.

Heh; you used to be all over scorpios the last time you were here.

I can list placements but without Ascending and Houses.

Well, yes. I was with my Scorpion for years, and very much in love and happy. Of course I gravitated that way of forums πŸ˜›

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@Huntress
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Him:
Sun Aquarius
Moon Leo
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Capricorn
Mars Capricorn
Jupiter Cancer
Saturn Capricorn
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Scorpio
Asc node Aquarius

Me (because I'm a conceited Leo):
Sun Leo
Moon Scorpio
Mercury Virgo
Venus Virgo
Mars Virgo
Jupiter Leo
Saturn Aquarius
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Capricorn
Asc node Capricorn

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@firewaterearthpiscesvenus
13 Years

Congrats on your friendship with Aqua. Having an evolved Aqua in your life is awesome....forget about the rest. Unless, you are a glutton for emotional punishment and have lots of time to waste.

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@Huntress
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πŸ™‚ Thank you everyone
I seem to attract Capricorn dominant charts.

On a slightly humorous note.. his room is the dirtiest room I've ever seen. Slowly, he's been cleaning it for me.

We're going along with the ebb and flow. My Aqua grandmother says that alot; "we're just plankton going along with the ebb and flow of the ocean"

Hope everyone has the loveliest of holidays and keep around loved ones. I'm not sure if there are other Grinches around (like I), but try to enjoy the season in your own fashion πŸ˜‰

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@aquasnoz
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Posted by Huntress
πŸ™‚ Thank you everyone
I seem to attract Capricorn dominant charts.

On a slightly humorous note.. his room is the dirtiest room I've ever seen. Slowly, he's been cleaning it for me.

We're going along with the ebb and flow. My Aqua grandmother says that alot; "we're just plankton going along with the ebb and flow of the ocean"

Guilty as charged. I much prefer to call it organised chaos.

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@lisabethur8
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Posted by aquasnoz

Posted by Huntress
πŸ™‚ Thank you everyone
I seem to attract Capricorn dominant charts.

On a slightly humorous note.. his room is the dirtiest room I've ever seen. Slowly, he's been cleaning it for me.

We're going along with the ebb and flow. My Aqua grandmother says that alot; "we're just plankton going along with the ebb and flow of the ocean"

Guilty as charged. I much prefer to call it organised chaos.

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Pfff goodness gracious, ladyyyy, one of my husbands dominant planet is the SUN! and lady.....talk about lazying around like a LION πŸ˜„ πŸ˜„ I love it though. Purrrrs.

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@Scorpio20
13 Years

I have the exact placements as him except for my Sun:Scorpio and Moon:Virgo
...most don't believe me to be a Scorpio since i'm so relaxed and not nearly as intense.

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@Huntress
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Bumping the old thread of mine... We're official. He's really serious about this and regularly shows emotion, externally - more than me. Aqua even surprised me by admitting that he thought he'd scare ME off with how serious he is about this and how long he's wanted to make it official.

I'm really floored by this one. He's NOT budging despite my insistence that I'm quite a bit to handle.

πŸ™‚