Slept with my Aqua friend of 4 years now we are tip toeing around each other

So my Aqua friend of 4 years and I had sex for the second time in two weeks on Saturday and when I was taking him and his friend back to the train station he played this on the Aux cord. I guess I know the answer to what he wants smh. How stupid of me to think he’d actually want to try a long distance relationship. I guess I kind of thought that because he kept saying he wanted to talk about it But we haven’t so now I think he is just stalling cuz he doesn’t want to hurt my feelings but I’d rather discuss it while I’m rational and not in my feelings but I’m getting there.

Lyrics;

You was like my best friend

You was like my best friend

We used to be best friends 'til we started sexin'

What's next girl, 'cause it's up to you

Can we still be best friends after what just happened

It's a bad thing, but it feels so good

(Let me beat it up like Jaegen)

We used to be best friends 'til we started sexin'

What's next girl, 'cause it's up to you

Can we still be best friends after what just happened

It's a bad thing, but it feels so good

You was like my best friend, you was like my best friend

Yeah my best friend, girl what's up with you

You was like my best friend, my best friend

Even though we're sexin', let's be best friends too

I got rich and cut off all my exes (all my exes)

They like, "Boy grow up, " I'm adolescent (I'm adolescent)

Feds pulled up on you askin' questions (askin' questions)

Fuck around and took some of my best friends, yeah yeah

I'm too fuckin' poppin' for a Westin (a Westin)

I can't tell nobody where I'm stayin' (where I'm stayin') (yeah)

I get on my fly shit outta patron (patron) (yeah)

I smell like the money, it's my fragrance, yeah yeah

Now I got a house inside my basement, yeah yeah

Used to trap in houses that was vacant, yeah yeah

I poured up a double cup and faced it (faced it)

If I said I loved you I was fakin'

I wasn't into you baby

Before I was into you I was a friend to you baby

I hope I remember you baby

You been playin', sorry if I ain't feelin' you lately

But you are so beautiful baby

I'm just sayin', I don't know what to do with you baby

Don't tell me you through with me baby

Understand I don't want you to be my old lady

But I know you want me to stay

I know you want me to, I know you want to convey

I know I'm one in a million

Look at the ceiling, you ever seen stars in the Wraith?

And I can be part of your day

Pardon me, where do you want me to take you today?

They want to take me away, fuck what they say, it's okay

We used to be best friends 'til we started sexin'

What's next girl, 'cause it's up to you

Can we still be best friends after what just happened

It's a bad thing, but it feels so good

You was like my best friend, you was like my best friend

Yeah my best friend, girl what's up with you

You was like my best friend, my best friend

Even though we're sexin', let's be best friends too

While we on the topic, let's talk about it

You gon' find somebody better, yeah shawty I doubt it

You knew I was ballin', you was tryna scout it

You just played the sideline, I was tryna out it

Pulled up in the Audi, I did it proudly

Put them diamonds in my mouthpiece, smokin' loudly

At this moment she realized she couldn't live without me

Told her, "Hop up in the sky before this shit get cloudy"

Don't you doubt me, 'cause I be spendin' dividends

I been out and switchin' into them different Benzes

Got my dollars up and dipped and onto ya friendses

Rollie on me, presidential like the president, bitch

Only you know I won't try you, why would I try to?

Every city that I fly through, I try to fly you

When you look just like the pictures I just can't deny you

Now let me beat that pussy red like it was bangin' Piru

Girl you know I wanna dine on you, I'ma line you

Fuck around and make me wanna put you in a spiral, hit your spinal

Touchin' you like I was tryna spin a vinyl

I just slip and slide through, sicker than some swine flu

Yeah, come do it all for me, 'cause I do it all for you

Whenever I need it I'm fallin' through

When I need to get it I'm callin' you

You know you got it

All of the numerous rumors are probably true

Something I'd probably do, I gotta be honest with you

Best friends

What's next girl, 'cause it's up to you

Best friends after what just happened

You was like my best friend

My best friend, girl what's up with you

My best friend, even though we're sexin', let's be best friends too

Posted by Jade_Alexander

I think you need to stop having sex with soneone you’re not secure enough to talk openly with.

I have no idea what thise lyrics mean. He is probably trying to figure you out.

Decide what you want and talk to him. You can be brave.

Definitely you’re right he lives two hours away so I’ll have time to sort out my thoughts out without physical contact and it’s not that I don’t feel comfortable talking to him it’s just actually getting what I want to say to come out of my mouth. I have trouble voicing Any kind of commitment conversation. I dance around words I hate it. It is like a physical barrier stopping me. We’ve tried to have this conversation three times with him bringing it up but either I have froze or something has come up and we’re not alone or we don’t have time to talk about it . This is also an awkward week to talk about it because today’s his birthday and it’s two days until Valentine’s Day so I think we’re both right avoiding the conversation this week . But all of this rejection could just be in my head but I’m not sure what to think

People who use music/lyrics to communicate is cringe

You're confused because you had sex before "the conversation" 🤷

Good luck figuring this out. I'm just hoping that no matter what, your friendship of 4 years doesn't take a blow.

Over analyzation of the situation. Some guys just think of it as a added perk to the friendship category.

Is this the aqua you dated before?

Next song: "it'll never be the same"

Posted by MissWater

He may not like that you changed after having sex. You look like suddenly want a committed relationship because of it.

But I never said that I just wanted to know what was going on . Like have you always follows the way or did you just sample or what’s going on I’m not Trying to rush in to anything because to be honest let’s hang out these last couple weeks I realize I didn’t know him as well as I thought I did so before we get into a relationship that’s what’s going to happen I would like to know more. At this point I’m ready just to just pretend it never happened and never let it ever happen again

Posted by DrinkWater

Please tell us what moves he used to slip outa the friend zone and into the bone zone...

But I’m screaming this comment is hilarious.

Posted by DrinkWater

Posted by ladylibra21

Posted by DrinkWater

Please tell us what moves he used to slip outa the friend zone and into the bone zone...

But I’m screaming this comment is hilarious.

But what did he do?

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I think we both had that tension there from the first time we ever met but I just used ignore her used to say OK I don’t really like him I like his ambition and his inspiration and I just kept lying to myself. I didn’t think he lied to me like that to be honest or I had kind of thought that he did and just didn’t anymore. Again I can’t tell if he was just taking an opportunity or if he really likes me because we haven’t talked about it.

Posted by DrinkWater

Posted by ladylibra21

Posted by DrinkWater

Please tell us what moves he used to slip outa the friend zone and into the bone zone...

But I’m screaming this comment is hilarious.

But what did he do?

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But as far as what he did we haven’t really seen each other in a while I saw him in November when I came to New York but before that it was a year before When I had last seen him. We got to where we were texting every other day almost every day then we just happened to have an acting project together and he came up here for the project And so we got to spend time on a weekly basis these last couple of weeks in the car a lot. One night when I was dropping him off at the train station we hugged and he kissed me but then we held hands all the way back to my house and 🤷🏽‍♀️

Just be normal and see what shakes out.