Can't understand my aqua girlfriend.

So my girl and I have been together 6 months now, but as of late we've hit a weird place. She's run into some financial troubles and has become stressed and depressed. I offered to help but that was a whole fight but I eventually did but it wasn't enough. She told me my word doesn't mean shit. I picked her up from work today and its always this....I don't know how to describe it. She can be very nonchalant, I don't know if she doesn't care or if that's just her. To me she don't give a fuck about this relationship but she says she wants to be with me. Idk what to do.

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Posted by MysticMonk
So my girl and I have been together 6 months now, but as of late we've hit a weird place. She's run into some financial troubles and has become stressed and depressed. I offered to help but that was a whole fight but I eventually did but it wasn't enough. She told me my word doesn't mean shit. I picked her up from work today and its always this....I don't know how to describe it. She can be very nonchalant, I don't know if she doesn't care or if that's just her. To me she don't give a fuck about this relationship but she says she wants to be with me. Idk what to do.

Aquas don't like to be helped. She probably feels like shes lost her financial freedom. Kinda like emasculated even tho shes a girl.

Thats a tough situation. Sometimes the more you pressure to help the more distant and cold she will become

Only advice is to give her space and time. Actions are stronger than words although if you really know how to connect and calm an aqua... hats off to you cause thats tough

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You took the words right out of my mouth.

So should he ask his money back so she will calm down?

I am not an Aqua but I wouldn't accept money nor gift from person I love.

Just from one I am not too crazy about but keeping company with.

It's definitely emasculating for her to receive help, well I'm an aqua female as well and that's how I would feel. We don't like to ever feel like we owe anyone even if you gave the money we would still feel like we own you. Best advice is give her space and periodically check in just saying you care or thinking about her. And when the stress is over, decreased, or 'she has her time to analysize and process the situation she'll return renewed. Our time alone is like a restart button to refill up on energy.

She's been waking up late everyday and getting to work late. Ive been giving her space and what not, I call to wake her up she goes back to sleep. I take her to work and pick her up something I always do now she says thank you I appreciate it. I think she doesn't love me anymore. I try to kiss her hug her I'm pushed away. I don't feel wanted when she does that. Makes me want to be with someone else sometimes.

Just dump her and move on then