Confused

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Capricorngirl1111
@Capricorngirl1111
8 Years

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I told my older aqua bf that I will go to Chicago for an awards show. He asked me if he can come there for one day to see me there during the weekend. I said ok ofcourse I would love it. We don't get to spend nights together because he was living with his separated ex wife for kids while divorce was final (he just got his own place today). And I am taking care of my widow mother since my father just passed away. So I'm guessing he wanted to come to Chicago to see me so we can get away and have a good time together. We are coworkers and aren't allowed to date so it also sucks. So he said it will be nice to be away from stress.

He offered to come 3 days ago but hasn't bought his tickets yet and I leave in 4 days.. I keep saying are you for sure coming? And he said yes I can't miss it. But he hasn't bought his tickets. Told I said " baby we need to get your tickets today!!" He said "no kidding" and I looked up tickets and it's expensive.. I texted him "I looked up tickets earlier and for all flights its 650 ):" he hasn't replied. He is going to another city before coming to see me for work reasons so that's why it's expensive. Does he want to come still? Shouldn't he have gotten the tickets? How do u approach it without being needy and demanding?