First Kiss

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by ladylibra21 on Wednesday, October 7, 2015 and has 17 replies.

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@sultrykitty
11 Years5,000+ Posts

I was thinking the same thing... ^^^

Mine took 3 months or so, and I wasn't altogether sure he liked me up to that point. Things moved very fast after that. But we were young and hormonal (19).

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@PillowFortBuilder
11 Years

Posted by AquaMermaid
It took me 3 months to kiss my first bf(I was 15) and more than a year to kiss my husband when he was courting me.

OMG a year? He's got the paintence of a saint.

Please tell me you have Cap venus.....if not then I got even longer.

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@PillowFortBuilder
11 Years

Posted by sultrykitty
I was thinking the same thing... ^^^

Mine took 3 months or so, and I wasn't altogether sure he liked me up to that point. Things moved very fast after that. But we were young and hormonal (19).

As a fellow leo I feel anything over a week is rough...

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@Angmodurian
11 Years

Lol, why wait for them to kiss you, if you sense the time is right, Kiss them in a fun & relaxing setting so it doesnt turn awkward. Our mouth or expression will not say much, but there is already a torrent inside that well guarded bottle 😄

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@PillowFortBuilder
11 Years

Posted by Angmodurian
Lol, why wait for them to kiss you, if you sense the time is right, Kiss them in a fun & relaxing setting so it doesnt turn awkward. Our mouth or expression will not say much, but there is already a torrent inside that well guarded bottle 😄

Alcohol can lead one to misread the situationll

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@sultrykitty
11 Years5,000+ Posts

PFB, don't follow that advice!

I say that only because I inow your situation. I think I initiated our first kiss (which went further), but we didn't have "the talk" that you and yours have. That came later, lol.

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@degenerate_ingenue
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It took a year and a half for one Aqua guy to kiss me. Friends first. I was quietly interested and one night it just happened but he was the initiator!

The other two Aquas I was with it took maybe just a couple months of dating. We were friends first too though. The Aqua I dated in 09, we never even kissed. We just transitioned back to being just friends.

I suppose it varies for everyone. I'm always much too nervous and shy to make any first moves, so I just wait it out...which is usually torture because I'm pretty impatient as a whole lmao. My life is an ongoing contradiction.

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@PillowFortBuilder
11 Years

Posted by sultrykitty
PFB, don't follow that advice!

I say that only because I inow your situation. I think I initiated our first kiss (which went further), but we didn't have "the talk" that you and yours have. That came later, lol.

Oh I know... I'm avoiding heavy amounts of alcohol around her for a while.

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@aquaaa0214
11 Years

This guy and I have known and liked each other since June and haven't kissed yet. Needless to say, that is a record for my Aries Venus!

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@Angmodurian
11 Years

Hmm i didnt ask you to kiss the other party under the influence of alcohol. I am an aqua & if you want me to kiss the girl i like it will take a long time, we ae passive creature. If she kisses me first, things will be easier. I dont see any faults with you initiating the kiss if your relationship is strong enough & both of you understand each other's intention clearly.

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@spark
10 Years

About 2 months 😛 For me, it depends on how long I've known that person and my comfort level. An Aqua Male I've dated in the past, made the first move to try to kiss me at the end of our first date, after talking to each other for about a month.

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@PillowFortBuilder
11 Years

Posted by Angmodurian
Hmm i didnt ask you to kiss the other party under the influence of alcohol. I am an aqua & if you want me to kiss the girl i like it will take a long time, we ae passive creature. If she kisses me first, things will be easier. I dont see any faults with you initiating the kiss if your relationship is strong enough & both of you understand each other's intention clearly.

I needed to provide more detail. Due to alcohol I did something stupid. I agree if the moment is right then go for it. Due to alcohol I misread a situation. I shouldn't have initiated cause the moment wasn't 100% right.

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@ladylibra21
11 Years1,000+ Posts

UGH! We hung out from 10pm-3am! Playing music and watching part of rock of ages after we got a drink at the bar! He kept putting his arm around me and I found myself laying in his lap most of the night and when I went to leave he kissed the side of my head! I hugged him again thinking I might get bold and kiss him but I chickened out! OMG he is so amazing such a sweet heart, but he keeps pushing me to be confident and refine myself as an artist