Have you ever wondered?

Have you ever wondered if the person you've come on here to complain about could also be on this board?

Most of the women on here have come on here to complain or ask for advice about why men do the things they do and there are men who come on here and do the same thing.

Wouldn't it be funny if this man/woman posted something about the other and then started purusing his/her significant other's sign and reads something that sounds very similar to what he/she did/said and thought "hey, wait a minute..."

Do you know if this has ever happened?

No, I don't think it's ever happened. If the guy in my case was on DXP (and I figured it was him) I'd really give me a piece of my mind but in a nice way. I wouldn't be nasty but I'd really let him have it. At least it would be interesting to see if he'd respond.

Mystical, wouldn't that be a double standard?

Of course, but it wouldn't matter. At least he'd know where I was coming from. Right now there is no communication between him and I. Therefore I wouldn't have to feel bad for saying my peace. Besides, I don't really think he cares either way so I don't care anymore.

if neither cares about the other anymore....you're together still why?

Oh, I'm not dating him at all. I don't think I ever could as he is too much work to deal with. He and I are good friends (at least I thought so) and then he does his disappearing act on me. I don't understand such childish behavior. He does have issues to deal with and I'm willing to help him out. Unfortunately, he pushs me away. I've attempted to get in contact with him just to see how he is. What does he do? He ignores me. However, I think he attempted to call me early on Saturday morning at 4.27 and I was sleeping. I had sent him a happy birthday text on Friday as it was his birthday. Never thinking I'd hear from him again. Anyway, I'm positive it was him who was calling me at the hour as none of my other friends are so rude to call at such an hour of the morning. He even went as far as to call from a private number which is something he has done before when he knows I've been annoyed with him which hasn't been too often. However, I'm annoyed with him. Since I'm positive it was him contacting me, it took him over 5 weeks to call me. I find that to be rude behavior.

yeah, GL...I'm fairly direct with people on here, too. I like to think most of you have come to love me....there's still a few I'm working on. 😉

LMAO ^^same here