Hi, so I have been n a relationship with this amazing Aquarius guy for over two years now, it took me a while to understand his ways as in his freedom loving etc but I have grown to accept this and give him as much space as he needs. I have to admit I have not been myself for some time as I have had some personal issues that I know my Aquarius guy would not appreciate me stressing him out over, even though I know I can probably talk to him about anything I sometimes get the feeling he doesn't want to know because sometimes he gets mad. Just recently I felt something was off he was being really distant and cold with me for, I noticed something strange on social media and I let it eat me up for a week. I finally mustered up the courage to ask him if we were ok to which he asked 'where has this come from, I've not done anything wrong'. a couple more days passed and i finally said can we have a talk, i explained to him what I had seen and he said nothings happening getting angry but then trying to make some what of a half hearted effort with me... the next day i was still so stressed about it and decided that I needed to find out for my self so I did the one thing i told myself i wouldnt do and looked through his phone and to my horror he had been talking to another girl, I dont know the content of the messages because I was so shook, I confronted him and he said well we are done now then aren't we and me being me just trying to figure out why said no, I don't want this, he then went on to say I don't know what i want anymore, I'm not happy he said i made him feel like a bad boyfriend whenever he went out because I wouldn't be doing much but thing is I was whilst he was away from me, I enjoy time with my friends and the only reason why it looked like I wasn't is because he likes to stay out for a while sometimes not coming home until just before midnight, I knew where he was or who he was with most of the time because I would hear him on the phone or he would in conversation let me know what he was doing, I never once stopped him from doing anything he wanted to just sometimes would have liked him to suggest for us to do something.since i found out he has proved he has deleted the girl and that he wont be speaking to her again, he told me that he doesn't like her like that shes about to turn 17 he is 24!! he made a point that he hasn't cheated on me and that nothing has happened between him and her.. I believe him and told him that, he is also saying thats it you won't trust me again now and i kept reassuring him that yes I will, I can get past this, I believe I can because to me it was just a blip, something that I believe most couples go through and hopefully come out stronger. since he has still been a little distant with me and not the same but still spending time with me, wanting cuddles and having conversation and a laugh with me, actually wanting to stay in with me. I don't know what any of this means he said a week ago he wasn't sure if he could see a future and that our relationship had gone stagnant and I told him no it hasn't I have gotten lazy and that I would prove that I am still me etc. I have still been making the effort with friends and letting him do his own thing and just trying to carry on as normal but he is still being weird with me, is he testing me to see if I can hold up against all this and keep my end of the bargain. I really don't want to lose him, he has been the best thing to happen to me and I know he isn't the type to talk about serious things all the time he usually is the one that starts it off, will we get through this if I don't give up ?? at my wits end with worry that he will just drop me, he is making feel in some ways that this is what he is preparing to do but then in other ways making me feel like we could be ok.
