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It's been six months. Six wonderful months in this... what should I call it... arrangement?

Long story short, he's my supporter. This arrangement is almost like a paid relationship. Only the perks, none of the responsibilities or commitments or really most of what traditional relationships hold.

He gives me an "allowance" and I stay a sweet, sexy, fun, and positive girlfriend.

We are honest, however. It's not as fake as it may sound. There is love (maybe not the most romantic love) and respect, AND monogamy.

I'm a paid lover, call it what you want, prostitute, whore. Escort might be a better word. There's more I do than just fuck. But this client, he wanted monogamy along with the package. I adored him enough to agree to it.

So here we are, six months.



Sex is great. Mostlyyy great.

Aside from being such a sweet man, he's also very gentle. He loves to please. In fact, he loves to please very much! I once let him stay down between my legs for as long as he wanted and kept my eye on the clock out of curiosity of how long he'll stay down. About an hour! I say about because we moved to the bedroom after 40 minutes where he wanted me to sit on his face while he continues. It's his favorite position.

There isn't a position we haven't played with. We've even made up a few.

And you'd think this would be awesome forever, but... I get bored. And this isn't the first time I get bored.

I do love him. I don't want to move on. I care about him deeply. And of course, the obvious, I also depend on him (though truth be told, I've made much more with other clients, so money's not the only factor). Aside from this line of work I'm in, I'm also a college student. And though I won't claim to be some unresistable babe, I do get enough attention that, yes, other men can be tempting.

Tempting!! I am crushing so hard on a classmate who's been flirty and cute. We've had study dates and chatted a lot. What I do is no secret, so of course, he knows I'm not available. I've made that clear. Yet, there are moments when I want him!!! Just earlier today while sitting across from him in class I was blushing like a preteen! I wonder about sex with him. He has this stubborn childish charm about him that sparks my imagination... maybehe'll be more dominant in the bedroom? Maybe he'll have a bit of the aggressive playfulness I want?..

I've asked my Aqua the first time I felt a bit bored to be more aggressive and dominant. I want him to take over sometimes. He gave it a shot, a very small shot, but gave up too soon.

He'll pull my hair the way I've described how I'd like to sometimes. But he's still so gentle and sweet.



I better get to the point before I continue going on in circles!



I'm losing interest in my Aqua and the cute guy from class isn't helping. Maybe it doesn't help the my Aqua is also much older, though it's never bothered me.

I want to know how to approach my Aqua about my boredom and ask him to for once just fuck me. No more love making. Just hardcore, no hesitation, fucking!

For some reason, he's afraid of hurting me. He thinks of me as this delicate thing, though I've taken control many times and proven to be far from delicate.

I need him to fuck me till this guy from school is forgotten completely!
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It's been six months. Six wonderful months in this... what should I call it... arrangement?

Long story short, he's my supporter. This arrangement is almost like a paid relationship. Only the perks, none of the responsibilities or commitments or really most of what traditional relationships hold.

He gives me an "allowance" and I stay a sweet, sexy, fun, and positive girlfriend.

We are honest, however. It's not as fake as it may sound. There is love (maybe not the most romantic love) and respect, AND monogamy.

I'm a paid lover, call it what you want, prostitute, whore. Escort might be a better word. There's more I do than just fuck. But this client, he wanted monogamy along with the package. I adored him enough to agree to it.

So here we are, six months.



Sex is great. Mostlyyy great.

Aside from being such a sweet man, he's also very gentle. He loves to please. In fact, he loves to please very much! I once let him stay down between my legs for as long as he wanted and kept my eye on the clock out of curiosity of how long he'll stay down. About an hour! I say about because we moved to the bedroom after 40 minutes where he wanted me to sit on his face while he continues. It's his favorite position.

There isn't a position we haven't played with. We've even made up a few.

And you'd think this would be awesome forever, but... I get bored. And this isn't the first time I get bored.

I do love him. I don't want to move on. I care about him deeply. And of course, the obvious, I also depend on him (though truth be told, I've made much more with other clients, so money's not the only factor). Aside from this line of work I'm in, I'm also a college student. And though I won't claim to be some unresistable babe, I do get enough attention that, yes, other men can be tempting.

Tempting!! I am crushing so hard on a classmate who's been flirty and cute. We've had study dates and chatted a lot. What I do is no secret, so of course, he knows I'm not available. I've made that clear. Yet, there are moments when I want him!!! Just earlier today while sitting across from him in class I was blushing like a preteen! I wonder about sex with him. He has this stubborn childish charm about him that sparks my imagination... maybehe'll be more dominant in the bedroom? Maybe he'll have a bit of the aggressive playfulness I want?..

I've asked my Aqua the first time I felt a bit bored to be more aggressive and dominant. I want him to take over sometimes. He gave it a shot, a very small shot, but gave up too soon.

He'll pull my hair the way I've described how I'd like to sometimes. But he's still so gentle and sweet.



I better get to the point before I continue going on in circles!



I'm losing interest in my Aqua and the cute guy from class isn't helping. Maybe it doesn't help the my Aqua is also much older, though it's never bothered me.

I want to know how to approach my Aqua about my boredom and ask him to for once just fuck me. No more love making. Just hardcore, no hesitation, fucking!

For some reason, he's afraid of hurting me. He thinks of me as this delicate thing, though I've taken control many times and proven to be far from delicate.

I need him to fuck me till this guy from school is forgotten completely!
He's using you to continue a relationship he lost. Think about it.
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Your only option is an anger bang. You need to force him out the past. He's following the same rules from his failed relationship. That's why he pays you.The sex isn't what is getting him off. The relationship is.
One of the reasons he pays her is so he can fuck her the way HE enjoys, gentle and loving. He holds the money in this transaction, she can't force him to do something that won't bring him pleasure.
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Your only option is an anger bang. You need to force him out the past. He's following the same rules from his failed relationship. That's why he pays you.The sex isn't what is getting him off. The relationship is.
One of the reasons he pays her is so he can fuck her the way HE enjoys, gentle and loving. He holds the money in this transaction, she can't force him to do something that won't bring him pleasure.
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He's fucking her just like his ex. That's what he's buying is more time with the past think about it. He's buying a guaranteed rebound.
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How did you enjoy the muff diving if you had your eye on the clock?
Correction that is what we call a mustache ride. Carry on.
Isn't that synonymous with muff diving? Unless you're talking about queening than that's literally riding one's mustache.
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Sometimes you got it so smooth the muff just jumps all over you.
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You have to take your wants, needs and emotions out of this situation and look at it for what it actually is.

This is a business relationship. There is no love involved.

Would you have ever looked twice at this man if he wasn't paying you? If the cash stopped would you stick around?

Your profession is your business and I'm in no place to judge but you have to remember that this is an employee/employer relationship. You can make suggestions but he is the boss. If you get too demanding he can replace you with someone else.
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Your only option is an anger bang. You need to force him out the past. He's following the same rules from his failed relationship. That's why he pays you.The sex isn't what is getting him off. The relationship is.
One of the reasons he pays her is so he can fuck her the way HE enjoys, gentle and loving. He holds the money in this transaction, she can't force him to do something that won't bring him pleasure.
He's fucking her just like his ex. That's what he's buying is more time with the past think about it. He's buying a guaranteed rebound.
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I never read anything in the op about an ex.

They have an exclusive sugar daddy situation going on. Just because he's paying for the gf experience doesn't erase the fact that he's still a paying customer.
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Your only option is an anger bang. You need to force him out the past. He's following the same rules from his failed relationship. That's why he pays you.The sex isn't what is getting him off. The relationship is.
One of the reasons he pays her is so he can fuck her the way HE enjoys, gentle and loving. He holds the money in this transaction, she can't force him to do something that won't bring him pleasure.
He's fucking her just like his ex. That's what he's buying is more time with the past think about it. He's buying a guaranteed rebound.
I never read anything in the op about an ex.

They have an exclusive sugar daddy situation going on. Just because he's paying for the gf experience doesn't erase the fact that he's still a paying customer.
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because he ain't gonna talk about it. the companionship fills the void. The physical contact satisfies his needs. If he can put an escort on a retainer he can afford to step his game up and go back to living his life. He's scared od losing again.
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Your only option is an anger bang. You need to force him out the past. He's following the same rules from his failed relationship. That's why he pays you.The sex isn't what is getting him off. The relationship is.
One of the reasons he pays her is so he can fuck her the way HE enjoys, gentle and loving. He holds the money in this transaction, she can't force him to do something that won't bring him pleasure.
He's fucking her just like his ex. That's what he's buying is more time with the past think about it. He's buying a guaranteed rebound.
I never read anything in the op about an ex.

They have an exclusive sugar daddy situation going on. Just because he's paying for the gf experience doesn't erase the fact that he's still a paying customer.
because he ain't gonna talk about it. the companionship fills the void. The physical contact satisfies his needs. If he can put an escort on a retainer he can afford to step his game up and go back to living his life. He's scared od losing again.
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Lol your projecting dude. Men pay for sex for a variety of reasons. Nothing here indicates this guy is hung up on an ex.
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Your only option is an anger bang. You need to force him out the past. He's following the same rules from his failed relationship. That's why he pays you.The sex isn't what is getting him off. The relationship is.
One of the reasons he pays her is so he can fuck her the way HE enjoys, gentle and loving. He holds the money in this transaction, she can't force him to do something that won't bring him pleasure.
He's fucking her just like his ex. That's what he's buying is more time with the past think about it. He's buying a guaranteed rebound.
I never read anything in the op about an ex.

They have an exclusive sugar daddy situation going on. Just because he's paying for the gf experience doesn't erase the fact that he's still a paying customer.
because he ain't gonna talk about it. the companionship fills the void. The physical contact satisfies his needs. If he can put an escort on a retainer he can afford to step his game up and go back to living his life. He's scared od losing again.
Lol your projecting dude. Men pay for sex for a variety of reasons. Nothing here indicates this guy is hung up on an ex.
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He could have a different woman every week why the same one? why the gentle sex? he is going down muff diving on a escort. come on man. read the fine print.
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Your only option is an anger bang. You need to force him out the past. He's following the same rules from his failed relationship. That's why he pays you.The sex isn't what is getting him off. The relationship is.
One of the reasons he pays her is so he can fuck her the way HE enjoys, gentle and loving. He holds the money in this transaction, she can't force him to do something that won't bring him pleasure.
He's fucking her just like his ex. That's what he's buying is more time with the past think about it. He's buying a guaranteed rebound.
I never read anything in the op about an ex.

They have an exclusive sugar daddy situation going on. Just because he's paying for the gf experience doesn't erase the fact that he's still a paying customer.
because he ain't gonna talk about it. the companionship fills the void. The physical contact satisfies his needs. If he can put an escort on a retainer he can afford to step his game up and go back to living his life. He's scared od losing again.
Lol your projecting dude. Men pay for sex for a variety of reasons. Nothing here indicates this guy is hung up on an ex.
He could have a different woman every week why the same one? why the gentle sex? he is going down muff diving on a escort. come on man. read the fine print.
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If i gotta pay for for the pie its not worth it.
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Your only option is an anger bang. You need to force him out the past. He's following the same rules from his failed relationship. That's why he pays you.The sex isn't what is getting him off. The relationship is.
One of the reasons he pays her is so he can fuck her the way HE enjoys, gentle and loving. He holds the money in this transaction, she can't force him to do something that won't bring him pleasure.
He's fucking her just like his ex. That's what he's buying is more time with the past think about it. He's buying a guaranteed rebound.
I never read anything in the op about an ex.

They have an exclusive sugar daddy situation going on. Just because he's paying for the gf experience doesn't erase the fact that he's still a paying customer.
because he ain't gonna talk about it. the companionship fills the void. The physical contact satisfies his needs. If he can put an escort on a retainer he can afford to step his game up and go back to living his life. He's scared od losing again.
Lol your projecting dude. Men pay for sex for a variety of reasons. Nothing here indicates this guy is hung up on an ex.
He could have a different woman every week why the same one? why the gentle sex? he is going down muff diving on a escort. come on man. read the fine print.
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If i gotta pay for for the pie its not worth it.
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Your only option is an anger bang. You need to force him out the past. He's following the same rules from his failed relationship. That's why he pays you.The sex isn't what is getting him off. The relationship is.
One of the reasons he pays her is so he can fuck her the way HE enjoys, gentle and loving. He holds the money in this transaction, she can't force him to do something that won't bring him pleasure.
He's fucking her just like his ex. That's what he's buying is more time with the past think about it. He's buying a guaranteed rebound.
I never read anything in the op about an ex.

They have an exclusive sugar daddy situation going on. Just because he's paying for the gf experience doesn't erase the fact that he's still a paying customer.
because he ain't gonna talk about it. the companionship fills the void. The physical contact satisfies his needs. If he can put an escort on a retainer he can afford to step his game up and go back to living his life. He's scared od losing again.
Lol your projecting dude. Men pay for sex for a variety of reasons. Nothing here indicates this guy is hung up on an ex.
He could have a different woman every week why the same one? why the gentle sex? he is going down muff diving on a escort. come on man. read the fine print.
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For all we know he does have a different woman every week. If you actually read the op only she is being paid to be exclusive with him.

Some people pay to get their balls stepped on, some people pay to drink others urine straight from the source. Some clit licking seems pretty tame. What does him going down on her have to do with anything?
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Your only option is an anger bang. You need to force him out the past. He's following the same rules from his failed relationship. That's why he pays you.The sex isn't what is getting him off. The relationship is.
One of the reasons he pays her is so he can fuck her the way HE enjoys, gentle and loving. He holds the money in this transaction, she can't force him to do something that won't bring him pleasure.
He's fucking her just like his ex. That's what he's buying is more time with the past think about it. He's buying a guaranteed rebound.
I never read anything in the op about an ex.

They have an exclusive sugar daddy situation going on. Just because he's paying for the gf experience doesn't erase the fact that he's still a paying customer.
because he ain't gonna talk about it. the companionship fills the void. The physical contact satisfies his needs. If he can put an escort on a retainer he can afford to step his game up and go back to living his life. He's scared od losing again.
Lol your projecting dude. Men pay for sex for a variety of reasons. Nothing here indicates this guy is hung up on an ex.
He could have a different woman every week why the same one? why the gentle sex? he is going down muff diving on a escort. come on man. read the fine print.
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The ex thing makes sense or he could be a widow not ready to deal with the loss. Or he may just want the perks of a real relationship without the effort and compromise. If he's paying he has the control.

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Your only option is an anger bang. You need to force him out the past. He's following the same rules from his failed relationship. That's why he pays you.The sex isn't what is getting him off. The relationship is.
One of the reasons he pays her is so he can fuck her the way HE enjoys, gentle and loving. He holds the money in this transaction, she can't force him to do something that won't bring him pleasure.
He's fucking her just like his ex. That's what he's buying is more time with the past think about it. He's buying a guaranteed rebound.
I never read anything in the op about an ex.

They have an exclusive sugar daddy situation going on. Just because he's paying for the gf experience doesn't erase the fact that he's still a paying customer.
because he ain't gonna talk about it. the companionship fills the void. The physical contact satisfies his needs. If he can put an escort on a retainer he can afford to step his game up and go back to living his life. He's scared od losing again.
Lol your projecting dude. Men pay for sex for a variety of reasons. Nothing here indicates this guy is hung up on an ex.
He could have a different woman every week why the same one? why the gentle sex? he is going down muff diving on a escort. come on man. read the fine print.
For all we know he does have a different woman every week. If you actually read the op only she is being paid to be exclusive with him.

Some people pay to get their balls stepped on, some people pay to drink others urine straight from the source. Some clit licking seems pretty tame. What does him going down on her have to do with anything?
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When I was 15 a guy approached my friend and I in a department store and offered is $ 40 each to stomp on his hands. Wtf kind of fetish is that?

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Your only option is an anger bang. You need to force him out the past. He's following the same rules from his failed relationship. That's why he pays you.The sex isn't what is getting him off. The relationship is.
One of the reasons he pays her is so he can fuck her the way HE enjoys, gentle and loving. He holds the money in this transaction, she can't force him to do something that won't bring him pleasure.
He's fucking her just like his ex. That's what he's buying is more time with the past think about it. He's buying a guaranteed rebound.
I never read anything in the op about an ex.

They have an exclusive sugar daddy situation going on. Just because he's paying for the gf experience doesn't erase the fact that he's still a paying customer.
because he ain't gonna talk about it. the companionship fills the void. The physical contact satisfies his needs. If he can put an escort on a retainer he can afford to step his game up and go back to living his life. He's scared od losing again.
Lol your projecting dude. Men pay for sex for a variety of reasons. Nothing here indicates this guy is hung up on an ex.
He could have a different woman every week why the same one? why the gentle sex? he is going down muff diving on a escort. come on man. read the fine print.
For all we know he does have a different woman every week. If you actually read the op only she is being paid to be exclusive with him.

Some people pay to get their balls stepped on, some people pay to drink others urine straight from the source. Some clit licking seems pretty tame. What does him going down on her have to do with anything?
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Oral sex is a strong sign that you care and cherish the other participant's body and pleasure. I'm gonna go out on a limb and assume that you don't go hey he's a nice guy im going to give him a blowjob on the first date. If you do,let's hang out.
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Your only option is an anger bang. You need to force him out the past. He's following the same rules from his failed relationship. That's why he pays you.The sex isn't what is getting him off. The relationship is.
One of the reasons he pays her is so he can fuck her the way HE enjoys, gentle and loving. He holds the money in this transaction, she can't force him to do something that won't bring him pleasure.
He's fucking her just like his ex. That's what he's buying is more time with the past think about it. He's buying a guaranteed rebound.
I never read anything in the op about an ex.

They have an exclusive sugar daddy situation going on. Just because he's paying for the gf experience doesn't erase the fact that he's still a paying customer.
because he ain't gonna talk about it. the companionship fills the void. The physical contact satisfies his needs. If he can put an escort on a retainer he can afford to step his game up and go back to living his life. He's scared od losing again.
Lol your projecting dude. Men pay for sex for a variety of reasons. Nothing here indicates this guy is hung up on an ex.
He could have a different woman every week why the same one? why the gentle sex? he is going down muff diving on a escort. come on man. read the fine print.
For all we know he does have a different woman every week. If you actually read the op only she is being paid to be exclusive with him.

Some people pay to get their balls stepped on, some people pay to drink others urine straight from the source. Some clit licking seems pretty tame. What does him going down on her have to do with anything?
Oral sex is a strong sign that you care and cherish the other participant's body and pleasure. I'm gonna go out on a limb and assume that you don't go hey he's a nice guy im going to give him a blowjob on the first date. If you do,let's hang out.
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Lol what?

So in your world does missionary mean you want to wife the girl and doggy style means shes just a fuck.



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If i gotta pay for for the pie its not worth it.
Your not him are you. Again your projecting, if you take yourself out of your feels and actually read the op...

I'm imagining the trick as a older man (50s/60s) probably too busy to date or is already married.

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I'm not projecting shit lol im single I fly solo and i get laid when i want for free. I can however relate to the feelings of a failed relationship. Males see it as a personal failure.
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Your only option is an anger bang. You need to force him out the past. He's following the same rules from his failed relationship. That's why he pays you.The sex isn't what is getting him off. The relationship is.
One of the reasons he pays her is so he can fuck her the way HE enjoys, gentle and loving. He holds the money in this transaction, she can't force him to do something that won't bring him pleasure.
He's fucking her just like his ex. That's what he's buying is more time with the past think about it. He's buying a guaranteed rebound.
I never read anything in the op about an ex.

They have an exclusive sugar daddy situation going on. Just because he's paying for the gf experience doesn't erase the fact that he's still a paying customer.
because he ain't gonna talk about it. the companionship fills the void. The physical contact satisfies his needs. If he can put an escort on a retainer he can afford to step his game up and go back to living his life. He's scared od losing again.
Lol your projecting dude. Men pay for sex for a variety of reasons. Nothing here indicates this guy is hung up on an ex.
He could have a different woman every week why the same one? why the gentle sex? he is going down muff diving on a escort. come on man. read the fine print.
For all we know he does have a different woman every week. If you actually read the op only she is being paid to be exclusive with him.

Some people pay to get their balls stepped on, some people pay to drink others urine straight from the source. Some clit licking seems pretty tame. What does him going down on her have to do with anything?
Oral sex is a strong sign that you care and cherish the other participant's body and pleasure. I'm gonna go out on a limb and assume that you don't go hey he's a nice guy im going to give him a blowjob on the first date. If you do,let's hang out.
Lol what?

So in your world does missionary mean you want to wife the girl and doggy style means shes just a fuck.





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oh no positions are like weekdays. i prefer doggy on hump day for that extra push
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Your only option is an anger bang. You need to force him out the past. He's following the same rules from his failed relationship. That's why he pays you.The sex isn't what is getting him off. The relationship is.
One of the reasons he pays her is so he can fuck her the way HE enjoys, gentle and loving. He holds the money in this transaction, she can't force him to do something that won't bring him pleasure.
He's fucking her just like his ex. That's what he's buying is more time with the past think about it. He's buying a guaranteed rebound.
I never read anything in the op about an ex.

They have an exclusive sugar daddy situation going on. Just because he's paying for the gf experience doesn't erase the fact that he's still a paying customer.
because he ain't gonna talk about it. the companionship fills the void. The physical contact satisfies his needs. If he can put an escort on a retainer he can afford to step his game up and go back to living his life. He's scared od losing again.
Lol your projecting dude. Men pay for sex for a variety of reasons. Nothing here indicates this guy is hung up on an ex.
He could have a different woman every week why the same one? why the gentle sex? he is going down muff diving on a escort. come on man. read the fine print.
For all we know he does have a different woman every week. If you actually read the op only she is being paid to be exclusive with him.

Some people pay to get their balls stepped on, some people pay to drink others urine straight from the source. Some clit licking seems pretty tame. What does him going down on her have to do with anything?
Oral sex is a strong sign that you care and cherish the other participant's body and pleasure. I'm gonna go out on a limb and assume that you don't go hey he's a nice guy im going to give him a blowjob on the first date. If you do,let's hang out.
Lol what?

So in your world does missionary mean you want to wife the girl and doggy style means shes just a fuck.






Don't even bother, save your brain cells...
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I will,I won't swallow them like you did. Welcome back buddy.
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Your only option is an anger bang. You need to force him out the past. He's following the same rules from his failed relationship. That's why he pays you.The sex isn't what is getting him off. The relationship is.
One of the reasons he pays her is so he can fuck her the way HE enjoys, gentle and loving. He holds the money in this transaction, she can't force him to do something that won't bring him pleasure.
He's fucking her just like his ex. That's what he's buying is more time with the past think about it. He's buying a guaranteed rebound.
I never read anything in the op about an ex.

They have an exclusive sugar daddy situation going on. Just because he's paying for the gf experience doesn't erase the fact that he's still a paying customer.
because he ain't gonna talk about it. the companionship fills the void. The physical contact satisfies his needs. If he can put an escort on a retainer he can afford to step his game up and go back to living his life. He's scared od losing again.
Lol your projecting dude. Men pay for sex for a variety of reasons. Nothing here indicates this guy is hung up on an ex.
He could have a different woman every week why the same one? why the gentle sex? he is going down muff diving on a escort. come on man. read the fine print.
For all we know he does have a different woman every week. If you actually read the op only she is being paid to be exclusive with him.

Some people pay to get their balls stepped on, some people pay to drink others urine straight from the source. Some clit licking seems pretty tame. What does him going down on her have to do with anything?
Oral sex is a strong sign that you care and cherish the other participant's body and pleasure. I'm gonna go out on a limb and assume that you don't go hey he's a nice guy im going to give him a blowjob on the first date. If you do,let's hang out.
Lol what?

So in your world does missionary mean you want to wife the girl and doggy style means shes just a fuck.






Don't even bother, save your brain cells...
I will,I won't swallow them like you did. Welcome back buddy.
So you swallow brain cells?
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Wow the comments came in fast!!

He has no recent ex and I am the first person he's ever paid for sex (aside from some video camera action).

I knkw when he's honest, and when he's not. The things he's not honest about are petty things, like work hours. He expresses deep insecurities, yet when scheduling a meeting, he'll mention the hour he'll be getting home to make the time decided seem reasonable, but I have a feeling that he gets home much earlier than he claims, most likely to have more time for himself, which I would never have complained about. That just how petty his little lies can be. Or if he wants me to leave already, he'll bring up work. "I have work tomorrow." Petty.

He has had me sleep over a night here and there. He's really a man of solitude and likes to keep in touch with email. From day one our emails had been long. We both have a passion for writing! Sometimes our convention might die down a bit, and then there are few rare days when we don't exchange a word, but the emails have been constant and full of long, expressive paragraphs.

Part of what I do is make the men I'm with feel wanted, comfortable, and secure. I always make sure they know I accept them in every way and make them feel special, even with all their flaws on the table.

Even without the money, I would have became involved with him. He has a charm he's mastered (and used in the beginning; no real need for it now). But, without the money, I would have given up on him long ago. No doubt there. I get bored wayyy too easily! It's rare that a man has be blushing (real blushing, non of the fake *look down, smile, bath lashes* blushing, like my classmate has me doing).

I'm good at what I do and I'm usually good at reading my men. It's rare that emotions are provoked in me, which is why this work is ideal.

Yet, it's not so ideal when I get bored because my drive dies down (or sex becomes painful with dryness).



As an Aquarius, how can I go about seducing him into pleasing me the way I want to be pleased (is really the question I should be asking)?

I know he's the boss, the one holding the money, but even men who pay can be manipulated by their sex kittens!

Maybe I need an insight to Aquarius in general. I know that there are full charts to these things. His birthday is January 3, 1977.



ALSO, I don't get off very easily (not so sensitive and forget orgasms! I'll be lucky to have just one in this lifetime), so glancing at the clock to keep track of time was as simple as... glancing at the clock.
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If i gotta pay for for the pie its not worth it.
Your not him are you. Again your projecting, if you take yourself out of your feels and actually read the op...

I'm imagining the trick as a older man (50s/60s) probably too busy to date or is already married.


I'm not projecting shit lol im single I fly solo and i get laid when i want for free. I can however relate to the feelings of a failed relationship. Males see it as a personal failure.
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Exactly, your projecting.

Just because you don't pay for sex and are hung up on an ex you can't fathom why another male would pay for sex. And if he does he MUST suffer from the same feelings of personal failure via a failed relationship. Thank you for proving my point so succinctly.
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He gives me an "allowance" and I stay a sweet, sexy, fun, and positive girlfriend.



But this client, he wanted monogamy along with the package. I adored him enough to agree to it.




Sounds like you undercharged for the monogamy. Tell him it's time for a payrise for the exclusivity but you want to be paid in better sex. It's kind of like bartering but with services instead of money. If he doesn't want to do that then monogamy is off the table.
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Also I hope your charging him when you spend the night. Typical hourly rate for internet escorts is $ 150-300 so bare minimum you should be collecting $ 800- $ 1000 per sleepover.
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Wow the comments came in fast!!

He has no recent ex and I am the first person he's ever paid for sex (aside from some video camera action).

I knkw when he's honest, and when he's not. The things he's not honest about are petty things, like work hours. He expresses deep insecurities, yet when scheduling a meeting, he'll mention the hour he'll be getting home to make the time decided seem reasonable, but I have a feeling that he gets home much earlier than he claims, most likely to have more time for himself, which I would never have complained about. That just how petty his little lies can be. Or if he wants me to leave already, he'll bring up work. "I have work tomorrow." Petty.

He has had me sleep over a night here and there. He's really a man of solitude and likes to keep in touch with email. From day one our emails had been long. We both have a passion for writing! Sometimes our convention might die down a bit, and then there are few rare days when we don't exchange a word, but the emails have been constant and full of long, expressive paragraphs.

Part of what I do is make the men I'm with feel wanted, comfortable, and secure. I always make sure they know I accept them in every way and make them feel special, even with all their flaws on the table.

Even without the money, I would have became involved with him. He has a charm he's mastered (and used in the beginning; no real need for it now). But, without the money, I would have given up on him long ago. No doubt there. I get bored wayyy too easily! It's rare that a man has be blushing (real blushing, non of the fake *look down, smile, bath lashes* blushing, like my classmate has me doing).

I'm good at what I do and I'm usually good at reading my men. It's rare that emotions are provoked in me, which is why this work is ideal.

Yet, it's not so ideal when I get bored because my drive dies down (or sex becomes painful with dryness).



As an Aquarius, how can I go about seducing him into pleasing me the way I want to be pleased (is really the question I should be asking)?

I know he's the boss, the one holding the money, but even men who pay can be manipulated by their sex kittens!

Maybe I need an insight to Aquarius in general. I know that there are full charts to these things. His birthday is January 3, 1977.



ALSO, I don't get off very easily (not so sensitive and forget orgasms! I'll be lucky to have just one in this lifetime), so glancing at the clock to keep track of time was as simple as... glancing at the clock.
January 3 is a Cap. That's my ex husbands birthday

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Ugh you're essentially in a business agreeemnt and you're being paid to sleep with one client exclusively. How that client fucks you is his desire and should mean very little to you since the basis of your relationship is entirely due to the fact that he pays to fuck you.

With this in consideration, you're essentially in a business agreement and the agreement is monogamy. If you decide to move from that agreement and sleep with someone else, you're legally liable for fraud lol. There's loopholes in the system that protect men whom have gone into binding agreements with consenting women.

What you're essentially in is in a "daddy" and "daughter" relationship. Asking him to conform to your ideals of sex is an oxymoron considering that you're being paid to please him.

I'd accept my fate if I were you. This economy is tough.


Yep. Yep. Yep.

Except for the bolded. Money in exchange for sex is illegal in most states so their verbal 'contract' is not valid. Unless the op is in nevada...

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Has there been a limping vagina on dxp you haven't knighted?! Stop being so annoying and chill out you little know it all.

Fuck! You're killing posts here. This is an interesting post until you start filling it! ??
Only got one left just waiting for you to ask sweetness
You couldn't handle me.

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Your right im fresh out of hazmat suits.
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Has there been a limping vagina on dxp you haven't knighted?! Stop being so annoying and chill out you little know it all.

Fuck! You're killing posts here. This is an interesting post until you start filling it! ??
Only got one left just waiting for you to ask sweetness
You couldn't handle me.


Your right im fresh out of hazmat suits.
Yeah wouldn't work out anyway....since I look nothing like your sister, you'd have no attraction to me...backwoods Alabama!
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If you did you'b be a stand in for the walking dead sunshine, so thats possible. Your right im not attracted to you. I don't even know you. Hell you might be my sister.
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Has there been a limping vagina on dxp you haven't knighted?! Stop being so annoying and chill out you little know it all.

Fuck! You're killing posts here. This is an interesting post until you start filling it! ??
Only got one left just waiting for you to ask sweetness
You couldn't handle me.


Your right im fresh out of hazmat suits.
Yeah wouldn't work out anyway....since I look nothing like your sister, you'd have no attraction to me...backwoods Alabama!
If you did you'b be a stand in for the walking dead sunshine, so thats possible. Your right im not attracted to you. I don't even know you. Hell you might be my sister.
This got so weird so fast. Point that I made is stop knighting threads with your annoying moustache. Quit knighting everyone. You're too easily excitable. It's like a golden retriever is on the loose on dxp. Stop being so fucking friendly.

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I know a few that would disagree.i'll be how i want to be. Quit being a baby and hit that block button and grow up. it's there for people like you. Use it.
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Has there been a limping vagina on dxp you haven't knighted?! Stop being so annoying and chill out you little know it all.

Fuck! You're killing posts here. This is an interesting post until you start filling it! ??
Only got one left just waiting for you to ask sweetness
You couldn't handle me.


Your right im fresh out of hazmat suits.
Yeah wouldn't work out anyway....since I look nothing like your sister, you'd have no attraction to me...backwoods Alabama!
If you did you'b be a stand in for the walking dead sunshine, so thats possible. Your right im not attracted to you. I don't even know you. Hell you might be my sister.
This got so weird so fast. Point that I made is stop knighting threads with your annoying moustache. Quit knighting everyone. You're too easily excitable. It's like a golden retriever is on the loose on dxp. Stop being so fucking friendly.


I know a few that would disagree.i'll be how i want to be. Quit being a baby and hit that block button and grow up. it's there for people like you. Use it.
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plus you're boring as hell block me please
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Sorry, January 31st, 1977.

(Damn cellphone keyboards will never be the same!)

@dolluxe I have rarely experienced pleasure long before I started this work. Sure, many things might play a factor to that reason, but keeping track of time is not one of them.

(So many comments to keep up with!!!)

Anyone who does believe this is wrong, well... too bad. Reality is the same as it has always been. Prostitution is a very old trade and one I have always respected (when it has been done so safely and respectively). I started doing this the very same month I met this man. I had a handful of clients right away (and only one I was glad to get rid of). But because this one happened to be more consistent (every single week) i agreed to his terms. He had never paid for sex before and like most men, he didn't want to share. He didn't like the idea of being with someone intimately knowing they're sharing their body with another.

Typical, of course.

My philosophy, however: life (man) is going to fuck me one way or another, why not get something out of it, aside from just freedom.

Maybe it's the traditional culture that was forced down my throat since childhood that really turned me off to the life of submission, marriage being the equivalent of slavery in my mind. We don't want to go too deep down this road though...



The ironic part of being paid for sex (though transactions would be made even without there always being sex) was that these men, these older, too busy to date, too old to attract the fresh and firm young girls, sometimes insecure, often desiring no commitment (and let's face it, we're often cheaper than a real girlfriend), these men who paid to have their own way ware sooo much kinder (not nessicarly "nice" but kind) than men I've dated with the traditional standards set by our society.

Sure, they do most of the talking, some of them enjoyed full and equal discussions (like my current Aqua) but one thing for sure (and this isn't to bash on men, because I do love and respect most men) is that like those who don't pay for sex, they were never fond of an outspoken woman. They prefer some taming of the tongue. Or they were just realllly bad at listening. Too easily distracted.



Either way, what I'm doing is a win-win for everyone involved. I know my place, he gets what he pays for.



Interesting topic. Fun to share!

But I'd still love to know more about Aquarius men, non the less!

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