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Posted by PotHeadVirgo27This literally does not make sense.
Well if you weren't such a hore, you wouldn't have to ask how do I get him to fucc me.
Honestly, I love the shit that's stirring up here! I love even more that I started it.
Funny how we're all attracted by sex. Even just the subject of it alone is alluring. No one can help themselves! No matter where you stand morally. No matter how conservative or liberal. Now matter where any of you stand, you willing follow the sound of sex.
Amusing!
My need for advice is overexaggerated. Maybe my boredom is really coming from the life of institution.
Either way, go on, keep entertaining me! ?
Nothing I love more than participation like this. It's even more entertaining than a naked body. And naked bodies are fun!
Funny how we're all attracted by sex. Even just the subject of it alone is alluring. No one can help themselves! No matter where you stand morally. No matter how conservative or liberal. Now matter where any of you stand, you willing follow the sound of sex.
Amusing!
My need for advice is overexaggerated. Maybe my boredom is really coming from the life of institution.
Either way, go on, keep entertaining me! ?
Nothing I love more than participation like this. It's even more entertaining than a naked body. And naked bodies are fun!
Posted by PotHeadVirgo27Posted by LadyNeptuneI understand your percepted human experience.Posted by PotHeadVirgo27This literally does not make sense.
Well if you weren't such a hore, you wouldn't have to ask how do I get him to fucc me.
Now understand this, if you weren't such a hore, then this would make sense.
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Oh, I get it. LOL!
Posted by RemixGeneralFishyI'm wondering too... 😕
What the fuuck did I just read?
Posted by FknNerdSign up with an escort agency.
How does one get into a business such as this? Where do I start?
I wouldn't take Roman's advice. She can't get the D from a gray headed inbred in AL.
Posted by Deedee86Just one of many types. There are a lot more stranger fetishes than stomping on hands, out there.Posted by LadyNeptuneWhen I was 15 a guy approached my friend and I in a department store and offered is $ 40 each to stomp on his hands.Wtf kind of fetish is that?Posted by NobleSagFor all we know he does have a different woman every week. If you actually read the op only she is being paid to be exclusive with him.Posted by LadyNeptuneHe could have a different woman every week why the same one? why the gentle sex? he is going down muff diving on a escort. come on man. read the fine print.Posted by NobleSagLol your projecting dude. Men pay for sex for a variety of reasons. Nothing here indicates this guy is hung up on an ex.Posted by LadyNeptunebecause he ain't gonna talk about it. the companionship fills the void. The physical contact satisfies his needs. If he can put an escort on a retainer he can afford to step his game up and go back to living his life. He's scared od losing again.Posted by NobleSagI never read anything in the op about an ex.Posted by LadyNeptuneHe's fucking her just like his ex. That's what he's buying is more time with the past think about it. He's buying a guaranteed rebound.Posted by NobleSagOne of the reasons he pays her is so he can fuck her the way HE enjoys, gentle and loving. He holds the money in this transaction, she can't force him to do something that won't bring him pleasure.
Your only option is an anger bang. You need to force him out the past. He's following the same rules from his failed relationship. That's why he pays you.The sex isn't what is getting him off. The relationship is.
They have an exclusive sugar daddy situation going on. Just because he's paying for the gf experience doesn't erase the fact that he's still a paying customer.
Some people pay to get their balls stepped on, some people pay to drink others urine straight from the source. Some clit licking seems pretty tame. What does him going down on her have to do with anything?
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Okay, I've dabbled in this kind of stuff. I work at Hooters so the sugar daddy thing isn't new to me. I personally don't have one but many of the girls I work with have men that tip significantly. I'm not sure what they do outside of work but that isn't my business.
With that said, theres a regular that would come in and hand out money to all of us. This was a biweekly thing and I would get at least $ 100 every time. He would also invite girls over to his house (lake front/ranch) and would give us $ 500 each to just drink and hang out. It sounds a bit sketchy but I always went with my good friend I work with. There was no touching of any kind but I did have to tolerate inappropriate remarks for about and hour.
I got dependent on that money and financed around it. This guy doesn't come in anymore and he quit funding all of us. It's a bit pathetic. The point I'm trying to make is youre putting yourself in a vulnerable position right now. You are replaceable to him and I'm sorry if that sounds harsh. This isn't the guy that you're going to marry. It's transactional. He has the upper hand here to leave you high and dry.
I get it's easy to keep going down this road but you shouldn't let it interfere with potential relationships. Real ones. You're young and you don't need to be glued to an old man that has to bait with money. I suggest you find another way to support yourself.
I'm not slut-shaming you but I do think you would be much happier if you cut your losses and maintained your dignity.
With that said, theres a regular that would come in and hand out money to all of us. This was a biweekly thing and I would get at least $ 100 every time. He would also invite girls over to his house (lake front/ranch) and would give us $ 500 each to just drink and hang out. It sounds a bit sketchy but I always went with my good friend I work with. There was no touching of any kind but I did have to tolerate inappropriate remarks for about and hour.
I got dependent on that money and financed around it. This guy doesn't come in anymore and he quit funding all of us. It's a bit pathetic. The point I'm trying to make is youre putting yourself in a vulnerable position right now. You are replaceable to him and I'm sorry if that sounds harsh. This isn't the guy that you're going to marry. It's transactional. He has the upper hand here to leave you high and dry.
I get it's easy to keep going down this road but you shouldn't let it interfere with potential relationships. Real ones. You're young and you don't need to be glued to an old man that has to bait with money. I suggest you find another way to support yourself.
I'm not slut-shaming you but I do think you would be much happier if you cut your losses and maintained your dignity.
I cant believe she doesn't cum... Does that make a good escort? I mean geez.
Posted by FknNerdThere's a website for arrangements like this. The first time someone told me about it, I thought it was a joke. I made my account as a joke. They have "sugar mama's" on there too. Not as many, but from wha I know, there are.
How does one get into a business such as this? Where do I start?
It's just like a dating site. You go out for coffee, converse, connect, so on... simple.
If you're SEEKING an ARRANGEMENT there's a .COM for that!
Posted by LadyNeptuneIt's actually more - about $ 1000- $ 2000 per sleepover. High status escorts charge up to $ 10- $ 15k per sleepover.Posted by AliensusedourbogrollAlso I hope your charging him when you spend the night. Typical hourly rate for internet escorts is $ 150-300 so bare minimum you should be collecting $ 800- $ 1000 per sleepover.Posted by DianasartSounds like you undercharged for the monogamy. Tell him it's time for a payrise for the exclusivity but you want to be paid in better sex. It's kind of like bartering but with services instead of money. If he doesn't want to do that then monogamy is off the table.
He gives me an "allowance" and I stay a sweet, sexy, fun, and positive girlfriend.
But this client, he wanted monogamy along with the package. I adored him enough to agree to it.
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Posted by TimesNewRomanNo i've never had a venereal disease but thanks for asking. Clean that coffee can, i mean vagina.Posted by NobleSagYou want me to clap back so bad you little golden retriever ?
I wouldn't take Roman's advice. She can't get the D from a gray headed inbred in AL.click to expand
I'm actually kind of disturbed that I know a lot more about this than I really should 😐
Posted by VenusAquariusThey don't need to. The important part is making sure their client cums.
I cant believe she doesn't cum... Does that make a good escort? I mean geez.
Posted by PotHeadVirgo27Whores (the correct spelling) have many problems but being fucked isn't one. It's implied in the name, Einstein.Posted by LadyNeptuneI understand your percepted human experience.Posted by PotHeadVirgo27This literally does not make sense.
Well if you weren't such a hore, you wouldn't have to ask how do I get him to fucc me.
Now understand this, if you weren't such a hore, then this would make sense.
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Can't believe I'm saying this but you make want to take a break from the herbage and let the fog clear from your brain...
found your birth control roman. its getting rusty
Posted by NobleSag
found your birth control roman. its getting rusty
Enjoy your coffee and win in the morning champ. I definitely feel the burn now.
Posted by Ram416Men always ask if you're cumming. It adds to the pleasure. I imagined it's a part of any sexual fantasy. But, I'm sure there are fantasies that don't involve the pleasure of another's orgasm or even sex.Posted by VenusAquariusThey don't need to. The important part is making sure their client cums.
I cant believe she doesn't cum... Does that make a good escort? I mean geez.click to expand
But, the game, fantasy, he's paying for seems to be one that would inlvolve her having an orgasm too.
However, I couldn't be an escort and not have an O. Maybe it's because she's young.
Instead of getting paid, the OP is about to get played in the game.
Posted by irreconcilabledifferences
my buddy pays his gf $ 100 a month for sex when he wants and just the tip anal
Posted by irreconcilabledifferences
my buddy pays his gf $ 100 a month for sex when he wants and just the tip anal
LOL!
STAHPIT
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollThis. All of it.Posted by Dianasart
Sorry, January 31st, 1977.
(Damn cellphone keyboards will never be the same!)
@dolluxe I have rarely experienced pleasure long before I started this work. Sure, many things might play a factor to that reason, but keeping track of time is not one of them.
(So many comments to keep up with!!!)
Anyone who does believe this is wrong, well... too bad. Reality is the same as it has always been. Prostitution is a very old trade and one I have always respected (when it has been done so safely and respectively). I started doing this the very same month I met this man. I had a handful of clients right away (and only one I was glad to get rid of). But because this one happened to be more consistent (every single week) i agreed to his terms. He had never paid for sex before and like most men, he didn't want to share. He didn't like the idea of being with someone intimately knowing they're sharing their body with another.
Typical, of course.
My philosophy, however: life (man) is going to fuck me one way or another, why not get something out of it, aside from just freedom.
Maybe it's the traditional culture that was forced down my throat since childhood that really turned me off to the life of submission, marriage being the equivalent of slavery in my mind. We don't want to go too deep down this road though...
The ironic part of being paid for sex (though transactions would be made even without there always being sex) was that these men, these older, too busy to date, too old to attract the fresh and firm young girls, sometimes insecure, often desiring no commitment (and let's face it, we're often cheaper than a real girlfriend), these men who paid to have their own way ware sooo much kinder (not nessicarly "nice" but kind) than men I've dated with the traditional standards set by our society.
Sure, they do most of the talking, some of them enjoyed full and equal discussions (like my current Aqua) but one thing for sure (and this isn't to bash on men, because I do love and respect most men) is that like those who don't pay for sex, they were never fond of an outspoken woman. They prefer some taming of the tongue. Or they were just realllly bad at listening. Too easily distracted.
Either way, what I'm doing is a win-win for everyone involved. I know my place, he gets what he pays for.
Interesting topic. Fun to share!
But I'd still love to know more about Aquarius men, non the less!
My only problem is that from my point of view you're not really treating it for what it really is. A business arrangement. Yes there is feelings involved and I'm not that detached to realise that feelings don't just go away but business is still business. Yours is not a successful business arrangement if only one of you is getting what you want. The customer should get what they pay for but in return the customer has to pay what the goods/services the price it's worth. Sounds to me part of the service your providing (monogamy) isn't worth the allowance and lack of satisfying sex. Your body and personality is your business, you're in control, not him.click to expand
Posted by Ram416Would you say that we would be in a zone of danger?Posted by irreconcilabledifferences
my buddy pays his gf $ 100 a month for sex when he wants and just the tip analclick to expand
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollInstead of getting paid, she's getting played. I hope she's getting a business degree.Posted by Dianasart
Sorry, January 31st, 1977.
(Damn cellphone keyboards will never be the same!)
@dolluxe I have rarely experienced pleasure long before I started this work. Sure, many things might play a factor to that reason, but keeping track of time is not one of them.
(So many comments to keep up with!!!)
Anyone who does believe this is wrong, well... too bad. Reality is the same as it has always been. Prostitution is a very old trade and one I have always respected (when it has been done so safely and respectively). I started doing this the very same month I met this man. I had a handful of clients right away (and only one I was glad to get rid of). But because this one happened to be more consistent (every single week) i agreed to his terms. He had never paid for sex before and like most men, he didn't want to share. He didn't like the idea of being with someone intimately knowing they're sharing their body with another.
Typical, of course.
My philosophy, however: life (man) is going to fuck me one way or another, why not get something out of it, aside from just freedom.
Maybe it's the traditional culture that was forced down my throat since childhood that really turned me off to the life of submission, marriage being the equivalent of slavery in my mind. We don't want to go too deep down this road though...
The ironic part of being paid for sex (though transactions would be made even without there always being sex) was that these men, these older, too busy to date, too old to attract the fresh and firm young girls, sometimes insecure, often desiring no commitment (and let's face it, we're often cheaper than a real girlfriend), these men who paid to have their own way ware sooo much kinder (not nessicarly "nice" but kind) than men I've dated with the traditional standards set by our society.
Sure, they do most of the talking, some of them enjoyed full and equal discussions (like my current Aqua) but one thing for sure (and this isn't to bash on men, because I do love and respect most men) is that like those who don't pay for sex, they were never fond of an outspoken woman. They prefer some taming of the tongue. Or they were just realllly bad at listening. Too easily distracted.
Either way, what I'm doing is a win-win for everyone involved. I know my place, he gets what he pays for.
Interesting topic. Fun to share!
But I'd still love to know more about Aquarius men, non the less!
I think there's nothing wrong with what you're doing. My only problem is that from my point of view you're not really treating it for what it really is. A business arrangement. Yes there is feelings involved and I'm not that detached to realise that feelings don't just go away but business is still business. Yours is not a successful business arrangement if only one of you is getting what you want. The customer should get what they pay for but in return the customer has to pay what the goods/services the price it's worth. Sounds to me part of the service your providing (monogamy) isn't worth the allowance and lack of satisfying sex. Your body and personality is your business, you're in control, not him.click to expand
Posted by libralotusI really understand this and truly appreciate the advice and the sharing of your experience.
Okay, I've dabbled in this kind of stuff. I work at Hooters so the sugar daddy thing isn't new to me. I personally don't have one but many of the girls I work with have men that tip significantly. I'm not sure what they do outside of work but that isn't my business.
With that said, theres a regular that would come in and hand out money to all of us. This was a biweekly thing and I would get at least $ 100 every time. He would also invite girls over to his house (lake front/ranch) and would give us $ 500 each to just drink and hang out. It sounds a bit sketchy but I always went with my good friend I work with. There was no touching of any kind but I did have to tolerate inappropriate remarks for about and hour.
I got dependent on that money and financed around it. This guy doesn't come in anymore and he quit funding all of us. It's a bit pathetic. The point I'm trying to make is youre putting yourself in a vulnerable position right now. You are replaceable to him and I'm sorry if that sounds harsh. This isn't the guy that you're going to marry. It's transactional. He has the upper hand here to leave you high and dry.
I get it's easy to keep going down this road but you shouldn't let it interfere with potential relationships. Real ones. You're young and you don't need to be glued to an old man that has to bait with money. I suggest you find another way to support yourself.
I'm not slut-shaming you but I do think you would be much happier if you cut your losses and maintained your dignity.
I don't feel too at lose. My dignity is in tact. The best part of all this is that he actually knows he's replaceable as well. He is very, very easily replaceable.
The only struggle is that I'm young and that I'm surrounded by young men. Marriage is not on my list, nor are children, so really I feel free. His age is irrelevant BECAUSE there's no expectations of marriage.
If anything, maybe I'm bored of all this because this is lasting longer than expected. Though the money isn't what I am completely dependant on, I don't enjoy changing men as frequently when money is involved.
The site I met him on is flexible. Everyone is looking for something different. People have even found long term spouses on the site. Every man offers something different.
I guess I like what he's got to offer (sex and money aside). It's like trying to date all over again. Some men are too needy, while others are not present. Some are full of good humar but lack deep connection. Money involved or not, dating is a hassle. It's a hassle to filter through men.
What I'm doing is exactly like dating. A relationship (connection and all) is formed, but without the guarantee of marriage and babies, a future, just like any relationship. There's room for more honesty. More directness.
Sure, there's more leaning towards his demand, his style , his schedule (one that also works with mine). I always have an option to walk away if I don't like something. He knows this. He knows that he can screw up. I've given him a look of disappointment before and he's apologized for his moment of stupidity.
Aside from the money and a bit of tongue biting on my end (more about this boredom over sex), I have yet to find a difference in what we're doing and traditional dating.
Posted by MagicMonaPosted by kissmygritsthey are going to lose.
Uhm... ok.... how bout dem Cubs?
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@irreconcilabledifferences
Sasha Grey*
Om nom nom
Sasha Grey*
Om nom nom
Posted by DatariesgirlHe's actually a Capricorn. He's worked out a bargain business deal.
He is content with the way things are, so he isn't going to change. He is an Aquarius, fixed, afterall. So you will have to continue doing things his way or terminate the contract.
Wait ol dude is 60?
If i fucked a 60 year old woman at 24 I'd probably fake it as well. damn
If i fucked a 60 year old woman at 24 I'd probably fake it as well. damn
Posted by irreconcilabledifferencesY'know that's a really lucrative business but where I live it would get shut down within a month and I'd end up in jail for 10 years.Posted by Aliensusedourbogrollram is a pimp operating an online escort agency supplied by damnataPosted by Ram416Posted by LadyNeptuneIt's actually more - about $ 1000- $ 2000 per sleepover. High status escorts charge up to $ 10- $ 15k per sleepover.Posted by AliensusedourbogrollAlso I hope your charging him when you spend the night. Typical hourly rate for internet escorts is $ 150-300 so bare minimum you should be collecting $ 800- $ 1000 per sleepover.Posted by DianasartSounds like you undercharged for the monogamy. Tell him it's time for a payrise for the exclusivity but you want to be paid in better sex. It's kind of like bartering but with services instead of money. If he doesn't want to do that then monogamy is off the table.
He gives me an "allowance" and I stay a sweet, sexy, fun, and positive girlfriend.
But this client, he wanted monogamy along with the package. I adored him enough to agree to it.
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Plus I've made some really good connections with sex workers here (in my country, not dxp) so it would kill me to use them like that.
*sigh*
As is the case with any business arrangement, once the feels are involved, it's time to call it quits.
As is the case with any business arrangement, once the feels are involved, it's time to call it quits.
Posted by DatariesgirlOh, didn't see the 1. Nice game he's playing. I think it might be a game of control. What do you think?Posted by VenusAquariusShe said he was born on January 31st. Yes, he did work out a bargain business deal. Lol! I think she has developed feelings for him...Posted by DatariesgirlHe's actually a Capricorn. He's worked out a bargain business deal.
He is content with the way things are, so he isn't going to change. He is an Aquarius, fixed, afterall. So you will have to continue doing things his way or terminate the contract.
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If you add the NobleSags theory of love lost... makes a good psychological drama.
Posted by DatariesgirlThank you!!!! THIS! This is exactly the kind of advice I was looking for.
He is content with the way things are, so he isn't going to change. He is an Aquarius, fixed, afterall. So you will have to continue doing things his way or terminate the contract.
I had never dating an Aquarius, or known one intimately (or at least long term).
"Fixed sign." So, he likes to keep things just as they are once things are comfortable? He does enjoy position changes and my taking charged. Does that apply to him having found contentment in this exact (seemingly not) routine?
Posted by DianasartYes. You have to look at the overall context and not the nitty gritty.Posted by DatariesgirlThank you!!!! THIS! This is exactly the kind of advice I was looking for.
He is content with the way things are, so he isn't going to change. He is an Aquarius, fixed, afterall. So you will have to continue doing things his way or terminate the contract.
I had never dating an Aquarius, or known one intimately (or at least long term).
"Fixed sign." So, he likes to keep things just as they are once things are comfortable? He does enjoy position changes and my taking charged. Does that apply to him having found contentment in this exact (seemingly not) routine?click to expand
Posted by irreconcilabledifferencesPosted by Dianasartdo you have virgo placements you can channel to live a double life? in 1 life you are le saggy ala girlfriend experience sasha gray... in life number 2 you are studious indiana jones in a tweed blazer saggy looking for collegiate adventure in the temple of doomPosted by libralotusI really understand this and truly appreciate the advice and the sharing of your experience.
Okay, I've dabbled in this kind of stuff. I work at Hooters so the sugar daddy thing isn't new to me. I personally don't have one but many of the girls I work with have men that tip significantly. I'm not sure what they do outside of work but that isn't my business.
With that said, theres a regular that would come in and hand out money to all of us. This was a biweekly thing and I would get at least $ 100 every time. He would also invite girls over to his house (lake front/ranch) and would give us $ 500 each to just drink and hang out. It sounds a bit sketchy but I always went with my good friend I work with. There was no touching of any kind but I did have to tolerate inappropriate remarks for about and hour.
I got dependent on that money and financed around it. This guy doesn't come in anymore and he quit funding all of us. It's a bit pathetic. The point I'm trying to make is youre putting yourself in a vulnerable position right now. You are replaceable to him and I'm sorry if that sounds harsh. This isn't the guy that you're going to marry. It's transactional. He has the upper hand here to leave you high and dry.
I get it's easy to keep going down this road but you shouldn't let it interfere with potential relationships. Real ones. You're young and you don't need to be glued to an old man that has to bait with money. I suggest you find another way to support yourself.
I'm not slut-shaming you but I do think you would be much happier if you cut your losses and maintained your dignity.
I don't feel too at lose. My dignity is in tact. The best part of all this is that he actually knows he's replaceable as well. He is very, very easily replaceable.
The only struggle is that I'm young and that I'm surrounded by young men. Marriage is not on my list, nor are children, so really I feel free. His age is irrelevant BECAUSE there's no expectations of marriage.
If anything, maybe I'm bored of all this because this is lasting longer than expected. Though the money isn't what I am completely dependant on, I don't enjoy changing men as frequently when money is involved.
The site I met him on is flexible. Everyone is looking for something different. People have even found long term spouses on the site. Every man offers something different.
I guess I like what he's got to offer (sex and money aside). It's like trying to date all over again. Some men are too needy, while others are not present. Some are full of good humar but lack deep connection. Money involved or not, dating is a hassle. It's a hassle to filter through men.
What I'm doing is exactly like dating. A relationship (connection and all) is formed, but without the guarantee of marriage and babies, a future, just like any relationship. There's room for more honesty. More directness.
Sure, there's more leaning towards his demand, his style , his schedule (one that also works with mine). I always have an option to walk away if I don't like something. He knows this. He knows that he can screw up. I've given him a look of disappointment before and he's apologized for his moment of stupidity.
Aside from the money and a bit of tongue biting on my end (more about this boredom over sex), I have yet to find a difference in what we're doing and traditional dating.click to expand
I have no idea. I also have no idea who Sasha Gray is, but leading multiple lives is something I do. It all started with realizing the power I have over other people in doing so. Like playing roles for the right scenes. Sometimes I don't know who I am. Sometimes I know exactly where I stand. Sometimes I look through a microscope and other times I stand far outside the box to get a glimpse of the whole mess around me.
One things for sure, my filter is broken. Even on happy days, when the world should seem brighter, I will always see it for what it is. Even on sad days, when the world seems gray, all the beauty is still there, right beside the ugly.
No filter. No break. Unless I'm asleep! Then there's a break. Can't see much of anything when my eyes are closed.
Posted by bumboklattHe's 60 something? ewwwww old ballls. I know my fate is the same but ewwwwwPosted by NobleSagYep aquas aren't into physical
Your only option is an anger bang. You need to force him out the past. He's following the same rules from his failed relationship. That's why he pays you.The sex isn't what is getting him off. The relationship is.
It's all mental
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Posted by AliensusedourbogrollMy point was that I have a personal connection to them. Doing business with them as employees would be difficult for me. Kind of like having the feels and calling it quits cos business and family don't mix well.Posted by Ram416I don't know about that. Don't look at it as using them. The sex trade tends to be unregulated. The best thing that can happen is if these girls (and guys) have a protective boss who will look after them properly. Yes they are making you money but you can still care about their well being. I had a fast food business and I was such a mother hen to my staff.
Plus I've made some really good connections with sex workers here (in my country, not dxp) so it would kill me to use them like that.click to expand
Posted by irreconcilabledifferencesShe has Jupiter in Virgo squaring quite a bit...Posted by Dianasartdo you have virgo placements you can channel to live a double life? in 1 life you are le saggy ala girlfriend experience sasha gray... in life number 2 you are studious indiana jones in a tweed blazer saggy looking for collegiate adventure in the temple of doomPosted by libralotusI really understand this and truly appreciate the advice and the sharing of your experience.
Okay, I've dabbled in this kind of stuff. I work at Hooters so the sugar daddy thing isn't new to me. I personally don't have one but many of the girls I work with have men that tip significantly. I'm not sure what they do outside of work but that isn't my business.
With that said, theres a regular that would come in and hand out money to all of us. This was a biweekly thing and I would get at least $ 100 every time. He would also invite girls over to his house (lake front/ranch) and would give us $ 500 each to just drink and hang out. It sounds a bit sketchy but I always went with my good friend I work with. There was no touching of any kind but I did have to tolerate inappropriate remarks for about and hour.
I got dependent on that money and financed around it. This guy doesn't come in anymore and he quit funding all of us. It's a bit pathetic. The point I'm trying to make is youre putting yourself in a vulnerable position right now. You are replaceable to him and I'm sorry if that sounds harsh. This isn't the guy that you're going to marry. It's transactional. He has the upper hand here to leave you high and dry.
I get it's easy to keep going down this road but you shouldn't let it interfere with potential relationships. Real ones. You're young and you don't need to be glued to an old man that has to bait with money. I suggest you find another way to support yourself.
I'm not slut-shaming you but I do think you would be much happier if you cut your losses and maintained your dignity.
I don't feel too at lose. My dignity is in tact. The best part of all this is that he actually knows he's replaceable as well. He is very, very easily replaceable.
The only struggle is that I'm young and that I'm surrounded by young men. Marriage is not on my list, nor are children, so really I feel free. His age is irrelevant BECAUSE there's no expectations of marriage.
If anything, maybe I'm bored of all this because this is lasting longer than expected. Though the money isn't what I am completely dependant on, I don't enjoy changing men as frequently when money is involved.
The site I met him on is flexible. Everyone is looking for something different. People have even found long term spouses on the site. Every man offers something different.
I guess I like what he's got to offer (sex and money aside). It's like trying to date all over again. Some men are too needy, while others are not present. Some are full of good humar but lack deep connection. Money involved or not, dating is a hassle. It's a hassle to filter through men.
What I'm doing is exactly like dating. A relationship (connection and all) is formed, but without the guarantee of marriage and babies, a future, just like any relationship. There's room for more honesty. More directness.
Sure, there's more leaning towards his demand, his style , his schedule (one that also works with mine). I always have an option to walk away if I don't like something. He knows this. He knows that he can screw up. I've given him a look of disappointment before and he's apologized for his moment of stupidity.
Aside from the money and a bit of tongue biting on my end (more about this boredom over sex), I have yet to find a difference in what we're doing and traditional dating.click to expand
Posted by PotHeadVirgo27Okay terraminePosted by LadyNeptuneYou will be destroyed.Posted by PotHeadVirgo27—Whores— (the correct spelling) have many problems but being fucked isn't one. It's implied in the name, Einstein.Posted by LadyNeptuneI understand your percepted human experience.Posted by PotHeadVirgo27This literally does not make sense.
Well if you weren't such a hore, you wouldn't have to ask how do I get him to fucc me.
Now understand this, if you weren't such a hore, then this would make sense.
Can't believe I'm saying this but you make want to take a break from the herbage and let the fog clear from your brain...
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Some correction: he is NOT 60. Who did the math.1977. He's 40!
Also, if anyone could have feelings hurt out of this, it's him. Which worries me, but only a enough to not want to make it hard if/when this comes to an end.
When I say love, I mean the kind you might have for a good friend. We often call each other "lover and friend." We tried the title "boyfriend/girlfriend" for a short while but then I had burst out of anger towards him (can't remember the reason now) and removed the title. I even gave him a hard time, resetting out boundaries and place, which was a step back from lord knows where we were heading. I set a wall to keep us in one place, because even with all the affection and fun, (like some of you keep pointing out) it is a business agreement.
Kind of like the olden times when women were "given away" and had allowances and a few rights in exchange for their wombs and their sex. Fathers had their gain, but now the gain is only mine and there are no contracts binding me or stealing my freedom. So... I don't see how I'm being played...
Also, if anyone could have feelings hurt out of this, it's him. Which worries me, but only a enough to not want to make it hard if/when this comes to an end.
When I say love, I mean the kind you might have for a good friend. We often call each other "lover and friend." We tried the title "boyfriend/girlfriend" for a short while but then I had burst out of anger towards him (can't remember the reason now) and removed the title. I even gave him a hard time, resetting out boundaries and place, which was a step back from lord knows where we were heading. I set a wall to keep us in one place, because even with all the affection and fun, (like some of you keep pointing out) it is a business agreement.
Kind of like the olden times when women were "given away" and had allowances and a few rights in exchange for their wombs and their sex. Fathers had their gain, but now the gain is only mine and there are no contracts binding me or stealing my freedom. So... I don't see how I'm being played...
Posted by DianasartHe's 39.
Some correction: he is NOT 60. Who did the math.1977. He's 40!
Posted by DianasartD I think you should move on. Let me ask you, how does he make you feel? Confined, happy, reserved? What is it?
Some correction: he is NOT 60. Who did the math.1977. He's 40!
Also, if anyone could have feelings hurt out of this, it's him. Which worries me, but only a enough to not want to make it hard if/when this comes to an end.
When I say love, I mean the kind you might have for a good friend. We often call each other "lover and friend." We tried the title "boyfriend/girlfriend" for a short while but then I had burst out of anger towards him (can't remember the reason now) and removed the title. I even gave him a hard time, resetting out boundaries and place, which was a step back from lord knows where we were heading. I set a wall to keep us in one place, because even with all the affection and fun, (like some of you keep pointing out) it is a business agreement.
Kind of like the olden times when women were "given away" and had allowances and a few rights in exchange for their wombs and their sex. Fathers had their gain, but now the gain is only mine and there are no contracts binding me or stealing my freedom. So... I don't see how I'm being played...
Posted by NobleSagI worked out he's only 39?? Turning 40 next year. That's not old.
Wait ol dude is 60?
If i fucked a 60 year old woman at 24 I'd probably fake it as well. damn
It's probably old for a 24yo.
Posted by DianasartOops didnt see this. Being blonde at the moment..no offence to any real blondes out there.
Some correction: he is NOT 60. Who did the math.1977. He's 40!
Also, if anyone could have feelings hurt out of this, it's him. Which worries me, but only a enough to not want to make it hard if/when this comes to an end.
When I say love, I mean the kind you might have for a good friend. We often call each other "lover and friend." We tried the title "boyfriend/girlfriend" for a short while but then I had burst out of anger towards him (can't remember the reason now) and removed the title. I even gave him a hard time, resetting out boundaries and place, which was a step back from lord knows where we were heading. I set a wall to keep us in one place, because even with all the affection and fun, (like some of you keep pointing out) it is a business agreement.
Kind of like the olden times when women were "given away" and had allowances and a few rights in exchange for their wombs and their sex. Fathers had their gain, but now the gain is only mine and there are no contracts binding me or stealing my freedom. So... I don't see how I'm being played...
Posted by NobleSagI feel fairly happy. No confinement or pressure. Content for the most part.Posted by DianasartD I think you should move on. Let me ask you, how does he make you feel? Confined, happy, reserved? What is it?
Some correction: he is NOT 60. Who did the math.1977. He's 40!
Also, if anyone could have feelings hurt out of this, it's him. Which worries me, but only a enough to not want to make it hard if/when this comes to an end.
When I say love, I mean the kind you might have for a good friend. We often call each other "lover and friend." We tried the title "boyfriend/girlfriend" for a short while but then I had burst out of anger towards him (can't remember the reason now) and removed the title. I even gave him a hard time, resetting out boundaries and place, which was a step back from lord knows where we were heading. I set a wall to keep us in one place, because even with all the affection and fun, (like some of you keep pointing out) it is a business agreement.
Kind of like the olden times when women were "given away" and had allowances and a few rights in exchange for their wombs and their sex. Fathers had their gain, but now the gain is only mine and there are no contracts binding me or stealing my freedom. So... I don't see how I'm being played...
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I only wanted to understand his through a different lens to figure out how I could change things up in the bedroom to my preference. He's so gentle and loving, which I adore, but get bored of some times. Not always, but sometimes.
I don't want to allow myself to think of another (the boy from class) because as fun and exciting as it would be for a while, but there would be no gain. Focusing on a new, young and fresh relationship would only bring lose to one that I have been gaining from and feel secure enough in without pressure or false hopes.
The topic really attracted a lot of attention. Entertaining, really. But I don't plan on leaving him or moving on. It's not some lovey dovey fairy tale. It's reality. Just like all the other aspects in life, I accept it for what it is and with it's possibility to end at any given moment.
Still a fucking trainwreck, I see.
Honey you haven't learned a single thing since you were last here. *facepalm*
Honey you haven't learned a single thing since you were last here. *facepalm*
Just skimmed through the old, OLD posting history to refresh my memory. All I remembered about you was that you're a freaking mess when it comes to this stuff.
Then I was reminded you're a Sag and loled some more.
How is it you came here all virginal and come back and now are practically whoring yourself out? What the fuck. You weren't kidding when you were told you've got this weird fuck daddy issue thing going on.
It's only been a few years. How the hell do you go from virginal to whore? I knew you had problems, but what the hell?
This is probably why you can't orgasm and why you have such fucked up views of what's really going on in this situation.
When are Sag ladies going to realize that sex =/= respectable relationship status of any kind? If you like to fuck, fine. But don't go in, having casual sex like a dude and expecting roses and chocolates as the end result. I mean really, you say this is just an arrangement, but turn right around and proclaim you love the dude. WHICH one is it?
You SERIOUSLY need to stay away from the male gender for awhile, dear. Every time you've posted here, it was another lovely illustration of what a total trainwreck you are about this stuff. You suffer from some serious dysfunction in this department and should probably work on yourself and seek professional help. You really went off on the fucking deep end here because you didn't do that to begin with.
Then I was reminded you're a Sag and loled some more.
How is it you came here all virginal and come back and now are practically whoring yourself out? What the fuck. You weren't kidding when you were told you've got this weird fuck daddy issue thing going on.
It's only been a few years. How the hell do you go from virginal to whore? I knew you had problems, but what the hell?
This is probably why you can't orgasm and why you have such fucked up views of what's really going on in this situation.
When are Sag ladies going to realize that sex =/= respectable relationship status of any kind? If you like to fuck, fine. But don't go in, having casual sex like a dude and expecting roses and chocolates as the end result. I mean really, you say this is just an arrangement, but turn right around and proclaim you love the dude. WHICH one is it?
You SERIOUSLY need to stay away from the male gender for awhile, dear. Every time you've posted here, it was another lovely illustration of what a total trainwreck you are about this stuff. You suffer from some serious dysfunction in this department and should probably work on yourself and seek professional help. You really went off on the fucking deep end here because you didn't do that to begin with.
Posted by CAPLOCKSAID-_-Posted by Ram416No. He's 39 and a half 🙂Posted by DianasartHe's 39.
Some correction: he is NOT 60. Who did the math.1977. He's 40!
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