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Are Aquas lazy in relationships?
Posted by truecap
Once the relationship is established do yall tend to get "lazy" in taking initiatives? I think I've read comments here and there about this. My guy even admits to it.I'm sure it's natural for everyone, regardless of sign, to start to get lazy, but I'm wondering if aquas are more so. They tend to "go with the flow" and "let things develop organically", to quote some statments I've read.
Thoughts?
I believe it depends on the aqua. If you look at aqua celebrities, they aren't lazy at all. But then, they're a special brand, I guess. You have Ellen Degeneres and her Aqua girlfriend, and they do stuff together all the time. And as for Jennifer Aniston and her fiance Justin, they seem to do stuff all the time. Justin/Jennifer Biel Timberlake do alot of stuff together, like jog together, visit places and he dresses her up like a doll. (I read her take on their relationship on how he likes to pick out her clothes and do stuff for her, and she loves it. Lol)
with me and my husband he is the LEADER, no shit. I really have to use my womanly wiles to get him to do what I want. lmao!! but moving along....
Most guys fall EASILY into the relationship and get comfortable. They know they have "you" so you are their security blanket and they know you ain't going anywhere!
Don't think so. My friend is an Aquarius and he has been with his gf for the past two years and both are very happy. I'm surprised the relationship has lasted that long.
I didn't say they couldn't sustain a relationship.
I just commented on the laziness factor. Like staying home instead of planning fabulous outings. Not initiating hand holding. Not saying all the sweet nothings they told you in the beginning. Stuff like that.
I'm not complaining on my guy, its just a question I threw out there to see if I could liven up this board.
To Truecap: Oh, well in the laziness thing I think you would be a bit right. My Aqua friend has like way too much free time on his hand he wastes it on internet. He is a hand holder cuz I see it all the time. But, I wouldn't count on him to do a job for me. I would depend on my Virgo sister to do something on time and do it right the first time.
he has to have a very venus dominated chart to be a romantic. Otherwise....
Most guys aren't really THAT romantic, you'll have to go for a venus ruled man or dominant venus for that.
I just realised it's Aquarius moon day. No wonder. Lol
y'know there's so many different types of aquarius men. *shakes head* You never know what you're gonna get.
Leo sun/Aquarius moon day feels weird.
TRUE CAP
HOW MANY AQUA WOMEN EVER GET ON TOP
VERY FEW ITS ALWAYS UP TO US CAPS TO DO THE WORK WHILE
THEY JUST LAY THERE AND GO UN! UN!
IT IS WHAT IT IS
OMG Tate!! You have such a twisted perception!!
BTW, top is the shiznit! o.o
😕
YOU SOUND LIKE AN AQUA
I'm an Aqua and I never get lazy. If anything, the longer we're together, the more work I put in to make sure things don't get stale and boring. No problem here with me getting on top, but it's nice to mix it up a bit, who wants to be in the same position for play time. I like to start one way, switch it up mid-way through and finish off with a bang.
Although, I feel that getting lazy can also be just people getting comfortable. This can happen with a relationship or friendship... it's human nature, we all get comfortable and need someone to light a little fire under are arses every now and then. I don't think this is reall sign or gender specific.
O.K. SUN
I ASK FOR FORGIVENESS
OR WHAT EVER
Posted by james tate
TRUE CAP
HOW MANY AQUA WOMEN EVER GET ON TOP
VERY FEW ITS ALWAYS UP TO US CAPS TO DO THE WORK WHILE
THEY JUST LAY THERE AND GO UN! UN!
IT IS WHAT IT IS
If that were true, it would mean 2 things, you are too controlling so she let's you do your thing to please you or it is boring and she is lying there thinking about her to do list.sigh
Posted by aquapiscescusp
Posted by james tate
TRUE CAP
HOW MANY AQUA WOMEN EVER GET ON TOP
VERY FEW ITS ALWAYS UP TO US CAPS TO DO THE WORK WHILE
THEY JUST LAY THERE AND GO UN! UN!
IT IS WHAT IT IS
If that were true, it would mean 2 things, you are too controlling so she let's you do your thing to please you or it is boring and she is lying there thinking about her to do list.sigh
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Zing!!!
LOL
NOPE SHE IS JUST LAZY
LAZY LAZY LAZY
I HAVE HEARD THAT AQUA'S ARE SO LAZY THAT THEY FALL ASLEEP
ON A DATE WITH RICHARD GEEAR YOU KNOW THE MOVIE GUY , YOU DRULL OVER.
LOL, I did fall asleep on a guy years ago, while he was driving me home. In my defense I was working two jobs and I was exhausted but still went on date, I liked him. Another reason might be he was a cap and it was a little boring.... He was not happy when he saw me sleeping. Anyway, he still wanted another date 🙂
Tate: If you were apologizing to me, no need! You are just stating your opinion, which we are all entitled too, and my feelers didn't get hurt, I was just letting the op know how things were from my perspective 🙂
never say your sorryrae/sun
its a sign of weekness
I didn't say sorry, you did...haha! However, if I am in the wrong, I do say sorry, but try to never twice for the same thing. Otherwise, that sorry means nothing. I just have to work on showing that I'm sorry with my actions.
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I get lazy in a relationship if I see my
Partner slacking. I see it as why should I make the effort to do whatever is in question when partner isn't making the effort.
A COUPLE WHO LIVED DOWN THE ROAD WERE SITTING
ON THERE POURCH ONE EVE
SHE HALLED OFF HIT HIM SO HARD IT DAMN NEAR KILLED HIM
HE ENDED UP LAYING ON THE GROUND
HE SAID WHATS THAT FOR
SHE SAID I MARRYED YOU WHEN I WAS 16 ITS FOR 60 YEARS OF BAD SEX
AFTER A BIT HE KNOCKED THE CRAP OUT OF HER
SHE ENDED UP KNOCKED OUT WHEN SHE CAME TO
SHE SAID WHAT WAS THAT FOR
HE SAID KNOWING THE DIFFERANCE
Hahahaha!!
Posted by truecap
I didn't say they couldn't sustain a relationship.I just commented on the laziness factor. Like staying home instead of planning fabulous outings. Not initiating hand holding. Not saying all the sweet nothings they told you in the beginning. Stuff like that.
I'm not complaining on my guy, its just a question I threw out there to see if I could liven up this board.
Hi truecap! 🙂 I would have to say I get lazy with the impressions. Like, not seeing me with rollers in my head and my organic mask on my face. I just feel like yea dude we are in a relationship now you get to see all of the aqua madness.
But I always initiate affection, I still plan trips for us, because if the relationship gets dull then we are in trouble. This is one aqua girl that cant take boring!!! Not for very long that is. We do have days that we laying around in our underwear. But not often.
Posted by aquapiscescusp
Posted by james tate
TRUE CAP
HOW MANY AQUA WOMEN EVER GET ON TOP
VERY FEW ITS ALWAYS UP TO US CAPS TO DO THE WORK WHILE
THEY JUST LAY THERE AND GO UN! UN!
IT IS WHAT IT IS
If that were true, it would mean 2 things, you are too controlling so she let's you do your thing to please you or it is boring and she is lying there thinking about her to do list.sigh
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+1 🙂
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Once the relationship is established do yall tend to get "lazy" in taking initiatives? I think I've read comments here and there about this. My guy even admits to it.
I'm sure it's natural for everyone, regardless of sign, to start to get lazy, but I'm wondering if aquas are more so. They tend to "go with the flow" and "let things develop organically", to quote some statments I've read.
Thoughts?