Gem03
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how to deal with an aqua moon man
Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by Gem03
I have never dealt with one before, my experience is mostly with earth sign men. I keep hearing how aqua moon men will ghost you and hurt you.
The aqua moon man I'm dealing with has gemini sun+taurus mercury+ virgo mars+ gemini venus. So far he has been the perfect gentleman, sweet and consistent. We have a lot of similar interests.
Is there anything I should be wary of, regarding aqua moon?
My ex Aries/Aqua was dry in expressing emotions in a physical way. He blamed it on his parents being cold to each other and him never seen them affectionate.
Though we could talk about anything - I left him after 4 years because waiting for a hug was unbearable considering I am clingy physically and I can hold on to a body 24/7…
I read then later that it’s not his upbringing. It’s his Aqua moon. Then met a woman who was Aqua/Aqua and she was proud of being non touchable but horny nevertheless.
Then my childhood friend who came to mind married to one - also cold and distant though always there when you need him…
I see this ‘problem’ for me - IF you can deal with it - there weren’t other problems.
I find them great and amazing.
However I can’t NOT to be wrapped into man’s arms all the time.click to expand
He is someone who won't have sex unless he is in a committed relationship, I'm the same. He is shy and very in touch with his emotions.
What you said, I will keep that in mind. I think its my venus aries and mercury taurus I need physical affection from a man. We'll see lol
Not so sure about aqua moon men, but as an aqua moon female I’m not a big initiator but a big responder. Love hugs, affection, cuddling but I don’t like clingy. I need some space, some peace at times. Am comfortable sharing emotions until I’m not feeling emotionally comfortable anymore & may shut down. It’s important to be in a safe environment. Patience is usually necessary. Sometimes that is misunderstood.
I think Gemitati’s ex Aries/aqua moon had some other issues that contributed to the No hugging thing & he’s an Aries & they are stubborn! So perhaps it depends on the person & other placements. We do tend to be understanding, and open. Sometimes emotions are more easily expressed through writing.
I think Gemitati’s ex Aries/aqua moon had some other issues that contributed to the No hugging thing & he’s an Aries & they are stubborn! So perhaps it depends on the person & other placements. We do tend to be understanding, and open. Sometimes emotions are more easily expressed through writing.
Posted by Gem03Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by Gem03My ex Aries/Aqua was dry in expressing emotions in a physical way. He blamed it on his parents being cold to each other and him never seen them affectionate.
I have never dealt with one before, my experience is mostly with earth sign men. I keep hearing how aqua moon men will ghost you and hurt you.
The aqua moon man I'm dealing with has gemini sun+taurus mercury+ virgo mars+ gemini venus. So far he has been the perfect gentleman, sweet and consistent. We have a lot of similar interests.
Is there anything I should be wary of, regarding aqua moon?
Though we could talk about anything - I left him after 4 years because waiting for a hug was unbearable considering I am clingy physically and I can hold on to a body 24/7…
I read then later that it’s not his upbringing. It’s his Aqua moon. Then met a woman who was Aqua/Aqua and she was proud of being non touchable but horny nevertheless.
Then my childhood friend who came to mind married to one - also cold and distant though always there when you need him…
I see this ‘problem’ for me - IF you can deal with it - there weren’t other problems.
I find them great and amazing.
However I can’t NOT to be wrapped into man’s arms all the time.
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He is someone who won't have sex unless he is in a committed relationship, I'm the same. He is shy and very in touch with his emotions.
What you said, I will keep that in mind. I think its my venus aries and mercury taurus I need physical affection from a man. We'll see lolclick to expand
I'm the same .. aries venus, taurus mercury. Leo ex some years ago had aqua moon and I remember how I used to complain about him lol thinking he's too cold, but I was younger, impatient and hot headed. Now when I think about it, he was very affectionate physically and emotionally. He taught me how to express my emotions. These things I didn't notice until recently. I wish his stinginess and vindictive nature didn't come in the way!
Posted by Saturn_Returns
Aqua mooners are arrogant, so try not to get into debates and disagreements with them too often.
They also have great photographic memories for remembering information but... often forget about more 'trivial' matters, such as an arranged meeting with a friend.
him and I think relatively alike, and seem to have similar values. He is very sweet and attentive. I'm gonna seem again on Feb 23 (thursday for dinner).
Posted by Midnite_Riser
Life would be easier if you would just be friends with him. That's IT! Anything Aquarius = nothing serious. Aquarius is THE most TURN OFF signs there is in the whole zodiac lol.
Yes, anyone with your personality should stay away from Aqua anything. We are turned off by you. 😆
Posted by Midnite_RiserPosted by Midnite_RiserPosted by aquarius09Posted by Midnite_RiserYes, anyone with your personality should stay away from Aqua anything. We are turned off by you. 😆
Life would be easier if you would just be friends with him. That's IT! Anything Aquarius = nothing serious. Aquarius is THE most TURN OFF signs there is in the whole zodiac lol.
How would you know that? I had an Aquarius girl AND her mom wanting a threesome with me. Her mom was an Aries and this girl was an Aquarius. If my handsome Libra self even got close to you, your heart would be beating so fast and your body would be getting so hot, especially in a very specific place.... just like that Aquarius girl did. And it wasn't 1 Aquarius girl, 2 Aquarius girls and a Taurus girl with Moon in Aquarius. I even had Sagittarius women simping for me and they are ALPHA females (Since WHEN the **** do alpha females submit right? Crazy!). If you want to keep taking shots at me, I'll just continue to brag in your face. Your choice.... I've never had a bad experience with an Aquarius female (they're TOO easy for me), but I've had bad experiences with fickle Aquarius people who pretend to be cool with you. And who only know how to express themselves when they get upset.
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LOL! Those who talk about themselves as “if my Libra handsome self…” aren’t usually good looking. Good looking people don’t have to praise themselves. It’s usually insecure and delusional people who talk like that. I’m not buying what you’re selling. I’m a stellium Aqua and I don’t believe for a second that a person with heavy Aqua energy ever gave you time a day.
Okay update: this gem sun+aqua moon man is literally one of the most respectful, kind man I have ever met. He is gentleman and always takes good care of me. I'm so happy to have found him. We text all day every day, see each other 1-2 times a week.
He cut things off, will he come back? There was no infidelity or any major red flags. After he cut things off he said “I really like you and Im really attracted to you but I cant ignore these reasons.”
The reasons he gave were fixable, he didn’t communicate that he was unhappy with me at all and made it seem like everything was good. He would constantly tell me Im beautiful, sweet and smart. Then he cut things off and dumped the reasons on me as to why he doesn’t see us working out. I don’t know what to do.
The reasons he gave were fixable, he didn’t communicate that he was unhappy with me at all and made it seem like everything was good. He would constantly tell me Im beautiful, sweet and smart. Then he cut things off and dumped the reasons on me as to why he doesn’t see us working out. I don’t know what to do.
Bleh.
What were the reasons?
That behavior speaks WAY more of his Gem sun rather than his Aqua moon. Very typical of Gemini.
Posted by Gem03
The aqua moon man I'm dealing with has gemini sun+taurus mercury+ virgo mars+ gemini venus.
Is there anything I should be wary of, regarding aqua moon?
You were dating my son 🙂
You should be wary when Moon is in Aqua or Gemini. They go mentally insane or lonely for 3 days. Need to be there for them. They are beyond intelligent and view this world weird. Very human.
Posted by IReallyAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTownPosted by Gem03
The aqua moon man I'm dealing with has gemini sun+taurus mercury+ virgo mars+ gemini venus.
Is there anything I should be wary of, regarding aqua moon?
You were dating my son
You should be wary when Moon is in Aqua or Gemini. They go mentally insane or lonely for 3 days. Need to be there for them. They are beyond intelligent and view this world weird. Very human.
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What do you mean by lonely for 3 days? Why 3?
Posted by PuzzlePieces
What were the reasons?
@PuzzlePieces he said I wasn’t as attentive as he was. That I have past trauma to heal from (which I am, Im in therapy and he knows it). Throughout the whole thing he made it seem like all is well when that wasn’t the case bc he was clearly unhappy with me. If he really liked me he would’ve found a reason to stay. I hate that he didn’t communicate to give me a chance to fix those issues, he communicated after making up his mind to leave me. I took accountability for my mistakes and apologized then said goodbye and deleted his number. I dont think he wants to see/hear from me.
We saw each other on april 23 and spent the whole day together. He was so affectionate and sweet. Then he went on his 2week europe trip (with a high school male friend btw). We texted everyday while he was in Europe. He comes back and he wants to meet me in person and I get all excited to see him. But he was so cold to me in person and wouldn’t even hold my hand or even look at me properly. That hurt so much worse.
Posted by MyStarsShine
What do you mean by lonely for 3 days? Why 3?
That's how long it takes for the Moon to be in each Zodiac sign.
Aqua Moon is lonely, so is Gem, all intelligent people feel lonely, especially on those days.
My son could easily find himself on a train to across the country for no reason on those days. That's what Anna Hatchett did.
I watch my son when Moon is in Aqua, Gemini and Taurus. Every other Moon he is fine.
Except maybe Moon in Scorpio, that's when I try to avoid arguments, but it's hard.
Every 3 days I know how each Zodiac sign really is. I feel their full behavior.
Btw, my son, nephew and niece, all have that Aqua Moon. Very similar. Really likable placement if you ask me.
Posted by IReallyAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTownPosted by MyStarsShine
What do you mean by lonely for 3 days? Why 3?
That's how long it takes for the Moon to be in each Zodiac sign.
Aqua Moon is lonely, so is Gem, all intelligent people feel lonely, especially on those days.
My son could easily find himself on a train to across the country for no reason on those days. That's what Anna Hatchett did.
I watch my son when Moon is in Aqua, Gemini and Taurus. Every other Moon he is fine.
Except maybe Moon in Scorpio, that's when I try to avoid arguments, but it's hard.
Every 3 days I know how each Zodiac sign really is. I feel their full behavior.
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Very insightful thank you 👍
Yes 2.5 to 3 days
I asked because I always check on my hermit ex if we’ve not spoken for 3 days so it made me question it. He has Aqua moon, does your son?
How is NYC? I see non vax people are being allowed into the States now. Long time coming 🙃
It still hurts, and I still want him but he wants nothing to do with me 😢
Posted by Gem03
It still hurts, and I still want him but he wants nothing to do with me
Why do you want someone who doesn’t want you….that kind of sounds like victim mentality?
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Gem03
It still hurts, and I still want him but he wants nothing to do with me
Why do you want someone who doesn’t want you….that kind of sounds like victim mentality?click to expand
How can you ask this question? If relationships were based on logic, then yes. But they are not. The heart wants what it wants. You remember the good times, you mourn the dream of the future that you have to let go.
Posted by geminiflybyPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Gem03
It still hurts, and I still want him but he wants nothing to do with me
Why do you want someone who doesn’t want you….that kind of sounds like victim mentality?
How can you ask this question? If relationships were based on logic, then yes. But they are not. The heart wants what it wants. You remember the good times, you mourn the dream of the future that you have to let go.click to expand
True
I also have passed those days of torture lol
Forgive me 😙
Posted by StubbornSagPosted by geminiflybyPosted by MyStarsShineHow can you ask this question? If relationships were based on logic, then yes. But they are not. The heart wants what it wants. You remember the good times, you mourn the dream of the future that you have to let go.Posted by Gem03
It still hurts, and I still want him but he wants nothing to do with me
Why do you want someone who doesn’t want you….that kind of sounds like victim mentality?
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Could not agree more on this. Reason and logic is one thing and heart and emotions are whole other. We want whom we want and sometimes it may have nothing to do with logic...click to expand
And a part of growing is about not going there with people who don’t feel the same
Tough gig but possible
Who wants to live a life of unrequited love?
I get it, but for some people it’s a continual thing……such a waste of a life that could be lived….
Posted by StubbornSagPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by StubbornSagPosted by geminiflybyPosted by MyStarsShineHow can you ask this question? If relationships were based on logic, then yes. But they are not. The heart wants what it wants. You remember the good times, you mourn the dream of the future that you have to let go.Posted by Gem03
It still hurts, and I still want him but he wants nothing to do with me
Why do you want someone who doesn’t want you….that kind of sounds like victim mentality?
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Could not agree more on this. Reason and logic is one thing and heart and emotions are whole other. We want whom we want and sometimes it may have nothing to do with logic...
And a part of growing is about not going there with people who don’t feel the same
Tough gig but possible
Who wants to live a life of unrequited love?
I get it, but for some people it’s a continual thing……such a waste of a life that could be lived….
It's true, but it takes time to heal. We can't just erase them like that, when they say they're no longer interested. I can't forget people I cared for so easily. It takes at least months, sometimes even years. I move on ofc, but I can't heal for quite long timeclick to expand
Yes of course …. Me too
But to not heal means you’ll keep attracting that energy …. and live a life of constant yearning …
Posted by Gem03
We saw each other on april 23 and spent the whole day together. He was so affectionate and sweet. Then he went on his 2week europe trip (with a high school male friend btw). We texted everyday while he was in Europe. He comes back and he wants to meet me in person and I get all excited to see him. But he was so cold to me in person and wouldn’t even hold my hand or even look at me properly. That hurt so much worse.
A lot of space, a lot of thinking I suppose. The trauma.. was it affecting him in some way?
Posted by StubbornSagPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by StubbornSagPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by StubbornSagPosted by geminiflybyPosted by MyStarsShineHow can you ask this question? If relationships were based on logic, then yes. But they are not. The heart wants what it wants. You remember the good times, you mourn the dream of the future that you have to let go.Posted by Gem03
It still hurts, and I still want him but he wants nothing to do with me
Why do you want someone who doesn’t want you….that kind of sounds like victim mentality?
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Could not agree more on this. Reason and logic is one thing and heart and emotions are whole other. We want whom we want and sometimes it may have nothing to do with logic...
And a part of growing is about not going there with people who don’t feel the same
Tough gig but possible
Who wants to live a life of unrequited love?
I get it, but for some people it’s a continual thing……such a waste of a life that could be lived….
It's true, but it takes time to heal. We can't just erase them like that, when they say they're no longer interested. I can't forget people I cared for so easily. It takes at least months, sometimes even years. I move on ofc, but I can't heal for quite long time
Yes of course …. Me too
But to not heal means you’ll keep attracting that energy …. and live a life of constant yearning …
It's true. It just takes time to let go and heal yourself. I honestly had spent years forgetting someone but it's all in the oast now, there's not a chance in the world I wiuld even consider him if he was the last man alive. So healing takes time but is definitelly possible. Everyone does it on their own terms I guess. I thought the other day about some men I dated, who's faces I wouldn't even recognize if I met them on the street now, but at the same time, those I really liked but never dated, I'll never be able to forget like that. You just get over it with time, when you're ready to let go of feelings you had for them. Guess she just broke up with him recently since this topic is two months old, relationship didn't last too long and she shouls be over it soon too but right now she's hurting cause it was very unexpected for her to hear what he said. However, he was really a decent man here imo. He didn't waste her time or strang her along or ghosted her...I mean, I wish more men were like him tbh lolclick to expand
Where is your Moon and Venus, Sag?
Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by Gem03
I have never dealt with one before, my experience is mostly with earth sign men. I keep hearing how aqua moon men will ghost you and hurt you.
The aqua moon man I'm dealing with has gemini sun+taurus mercury+ virgo mars+ gemini venus. So far he has been the perfect gentleman, sweet and consistent. We have a lot of similar interests.
Is there anything I should be wary of, regarding aqua moon?
My ex Aries/Aqua was dry in expressing emotions in a physical way. He blamed it on his parents being cold to each other and him never seen them affectionate.
Though we could talk about anything - I left him after 4 years because waiting for a hug was unbearable considering I am clingy physically and I can hold on to a body 24/7…
I read then later that it’s not his upbringing. It’s his Aqua moon. Then met a woman who was Aqua/Aqua and she was proud of being non touchable but horny nevertheless.
Then my childhood friend who came to mind married to one - also cold and distant though always there when you need him…
I see this ‘problem’ for me - IF you can deal with it - there weren’t other problems.
I find them great and amazing.
However I can’t NOT to be wrapped into man’s arms all the time.click to expand
Are you a Virgo or something? Cause I'm physically clingy too, I'm very sensual, but not emotionally clingy lol
Posted by MyStarsShine
Yes 2.5 to 3 days
I asked because I always check on my hermit ex if we’ve not spoken for 3 days so it made me question it. He has Aqua moon, does your son?
How is NYC? I see non vax people are being allowed into the States now. Long time coming 🙃
Yes, 2.5 to 3. I feel the change the most and first day.
NYC sucks. Capitalists stole everything, and Communists captured US and won. They are destroying it all. Thinking of moving into mountains like Colorado, or living on a boat in international waters and abandon this junk.
Yes, son is Aqua Moon.
Posted by Gem03
I have never dealt with one before, my experience is mostly with earth sign men. I keep hearing how aqua moon men will ghost you and hurt you.
The aqua moon man I'm dealing with has gemini sun+taurus mercury+ virgo mars+ gemini venus. So far he has been the perfect gentleman, sweet and consistent. We have a lot of similar interests.
Is there anything I should be wary of, regarding aqua moon?
Run, jk 😂 I feel like since you're Gemini, you'll get along with this person just fine. Depending on your Moon though. But you two are probably pretty logical, brainy people.
Best hope this guy isn't clinging into any exes though.
I dated a Pisces Sun, Aquarius Moon, Aries Venus guy for a literal week after a month or two of flirting situationship crap. It was a really hot and passionate time for sure. But that's all it was. There was no emotional deepness that I truly desired and needed. One that someone like a deep Scorpio could provide. When I did open up with my emotions and start venting in the middle of the night, this Pisces Sun, Aqua Moon guy called me up to be there for me which was really sweet but he didn't know how to really emotionally respond to what I was saying. We were all passion, but nothing else. I craved for deeper, but he was just too emotionally unavailable and clouded to reciprocate.
So don't expect your guy to be too emotionally touchy or emotionally deep, I guess.
Honestly, I deserved better. He only discontinued our romantic relationship because he was still hung up on his ex. I was basically his sexual rebound. It sucked hard. It hurt a lot back then. He deals with depression too.
As a Pisces Moon myself, I find it very hard to find people who will understand and accept my emotions in the way I need to express them. So I think it depends on your Moon. That's why I'm so happy to be with my Scorpio sun, Scorpio Moon guy now. He just understands and accepts my emotions in a way no one else has before.
aqua energy I've noticed can have very rigid, conservative beliefs even when they themselves are not very conventional people nor live very conventional (conservative) lives which I think make them appear quite hypocritical to some people.
reminds me of Caitlyn Jenner.
and friendship weighs heavier than romance which I'm absolutely on board with as an 11th house Venus.
reminds me of Caitlyn Jenner.
and friendship weighs heavier than romance which I'm absolutely on board with as an 11th house Venus.
Posted by IReallyAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTownPosted by MyStarsShine
Yes 2.5 to 3 days
I asked because I always check on my hermit ex if we’ve not spoken for 3 days so it made me question it. He has Aqua moon, does your son?
How is NYC? I see non vax people are being allowed into the States now. Long time coming 🙃
Yes, 2.5 to 3. I feel the change the most and first day.
NYC sucks. Capitalists stole everything, and Communists captured US and won. They are destroying it all. Thinking of moving into mountains like Colorado, or living on a boat in international waters and abandon this junk.
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I’m sorry to hear this and it’s prob the best option to get the hell out of the city? What about upstate or would that be similarly affected?
Colorado sounds cool. The Red Rocks where they have gigs looks amazing!
Good luck with the move🍀
Posted by StubbornSagPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by StubbornSagPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by StubbornSagPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by StubbornSagPosted by geminiflybyPosted by MyStarsShineHow can you ask this question? If relationships were based on logic, then yes. But they are not. The heart wants what it wants. You remember the good times, you mourn the dream of the future that you have to let go.Posted by Gem03
It still hurts, and I still want him but he wants nothing to do with me
Why do you want someone who doesn’t want you….that kind of sounds like victim mentality?
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Could not agree more on this. Reason and logic is one thing and heart and emotions are whole other. We want whom we want and sometimes it may have nothing to do with logic...
And a part of growing is about not going there with people who don’t feel the same
Tough gig but possible
Who wants to live a life of unrequited love?
I get it, but for some people it’s a continual thing……such a waste of a life that could be lived….
It's true, but it takes time to heal. We can't just erase them like that, when they say they're no longer interested. I can't forget people I cared for so easily. It takes at least months, sometimes even years. I move on ofc, but I can't heal for quite long time
Yes of course …. Me too
But to not heal means you’ll keep attracting that energy …. and live a life of constant yearning …
It's true. It just takes time to let go and heal yourself. I honestly had spent years forgetting someone but it's all in the oast now, there's not a chance in the world I wiuld even consider him if he was the last man alive. So healing takes time but is definitelly possible. Everyone does it on their own terms I guess. I thought the other day about some men I dated, who's faces I wouldn't even recognize if I met them on the street now, but at the same time, those I really liked but never dated, I'll never be able to forget like that. You just get over it with time, when you're ready to let go of feelings you had for them. Guess she just broke up with him recently since this topic is two months old, relationship didn't last too long and she shouls be over it soon too but right now she's hurting cause it was very unexpected for her to hear what he said. However, he was really a decent man here imo. He didn't waste her time or strang her along or ghosted her...I mean, I wish more men were like him tbh lol
Where is your Moon and Venus, Sag?
1st and 9th house. Sag Venus and Aries Moon. Does not sound like someone who would be stuck in their feelings, right?😂click to expand
That’s surprising 😃
Do you have any water placements or strong Pluto at all?
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by StubbornSagPosted by geminiflybyCould not agree more on this. Reason and logic is one thing and heart and emotions are whole other. We want whom we want and sometimes it may have nothing to do with logic...Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Gem03
It still hurts, and I still want him but he wants nothing to do with me
Why do you want someone who doesn’t want you….that kind of sounds like victim mentality?
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How can you ask this question? If relationships were based on logic, then yes. But they are not. The heart wants what it wants. You remember the good times, you mourn the dream of the future that you have to let go.
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And a part of growing is about not going there with people who don’t feel the same
Tough gig but possible
Who wants to live a life of unrequited love?
I get it, but for some people it’s a continual thing……such a waste of a life that could be lived….click to expand
It's easier for us Scorpio Venus people to erase someone who has hurt us. I agree with you if someone doesn't want me my love for them stops right then and there. Never look back.
Aqua moon is a menace if you put it on anyone born in July to October. It doesn’t do anything to balance the excessively emotional behaviour of those born in this zone. You’d think that Aqua moon would get these folks to rationalize their irrational emotions that they are feeling but nooooo! All it does is fuels it by making them obstinate, stubborn and stonewall.
Posted by StubbornSagPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by StubbornSagPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by StubbornSagPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by StubbornSagPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by StubbornSagPosted by geminiflybyPosted by MyStarsShineHow can you ask this question? If relationships were based on logic, then yes. But they are not. The heart wants what it wants. You remember the good times, you mourn the dream of the future that you have to let go.Posted by Gem03
It still hurts, and I still want him but he wants nothing to do with me
Why do you want someone who doesn’t want you….that kind of sounds like victim mentality?
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Could not agree more on this. Reason and logic is one thing and heart and emotions are whole other. We want whom we want and sometimes it may have nothing to do with logic...
And a part of growing is about not going there with people who don’t feel the same
Tough gig but possible
Who wants to live a life of unrequited love?
I get it, but for some people it’s a continual thing……such a waste of a life that could be lived….
It's true, but it takes time to heal. We can't just erase them like that, when they say they're no longer interested. I can't forget people I cared for so easily. It takes at least months, sometimes even years. I move on ofc, but I can't heal for quite long time
Yes of course …. Me too
But to not heal means you’ll keep attracting that energy …. and live a life of constant yearning …
It's true. It just takes time to let go and heal yourself. I honestly had spent years forgetting someone but it's all in the oast now, there's not a chance in the world I wiuld even consider him if he was the last man alive. So healing takes time but is definitelly possible. Everyone does it on their own terms I guess. I thought the other day about some men I dated, who's faces I wouldn't even recognize if I met them on the street now, but at the same time, those I really liked but never dated, I'll never be able to forget like that. You just get over it with time, when you're ready to let go of feelings you had for them. Guess she just broke up with him recently since this topic is two months old, relationship didn't last too long and she shouls be over it soon too but right now she's hurting cause it was very unexpected for her to hear what he said. However, he was really a decent man here imo. He didn't waste her time or strang her along or ghosted her...I mean, I wish more men were like him tbh lol
Where is your Moon and Venus, Sag?
1st and 9th house. Sag Venus and Aries Moon. Does not sound like someone who would be stuck in their feelings, right?😂
That’s surprising 😃
Do you have any water placements or strong Pluto at all?
Yeah, I have Scorp stellium and 8th house stellium (with asteroids, not when there are just planets in chart). Mars, SN, Pluto, Juno or Pluto, SN, Juno and Saturn in 8th house stellium (Saturn is in Sag but in 8th house still). Also Mars and SN conjunct Pluto. My chart is mainly fire and water anyway😁click to expand
Woooohh😀
Mars-Pluto is very intense! 😳
Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by StubbornSagPosted by geminiflybyCould not agree more on this. Reason and logic is one thing and heart and emotions are whole other. We want whom we want and sometimes it may have nothing to do with logic...Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Gem03
It still hurts, and I still want him but he wants nothing to do with me
Why do you want someone who doesn’t want you….that kind of sounds like victim mentality?
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How can you ask this question? If relationships were based on logic, then yes. But they are not. The heart wants what it wants. You remember the good times, you mourn the dream of the future that you have to let go.
click to expand
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And a part of growing is about not going there with people who don’t feel the same
Tough gig but possible
Who wants to live a life of unrequited love?
I get it, but for some people it’s a continual thing……such a waste of a life that could be lived….
It's easier for us Scorpio Venus people to erase someone who has hurt us. I agree with you if someone doesn't want me my love for them stops right then and there. Never look back.click to expand
Yes indeed 💪
Posted by StubbornSagPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by StubbornSagPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by StubbornSagPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by StubbornSagPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by StubbornSagPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by StubbornSagPosted by geminiflybyPosted by MyStarsShineHow can you ask this question? If relationships were based on logic, then yes. But they are not. The heart wants what it wants. You remember the good times, you mourn the dream of the future that you have to let go.Posted by Gem03
It still hurts, and I still want him but he wants nothing to do with me
Why do you want someone who doesn’t want you….that kind of sounds like victim mentality?
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Could not agree more on this. Reason and logic is one thing and heart and emotions are whole other. We want whom we want and sometimes it may have nothing to do with logic...
And a part of growing is about not going there with people who don’t feel the same
Tough gig but possible
Who wants to live a life of unrequited love?
I get it, but for some people it’s a continual thing……such a waste of a life that could be lived….
It's true, but it takes time to heal. We can't just erase them like that, when they say they're no longer interested. I can't forget people I cared for so easily. It takes at least months, sometimes even years. I move on ofc, but I can't heal for quite long time
Yes of course …. Me too
But to not heal means you’ll keep attracting that energy …. and live a life of constant yearning …
It's true. It just takes time to let go and heal yourself. I honestly had spent years forgetting someone but it's all in the oast now, there's not a chance in the world I wiuld even consider him if he was the last man alive. So healing takes time but is definitelly possible. Everyone does it on their own terms I guess. I thought the other day about some men I dated, who's faces I wouldn't even recognize if I met them on the street now, but at the same time, those I really liked but never dated, I'll never be able to forget like that. You just get over it with time, when you're ready to let go of feelings you had for them. Guess she just broke up with him recently since this topic is two months old, relationship didn't last too long and she shouls be over it soon too but right now she's hurting cause it was very unexpected for her to hear what he said. However, he was really a decent man here imo. He didn't waste her time or strang her along or ghosted her...I mean, I wish more men were like him tbh lol
Where is your Moon and Venus, Sag?
1st and 9th house. Sag Venus and Aries Moon. Does not sound like someone who would be stuck in their feelings, right?😂
That’s surprising 😃
Do you have any water placements or strong Pluto at all?
Yeah, I have Scorp stellium and 8th house stellium (with asteroids, not when there are just planets in chart). Mars, SN, Pluto, Juno or Pluto, SN, Juno and Saturn in 8th house stellium (Saturn is in Sag but in 8th house still). Also Mars and SN conjunct Pluto. My chart is mainly fire and water anyway😁
Woooohh😀
Mars-Pluto is very intense! 😳
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It makes sense as to why you’re like you are😃
It's understandable to be cautious when dealing with someone who has an Aquarius Moon placement, especially if you've had negative experiences with people in the past who have this placement. However, it's important to remember that not everyone with an Aquarius Moon is the same, and that their personality is shaped by a variety of factors, including their Sun sign, Mercury sign, Mars sign, and Venus sign.
In general, Aquarius Moon people are known for being independent, intellectual, and humanitarian. They can be very idealistic and progressive, and they often have a strong sense of social justice. However, they can also be aloof, detached, and unpredictable.
The Aquarius Moon man you're dealing with seems to be a good mix of his various astrological placements. He's sweet and consistent like his Taurus Mercury, and he's also intellectually curious and open-minded like his Gemini Sun. His Virgo Mars suggests that he's practical and grounded, while his Gemini Venus indicates that he's flirtatious and loves to communicate.
Of course, there's no guarantee that this man won't ghost you or hurt you in the future. But based on what you've told me, it seems like he's a good guy who is genuinely interested in you. The best thing you can do is to continue to get to know him and see how things develop.
Here are a few things to keep in mind as you're getting to know him:
Be honest and upfront about your feelings and expectations. Don't play games or try to manipulate him.
Give him plenty of space and freedom. Aquarius Moon people need their independence, so don't try to smother him.
Be prepared for the unexpected. Aquarius Moon people can be unpredictable, so don't get too attached to any one particular plan or outcome.
If you can follow these tips, you'll be well on your way to building a strong and lasting relationship with this man.
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