@Rania_1498
5 Years
A cycle of intense sex / break ups for 3 years On/off relationship with my ex Gemini ♊️
Why Do Gemini Relationships Often Cycle Between Breakups and Reunions
Gemini individuals are known for their duality and need for mental stimulation, which can lead to intense and fluctuating relationships. Repeated cycles of breakups and reunions may stem from their desire for independence and fear of commitment, causing emotional highs and lows. Understanding their communicative and adaptable nature can help navigate these cycles more healthily.
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Forget to mention the time of birth mine was 02:00pm and his time of birth 7:00pm
In Tunisia 🇹🇳
Our first fight that led to the first break up was because I got busy with work and I didn’t call him the whole day then issues started
& other event happened during new year & my birthday when he invited his friends over .
He didn’t like how his friends asked me about my work I guess I don’t know but the next day
We had a really big fight because of that.
Last one and in between the same challenges
& Sometimes i need space and I want to be alone for at least a day.I never disappeared or ghosted him never 👎.
So when I call him back after a long day of work he’s aggressive answers and the way he try to put me down
Makes me quite , wanting me to engage and communicate & can’t find the words to justify even when I try he hates it ( justifying or giving reasons makes him sick he said )
Always questioning my love for him.
Yelling to ask me not to call him again.
Using bad words for sure. He always does
So it has to stop ✋ 🛑 &
He’s done with me because he hates when I don’t care about our relationship.
Especially when we are around people I don’t know why.
I really don’t do anything in purpuse to makes him that angry ..
Also Most of his work is at home
Sometimes he has to travel somewhere and he wants me to travel with him while he’s working & wait for him until he finish . I’ve done that really tried to stay with him & wait
It was 6 months of everyday just eating
Watching movies and having sex.
I couldn’t do that
I have my job & things to take care of .
So this is one of the pbs we use to have .
He wants my attention ⚠️ 100% of the times .
There are other communications challenges between us.
In bed or at home we are in harmony.
When we are at home together not fighting I feel safe with him .
He take good care of us
After we make love he always cook 👨🍳
He’s smart & creative
Our challenges start when we go out on a groupe
Or go to visit his family or my family
Or when am working
He doesn’t like when am not giving him My attention.
Hello hahaha 😝 try to read it’s not really boring.
the communication yes 👍🏻
I feel that he wants to control me 🙂
I value freedom it’s one of my values
I’ve done therapy alone after the break up. During the relashionship
I asked him to do it but He refused .
He didn’t deny that we are having issues or that he has issues but he didn’t want to do it together.
Last time he called me he said he’s seeing a therapist and he’s trying to heal .
Long story short last communication was yesterday.
He called & said that he was reading all of our past conversations , my text msgs to him .
And he needs to see me to tell him everything I want to say and I didn’t have the chance to speak about .
Honestly my response was I really don’t have much to say I want to see him too because I miss him but I don’t want talk about the past.
He asked me to call him when am ready to meet and talk.
I love him for sure . And it’s sad 😞 that it didn’t work. Because I never felt this way before I mean I never had this type of emotion and physicall connection with another man.
I don’t know how to explain it
When we hug I feel that am in my environment where I belong . I don’t know how to explain it.
A part of me which is missing inside him.
And calling me to be there.
he feel the same too.
Because he say out loud what I feel inside
That’s why I know.
In my birth certificate 2:00pm
For him he said 11pm that’s all I know
I love him for sure . And it’s sad 😞 that it didn’t work. Because I never felt this way before I mean I never had this type of emotion and physicall connection with another man.
I don’t know how to explain it
When we hug I feel that am in my environment where I belong . I don’t know how to explain it.
A part of me which is missing inside him.
And calling me to be there.
he feel the same too.
Because he say out loud what I feel inside
That’s why I know.
You haven’t had this connection with another man because for the last 3 yrs he’s demanded all your attention.
It’s not a unicorn. You can find this same connection again. Ideally with an individual who isn’t verbally abusive, jealous, and so hugely insecure.
Have you learned any lessons in the three years?
On some level, do you have self worth issues? Where you don’t think you deserve better?
Cause you can do better.
You can have other emotional attachments but you’re in love with the toxicity
Do you feel a sense of duty towards this guy?
Capricorns have a hard time walking away from things they feel responsible towards.
Capricorns also hate wasting time and being unproductive.
In 3 years, there hasn’t been any meaningful progress with this guy.
Just sex and toxicity.
Definitely there Devil side of capricorns
Yes I use to feel responsible for him
During the relationship but when he asked me to go our separate ways I did . I don’t feel responsible for him since .
If u ask me why it’s hard to let it go
It’s not hard am aware of the pattern .
I just like how I feel with him
He makes me laugh he’s funny
An smart very smart & intellectual 🧐
My love for him is unconditional.
We are not together right now & I wish him the best.
I tried to stay friends with him but he refused.
He told me that he can’t stay friends with a person he wanted to marry.
When he call and ask me to meet him I always do.
Am not obsessed wanting to see him or cal him everyday am not.
But when there’s an occasion to meet him I try not to miss it.
Because I love him .
With me or with someone else .I ll be always happy for him if he’s with me or not.
He’s very helpful
And always take care of people In need.
Smart , intellectual , brave , loves his mum,
Funny makes me laugh , take care of details , he’s a very good cook & creative.
I feel home with him .
Yes I use to feel responsible for him
During the relationship but when he asked me to go our separate ways I did . I don’t feel responsible for him since .
If u ask me why it’s hard to let it go
It’s not hard am aware of the pattern .
I just like how I feel with him
He makes me laugh he’s funny
An smart very smart & intellectual 🧐
My love for him is unconditional.
We are not together right now & I wish him the best.
I tried to stay friends with him but he refused.
He told me that he can’t stay friends with a person he wanted to marry.
When he call and ask me to meet him I always do.
Am not obsessed wanting to see him or cal him everyday am not.
But when there’s an occasion to meet him I try not to miss it.
Because I love him .
With me or with someone else .I ll be always happy for him if he’s with me or not.
You sound like a nice lady.
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Thank you 🙏
You are very nice 😊 too
Sounds hot.
What do you fight about?
The way we communicate 🙂
Lack of attention ⚠️
For him am not giving enough attention to our relationship especially in public.&
I don’t know how to take care of him.
He just see the potential .
The big challenge is communication.
You say that you love how he makes you feel.. How so?
It sounds very stressful, so what do you really love about this?
When we are not fighting
And good together I love how makes me feel
Welp, there’s your issue.
Unconditional Love.
Try conditional love and see how your life changes for the better.
Welp, there’s your issue.
Unconditional Love.
Try conditional love and see how your life changes for the better.
Hahahaha
We are back together since one month
& yesterday I was joking about something and he became so angry on the phone and insulted me.
I didn’t say or did anything bad
We didn’t talk Almost the whole day
He just texted If I feel better ?
Again am confused and started to question myself if am in a relationship with a narcissist
Welp, there’s your issue.
Unconditional Love.
Try conditional love and see how your life changes for the better.
Hahahaha
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She's not wrong.
Welp, there’s your issue.
Unconditional Love.
Try conditional love and see how your life changes for the better.
Hahahaha
She's not wrong.
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Is he suffering from NPD?
We are back together since one month
& yesterday I was joking about something and he became so angry on the phone and insulted me.
I didn’t say or did anything bad
We didn’t talk Almost the whole day
He just texted If I feel better ?
Again am confused and started to question myself if am in a relationship with a narcissist
Yes someone with deep seated issues by the Sound of it
Welp, there’s your issue.
Unconditional Love.
Try conditional love and see how your life changes for the better.
Hahahaha
She's not wrong.
Is he suffering from NPD?
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Yes your focus rn should definitely be concern for what he might be suffering. Not the fact he continues to disrespect you and treat you like shit.
**sarcasm
Welp, there’s your issue.
Unconditional Love.
Try conditional love and see how your life changes for the better.
Hahahaha
She's not wrong.
Is he suffering from NPD?
Yes your focus rn should definitely be concern for what he might be suffering. Not the fact he continues to disrespect you and treat you like shit.
**sarcasm
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Yes I got it 🙂
I’m not gonna seat there and allowed him to disrespect me .
I was just asking if he’s behaviour match an NPD or not that’s all 🙂
Welp, there’s your issue.
Unconditional Love.
Try conditional love and see how your life changes for the better.
Hahahaha
She's not wrong.
Is he suffering from NPD?
Yes your focus rn should definitely be concern for what he might be suffering. Not the fact he continues to disrespect you and treat you like shit.
**sarcasm
Yes I got it 🙂
I’m not gonna seat there and allowed him to disrespect me .
I was just asking if he’s behaviour match an NPD or not that’s all 🙂
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Idk. He is a stranger to me. All I know of the situation is what you describe here.
Welp, there’s your issue.
Unconditional Love.
Try conditional love and see how your life changes for the better.
Hahahaha
She's not wrong.
Is he suffering from NPD?
Yes your focus rn should definitely be concern for what he might be suffering. Not the fact he continues to disrespect you and treat you like shit.
**sarcasm
Yes I got it 🙂
I’m not gonna seat there and allowed him to disrespect me .
I was just asking if he’s behaviour match an NPD or not that’s all 🙂
Idk. He is a stranger to me. All I know of the situation is what you describe here.
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Gemini men
Not the most stable
Welp, there’s your issue.
Unconditional Love.
Try conditional love and see how your life changes for the better.
Hahahaha
She's not wrong.
Is he suffering from NPD?
Yes your focus rn should definitely be concern for what he might be suffering. Not the fact he continues to disrespect you and treat you like shit.
**sarcasm
Yes I got it 🙂
I’m not gonna seat there and allowed him to disrespect me .
I was just asking if he’s behaviour match an NPD or not that’s all 🙂
Idk. He is a stranger to me. All I know of the situation is what you describe here.
Gemini men
Not the most stable
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I disagree. This one is obviously an asshole. But common. You more than most shouldn't ascribe to the catlady astrology of gemini = bad.
Welp, there’s your issue.
Unconditional Love.
Try conditional love and see how your life changes for the better.
Hahahaha
She's not wrong.
Is he suffering from NPD?
Yes your focus rn should definitely be concern for what he might be suffering. Not the fact he continues to disrespect you and treat you like shit.
**sarcasm
Yes I got it 🙂
I’m not gonna seat there and allowed him to disrespect me .
I was just asking if he’s behaviour match an NPD or not that’s all 🙂
Idk. He is a stranger to me. All I know of the situation is what you describe here.
Gemini men
Not the most stable
I disagree. This one is obviously an asshole. But common. You more than most shouldn't ascribe to the catlady astrology of gemini = bad.
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I didnt say bad
All the ones ive known have been unstable and very prone to mood swings ...
Welp, there’s your issue.
Unconditional Love.
Try conditional love and see how your life changes for the better.
Hahahaha
She's not wrong.
Is he suffering from NPD?
Yes your focus rn should definitely be concern for what he might be suffering. Not the fact he continues to disrespect you and treat you like shit.
**sarcasm
Yes I got it 🙂
I’m not gonna seat there and allowed him to disrespect me .
I was just asking if he’s behaviour match an NPD or not that’s all 🙂
Idk. He is a stranger to me. All I know of the situation is what you describe here.
Gemini men
Not the most stable
Not so true, I've met and dated many Gemini men only one that was unstable and a controller, most of the time they're very laid back people.
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Well i Can only speak as i find ....
I think you two are both toxic for each other, he's an abuser and you are an enabler, that's why you're caught in this vicious cycle.
Just my opinion.
I respect your opinion when I accepted to be back
I saw many positive changes and we talked a lot
I didn’t see this insult coming
I was clear and told him that I will not accept him not respecting me .
I was very loud about it ..
I think you two are both toxic for each other, he's an abuser and you are an enabler, that's why you're caught in this vicious cycle.
Just my opinion.
I respect your opinion when I accepted to be back
I saw many positive changes and we talked a lot
I didn’t see this insult coming
I was clear and told him that I will not accept him not respecting me .
I was very loud about it ..
So if you don't accept him doing that to you why do you keep going back to him? Because sex is hot ? He's obviously not going to change overnight or at all
You just keep saying how wonderful he is but then when he yells at you you tell us I don't accept this! but it's not us who need to know this not even him, it's YOU actually, cause your actions don't match your words, you just seem to be seeking a magical explanation in the stars.
إذا راه غابنك قيسيه عليك، ياختي ديري قيمة لعمرك
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Ok thx for explaining but I didn’t get the last phrase
I understand Arabic but I didn’t understand the meaning !!?
Anyway thx again
Welp, there’s your issue.
Unconditional Love.
Try conditional love and see how your life changes for the better.
Hahahaha
She's not wrong.
Is he suffering from NPD?
Yes your focus rn should definitely be concern for what he might be suffering. Not the fact he continues to disrespect you and treat you like shit.
**sarcasm
Yes I got it 🙂
I’m not gonna seat there and allowed him to disrespect me .
I was just asking if he’s behaviour match an NPD or not that’s all 🙂
Idk. He is a stranger to me. All I know of the situation is what you describe here.
Gemini men
Not the most stable
I disagree. This one is obviously an asshole. But common. You more than most shouldn't ascribe to the catlady astrology of gemini = bad.
I didnt say bad
All the ones ive known have been unstable and very prone to mood swings ...
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You don't mean those things in a good way... so yes bad.
Welp, there’s your issue.
Unconditional Love.
Try conditional love and see how your life changes for the better.
Hahahaha
She's not wrong.
Is he suffering from NPD?
Yes your focus rn should definitely be concern for what he might be suffering. Not the fact he continues to disrespect you and treat you like shit.
**sarcasm
Yes I got it 🙂
I’m not gonna seat there and allowed him to disrespect me .
I was just asking if he’s behaviour match an NPD or not that’s all 🙂
Idk. He is a stranger to me. All I know of the situation is what you describe here.
Gemini men
Not the most stable
I disagree. This one is obviously an asshole. But common. You more than most shouldn't ascribe to the catlady astrology of gemini = bad.
I didnt say bad
All the ones ive known have been unstable and very prone to mood swings ...
You don't mean those things in a good way... so yes bad.
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Not good or bad, mere observations. Most I’ve met I like 👍
Welp, there’s your issue.
Unconditional Love.
Try conditional love and see how your life changes for the better.
Hahahaha
She's not wrong.
Is he suffering from NPD?
Yes your focus rn should definitely be concern for what he might be suffering. Not the fact he continues to disrespect you and treat you like shit.
**sarcasm
Yes I got it 🙂
I’m not gonna seat there and allowed him to disrespect me .
I was just asking if he’s behaviour match an NPD or not that’s all 🙂
Idk. He is a stranger to me. All I know of the situation is what you describe here.
Gemini men
Not the most stable
I disagree. This one is obviously an asshole. But common. You more than most shouldn't ascribe to the catlady astrology of gemini = bad.
I didnt say bad
All the ones ive known have been unstable and very prone to mood swings ...
You don't mean those things in a good way... so yes bad.
Not good or bad, mere observations. Most I’ve met I like 👍
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I call bs. No one describes someone as unstable as a positive trait. Its a negative one. Ijs
Welp, there’s your issue.
Unconditional Love.
Try conditional love and see how your life changes for the better.
Hahahaha
She's not wrong.
Is he suffering from NPD?
Yes your focus rn should definitely be concern for what he might be suffering. Not the fact he continues to disrespect you and treat you like shit.
**sarcasm
Yes I got it 🙂
I’m not gonna seat there and allowed him to disrespect me .
I was just asking if he’s behaviour match an NPD or not that’s all 🙂
Idk. He is a stranger to me. All I know of the situation is what you describe here.
Gemini men
Not the most stable
I disagree. This one is obviously an asshole. But common. You more than most shouldn't ascribe to the catlady astrology of gemini = bad.
I didnt say bad
All the ones ive known have been unstable and very prone to mood swings ...
You don't mean those things in a good way... so yes bad.
Not good or bad, mere observations. Most I’ve met I like 👍
I call bs. No one describes someone as unstable as a positive trait. Its a negative one. Ijs
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Not at all
My dad was emotionally unstable as was an ex and I loved both those men
You can still like and love people, flaws and all....
I think you two are both toxic for each other, he's an abuser and you are an enabler, that's why you're caught in this vicious cycle.
Just my opinion.
I respect your opinion when I accepted to be back
I saw many positive changes and we talked a lot
I didn’t see this insult coming
I was clear and told him that I will not accept him not respecting me .
I was very loud about it ..
So if you don't accept him doing that to you why do you keep going back to him? Because sex is hot ? He's obviously not going to change overnight or at all
You just keep saying how wonderful he is but then when he yells at you you tell us I don't accept this! but it's not us who need to know this not even him, it's YOU actually, cause your actions don't match your words, you just seem to be seeking a magical explanation in the stars.
إذا راه غابنك قيسيه عليك، ياختي ديري قيمة لعمرك
Ok thx for explaining but I didn’t get the last phrase
I understand Arabic but I didn’t understand the meaning !!?
Anyway thx again
I'm sry didn't mean to be rude or anything
What I said is if he's giving you a hard time kick him to the curb, value yourself more.
Easy said then done especially when you love someone, but you have to love yourself more to be insulted like that.
Again that's how I see it.
Good luck to you
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I know that’s ok 🙂
Well I woke up this morning to the fact that he might be suffering from NPD as he broke up with me for the 3rd time in 3 years . Just because of a silly joke I made which is has nothing to do with him . He came to my house gave me my paper work and acted so cold like he doesn’t know me . Then At night texted me this
* sorry we became a strangers am gone *
I didn’t react or asked questions
I said ok but deep down I was not believing
After all the good moments we passed together
And how we connected emotionally
Mentally and physically . He broke up with me with a text msg saying that we are strangers now?
He deleted me on social media.
I didn’t react to that too.
My answer was just ok .
This happened a week ago.
This morning he texted me like nothing happened asking to see me and if am free.
I was feeling disgusted to the core
His text msg was full with disrespect
I felt that he’s taking me for granted
He didn’t even say hi how r u
In very disrespectful way
He said this
*What r u doing this afternoon wanna see you*
Seriously?
I passed the whole week focusing on myself and cleansing my energy , my emotions and everything attached to what happened .
The minute I felt good
He texted me .
I don’t know why he act this way .
He’s sun sign and moon sign combined
Are not in harmony .
Makes him so evil .
I pray for him.
I will never let him back again
Am done this time
Welp, there’s your issue.
Unconditional Love.
Try conditional love and see how your life changes for the better.
Those are the words but how do you put conditions in love that is unconditional?
I see it as words and just words.
If this was possible - she would be long gone free and living a different life. Without him. But she can’t.
Well I woke up this morning to the fact that he might be suffering from NPD as he broke up with me for the 3rd time in 3 years . Just because of a silly joke I made which is has nothing to do with him . He came to my house gave me my paper work and acted so cold like he doesn’t know me . Then At night texted me this
* sorry we became a strangers am gone *
I didn’t react or asked questions
I said ok but deep down I was not believing
After all the good moments we passed together
And how we connected emotionally
Mentally and physically . He broke up with me with a text msg saying that we are strangers now?
He deleted me on social media.
I didn’t react to that too.
My answer was just ok .
This happened a week ago.
This morning he texted me like nothing happened asking to see me and if am free.
I was feeling disgusted to the core
His text msg was full with disrespect
I felt that he’s taking me for granted
He didn’t even say hi how r u
In very disrespectful way
He said this
*What r u doing this afternoon wanna see you*
Seriously?
I passed the whole week focusing on myself and cleansing my energy , my emotions and everything attached to what happened .
The minute I felt good
He texted me .
I don’t know why he act this way .
He’s playing with his food aka YOU.
You’re the entertainment.
Screw that guy
He’s sun sign and moon sign combined
Are not in harmony .
Makes him so evil .
I pray for him.
I will never let him back again
Am done this time
How much Fire does he have in his chart?
He’s sun sign and moon sign combined
Are not in harmony .
Makes him so evil .
I pray for him.
I will never let him back again
Am done this time
Gem sun
Scorpio moon?
That’s a difficult combo
Both sun square moon
And sun quincunx moon are very challenging
Sun quincunx Moon natal shows outwardly as a changeable personality and inconstant moods. On the inside, you can feel unable to truly relax and find harmony in relationships. Constant stress and tension can make you feel anxious, neurotic and insecure.
😬
He’s sun sign and moon sign combined
Are not in harmony .
Makes him so evil .
I pray for him.
I will never let him back again
Am done this time
Gem sun
Scorpio moon?
That’s a difficult combo
Both sun square moon
And sun quincunx moon are very challenging
Sun quincunx Moon natal shows outwardly as a changeable personality and inconstant moods. On the inside, you can feel unable to truly relax and find harmony in relationships. Constant stress and tension can make you feel anxious, neurotic and insecure.
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He is Gemini with moon in Scorpio
Not me
I was born a Capricorn with moon in Pisces
I wish If my moon sign was a Capricorn too
He’s sun sign and moon sign combined
Are not in harmony .
Makes him so evil .
I pray for him.
I will never let him back again
Am done this time
How much Fire does he have in his chart?
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Not so much fire in his chart
He has Mars in Leo ♌️
He was born 16th of June 1989
Well I woke up this morning to the fact that he might be suffering from NPD as he broke up with me for the 3rd time in 3 years . Just because of a silly joke I made which is has nothing to do with him . He came to my house gave me my paper work and acted so cold like he doesn’t know me . Then At night texted me this
* sorry we became a strangers am gone *
I didn’t react or asked questions
I said ok but deep down I was not believing
After all the good moments we passed together
And how we connected emotionally
Mentally and physically . He broke up with me with a text msg saying that we are strangers now?
He deleted me on social media.
I didn’t react to that too.
My answer was just ok .
This happened a week ago.
This morning he texted me like nothing happened asking to see me and if am free.
I was feeling disgusted to the core
His text msg was full with disrespect
I felt that he’s taking me for granted
He didn’t even say hi how r u
In very disrespectful way
He said this
*What r u doing this afternoon wanna see you*
Seriously?
I passed the whole week focusing on myself and cleansing my energy , my emotions and everything attached to what happened .
The minute I felt good
He texted me .
I don’t know why he act this way .
He’s playing with his food aka YOU.
You’re the entertainment.
Screw that guy
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I started to be suspicious that he might be a pervert narcissist
And am suffering from trauma bond 🥺
He’s sun sign and moon sign combined
Are not in harmony .
Makes him so evil .
I pray for him.
I will never let him back again
Am done this time
How much Fire does he have in his chart?
Not so much fire in his chart
He has Mars in Leo ♌️
He was born 16th of June 1989
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I just made a post. Read it. See if it’ll help anything.
But for you dear I want to say that there is a reason you are going trough this ‘challenge’.
And I am TOTALLY agree that this is love.
I am a Gemini and I AM very needy for connection and physical contact and I don’t think it’s selfish - I am just feeling alive and happy to BE with my man who is totally opposite. Plus having PTSD.
We arguing about me not being hugged enough ALL THE TIME! He explains. Promising to try harder and failing. I am constantly evaluating IF I can continue go on like that. It’s been 3 1/2 years.
We are over 50. Living together.
I am ‘self training’ to LEAVE HIM BE! And sometimes I can do. And sometimes I can’t! And I start a talk that turning into argument and I KNOW I am cornering him with my demands and he becoming verbally abusive. But I am Gemini. I don’t care. I know he is saying stupid shit because he is defending himself against me.
At the end of the day (10 min lol) he is acting normal and I am KNOWING that I had provoked the fight - letting it all go. And we make up.
I don’t know if it is helping you any but BEWARE that people who are advising you aren’t (most of them) in relationships or if they are coupled - they aren’t happily together and almost never long term.
Read. Listen. And go with your guts. Deep inside you know what to do. I am sure you do. It’s just scary and uneasy and you need to talk.
So don’t worry. Talk. Just don’t take every advice as if they know and you don’t.
My best wishes. Keep us posted. ❤️
He’s sun sign and moon sign combined
Are not in harmony .
Makes him so evil .
I pray for him.
I will never let him back again
Am done this time
How much Fire does he have in his chart?
Not so much fire in his chart
He has Mars in Leo ♌️
He was born 16th of June 1989
I just made a post. Read it. See if it’ll help anything.
But for you dear I want to say that there is a reason you are going trough this ‘challenge’.
And I am TOTALLY agree that this is love.
I am a Gemini and I AM very needy for connection and physical contact and I don’t think it’s selfish - I am just feeling alive and happy to BE with my man who is totally opposite. Plus having PTSD.
We arguing about me not being hugged enough ALL THE TIME! He explains. Promising to try harder and failing. I am constantly evaluating IF I can continue go on like that. It’s been 3 1/2 years.
We are over 50. Living together.
I am ‘self training’ to LEAVE HIM BE! And sometimes I can do. And sometimes I can’t! And I start a talk that turning into argument and I KNOW I am cornering him with my demands and he becoming verbally abusive. But I am Gemini. I don’t care. I know he is saying stupid shit because he is defending himself against me.
At the end of the day (10 min lol) he is acting normal and I am KNOWING that I had provoked the fight - letting it all go. And we make up.
I don’t know if it is helping you any but BEWARE that people who are advising you aren’t (most of them) in relationships or if they are coupled - they aren’t happily together and almost never long term.
Read. Listen. And go with your guts. Deep inside you know what to do. I am sure you do. It’s just scary and uneasy and you need to talk.
So don’t worry. Talk. Just don’t take every advice as if they know and you don’t.
My best wishes. Keep us posted. ❤️
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And I didn’t fight with him
He got angry about something really stupid an silly
Just because I made a joke and I wanted to make him laugh it’s really nothing he end up insulting me
And he went silent for days
I end up apologizing for it just to not anger him more
But he insisted and continue the silent treatment
Until he texted me wanting to ending things
I accepted his decision
Didn’t say anything later
And this morning after a week
He texted wanting to see me
I felt disrespected and he’s taking me for granted
He’s sun sign and moon sign combined
Are not in harmony .
Makes him so evil .
I pray for him.
I will never let him back again
Am done this time
Gem sun
Scorpio moon?
That’s a difficult combo
Both sun square moon
And sun quincunx moon are very challenging
Sun quincunx Moon natal shows outwardly as a changeable personality and inconstant moods. On the inside, you can feel unable to truly relax and find harmony in relationships. Constant stress and tension can make you feel anxious, neurotic and insecure.
😬
He is Gemini with moon in Scorpio
Not me
I was born a Capricorn with moon in Pisces
I wish If my moon sign was a Capricorn too
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Yes I was talking about him
He sounds very complex
He’s sun sign and moon sign combined
Are not in harmony .
Makes him so evil .
I pray for him.
I will never let him back again
Am done this time
Gem sun
Scorpio moon?
That’s a difficult combo
Both sun square moon
And sun quincunx moon are very challenging
Sun quincunx Moon natal shows outwardly as a changeable personality and inconstant moods. On the inside, you can feel unable to truly relax and find harmony in relationships. Constant stress and tension can make you feel anxious, neurotic and insecure.
😬
He is Gemini with moon in Scorpio
Not me
I was born a Capricorn with moon in Pisces
I wish If my moon sign was a Capricorn too
Yes I was talking about him
He sounds very complex
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He tortured me during 3 years
He’s sun sign and moon sign combined
Are not in harmony .
Makes him so evil .
I pray for him.
I will never let him back again
Am done this time
Gem sun
Scorpio moon?
That’s a difficult combo
Both sun square moon
And sun quincunx moon are very challenging
Sun quincunx Moon natal shows outwardly as a changeable personality and inconstant moods. On the inside, you can feel unable to truly relax and find harmony in relationships. Constant stress and tension can make you feel anxious, neurotic and insecure.
😬
He is Gemini with moon in Scorpio
Not me
I was born a Capricorn with moon in Pisces
I wish If my moon sign was a Capricorn too
Yes I was talking about him
He sounds very complex
He tortured me during 3 years
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Why did you allow that Rania?
He’s sun sign and moon sign combined
Are not in harmony .
Makes him so evil .
I pray for him.
I will never let him back again
Am done this time
Gem sun
Scorpio moon?
That’s a difficult combo
Both sun square moon
And sun quincunx moon are very challenging
Sun quincunx Moon natal shows outwardly as a changeable personality and inconstant moods. On the inside, you can feel unable to truly relax and find harmony in relationships. Constant stress and tension can make you feel anxious, neurotic and insecure.
😬
He is Gemini with moon in Scorpio
Not me
I was born a Capricorn with moon in Pisces
I wish If my moon sign was a Capricorn too
Yes I was talking about him
He sounds very complex
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The only times I felt safe and home with him when we are alone at his house
When we connect physically it’s so strong emotionally
And I can feel him
And am sure he can feel me
He doesn’t want me to leave
The last time we were together he shared my memories about his childhood and he cried a lot
He told that he feel safe and happy with me
The feeling are strong
But if a small thing happen
Or we are in the outside world
There where he became very aggressive
And the abusive behavior starts
We are the best couple at home
The second we go out and meet friends or we are not together
It become challenging
He fight from there and he decide to leave .
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Hello .. all I want here is your help
I’ve been in relationships with this Gemini person since 2019
we are so intense together
Especially our fights
Our first break up was his decision anyway after few months we got in touch again I finished at his home having sex and we continue that way without having a relationship /
But we had another fight we broke up
It was going on and off like this since
We miss each other
We meet we have sex .
And to be honest he’s the best sex I ever had
I always feel myself at home with him.
Anyway Decembe he told that he want us to live together .
We still not living together and not having a realionship because always something happening.
We fight we break up then we miss each other we meet again we have sex and it’s the same cycle going on and on
And I don’t know what to do
I really love how he makes me feel
And I love him but I don’t know why our relationship is very complicated like this ?
He was born 16 June 1989
And I was born 14 January 1986
Please can someone help me without judging
All I need is to know why ?!