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7 Years
How to get this Aquarius attention?
How to Get an Aquarius's Attention and Revive the Conversation
To attract an Aquarius, show genuine interest and keep conversation light and engaging. Avoid appearing desperate and give them space to respond. Share intriguing topics or questions related to their interests without overdoing it. Patience is key as Aquarians value independence and may be busy. Consistently respectful communication can help rekindle their interest naturally.
Why him?
I say DON'T be honest about your insecurity to some stranger dude. You are giving someone you don't even know so much power over how you feel, which is not something we can always help. But don't TELL him that!
Picture him sitting there. In comes a girl, wouldn't shut up about cities (lol) and then he gets back to work. Next thing you know there is a message from that girl again, he wonders "What city will we talk about this time?"
He opens it... BAM it's an emotionally intense email about your insecurities.
What? Don't do it lol.
Lol Agree. I have been talking to other men in the meantime, actually had a date yesterday. The intensity of my Scorpio Venus sometimes peaks through whenever I notice someone I’m very attracted to and wanting to get to know them more. Just curious if I rubbed an Aquarius the wrong way and how to approach this situation next time. Thanks.
Also too, I haven’t dated in almost two years due to self reflecting and what not from my last relationship. I just started dating again almost two weeks ago so yeah, I’m rusty and feeling it. Could be why.
Be honest about how you feel in your insecurity.
Now that’s really self sabotage.
A week is too long to wait. I know how us Sag think time doesn’t matter, but in the beginning, with an Aqua, time does.
Just send a message on a different topic. One that requires an answer and sit back and wait. Take a day or two to think and if he hasn’t said anything send him a text. There really isn’t much need to wait at all when it comes to texting Aquas. The more you reach out the better. It takes the stress off them. You can never bug them too much. They need the communication.
One text a day is nothing to an Aqua. It’s barely communicating to them. A week is too long to wait if you’re interested.
He sounds boring af.
His profile is empty. Enough said
@saggurl88 I think you are right about a week being way too long. Not only because of his sign but because they only had a brief, very casual conversation so if she waits a week it sends a creepy message. That he is still on her mind after a week, that she has been waiting around for a week.
I wouldn't bother him at all because I talked first and last and I'd take that as a hint.. but if she is gonna do it, it should be very soon.
Aquarius are pretty tricky but with communication, it can never be enough. Her as a Sag will be more bored with keeping up the communication, if anything lol.
I’ve dealt with plenty of Aquas and I just don’t talk enough for them. They need mental stimulation for a reason. And that’s practically talking all day or keeping in some form of contact.
She is right, she answered his question and it didn’t need a response. But she didn’t offer a counter question. It’s still her turn to talk. Lol.
I say DON'T be honest about your insecurity to some stranger dude. You are giving someone you don't even know so much power over how you feel, which is not something we can always help. But don't TELL him that!
Picture him sitting there. In comes a girl, wouldn't shut up about cities (lol) and then he gets back to work. Next thing you know there is a message from that girl again, he wonders "What city will we talk about this time?"
He opens it... BAM it's an emotionally intense email about your insecurities.
What? Don't do it lol.
Lol Agree. I have been talking to other men in the meantime, actually had a date yesterday. The intensity of my Scorpio Venus sometimes peaks through whenever I notice someone I’m very attracted to and wanting to get to know them more. Just curious if I rubbed an Aquarius the wrong way and how to approach this situation next time. Thanks.
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Welcome to the world of being too intense and overthinking 😂😂😂😂
I’m a Sag with a Scorpio Venus too. Backing away and taking space will be the wrong way to go about things with an Aqua. They will think you aren’t interested. Keep it fun, often and interesting and you’ll be fine.
@saggurl88 I think you are right about a week being way too long. Not only because of his sign but because they only had a brief, very casual conversation so if she waits a week it sends a creepy message. That he is still on her mind after a week, that she has been waiting around for a week.
I wouldn't bother him at all because I talked first and last and I'd take that as a hint.. but if she is gonna do it, it should be very soon.
Aquarius are pretty tricky but with communication, it can never be enough. Her as a Sag will be more bored with keeping up the communication, if anything lol.
I’ve dealt with plenty of Aquas and I just don’t talk enough for them. They need mental stimulation for a reason. And that’s practically talking all day or keeping in some form of contact.
She is right, she answered his question and it didn’t need a response. But she didn’t offer a counter question. It’s still her turn to talk. Lol.
This may not be your experience (because of incompatibilities and whatnot) but Aqua are always super needy with me. I can't nap or go to the toilet without them wondering where I went. I get a bunch of "Where did you gooo??" texts. And then they pull the worlds slowest fade out of my life. And we are too incompatible for me to be hurt by it, it's silly and amusing. You couldn't breath if I went to the store a week ago, now suddenly you are fading away like a fart in the wind Lol.
You could be both right that it's her turn, but I still wouldn't write again. Not all that I say is advice, I am preoccupied with not being a sucker, which is NOT the way to go. It is just how being tricked and lied to and led on over the years has made me. So I hope I have made the fact clear that I personally wouldn't write again wasn't advice, it is just what I would do.
Which isn't worth much lol.
I do know guys dislike texts and emails asking to be entertained. "How are you?", "What are you doing?".. They like to feel a need to respond. My last crush I asked him how to change a "light tube thing" like I was retarded or something and he was more than happy to share his expertise.
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Well me as a Sag, sucks ass at communicating. It’s always my downfall with Aquas. I text like once every 2 or 3 days cause they are so quiet. By the way you say things you must be very good at texting if they are this comfortable with you.
I wouldn’t be bothered at all if an aqua asked me these questions. I would like it.
He sounds boring af.
His profile is empty. Enough said
However he has gotten one at least hooked! See? 🤷♀️
He seems too busy to give you the attention you want anyway so instead of waiting him out and worrying how many times you brought up cities, you message more men? You won't even barely remember that single boring conversation. Us women tend to get the "one-itis" where we focus on one dude who barely knows we are alive. That's how they always make us look like idiots in dating because they are not doing the same thing. I bet he had boring conversations with many other women that day.
You said you aren’t lucky at dating online...and you giving an advise? Hmmmm🤔
A week is too long to wait. I know how us Sag think time doesn’t matter, but in the beginning, with an Aqua, time does.
Just send a message on a different topic. One that requires an answer and sit back and wait. Take a day or two to think and if he hasn’t said anything send him a text. There really isn’t much need to wait at all when it comes to texting Aquas. The more you reach out the better. It takes the stress off them. You can never bug them too much. They need the communication.
One text a day is nothing to an Aqua. It’s barely communicating to them. A week is too long to wait if you’re interested.
This!! I was over thinking and knowing that Aquarian’s don’t like to be chased I didn’t want to seem too needy. I’ve been thinking of what to say next but it’s kind of hard since his profile is blank, to even have any topic starters. I’ve thought about a light hearted flirt message? But even then I feel nah be too late and kind of random at this point.
He seems too busy to give you the attention you want anyway so instead of waiting him out and worrying how many times you brought up cities, you message more men? You won't even barely remember that single boring conversation. Us women tend to get the "one-itis" where we focus on one dude who barely knows we are alive. That's how they always make us look like idiots in dating because they are not doing the same thing. I bet he had boring conversations with many other women that day.
You said you aren’t lucky at dating online...and you giving an advise? Hmmmm🤔
I know what's I know.
I am the first one to tell people that not everything I say is advice lol. That opinion that you quoted I learned from a male dating coach who makes videos about why a lot of us struggle with dating. He doesn't sugarcoat it, he just tells the truth.
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You’ve got to be kidding me!!!
You are having such a wide age range of men you could be dating and you need a coach— Make? Like male can give a dating advise!
I gave you an advise...READ PROFILES and reply to those you like. Not to those you think you can change their wants!!! Good luck!
Just because I am frustrated with hook up culture doesn't mean I have nothing of worth to say and haven't learned anything, that's a crazy way to think haha.
You know that hook up and dating sites are different things don’t you?
What good is being able to edit your posts if your mistakes are still there when people quote you? xD
I got to be more careful Lol.
What was that you said?
Why?
I see you have really weird communication style . I am imagining you are annoying heck out of men...
What’s your sun-moon etc?
He seems too busy to give you the attention you want anyway so instead of waiting him out and worrying how many times you brought up cities, you message more men? You won't even barely remember that single boring conversation. Us women tend to get the "one-itis" where we focus on one dude who barely knows we are alive. That's how they always make us look like idiots in dating because they are not doing the same thing. I bet he had boring conversations with many other women that day.
You said you aren’t lucky at dating online...and you giving an advise? Hmmmm🤔
I know what's I know.
I am the first one to tell people that not everything I say is advice lol. That opinion that you quoted I learned from a male dating coach who makes videos about why a lot of us struggle with dating. He doesn't sugarcoat it, he just tells the truth.
You’ve got to be kidding me!!!
You are having such a wide age range of men you could be dating and you need a coach— Make? Like male can give a dating advise!
I gave you an advise...READ PROFILES and reply to those you like. Not to those you think you can change their wants!!! Good luck!
You have nothing of value to say ever, you just antagonize.
Piss off already. Quit following me to every post looking for something to bitch about it's getting as old as you are.
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Yeah...I am old however I don’t have a problem to find man who will date me.
And I have a very short age range of men I would consider datable...
Also I am going to follow or not because I AM the one who is choosing what to do.
If you want to be a dictator - open your own forum and be the only member...this way nobody will disagree with you and follow you.
If you were smart you would listen to me.🤷♀️
@Gemitati Yawn.
Try widening age range of men you’ll consider from 18! I am sure you’ll find fully compatible one.
A week is too long to wait. I know how us Sag think time doesn’t matter, but in the beginning, with an Aqua, time does.
Just send a message on a different topic. One that requires an answer and sit back and wait. Take a day or two to think and if he hasn’t said anything send him a text. There really isn’t much need to wait at all when it comes to texting Aquas. The more you reach out the better. It takes the stress off them. You can never bug them too much. They need the communication.
One text a day is nothing to an Aqua. It’s barely communicating to them. A week is too long to wait if you’re interested.
This!! I was over thinking and knowing that Aquarian’s don’t like to be chased I didn’t want to seem too needy. I’ve been thinking of what to say next but it’s kind of hard since his profile is blank, to even have any topic starters. I’ve thought about a light hearted flirt message? But even then I feel nah be too late and kind of random at this point.
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I didn’t realize his profile was blank. Um that’s almost a sign of someone cheating. I had an Aqua do that to me with his dating profile. He kept sending nude videos. But my perverted ass liked them. His man shaft was the prettiest I’ve ever seen in life lol. I didn’t mind them at all and barely talked to him, just told him to send another video 😩😩😂😂😂
But anyways. Send a “Hey you” or something super common and regular, but not too outreaching. Then nothing else.
If he doesn’t bite then move on. These dating sites can be sketchy. I was talking to 3 men at a time and picking up another as one left. Lol. I was busy but then I got bored with it. 🤣
Dating sucks.
@Gemitati Yawn.
Try widening age range of men you’ll consider from 18! I am sure you’ll find fully compatible one.
Thank you for your advice. It was wonderful and well thought out. And when you entered this thread it only benefited from the vibe you brought. It was getting much too friendly in here with all the nonthreatening, friendly exchange of ideas. But you came in and informed everyone how wrong they are about everything.. you are a god damn hero.
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No. I am just old. And not complaining about dick absence in life.
You didn’t know that hook up sites and dating sites are not the same did you? 🤔🤦♀️
A week is too long to wait. I know how us Sag think time doesn’t matter, but in the beginning, with an Aqua, time does.
Just send a message on a different topic. One that requires an answer and sit back and wait. Take a day or two to think and if he hasn’t said anything send him a text. There really isn’t much need to wait at all when it comes to texting Aquas. The more you reach out the better. It takes the stress off them. You can never bug them too much. They need the communication.
One text a day is nothing to an Aqua. It’s barely communicating to them. A week is too long to wait if you’re interested.
This!! I was over thinking and knowing that Aquarian’s don’t like to be chased I didn’t want to seem too needy. I’ve been thinking of what to say next but it’s kind of hard since his profile is blank, to even have any topic starters. I’ve thought about a light hearted flirt message? But even then I feel nah be too late and kind of random at this point.
I didn’t realize his profile was blank. Um that’s almost a sign of someone cheating. I had an Aqua do that to me with his dating profile. He kept sending nude videos. But my perverted ass liked them. His man shaft was the prettiest I’ve ever seen in life lol. I didn’t mind them at all and barely talked to him, just told him to send another video 😩😩😂😂😂
But anyways. Send a “Hey you” or something super common and regular, but not too outreaching. Then nothing else.
If he doesn’t bite then move on. These dating sites can be sketchy. I was talking to 3 men at a time and picking up another as one left. Lol. I was busy but then I got bored with it. 🤣
Dating sucks.
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😂😂 As a fellow archer, I would’ve done the same!
Well it’s not necessarily “blank”, more so, he just seemed too lazy to apply the effort to write a bio..maybe? 🤨 His bio only states that he’s an Aquarius and emoji of his countries flag alongside his IG handle. Also a song attached. But still, not much to really get a decent conversation going.
@Gemitati Yawn.
Try widening age range of men you’ll consider from 18! I am sure you’ll find fully compatible one.
Thank you for your advice. It was wonderful and well thought out. And when you entered this thread it only benefited from the vibe you brought. It was getting much too friendly in here with all the nonthreatening, friendly exchange of ideas. But you came in and informed everyone how wrong they are about everything.. you are a god damn hero.
No. I am just old. And not complaining about dick absence in life.
You didn’t know that hook up sites and dating sites are not the same did you? 🤔🤦♀️
Bumble is supposed to be female friendly and of the 6 convos I was able to start in a week, 5 mentioned their penis or sex almost instantly. Even though my profile said I wasn't DTF and only want to date.. Have you tried online dating? I mean recently? It has really taken a dive in quality.
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DTF? Date To Fuck? 😂😂😂
Sorry...I had not. But I know people who are dating people online and saying it never been easy.
However none are complaining because apparently you have to work in your profile and filtering out a lot of people without thinking twice!
Obsessing over someone you have 2 messages exchanged and wondering where he went if he stopped responding is simply is stupid!
He is gone...move on!!!
Well...now I am a poet...😂😂😂
@Gemitati Yawn.
Try widening age range of men you’ll consider from 18! I am sure you’ll find fully compatible one.
Thank you for your advice. It was wonderful and well thought out. And when you entered this thread it only benefited from the vibe you brought. It was getting much too friendly in here with all the nonthreatening, friendly exchange of ideas. But you came in and informed everyone how wrong they are about everything.. you are a god damn hero.
No. I am just old. And not complaining about dick absence in life.
You didn’t know that hook up sites and dating sites are not the same did you? 🤔🤦♀️
Bumble is supposed to be female friendly and of the 6 convos I was able to start in a week, 5 mentioned their penis or sex almost instantly. Even though my profile said I wasn't DTF and only want to date.. Have you tried online dating? I mean recently? It has really taken a dive in quality.
DTF? Date To Fuck? 😂😂😂
Sorry...I had not. But I know people who are dating people online and saying it never been easy.
However none are complaining because apparently you have to work in your profile and filtering out a lot of people without thinking twice!
Obsessing over someone you have 2 messages exchanged and wondering where he went if he stopped responding is simply is stupid!
He is gone...move on!!!
Well...now I am a poet...😂😂😂
You were very close. DTF= down to fuck.
And I agree. If I sent a message and got no reply, I personally just move on. I move on if they are not interested at any point. I think what she wanted to know though was what she could have done differently in general because she is rusty and that experience didn't sit well with her.
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Sooo...you don’t want to fuck and you don’t want to hang out?
So tell in your profile that you want classic dating though if you talking to 27 y/old they wouldn’t know WTF are you talking about! So write it into your profile...explain! ‘Dating to me doesn’t mean watching Netflix movies and chocking on pop corn...’ and make sure you repeat it when texting or calling...
@Gemitati Yawn.
Try widening age range of men you’ll consider from 18! I am sure you’ll find fully compatible one.
Thank you for your advice. It was wonderful and well thought out. And when you entered this thread it only benefited from the vibe you brought. It was getting much too friendly in here with all the nonthreatening, friendly exchange of ideas. But you came in and informed everyone how wrong they are about everything.. you are a god damn hero.
No. I am just old. And not complaining about dick absence in life.
You didn’t know that hook up sites and dating sites are not the same did you? 🤔🤦♀️
Bumble is supposed to be female friendly and of the 6 convos I was able to start in a week, 5 mentioned their penis or sex almost instantly. Even though my profile said I wasn't DTF and only want to date.. Have you tried online dating? I mean recently? It has really taken a dive in quality.
DTF? Date To Fuck? 😂😂😂
Sorry...I had not. But I know people who are dating people online and saying it never been easy.
However none are complaining because apparently you have to work in your profile and filtering out a lot of people without thinking twice!
Obsessing over someone you have 2 messages exchanged and wondering where he went if he stopped responding is simply is stupid!
He is gone...move on!!!
Well...now I am a poet...😂😂😂
You were very close. DTF= down to fuck.
And I agree. If I sent a message and got no reply, I personally just move on. I move on if they are not interested at any point. I think what she wanted to know though was what she could have done differently in general because she is rusty and that experience didn't sit well with her.
Sooo...you don’t want to fuck and you don’t want to hang out?
So tell in your profile that you want classic dating though if you talking to 27 y/old they wouldn’t know WTF are you talking about! So write it into your profile...explain! ‘Dating to me doesn’t mean watching Netflix movies and chocking on pop corn...’ and make sure you repeat it when texting or calling...
I appreciate your advice. I never even considered that a grown ass man wouldn't know what dating is but you are probably right, I am always telling my girlfriends you have to spell things out for dudes and there I go forgetting to do that myself.
Come to think of it, I do find myself explaining to them over and over what a date is. I just thought they were trying to find out if I was too expensive lol. You know, he asks a girl what she expects from a date and if she says "A fancy restaurant, wine..." and he is broke, he bails. I never assumed they didn't know what a date was, that's crazy.
I don't even know what the kids are doing then. Everyone just lets people they never met before in their house and body upon meeting? I thought the guys asking to do that were cheap, sleazy perverts that want something for nothing.
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I would put in my profile that ‘men who doesn’t know what date with a woman means need not to bother as well as those who thinks that McD is a fancy place to spend time at...I am not your 5 y/old daughter...and NO you can’t drive my car and sleep over because yours in the shop...meet me when it’s fixed!’
I keep my profile blank. I hate writing stuff about myself. I worry that the one guy I actually like will read something he doesn’t like and next me. I mean I do it all the damn time. So i avoid that. I personally am attracted to less is more.
@Gemitati Yawn.
Try widening age range of men you’ll consider from 18! I am sure you’ll find fully compatible one.
Thank you for your advice. It was wonderful and well thought out. And when you entered this thread it only benefited from the vibe you brought. It was getting much too friendly in here with all the nonthreatening, friendly exchange of ideas. But you came in and informed everyone how wrong they are about everything.. you are a god damn hero.
No. I am just old. And not complaining about dick absence in life.
You didn’t know that hook up sites and dating sites are not the same did you? 🤔🤦♀️
Bumble is supposed to be female friendly and of the 6 convos I was able to start in a week, 5 mentioned their penis or sex almost instantly. Even though my profile said I wasn't DTF and only want to date.. Have you tried online dating? I mean recently? It has really taken a dive in quality.
DTF? Date To Fuck? 😂😂😂
Sorry...I had not. But I know people who are dating people online and saying it never been easy.
However none are complaining because apparently you have to work in your profile and filtering out a lot of people without thinking twice!
Obsessing over someone you have 2 messages exchanged and wondering where he went if he stopped responding is simply is stupid!
He is gone...move on!!!
Well...now I am a poet...😂😂😂
You were very close. DTF= down to fuck.
And I agree. If I sent a message and got no reply, I personally just move on. I move on if they are not interested at any point. I think what she wanted to know though was what she could have done differently in general because she is rusty and that experience didn't sit well with her.
Sooo...you don’t want to fuck and you don’t want to hang out?
So tell in your profile that you want classic dating though if you talking to 27 y/old they wouldn’t know WTF are you talking about! So write it into your profile...explain! ‘Dating to me doesn’t mean watching Netflix movies and chocking on pop corn...’ and make sure you repeat it when texting or calling...
I appreciate your advice. I never even considered that a grown ass man wouldn't know what dating is but you are probably right, I am always telling my girlfriends you have to spell things out for dudes and there I go forgetting to do that myself.
Come to think of it, I do find myself explaining to them over and over what a date is. I just thought they were trying to find out if I was too expensive lol. You know, he asks a girl what she expects from a date and if she says "A fancy restaurant, wine..." and he is broke, he bails. I never assumed they didn't know what a date was, that's crazy.
I don't even know what the kids are doing then. Everyone just lets people they never met before in their house and body upon meeting? I thought the guys asking to do that were cheap, sleazy perverts that want something for nothing.
I would put in my profile that ‘men who doesn’t know what date with a woman means need not to bother as well as those who thinks that McD is a fancy place to spend time at...I am not your 5 y/old daughter...and NO you can’t drive my car and sleep over because yours in the shop...meet me when it’s fixed!’
I need you to write my profiles for me lol, I am far too nice. I mainly just try not to get screamed at by incels on them.
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I’ll ask my gf to send me hers. It’s a riot and brilliant! BTW if men are having no sense of humor - dismiss them!
I’ll text for the profile. Will try to post in a few hours. Are you in USA?
He seems too busy to give you the attention you want anyway so instead of waiting him out and worrying how many times you brought up cities, you message more men? You won't even barely remember that single boring conversation. Us women tend to get the "one-itis" where we focus on one dude who barely knows we are alive. That's how they always make us look like idiots in dating because they are not doing the same thing. I bet he had boring conversations with many other women that day.
You said you aren’t lucky at dating online...and you giving an advise? Hmmmm🤔
I know what's I know.
I am the first one to tell people that not everything I say is advice lol. That opinion that you quoted I learned from a male dating coach who makes videos about why a lot of us struggle with dating. He doesn't sugarcoat it, he just tells the truth.
You’ve got to be kidding me!!!
You are having such a wide age range of men you could be dating and you need a coach— Make? Like male can give a dating advise!
I gave you an advise...READ PROFILES and reply to those you like. Not to those you think you can change their wants!!! Good luck!
You have nothing of value to say ever, you just antagonize.
Piss off already. Quit following me to every post looking for something to bitch about it's getting as old as you are.
Yeah...I am old however I don’t have a problem to find man who will date me.
And I have a very short age range of men I would consider datable...
Also I am going to follow or not because I AM the one who is choosing what to do.
If you want to be a dictator - open your own forum and be the only member...this way nobody will disagree with you and follow you.
If you were smart you would listen to me.🤷♀️
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He sounds dull and boring...
A week is too long to wait. I know how us Sag think time doesn’t matter, but in the beginning, with an Aqua, time does.
Just send a message on a different topic. One that requires an answer and sit back and wait. Take a day or two to think and if he hasn’t said anything send him a text. There really isn’t much need to wait at all when it comes to texting Aquas. The more you reach out the better. It takes the stress off them. You can never bug them too much. They need the communication.
One text a day is nothing to an Aqua. It’s barely communicating to them. A week is too long to wait if you’re interested.
This!! I was over thinking and knowing that Aquarian’s don’t like to be chased I didn’t want to seem too needy. I’ve been thinking of what to say next but it’s kind of hard since his profile is blank, to even have any topic starters. I’ve thought about a light hearted flirt message? But even then I feel nah be too late and kind of random at this point.
I didn’t realize his profile was blank. Um that’s almost a sign of someone cheating. I had an Aqua do that to me with his dating profile. He kept sending nude videos. But my perverted ass liked them. His man shaft was the prettiest I’ve ever seen in life lol. I didn’t mind them at all and barely talked to him, just told him to send another video 😩😩😂😂😂
But anyways. Send a “Hey you” or something super common and regular, but not too outreaching. Then nothing else.
If he doesn’t bite then move on. These dating sites can be sketchy. I was talking to 3 men at a time and picking up another as one left. Lol. I was busy but then I got bored with it. 🤣
Dating sucks.
😂😂 As a fellow archer, I would’ve done the same!
Well it’s not necessarily “blank”, more so, he just seemed too lazy to apply the effort to write a bio..maybe? 🤨 His bio only states that he’s an Aquarius and emoji of his countries flag alongside his IG handle. Also a song attached. But still, not much to really get a decent conversation going.
Lol you two trying to catch an aqua man 😁 @saggurl88
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Lol. Care to share any suggestions? 👀
I wouldn't even pursue someone who couldn't be arsed to fill in a profile....it shows laziness and apathy. It's like someone going out on a date and not bothering to make conversation.
A week is too long to wait. I know how us Sag think time doesn’t matter, but in the beginning, with an Aqua, time does.
Just send a message on a different topic. One that requires an answer and sit back and wait. Take a day or two to think and if he hasn’t said anything send him a text. There really isn’t much need to wait at all when it comes to texting Aquas. The more you reach out the better. It takes the stress off them. You can never bug them too much. They need the communication.
One text a day is nothing to an Aqua. It’s barely communicating to them. A week is too long to wait if you’re interested.
This!! I was over thinking and knowing that Aquarian’s don’t like to be chased I didn’t want to seem too needy. I’ve been thinking of what to say next but it’s kind of hard since his profile is blank, to even have any topic starters. I’ve thought about a light hearted flirt message? But even then I feel nah be too late and kind of random at this point.
I didn’t realize his profile was blank. Um that’s almost a sign of someone cheating. I had an Aqua do that to me with his dating profile. He kept sending nude videos. But my perverted ass liked them. His man shaft was the prettiest I’ve ever seen in life lol. I didn’t mind them at all and barely talked to him, just told him to send another video 😩😩😂😂😂
But anyways. Send a “Hey you” or something super common and regular, but not too outreaching. Then nothing else.
If he doesn’t bite then move on. These dating sites can be sketchy. I was talking to 3 men at a time and picking up another as one left. Lol. I was busy but then I got bored with it. 🤣
Dating sucks.
😂😂 As a fellow archer, I would’ve done the same!
Well it’s not necessarily “blank”, more so, he just seemed too lazy to apply the effort to write a bio..maybe? 🤨 His bio only states that he’s an Aquarius and emoji of his countries flag alongside his IG handle. Also a song attached. But still, not much to really get a decent conversation going.
Lol you two trying to catch an aqua man 😁 @saggurl88
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That ship has sailed. I can’t catch one, so I gave up. I don’t have what it takes 😬😜
Send him an interesting pic with no words as your goodbye. If he's interested he will free associate about the pic. Aqua female here. I dated an Aqua male for a summer. When he was interested it was too much & when he was less interested he was completely silent, still tracking me in the background & knowing that I moved on
A week is too long to wait. I know how us Sag think time doesn’t matter, but in the beginning, with an Aqua, time does.
Just send a message on a different topic. One that requires an answer and sit back and wait. Take a day or two to think and if he hasn’t said anything send him a text. There really isn’t much need to wait at all when it comes to texting Aquas. The more you reach out the better. It takes the stress off them. You can never bug them too much. They need the communication.
One text a day is nothing to an Aqua. It’s barely communicating to them. A week is too long to wait if you’re interested.
This!! I was over thinking and knowing that Aquarian’s don’t like to be chased I didn’t want to seem too needy. I’ve been thinking of what to say next but it’s kind of hard since his profile is blank, to even have any topic starters. I’ve thought about a light hearted flirt message? But even then I feel nah be too late and kind of random at this point.
I didn’t realize his profile was blank. Um that’s almost a sign of someone cheating. I had an Aqua do that to me with his dating profile. He kept sending nude videos. But my perverted ass liked them. His man shaft was the prettiest I’ve ever seen in life lol. I didn’t mind them at all and barely talked to him, just told him to send another video 😩😩😂😂😂
But anyways. Send a “Hey you” or something super common and regular, but not too outreaching. Then nothing else.
If he doesn’t bite then move on. These dating sites can be sketchy. I was talking to 3 men at a time and picking up another as one left. Lol. I was busy but then I got bored with it. 🤣
Dating sucks.
😂😂 As a fellow archer, I would’ve done the same!
Well it’s not necessarily “blank”, more so, he just seemed too lazy to apply the effort to write a bio..maybe? 🤨 His bio only states that he’s an Aquarius and emoji of his countries flag alongside his IG handle. Also a song attached. But still, not much to really get a decent conversation going.
Lol you two trying to catch an aqua man 😁 @saggurl88
That ship has sailed. I can’t catch one, so I gave up. I don’t have what it takes 😬😜
You give up too easily 😜
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So I’ve been told. How about MURDER? Seems like a valid choice, dealing with you lot! 😜🤣🤣🤣
A week is too long to wait. I know how us Sag think time doesn’t matter, but in the beginning, with an Aqua, time does.
Just send a message on a different topic. One that requires an answer and sit back and wait. Take a day or two to think and if he hasn’t said anything send him a text. There really isn’t much need to wait at all when it comes to texting Aquas. The more you reach out the better. It takes the stress off them. You can never bug them too much. They need the communication.
One text a day is nothing to an Aqua. It’s barely communicating to them. A week is too long to wait if you’re interested.
This!! I was over thinking and knowing that Aquarian’s don’t like to be chased I didn’t want to seem too needy. I’ve been thinking of what to say next but it’s kind of hard since his profile is blank, to even have any topic starters. I’ve thought about a light hearted flirt message? But even then I feel nah be too late and kind of random at this point.
I didn’t realize his profile was blank. Um that’s almost a sign of someone cheating. I had an Aqua do that to me with his dating profile. He kept sending nude videos. But my perverted ass liked them. His man shaft was the prettiest I’ve ever seen in life lol. I didn’t mind them at all and barely talked to him, just told him to send another video 😩😩😂😂😂
But anyways. Send a “Hey you” or something super common and regular, but not too outreaching. Then nothing else.
If he doesn’t bite then move on. These dating sites can be sketchy. I was talking to 3 men at a time and picking up another as one left. Lol. I was busy but then I got bored with it. 🤣
Dating sucks.
😂😂 As a fellow archer, I would’ve done the same!
Well it’s not necessarily “blank”, more so, he just seemed too lazy to apply the effort to write a bio..maybe? 🤨 His bio only states that he’s an Aquarius and emoji of his countries flag alongside his IG handle. Also a song attached. But still, not much to really get a decent conversation going.
Lol you two trying to catch an aqua man 😁 @saggurl88
That ship has sailed. I can’t catch one, so I gave up. I don’t have what it takes 😬😜
You give up too easily 😜
So I’ve been told. How about MURDER? Seems like a valid choice, dealing with you lot! 😜🤣🤣🤣
Murder? 😂 We are not THAT bad 😜
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LMAO No you aren't 🙂 I love Aqua men and women, even if I'm not able to chase after you and string you up by the toes, cave man style ! 😛 I can't run that fast! 😆
A week is too long to wait. I know how us Sag think time doesn’t matter, but in the beginning, with an Aqua, time does.
Just send a message on a different topic. One that requires an answer and sit back and wait. Take a day or two to think and if he hasn’t said anything send him a text. There really isn’t much need to wait at all when it comes to texting Aquas. The more you reach out the better. It takes the stress off them. You can never bug them too much. They need the communication.
One text a day is nothing to an Aqua. It’s barely communicating to them. A week is too long to wait if you’re interested.
This!! I was over thinking and knowing that Aquarian’s don’t like to be chased I didn’t want to seem too needy. I’ve been thinking of what to say next but it’s kind of hard since his profile is blank, to even have any topic starters. I’ve thought about a light hearted flirt message? But even then I feel nah be too late and kind of random at this point.
I didn’t realize his profile was blank. Um that’s almost a sign of someone cheating. I had an Aqua do that to me with his dating profile. He kept sending nude videos. But my perverted ass liked them. His man shaft was the prettiest I’ve ever seen in life lol. I didn’t mind them at all and barely talked to him, just told him to send another video 😩😩😂😂😂
But anyways. Send a “Hey you” or something super common and regular, but not too outreaching. Then nothing else.
If he doesn’t bite then move on. These dating sites can be sketchy. I was talking to 3 men at a time and picking up another as one left. Lol. I was busy but then I got bored with it. 🤣
Dating sucks.
😂😂 As a fellow archer, I would’ve done the same!
Well it’s not necessarily “blank”, more so, he just seemed too lazy to apply the effort to write a bio..maybe? 🤨 His bio only states that he’s an Aquarius and emoji of his countries flag alongside his IG handle. Also a song attached. But still, not much to really get a decent conversation going.
Lol you two trying to catch an aqua man 😁 @saggurl88
That ship has sailed. I can’t catch one, so I gave up. I don’t have what it takes 😬😜
You give up too easily 😜
So I’ve been told. How about MURDER? Seems like a valid choice, dealing with you lot! 😜🤣🤣🤣
Murder? 😂 We are not THAT bad 😜
LMAO No you aren't 🙂 I love Aqua men and women, even if I'm not able to chase after you and string you up by the toes, cave man style ! 😛 I can't run that fast! 😆
Lol 😂 That’s not the way to get one of us 😛
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LMAO- yes it is. I already know. But now I just run the other way! 😛
A week is too long to wait. I know how us Sag think time doesn’t matter, but in the beginning, with an Aqua, time does.
Just send a message on a different topic. One that requires an answer and sit back and wait. Take a day or two to think and if he hasn’t said anything send him a text. There really isn’t much need to wait at all when it comes to texting Aquas. The more you reach out the better. It takes the stress off them. You can never bug them too much. They need the communication.
One text a day is nothing to an Aqua. It’s barely communicating to them. A week is too long to wait if you’re interested.
This!! I was over thinking and knowing that Aquarian’s don’t like to be chased I didn’t want to seem too needy. I’ve been thinking of what to say next but it’s kind of hard since his profile is blank, to even have any topic starters. I’ve thought about a light hearted flirt message? But even then I feel nah be too late and kind of random at this point.
I didn’t realize his profile was blank. Um that’s almost a sign of someone cheating. I had an Aqua do that to me with his dating profile. He kept sending nude videos. But my perverted ass liked them. His man shaft was the prettiest I’ve ever seen in life lol. I didn’t mind them at all and barely talked to him, just told him to send another video 😩😩😂😂😂
But anyways. Send a “Hey you” or something super common and regular, but not too outreaching. Then nothing else.
If he doesn’t bite then move on. These dating sites can be sketchy. I was talking to 3 men at a time and picking up another as one left. Lol. I was busy but then I got bored with it. 🤣
Dating sucks.
😂😂 As a fellow archer, I would’ve done the same!
Well it’s not necessarily “blank”, more so, he just seemed too lazy to apply the effort to write a bio..maybe? 🤨 His bio only states that he’s an Aquarius and emoji of his countries flag alongside his IG handle. Also a song attached. But still, not much to really get a decent conversation going.
Lol you two trying to catch an aqua man 😁 @saggurl88
That ship has sailed. I can’t catch one, so I gave up. I don’t have what it takes 😬😜
You give up too easily 😜
So I’ve been told. How about MURDER? Seems like a valid choice, dealing with you lot! 😜🤣🤣🤣
Murder? 😂 We are not THAT bad 😜
LMAO No you aren't 🙂 I love Aqua men and women, even if I'm not able to chase after you and string you up by the toes, cave man style ! 😛 I can't run that fast! 😆
Lol 😂 That’s not the way to get one of us 😛
LMAO- yes it is. I already know. But now I just run the other way! 😛
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I keep my profile blank. I hate writing stuff about myself. I worry that the one guy I actually like will read something he doesn’t like and next me. I mean I do it all the damn time. So i avoid that. I personally am attracted to less is more.
How do you prefer someone to approach you this way?
His profile is empty. So, what attracted you to him? Just his looks?
Just because the dating app says you are a match, doesn't mean it's a match in real life. To be honest, he doesn't sound very interested. "Being busy with work" is usually some excuse to brush you off.
Why would you want to restart a conversation with someone who doesn't seem to have time for you, or can't be polite enough to let you know he's not interested?
Based of his looks and his life style . I like what he does for work, he seems really creative, independent and dedicated (based off his IG). He didn’t actually brush me off with the “I’m busy with work” as in “leave me alone”, He said it as an apologize to why his reply as has been later than usual and that he didn’t mean to ignore my last message. That’s the impression I got. I’ve dealt with plenty of Aqua men, from my experience if they don’t have any issues with ignoring the person no matter what the last text was. I’ve also have been dating a Aqua recently who I’ve dated on and off for 8 years and she does the same thing. Rarely messages me first and many times we would have a brief conversation and she would then leave me on read. BUT I know she loves me. And she’s super sweet behind all her detached behavior. There’s another Aqua man I’ve been talking and we talk all of the time, everyday. He’s taken me on a few dates so far and still communicates. Same with another Aqua man but he eventually disappeared since I’m not consistent. There was another Aqua guy who I’ve matched with and I messaged him a couple times and he’s read and never replied yet we matched.
All in all, I’m aware that matching with someone on a dating app doesn’t intend for genuine interest. This isn’t my first rodeo. The aqua guy I’m looking to talk now replied today pretty quickly as usual. I always get mixed feelings from Aquas but from my experience whenever they aren’t interested; matched or not, attracted or not, they will not feel obligated to reply to you just because you sent a message.
I keep my profile blank. I hate writing stuff about myself. I worry that the one guy I actually like will read something he doesn’t like and next me. I mean I do it all the damn time. So i avoid that. I personally am attracted to less is more.
How do you prefer someone to approach you this way?
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They do it based on my pictures. They say enough about me-what I look like, the kind of places I go to. I’ve had no problem matching with tons of guys. And then there’s a lot to talk about. They seem to like the mystery and wanting to know more.
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I usually always get along with Aquarian’s (I’m Sagittarius sun, mars and mercury), I’m not sure if it’s the effect of retrograde but I feel totally at lost when communicating with this Aquarian. Met him a week ago on a dating app, we matched and I sent the first message after a couple days. First exchange was cool, then he didn’t reply in which I’m not really big on reply time so it didn't really bother me. I tend to do this a lot myself so understandable. He replied within a day and told me sorry he’s just been working a lot lately. From there we had a brief convo about what type of work he does and I didn’t want to pry too much into it too much. From there I offered to share what I do for work as well since we’re both seem to have creative backgrounds. He didn’t say anything. I asked him another question and he answered quickly, and I shared something about myself relating to the question I asked but not in a ‘self absorb’ way, more so,
“are you originally from *blank*”
“I’m from *blank* but pretty much yeah”
“That’s actually really close to where I’m from, *inserts city*”. Never replied. Usually I can spark up conversation but his profile bio is blank, so there’s nothing for me to start up with.
The last Aquarius guy I dated and met online we had a shit ton of things to talk about. Endless conversations.
But with this one I’ve hit a brick and idk how to revive it without coming off desperate. I don’t think he’s not interested but could just be busy with working a lot and also, I realized my last message is open and doesn’t really require a reply. Whenever he did message me he seemed interested. How can I revive this dead conversation and get his attention? I feel like I’ve messed up somehow because the convo had a really good start, But I think I shouldn’t have mentioned the city topic again since we’ve already crossed that bridge. I plan on messaging him in about a week. Not in any rush.