If an Aquarius sent you this?

Is this a subtle way of telling someone to move on from them? We have always sent each other inspirational things but he has never sent me anything like that before.

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Third times a charm

I'm slowly learning that even if I react, it won't change anything, it won't make people suddenly love and respect me, it won't magically change their minds.

Sometimes it's better to just let things be, let people go, don't fight for closure, don't ask for explanations, don't chase answers and don't expect people to understand where you're coming from. I'm slowly learning that life is better lived when you don't center it on what's happening around you and center it on what's happening inside you instead. Work on yourself and your inner peace.

Sorry the image was TINY on my screen.

Need context of why he sent this if it's just because you guys send each other inspirational things then I'd agree that this is a pretty good one.

I don't generally send this type of shit to people I've already decided aren't worth my attention anymore.

No.

He may have having a bad day. Or, had a failed love interest. If you think it's passive aggressive, and if you still talk text, I would be like, "had a bad day?"

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I'm slowly learning that even if I react, it won't change anything, it won't make people suddenly love and respect me, it won't magically change their minds.

Sometimes it's better to just let things be, let people go, don't fight for closure, don't ask for explanations, don't chase answers and don't expect people to understand where you're coming from. I'm slowly learning that life is better lived when you don't center it on what's happening around you and center it on what's happening inside you instead. Work on yourself and your inner peace.

Sorry the image was TINY on my screen.

Need context of why he sent this if it's just because you guys send each other inspirational things then I'd agree that this is a pretty good one.

I don't generally send this type of shit to people I've already decided aren't worth my attention anymore.

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I sent him a video of an actress accepting an award because we are both actors. He text me when I was asleep just asking how everything was on my end then he sent that photo. I have had reason to believe that he was hanging onto an Ex when we hooked up, but I wasn’t sure. We have been friends for four years and at the end of January beginning of February we slept together.

Three weeks ago I sent him an email saying I missed him but I couldn’t just go back to being friends like nothing happened so I needed time for us to just go back to being friends again he said he would call me later and we would talk. So when we talked he basically pitched friends with benefit to me and I told him I couldn’t handle that because I wouldn’t be able to handle it. He was very insistent until I told him it would change me and make me resentful.

We talked very briefly last week but conversational energy was off and we haven’t really spoken since that conversation until today.

To me, it sounds like he’s talking about the ex he’s not over cuz he said his reactions won’t make someone love and respect him. It sounds like he only wants sex from u

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To me, it sounds like he’s talking about the ex he’s not over cuz he said his reactions won’t make someone love and respect him. It sounds like he only wants sex from u

Yeah when we last talked about her he said she had recently came back into his life and was trying to control him but they were even together after they broke up she had a kid with someone I think the break up was his fault. But anyways when she came back she would try to tell him to give up acting riches what he’s good at and is also part of a plant to other bigger things he has in mind for his future. I should’ve known he was still stuck on her because he called her Ivan you don’t call someone unless you have strong feelings about them. But had deleted his Facebook And I think it was to keep her out of his business because he mentioned on a separate occasion that he had exs stalk his page then talk shit to him. The question I had in my head at the time was why are you letting these people have so much control over your life if they are truly exes but I was foolish ignoring all of that after the first kiss. But yeah I think you’re right I think he just wants sex but he wants me to agree to it.

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Posted by pinkbird03

To me, it sounds like he’s talking about the ex he’s not over cuz he said his reactions won’t make someone love and respect him. It sounds like he only wants sex from u

Yeah when we last talked about her he said she had recently came back into his life and was trying to control him but they were even together after they broke up she had a kid with someone I think the break up was his fault. But anyways when she came back she would try to tell him to give up acting riches what he’s good at and is also part of a plant to other bigger things he has in mind for his future. I should’ve known he was still stuck on her because he called her Ivan you don’t call someone unless you have strong feelings about them. But had deleted his Facebook And I think it was to keep her out of his business because he mentioned on a separate occasion that he had exs stalk his page then talk shit to him. The question I had in my head at the time was why are you letting these people have so much control over your life if they are truly exes but I was foolish ignoring all of that after the first kiss. But yeah I think you’re right I think he just wants sex but he wants me to agree to it.

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Too much ex gf drama. Stay away from him. Especially if u don’t want to be used right now. He may be doing it for the emotional connection too. I mean as a distraction

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Posted by aquasnoz

I'm slowly learning that even if I react, it won't change anything, it won't make people suddenly love and respect me, it won't magically change their minds.

Sometimes it's better to just let things be, let people go, don't fight for closure, don't ask for explanations, don't chase answers and don't expect people to understand where you're coming from. I'm slowly learning that life is better lived when you don't center it on what's happening around you and center it on what's happening inside you instead. Work on yourself and your inner peace.

Sorry the image was TINY on my screen.

Need context of why he sent this if it's just because you guys send each other inspirational things then I'd agree that this is a pretty good one.

I don't generally send this type of shit to people I've already decided aren't worth my attention anymore.

I sent him a video of an actress accepting an award because we are both actors. He text me when I was asleep just asking how everything was on my end then he sent that photo. I have had reason to believe that he was hanging onto an Ex when we hooked up, but I wasn’t sure. We have been friends for four years and at the end of January beginning of February we slept together.

Three weeks ago I sent him an email saying I missed him but I couldn’t just go back to being friends like nothing happened so I needed time for us to just go back to being friends again he said he would call me later and we would talk. So when we talked he basically pitched friends with benefit to me and I told him I couldn’t handle that because I wouldn’t be able to handle it. He was very insistent until I told him it would change me and make me resentful.

We talked very briefly last week but conversational energy was off and we haven’t really spoken since that conversation until today.

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Probably his way of saying thankyou for being a rebound. *shrugs*

Don't read into it since there's nothing to actually read into. He's already clear on what he wants but to me that's a pretty shit way of saying hey I want sex but I get to say no when the time comes because I told you so.

Pretty shit friend if you ask me.

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Posted by pinkbird03

To me, it sounds like he’s talking about the ex he’s not over cuz he said his reactions won’t make someone love and respect him. It sounds like he only wants sex from u

Yeah when we last talked about her he said she had recently came back into his life and was trying to control him but they were even together after they broke up she had a kid with someone I think the break up was his fault. But anyways when she came back she would try to tell him to give up acting riches what he’s good at and is also part of a plant to other bigger things he has in mind for his future. I should’ve known he was still stuck on her because he called her Ivan you don’t call someone unless you have strong feelings about them. But had deleted his Facebook And I think it was to keep her out of his business because he mentioned on a separate occasion that he had exs stalk his page then talk shit to him. The question I had in my head at the time was why are you letting these people have so much control over your life if they are truly exes but I was foolish ignoring all of that after the first kiss. But yeah I think you’re right I think he just wants sex but he wants me to agree to it.

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So you guys were friends for 3-4 years and then hooked up and now you don't talk as much as before/the friendship is changed or over, and he wants to be fwb?

I know that's not what the topic is about, but are your feelings hurt by this?

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Posted by aquasnoz

I'm slowly learning that even if I react, it won't change anything, it won't make people suddenly love and respect me, it won't magically change their minds.

Sometimes it's better to just let things be, let people go, don't fight for closure, don't ask for explanations, don't chase answers and don't expect people to understand where you're coming from. I'm slowly learning that life is better lived when you don't center it on what's happening around you and center it on what's happening inside you instead. Work on yourself and your inner peace.

Sorry the image was TINY on my screen.

Need context of why he sent this if it's just because you guys send each other inspirational things then I'd agree that this is a pretty good one.

I don't generally send this type of shit to people I've already decided aren't worth my attention anymore.

I sent him a video of an actress accepting an award because we are both actors. He text me when I was asleep just asking how everything was on my end then he sent that photo. I have had reason to believe that he was hanging onto an Ex when we hooked up, but I wasn’t sure. We have been friends for four years and at the end of January beginning of February we slept together.

Three weeks ago I sent him an email saying I missed him but I couldn’t just go back to being friends like nothing happened so I needed time for us to just go back to being friends again he said he would call me later and we would talk. So when we talked he basically pitched friends with benefit to me and I told him I couldn’t handle that because I wouldn’t be able to handle it. He was very insistent until I told him it would change me and make me resentful.

We talked very briefly last week but conversational energy was off and we haven’t really spoken since that conversation until today.

Probably his way of saying thankyou for being a rebound. *shrugs*

Don't read into it since there's nothing to actually read into. He's already clear on what he wants but to me that's a pretty shit way of saying hey I want sex but I get to say no when the time comes because I told you so.

Pretty shit friend if you ask me.

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Yeah someone else said he was a pretty shit friend as well maybe I’m just blind and didn’t want to realize that yet.

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Posted by pinkbird03

To me, it sounds like he’s talking about the ex he’s not over cuz he said his reactions won’t make someone love and respect him. It sounds like he only wants sex from u

Yeah when we last talked about her he said she had recently came back into his life and was trying to control him but they were even together after they broke up she had a kid with someone I think the break up was his fault. But anyways when she came back she would try to tell him to give up acting riches what he’s good at and is also part of a plant to other bigger things he has in mind for his future. I should’ve known he was still stuck on her because he called her Ivan you don’t call someone unless you have strong feelings about them. But had deleted his Facebook And I think it was to keep her out of his business because he mentioned on a separate occasion that he had exs stalk his page then talk shit to him. The question I had in my head at the time was why are you letting these people have so much control over your life if they are truly exes but I was foolish ignoring all of that after the first kiss. But yeah I think you’re right I think he just wants sex but he wants me to agree to it.

So you guys were friends for 3-4 years and then hooked up and now you don't talk as much as before/the friendship is changed or over, and he wants to be fwb?

I know that's not what the topic is about, but are your feelings hurt by this?

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Very hurt because I miss my friend and I was cool with just going back to being friend because I felt he wasn’t ready for a relationship but he wanted fwb. So now I don’t think anything can ever be the same.

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Posted by pinkbird03

To me, it sounds like he’s talking about the ex he’s not over cuz he said his reactions won’t make someone love and respect him. It sounds like he only wants sex from u

Yeah when we last talked about her he said she had recently came back into his life and was trying to control him but they were even together after they broke up she had a kid with someone I think the break up was his fault. But anyways when she came back she would try to tell him to give up acting riches what he’s good at and is also part of a plant to other bigger things he has in mind for his future. I should’ve known he was still stuck on her because he called her Ivan you don’t call someone unless you have strong feelings about them. But had deleted his Facebook And I think it was to keep her out of his business because he mentioned on a separate occasion that he had exs stalk his page then talk shit to him. The question I had in my head at the time was why are you letting these people have so much control over your life if they are truly exes but I was foolish ignoring all of that after the first kiss. But yeah I think you’re right I think he just wants sex but he wants me to agree to it.

So you guys were friends for 3-4 years and then hooked up and now you don't talk as much as before/the friendship is changed or over, and he wants to be fwb?

I know that's not what the topic is about, but are your feelings hurt by this?

Very hurt because I miss my friend and I was cool with just going back to being friend because I felt he wasn’t ready for a relationship but he wanted fwb. So now I don’t think anything can ever be the same.

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I'm asking because I had an experi that was a little similar.

Do you look back at the friendship and think of it differently? Or do you still feel like it was a genuine friendship?

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To me, it sounds like he’s talking about the ex he’s not over cuz he said his reactions won’t make someone love and respect him. It sounds like he only wants sex from u

Yeah when we last talked about her he said she had recently came back into his life and was trying to control him but they were even together after they broke up she had a kid with someone I think the break up was his fault. But anyways when she came back she would try to tell him to give up acting riches what he’s good at and is also part of a plant to other bigger things he has in mind for his future. I should’ve known he was still stuck on her because he called her Ivan you don’t call someone unless you have strong feelings about them. But had deleted his Facebook And I think it was to keep her out of his business because he mentioned on a separate occasion that he had exs stalk his page then talk shit to him. The question I had in my head at the time was why are you letting these people have so much control over your life if they are truly exes but I was foolish ignoring all of that after the first kiss. But yeah I think you’re right I think he just wants sex but he wants me to agree to it.

So you guys were friends for 3-4 years and then hooked up and now you don't talk as much as before/the friendship is changed or over, and he wants to be fwb?

I know that's not what the topic is about, but are your feelings hurt by this?

Very hurt because I miss my friend and I was cool with just going back to being friend because I felt he wasn’t ready for a relationship but he wanted fwb. So now I don’t think anything can ever be the same.

I'm asking because I had an experi that was a little similar.

Do you look back at the friendship and think of it differently? Or do you still feel like it was a genuine friendship?

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I’m definitely looking at the friendship like it was different I see him more as a colleague then a friend now because we were mostly talk about acting but towards about two years ago we would talk about other stuff relationships between people included and then this last couple months we have talked about how men and women act when pursing someone or dating. Like he would start the conversation about interracial dating and I would say I don’t have a problem with it and he said he did and here is why and we would debate. Stuff like that. But yeah maybe we were more just colleagues because he would always send me auditions and that’s usually how he reached out a lot of the time then we would just start talking about life in general .

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Posted by pinkbird03

To me, it sounds like he’s talking about the ex he’s not over cuz he said his reactions won’t make someone love and respect him. It sounds like he only wants sex from u

Yeah when we last talked about her he said she had recently came back into his life and was trying to control him but they were even together after they broke up she had a kid with someone I think the break up was his fault. But anyways when she came back she would try to tell him to give up acting riches what he’s good at and is also part of a plant to other bigger things he has in mind for his future. I should’ve known he was still stuck on her because he called her Ivan you don’t call someone unless you have strong feelings about them. But had deleted his Facebook And I think it was to keep her out of his business because he mentioned on a separate occasion that he had exs stalk his page then talk shit to him. The question I had in my head at the time was why are you letting these people have so much control over your life if they are truly exes but I was foolish ignoring all of that after the first kiss. But yeah I think you’re right I think he just wants sex but he wants me to agree to it.

So you guys were friends for 3-4 years and then hooked up and now you don't talk as much as before/the friendship is changed or over, and he wants to be fwb?

I know that's not what the topic is about, but are your feelings hurt by this?

Very hurt because I miss my friend and I was cool with just going back to being friend because I felt he wasn’t ready for a relationship but he wanted fwb. So now I don’t think anything can ever be the same.

I'm asking because I had an experi that was a little similar.

Do you look back at the friendship and think of it differently? Or do you still feel like it was a genuine friendship?

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Should have known there are lots of Neptune aspects and I relationship just didn’t know when they would show their face I guess they have now .

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Posted by pinkbird03

To me, it sounds like he’s talking about the ex he’s not over cuz he said his reactions won’t make someone love and respect him. It sounds like he only wants sex from u

Yeah when we last talked about her he said she had recently came back into his life and was trying to control him but they were even together after they broke up she had a kid with someone I think the break up was his fault. But anyways when she came back she would try to tell him to give up acting riches what he’s good at and is also part of a plant to other bigger things he has in mind for his future. I should’ve known he was still stuck on her because he called her Ivan you don’t call someone unless you have strong feelings about them. But had deleted his Facebook And I think it was to keep her out of his business because he mentioned on a separate occasion that he had exs stalk his page then talk shit to him. The question I had in my head at the time was why are you letting these people have so much control over your life if they are truly exes but I was foolish ignoring all of that after the first kiss. But yeah I think you’re right I think he just wants sex but he wants me to agree to it.

So you guys were friends for 3-4 years and then hooked up and now you don't talk as much as before/the friendship is changed or over, and he wants to be fwb?

I know that's not what the topic is about, but are your feelings hurt by this?

Very hurt because I miss my friend and I was cool with just going back to being friend because I felt he wasn’t ready for a relationship but he wanted fwb. So now I don’t think anything can ever be the same.

I'm asking because I had an experi that was a little similar.

Do you look back at the friendship and think of it differently? Or do you still feel like it was a genuine friendship?

I’m definitely looking at the friendship like it was different I see him more as a colleague then a friend now because we were mostly talk about acting but towards about two years ago we would talk about other stuff relationships between people included and then this last couple months we have talked about how men and women act when pursing someone or dating. Like he would start the conversation about interracial dating and I would say I don’t have a problem with it and he said he did and here is why and we would debate. Stuff like that. But yeah maybe we were more just colleagues because he would always send me auditions and that’s usually how he reached out a lot of the time then we would just start talking about life in general .

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Hmm well okay, not exactly the same as my situation. But at the same time you guys knew each other way longer before hooking up.

But it can prove to be very difficult being friends after hooking up. Especially if the guy actually doesn't want a friendship anymore and just want to be fwb.

Guy I knew tried a long time to get that fwb going, but when it was clear, it wasn't gonna happen and that it brings out the worst in me, wasn't much of a friendship left.

We never talk anymore or I say something to him, and he doesn't answer, but then invites me to events on Facebook. None of it has any meaning to it. But I guess that's the problem😊

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Third times a charm

Ask him what he meant by it. He'll tell you. If you read between the lines, if it seems like one of those answers, you'll have your answers.

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Posted by ladylibra21

Third times a charm

Ask him what he meant by it. He'll tell you. If you read between the lines, if it seems like one of those answers, you'll have your answers.

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Yes, I definitely agree with this... But be sure you are ready for the answer...

In my opinion, he was telling you what was in his head at that moment, he probably likes you but he doesnt want to hurt you, when Im hooking up w someone and I start to catch feelings but in the back of my head I feel its not going to work and I dont want to hurt the person, i put them back on the friendzone (most of the times they never talk to me again and its okay bc In my mind I did the right thing)... Specially if there is an ex that I have unfinished shit with.... when we love someone, its hard for us to walk away, even tho we know its hurting us... We are very stubborn people and we love very hard. He is emotionally unavailable now. that's what he meant to say w that. and it probably has nothing to do with you but with him. I would stop having sex with him and just be there as a friend, that could be what he really needs now. Most of the times, we dont really know what we want.

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Posted by ladylibra21

Third times a charm

Ask him what he meant by it. He'll tell you. If you read between the lines, if it seems like one of those answers, you'll have your answers.

Yes, I definitely agree with this... But be sure you are ready for the answer...

In my opinion, he was telling you what was in his head at that moment, he probably likes you but he doesnt want to hurt you, when Im hooking up w someone and I start to catch feelings but in the back of my head I feel its not going to work and I dont want to hurt the person, i put them back on the friendzone (most of the times they never talk to me again and its okay bc In my mind I did the right thing)... Specially if there is an ex that I have unfinished shit with.... when we love someone, its hard for us to walk away, even tho we know its hurting us... We are very stubborn people and we love very hard. He is emotionally unavailable now. that's what he meant to say w that. and it probably has nothing to do with you but with him. I would stop having sex with him and just be there as a friend, that could be what he really needs now. Most of the times, we dont really know what we want.

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People can be put in the friend zone without the slightest clue, it's kinda unfortunate for whoever isn't us. If we even slightly feel like it won't work for whatever reason we've come up with we will detach emotionally.

You know I think I know what that mean by emotionally detached after all these years lol. Well i mean we detach easily from people we never really cared for but act like we detached easily from people we actually love when we're dying inside watching them love someone else but you'll never know unless an Aquarius tells you. I guess I could see how people would really come to hate us, that shit would annoy me.

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Posted by ladylibra21

Third times a charm

Ask him what he meant by it. He'll tell you. If you read between the lines, if it seems like one of those answers, you'll have your answers.

Yes, I definitely agree with this... But be sure you are ready for the answer...

In my opinion, he was telling you what was in his head at that moment, he probably likes you but he doesnt want to hurt you, when Im hooking up w someone and I start to catch feelings but in the back of my head I feel its not going to work and I dont want to hurt the person, i put them back on the friendzone (most of the times they never talk to me again and its okay bc In my mind I did the right thing)... Specially if there is an ex that I have unfinished shit with.... when we love someone, its hard for us to walk away, even tho we know its hurting us... We are very stubborn people and we love very hard. He is emotionally unavailable now. that's what he meant to say w that. and it probably has nothing to do with you but with him. I would just be there as a friend, that could be what he really needs now. Most of the times, we dont really know what we want.

People can be put in the friend zone without the slightest clue, it's kinda unfortunate for whoever isn't us. If we even slightly feel like it won't work for whatever reason we've come up with we will detach emotionally.

You know I think I know what that mean by emotionally detached after all these years lol. Well i mean we detach easily from people we never really cared for but act like we detached easily from people we actually love when we're dying inside watching them love someone else but you'll never know unless an Aquarius tells you. I guess I could see how people would really come to hate us, that shit would annoy me.

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Yes, Its harder when we have to detach from someone we love, but its crazy how we make them believe we are cool.. omg! ive been there done that... That hurts more than the breakup itself. Bc I had to force myself to stop thinking, wanting and loving that person. uff! its done now! but I felt in hell.

Without knowing the background story here's how I translate this meme. I think you 2 were romantically involved and somehow you hurt him. Now he's feeling down and doesn't see a point to vocalize his thoughts. He does not want to move on, he just lets the situation be without expectations and he lets you be without any pressure aka setting you free. Probably he's tired of trying to make it work and apparently you were giving out cold vibes..

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Posted by ladylibra21

Third times a charm

Ask him what he meant by it. He'll tell you. If you read between the lines, if it seems like one of those answers, you'll have your answers.

Yes, I definitely agree with this... But be sure you are ready for the answer...

In my opinion, he was telling you what was in his head at that moment, he probably likes you but he doesnt want to hurt you, when Im hooking up w someone and I start to catch feelings but in the back of my head I feel its not going to work and I dont want to hurt the person, i put them back on the friendzone (most of the times they never talk to me again and its okay bc In my mind I did the right thing)... Specially if there is an ex that I have unfinished shit with.... when we love someone, its hard for us to walk away, even tho we know its hurting us... We are very stubborn people and we love very hard. He is emotionally unavailable now. that's what he meant to say w that. and it probably has nothing to do with you but with him. I would just be there as a friend, that could be what he really needs now. Most of the times, we dont really know what we want.

People can be put in the friend zone without the slightest clue, it's kinda unfortunate for whoever isn't us. If we even slightly feel like it won't work for whatever reason we've come up with we will detach emotionally.

You know I think I know what that mean by emotionally detached after all these years lol. Well i mean we detach easily from people we never really cared for but act like we detached easily from people we actually love when we're dying inside watching them love someone else but you'll never know unless an Aquarius tells you. I guess I could see how people would really come to hate us, that shit would annoy me.

Yes, Its harder when we have to detach from someone we love, but its crazy how we make them believe we are cool.. omg! ive been there done that... That hurts more than the breakup itself. Bc I had to force myself to stop thinking, wanting and loving that person. uff! its done now! but I felt in hell.

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Im still working on mine. We know how long it takes to process letting go, takes us longer to me, and I think we go into relationships realizing that eventually it'll end, at least I do. Maybe which is another reason we're so cautious.

How did you finally let go? I need help on that.

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Posted by ladylibra21

Third times a charm

Ask him what he meant by it. He'll tell you. If you read between the lines, if it seems like one of those answers, you'll have your answers.

Yes, I definitely agree with this... But be sure you are ready for the answer...

In my opinion, he was telling you what was in his head at that moment, he probably likes you but he doesnt want to hurt you, when Im hooking up w someone and I start to catch feelings but in the back of my head I feel its not going to work and I dont want to hurt the person, i put them back on the friendzone (most of the times they never talk to me again and its okay bc In my mind I did the right thing)... Specially if there is an ex that I have unfinished shit with.... when we love someone, its hard for us to walk away, even tho we know its hurting us... We are very stubborn people and we love very hard. He is emotionally unavailable now. that's what he meant to say w that. and it probably has nothing to do with you but with him. I would stop having sex with him and just be there as a friend, that could be what he really needs now. Most of the times, we dont really know what we want.

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Yeah I totally agree with the not knowing what you want it seems like an Aquarian trait. He is still very confusing though because last week he was telling me that he would come visit by the end of March didn’t hear from him until yesterday where he promised he would call I told him not to promise it makes it worse when he promises and doesn’t then he called me at 2:00 am because he was at work just to prove he would call. I was so mad he literally said I’ve just calling to say hi. He said oh you sound like you’re really asleep I was like I’m awake now and he was like no I’ll let you go back to bed I was like what was the point of you calling ? I couldn’t go back to sleep after he called so I sent him a message saying

“Look I'm not sure what is going on with you, but correct me if I'm wrong but feels like you are communicating out of some sense of obligation or guilt. If you don't want to communicate just don't. It makes things worst if you pretend you want to communicate just for the sake keeping a line open. It's like when a person visits an old aunt at a nursing home who insults them and hits their ankles with a walking stick but they still go because they will be written out of her will if they don't.”

He laughed it off and said no that was not the case but he would call today so he called me while I was at work and we basically discussed starting our own business. He switched to so many different tactics I don’t know what’s going on in his head. I think going towards the business way more help him keep a boundary but also keep me around because obviously our flow of friendship has been ruined .

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Without knowing the background story here's how I translate this meme. I think you 2 were romantically involved and somehow you hurt him. Now he's feeling down and doesn't see a point to vocalize his thoughts. He does not want to move on, he just lets the situation be without expectations and he lets you be without any pressure aka setting you free. Probably he's tired of trying to make it work and apparently you were giving out cold vibes..

I don’t understand how I’m supposed to of hurt hims I don’t understand how I’m supposed of hurt him. Because I said I didn’t want to be fwb ?

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Without knowing the background story here's how I translate this meme. I think you 2 were romantically involved and somehow you hurt him. Now he's feeling down and doesn't see a point to vocalize his thoughts. He does not want to move on, he just lets the situation be without expectations and he lets you be without any pressure aka setting you free. Probably he's tired of trying to make it work and apparently you were giving out cold vibes..

I don’t understand how I’m supposed to of hurt hims I don’t understand how I’m supposed of hurt him. Because I said I didn’t want to be fwb ?

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Yeah well that's a whole different story lol

He would have chosen different meme then. But "I can't make someone love me" stands out, it's just too obvious. He might be afraid of asking you to be by his side and gradually take things further? maybe he wants to be serious with you but isn't sure if you want the same? do you like him and would you want to be his girlfriend? because I guess you already know him well and don't really need that "get to know each other"

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Without knowing the background story here's how I translate this meme. I think you 2 were romantically involved and somehow you hurt him. Now he's feeling down and doesn't see a point to vocalize his thoughts. He does not want to move on, he just lets the situation be without expectations and he lets you be without any pressure aka setting you free. Probably he's tired of trying to make it work and apparently you were giving out cold vibes..

I don’t understand how I’m supposed to of hurt hims I don’t understand how I’m supposed of hurt him. Because I said I didn’t want to be fwb ?

Yeah well that's a whole different story lol

He would have chosen different meme then. But "I can't make someone love me" stands out, it's just too obvious. He might be afraid of asking you to be by his side and gradually take things further? maybe he wants to be serious with you but isn't sure if you want the same? do you like him and would you want to be his girlfriend? because I guess you already know him well and don't really need that "get to know each other"

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Of course I would be with him but like you said before shut up he can’t stop himself from talking to other girls so I’m not gonna put myself in that position to be hurt.

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Posted by ladylibra21

Third times a charm

Ask him what he meant by it. He'll tell you. If you read between the lines, if it seems like one of those answers, you'll have your answers.

Yes, I definitely agree with this... But be sure you are ready for the answer...

In my opinion, he was telling you what was in his head at that moment, he probably likes you but he doesnt want to hurt you, when Im hooking up w someone and I start to catch feelings but in the back of my head I feel its not going to work and I dont want to hurt the person, i put them back on the friendzone (most of the times they never talk to me again and its okay bc In my mind I did the right thing)... Specially if there is an ex that I have unfinished shit with.... when we love someone, its hard for us to walk away, even tho we know its hurting us... We are very stubborn people and we love very hard. He is emotionally unavailable now. that's what he meant to say w that. and it probably has nothing to do with you but with him. I would just be there as a friend, that could be what he really needs now. Most of the times, we dont really know what we want.

People can be put in the friend zone without the slightest clue, it's kinda unfortunate for whoever isn't us. If we even slightly feel like it won't work for whatever reason we've come up with we will detach emotionally.

You know I think I know what that mean by emotionally detached after all these years lol. Well i mean we detach easily from people we never really cared for but act like we detached easily from people we actually love when we're dying inside watching them love someone else but you'll never know unless an Aquarius tells you. I guess I could see how people would really come to hate us, that shit would annoy me.

Yes, Its harder when we have to detach from someone we love, but its crazy how we make them believe we are cool.. omg! ive been there done that... That hurts more than the breakup itself. Bc I had to force myself to stop thinking, wanting and loving that person. uff! its done now! but I felt in hell.

Im still working on mine. We know how long it takes to process letting go, takes us longer to me, and I think we go into relationships realizing that eventually it'll end, at least I do. Maybe which is another reason we're so cautious.

How did you finally let go? I need help on that.

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Well, I didnt date anyone for about 2-3 years, I didnt feel it was right to date noone when I still got feelings for my ex, he made it more complicated bc even after the breakup and him dating other people he never stopped contacting me (he is a gemini)... I was still talking to him, He would tell me about his relationships and I think this helped me to realize that Im Such a Hell of a woman that I deserve someone as Great as Me. That after all me and him were not in the same page, I started focusing on myself and on the things that I like doing. And to be honest now I regret not realizing things earlier and I feel like I wasted 3 years crying and suffering for someone who did not deserved it. We still talk, he still admits he likes me, he still ask me out , still he has a gf. lol but now Im already dating other people, Mind you... I still care bout him.. But I know my life, my goals, the way I want my future to be, I wont get it with him....

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Posted by ladylibra21

Third times a charm

Ask him what he meant by it. He'll tell you. If you read between the lines, if it seems like one of those answers, you'll have your answers.

Yes, I definitely agree with this... But be sure you are ready for the answer...

In my opinion, he was telling you what was in his head at that moment, he probably likes you but he doesnt want to hurt you, when Im hooking up w someone and I start to catch feelings but in the back of my head I feel its not going to work and I dont want to hurt the person, i put them back on the friendzone (most of the times they never talk to me again and its okay bc In my mind I did the right thing)... Specially if there is an ex that I have unfinished shit with.... when we love someone, its hard for us to walk away, even tho we know its hurting us... We are very stubborn people and we love very hard. He is emotionally unavailable now. that's what he meant to say w that. and it probably has nothing to do with you but with him. I would stop having sex with him and just be there as a friend, that could be what he really needs now. Most of the times, we dont really know what we want.

Yeah I totally agree with the not knowing what you want it seems like an Aquarian trait. He is still very confusing though because last week he was telling me that he would come visit by the end of March didn’t hear from him until yesterday where he promised he would call I told him not to promise it makes it worse when he promises and doesn’t then he called me at 2:00 am because he was at work just to prove he would call. I was so mad he literally said I’ve just calling to say hi. He said oh you sound like you’re really asleep I was like I’m awake now and he was like no I’ll let you go back to bed I was like what was the point of you calling ? I couldn’t go back to sleep after he called so I sent him a message saying

“Look I'm not sure what is going on with you, but correct me if I'm wrong but feels like you are communicating out of some sense of obligation or guilt. If you don't want to communicate just don't. It makes things worst if you pretend you want to communicate just for the sake keeping a line open. It's like when a person visits an old aunt at a nursing home who insults them and hits their ankles with a walking stick but they still go because they will be written out of her will if they don't.”

He laughed it off and said no that was not the case but he would call today so he called me while I was at work and we basically discussed starting our own business. He switched to so many different tactics I don’t know what’s going on in his head. I think going towards the business way more help him keep a boundary but also keep me around because obviously our flow of friendship has been ruined .

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If he is willing to work out a business with you .. Go ahead, we wouldn't do business with someone we dont trust. Dont try to figure out an aquarius, it'll just drive you crazy... we are like a puzzle with missing pieces haha.! we cant even figure out ourselves thats what we do what we want when we want and nobody call tell us what to do......He obviously care about you, that I can tell you...if he didnt he would of ghost you and he wouldnt been trying to still communicate with you. Just chill... We hate argumentative people. Just take it as it comes, The calls, we always do that... I tell my friends I call you back and I call them back in a month. My friends dont get mad cuz they already know me well. thats just how we are..

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Posted by TraditionalAquarianKinda

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Posted by ladylibra21

Third times a charm

Ask him what he meant by it. He'll tell you. If you read between the lines, if it seems like one of those answers, you'll have your answers.

Yes, I definitely agree with this... But be sure you are ready for the answer...

In my opinion, he was telling you what was in his head at that moment, he probably likes you but he doesnt want to hurt you, when Im hooking up w someone and I start to catch feelings but in the back of my head I feel its not going to work and I dont want to hurt the person, i put them back on the friendzone (most of the times they never talk to me again and its okay bc In my mind I did the right thing)... Specially if there is an ex that I have unfinished shit with.... when we love someone, its hard for us to walk away, even tho we know its hurting us... We are very stubborn people and we love very hard. He is emotionally unavailable now. that's what he meant to say w that. and it probably has nothing to do with you but with him. I would just be there as a friend, that could be what he really needs now. Most of the times, we dont really know what we want.

People can be put in the friend zone without the slightest clue, it's kinda unfortunate for whoever isn't us. If we even slightly feel like it won't work for whatever reason we've come up with we will detach emotionally.

You know I think I know what that mean by emotionally detached after all these years lol. Well i mean we detach easily from people we never really cared for but act like we detached easily from people we actually love when we're dying inside watching them love someone else but you'll never know unless an Aquarius tells you. I guess I could see how people would really come to hate us, that shit would annoy me.

Yes, Its harder when we have to detach from someone we love, but its crazy how we make them believe we are cool.. omg! ive been there done that... That hurts more than the breakup itself. Bc I had to force myself to stop thinking, wanting and loving that person. uff! its done now! but I felt in hell.

Im still working on mine. We know how long it takes to process letting go, takes us longer to me, and I think we go into relationships realizing that eventually it'll end, at least I do. Maybe which is another reason we're so cautious.

How did you finally let go? I need help on that.

Well, I didnt date anyone for about 2-3 years, I didnt feel it was right to date noone when I still got feelings for my ex, he made it more complicated bc even after the breakup and him dating other people he never stopped contacting me (he is a gemini)... I was still talking to him, He would tell me about his relationships and I think this helped me to realize that Im Such a Hell of a woman that I deserve someone as Great as Me. That after all me and him were not in the same page, I started focusing on myself and on the things that I like doing. And to be honest now I regret not realizing things earlier and I feel like I wasted 3 years crying and suffering for someone who did not deserved it. We still talk, he still admits he likes me, he still ask me out , still he has a gf. lol but now Im already dating other people, Mind you... I still care bout him.. But I know my life, my goals, the way I want my future to be, I wont get it with him....

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See that's the thing, I still care too. I guess I thought that went away but I maybe not. I feel like dating other people would be the best way because when I was, he was never a thought but when I was lonely he's at the forefront of my mind although I'd never speak to him ever again. I at least wanted to be friends but couldn't even do that, because of him. I honestly have a deep dislike of him on some level which is unfortunate.

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Posted by ladylibra21

Third times a charm

Ask him what he meant by it. He'll tell you. If you read between the lines, if it seems like one of those answers, you'll have your answers.

Yes, I definitely agree with this... But be sure you are ready for the answer...

In my opinion, he was telling you what was in his head at that moment, he probably likes you but he doesnt want to hurt you, when Im hooking up w someone and I start to catch feelings but in the back of my head I feel its not going to work and I dont want to hurt the person, i put them back on the friendzone (most of the times they never talk to me again and its okay bc In my mind I did the right thing)... Specially if there is an ex that I have unfinished shit with.... when we love someone, its hard for us to walk away, even tho we know its hurting us... We are very stubborn people and we love very hard. He is emotionally unavailable now. that's what he meant to say w that. and it probably has nothing to do with you but with him. I would just be there as a friend, that could be what he really needs now. Most of the times, we dont really know what we want.

People can be put in the friend zone without the slightest clue, it's kinda unfortunate for whoever isn't us. If we even slightly feel like it won't work for whatever reason we've come up with we will detach emotionally.

You know I think I know what that mean by emotionally detached after all these years lol. Well i mean we detach easily from people we never really cared for but act like we detached easily from people we actually love when we're dying inside watching them love someone else but you'll never know unless an Aquarius tells you. I guess I could see how people would really come to hate us, that shit would annoy me.

Yes, Its harder when we have to detach from someone we love, but its crazy how we make them believe we are cool.. omg! ive been there done that... That hurts more than the breakup itself. Bc I had to force myself to stop thinking, wanting and loving that person. uff! its done now! but I felt in hell.

Im still working on mine. We know how long it takes to process letting go, takes us longer to me, and I think we go into relationships realizing that eventually it'll end, at least I do. Maybe which is another reason we're so cautious.

How did you finally let go? I need help on that.

Well, I didnt date anyone for about 2-3 years, I didnt feel it was right to date noone when I still got feelings for my ex, he made it more complicated bc even after the breakup and him dating other people he never stopped contacting me (he is a gemini)... I was still talking to him, He would tell me about his relationships and I think this helped me to realize that Im Such a Hell of a woman that I deserve someone as Great as Me. That after all me and him were not in the same page, I started focusing on myself and on the things that I like doing. And to be honest now I regret not realizing things earlier and I feel like I wasted 3 years crying and suffering for someone who did not deserved it. We still talk, he still admits he likes me, he still ask me out , still he has a gf. lol but now Im already dating other people, Mind you... I still care bout him.. But I know my life, my goals, the way I want my future to be, I wont get it with him....

See that's the thing, I still care too. I guess I thought that went away but I maybe not. I feel like dating other people would be the best way because when I was, he was never a thought but when I was lonely he's at the forefront of my mind although I'd never speak to him ever again. I at least wanted to be friends but couldn't even do that, because of him. I honestly have a deep dislike of him on some level which is unfortunate.

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Yeah, he always wanted to remain friends soon as we broke up, but I told him I couldn't, do it, that I would of let him know when I was ready. He never gave me chances, Is like he wanted me to be there loving him forever...haha. He started to leave me alone when I finally starting posting things of my new relationship. then He knew he wasn't my priority anymore. And then he started focusing on his relationship as well.