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Aqua Trip
Wtf your bday weekend.
Confront him and ask him what’s up. Not cool for him to leave you in limbo on your bday trip.
I mean, is he the type of person to keep you in suspense and then surprise the hell outta you? Maybe he has something planned and is acting meh to throw you off the scent.
To tell you the truth I think you are trying too hard with him. You seem over invested and he is taking you for granted. It’s your birthday weekend. If he likes you as much as you like him he would be making plans to see you not the other way round.
I mean, is he the type of person to keep you in suspense and then surprise the hell outta you? Maybe he has something planned and is acting meh to throw you off the scent.
I'm not sure & he has never done anything for my birthday. We've been friends for
A long time & just been on and off. We've done things outside of my bday but never celebrated together. I've done something for
His bday before as well. I told him I had to know ahead of time to set things up I had the room it was just other accommodations that needed to be booked.
Thank u & that's what my intuition was telling me. I understand I'm an Aqua rising with moon I'm Virgo 😓. I appreciate it tho I just
Wanted confirmation to make sure I wasn't
Over thinking bcuz I always do.
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I mean, is he the type of person to keep you in suspense and then surprise the hell outta you? Maybe he has something planned and is acting meh to throw you off the scent.
I'm not sure & he has never done anything for my birthday. We've been friends for
A long time & just been on and off. We've done things outside of my bday but never celebrated together. I've done something for
His bday before as well. I told him I had to know ahead of time to set things up I had the room it was just other accommodations that needed to be booked.
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I think your more than justified in giving him a deadline "let me know by the end of the day" type thing to get his final decision in order to finalize plans.
Thank u & that's what my intuition was telling me. I understand I'm an Aqua rising with moon I'm Virgo 😓. I appreciate it tho I just
Wanted confirmation to make sure I wasn't
Over thinking bcuz I always do.
i totally understand ☹️
i am a scorpio sun w/ a mostly all air chart & overthinking is my only mode of operating.
have you tried talking to him about it? like, “hey, we doin this trip er nah? cuz if not, imma take a friend instead”. i know talking & being vulnerable sucks but.... the clarity it provides always wins in the end ☺️
ps
i am also aqua rising 🤗🤗
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😁 I have but he texts back hella slow and
I know he's mostly busy but he says he has
To check his schedule. I believe u guys
R right. I don't feel like he's interested or what if he may not wanna go bcuz he may see ppl he knows. I'm not his girlfriend & of course after we had sex he said he wanted to take
It slow & not jump into a relationship but I feel it's all bullshit & when u wanna really make an effort u would just like when he got sex out of me & we've known each other off & on for a few years. Actually after the sex I was just goin to move around but he made it seem like he wanted more so I stayed around
But now I'm wishing I didn't
Thank u & that's what my intuition was telling me. I understand I'm an Aqua rising with moon I'm Virgo 😓. I appreciate it tho I just
Wanted confirmation to make sure I wasn't
Over thinking bcuz I always do.
i totally understand ☹️
i am a scorpio sun w/ a mostly all air chart & overthinking is my only mode of operating.
have you tried talking to him about it? like, “hey, we doin this trip er nah? cuz if not, imma take a friend instead”. i know talking & being vulnerable sucks but.... the clarity it provides always wins in the end ☺️
ps
i am also aqua rising 🤗🤗
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He's not going
I mean, is he the type of person to keep you in suspense and then surprise the hell outta you? Maybe he has something planned and is acting meh to throw you off the scent.
He's not going
I mean, is he the type of person to keep you in suspense and then surprise the hell outta you? Maybe he has something planned and is acting meh to throw you off the scent.
He's not going
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You make plans with someone else then? Go for your birthday and have fun. At least you know what’s really up with you two.
I mean, is he the type of person to keep you in suspense and then surprise the hell outta you? Maybe he has something planned and is acting meh to throw you off the scent.
He's not going
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Why not? What was his excuse
I mean, is he the type of person to keep you in suspense and then surprise the hell outta you? Maybe he has something planned and is acting meh to throw you off the scent.
He's not going
Why not? What was his excuse
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Work. But he claimed before he can dictate it how he wants to but that was probably to gas up what he lacked in other areas just to get sex out of me & if he actually does dictate his own schedule then he already got what he wanted so no use in going & maybe back messing with his BM.
Before I dated my husband, I dated another aqua like this. He would hint at plans, then leave me hanging. He obviously didn’t care about me like he said he did. I quickly moved on. Met the one that would become my husband.
Then first aqua would try telling me I scared him, he wasn’t sure what he wanted, his feelings made him nervous...blah blah blah. Guys like that don’t hesitate when they find the one.
So, his actions are telling you all you need to know. He’s not that into you.
Who has time to waste being diddled with?
By the way, my husband never left me hanging on plans when we dated.
And, girl, this guy isn’t over his baby momma. He’s in love with her and isn’t into you like you are him.
MOVE ON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I'm wanting to go on a trip with an Aqua of mine but he seems excited about it but has yet 2 put the action behind it. Still unsure if he wants to go and we r suppose to leave in a few days if he decides. I feel like he's waiting until the last minute to tell me no. Should
I just cancel the plans. I just wanna spend
Some real one on one with him and have fun without things being so tense.
I feel like if he wanted to go he would have let me know by now. Plus it's my bday weekend.