Is he interested ? I'm losing myself (Page 3)

@fanta lol I guess not it's just a speculation. I hope i have better news next time.

He's friends with a lot of people. He has a very wide social network girls and guys. I'm assuming he is keeping her around as a friend. Also it's def about her because we already established we're seeing each other (he said he wants to go with the flow for now). I know you could be right since i'm just speculating. In addition to this, she posts stories of her with things like "ignoring you, leaving you on read was the best choice ever". Looks like they spoke but she kept him on read when he tried to distance himself from her. I think he wants her as a friend.

If he REALLY was into her he'd claim her a looong time ago. Trust me

Update: we spoke and I opened up about how I crave love but I also feared it . I made it known to him I need courage

He said he understands

Later he posted a pic of himself saying he needs a hair cut. I told him hes handsome still

He responded with" lmao thanks 😘"

I guess now hes kind of being responsive emotionally

I'm seeing him soon in 2wks

guys I don't know what to do. He's not pursing me yet I know he likes me. Do I lay low ? and how am i supposed to propose the meeting ? Me or him ?

Everytime i message him he will respond and then the next message he will open 4 hrs later and not respond. leave me on read

Everytime i message him he will respond and then the next message he will open 4 hrs later and not respond. leave me on read

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guys I don't know what to do. He's not pursing me yet I know he likes me. Do I lay low ? and how am i supposed to propose the meeting ? Me or him ?

Everytime i message him he will respond and then the next message he will open 4 hrs later and not respond. leave me on read

what is the rest of this fools chart?

if an aqua placement wants you, they will pursue, be up your ass, send you memes, ask about your day, send youtube vids, crack jokes, update you on their day etc etc.

they will be blowing up your phone.

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We met only once that's the thing. I can't meet him because of the quarantine

his chart: https://imgur.com/a/RnzRMFe

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guys I don't know what to do. He's not pursing me yet I know he likes me. Do I lay low ? and how am i supposed to propose the meeting ? Me or him ?

Everytime i message him he will respond and then the next message he will open 4 hrs later and not respond. leave me on read

what is the rest of this fools chart?

if an aqua placement wants you, they will pursue, be up your ass, send you memes, ask about your day, send youtube vids, crack jokes, update you on their day etc etc.

they will be blowing up your phone.

We met only once that's the thing. I can't meet him because of the quarantine

his chart: https://imgur.com/a/RnzRMFe

meeting in person does not matter if this dude isnt even communicating with you. especially during quarantine. lol like what else would he be doing??

if he wanted to talk, he would initiate. i, honestly, think this is a lost cause for you.

that sag moon/aries venus combo does not bode well for giving out consistent attention.

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we met once for 5 mins lmao

So how do I get his attention ? Should I still meet up with him after quarantine ?

Also we already discussed our intentions. We agreed on going with the flow, with no labels..at least not yet

I post a story on snapchat, he will post a similar one the next day. Today he posted a song related to my past : how i had bad relationships in my past

I really do think he's interested just passive or waiting to see if i truly like him

I'm older than 25 sorry I want to keep some details private

thanks for your input. if we meet up i'll let you know how it goes.

he ended things with the leo girl

I just want to know if we have chemistry. So hard to tell online.

Will keep you guys updated.

Posted by Wild_Flo

From my experience, maybe it’s different for someone else but aqua guys don’t chase.. they initiate flirting and than you just draw to them like a magnet.

The aqua guy I talked too was interested and stayed interested.

He flirted

I flirted back, kept it friendly than backed off... a week or so passed by idk I forgot so I messaged him

He responded, than I asked him if he wanted to chill

He responded again but I got busy blah blah and didn’t message him back for a while

Once I did.. things progressed.

I gave him time in between of us not talking to ponder his thoughts and I guess he started wondering if I was interested or what I was doing. In reality, I’m just busy and I forget to respond.. yeah I’m bad about that shit 😂

Exactly my point . He did the exact same thing to me this aqua did to you . Was interested heavily in the beginning now he's acting awkward . Still responding to me and flirts back but runs away .

I give him time to ponder his thoughts but I think I won't talk to him until it's time to meet

What happened when you guys chilled ? Did he agree to meet ?

Posted by ClassyAquarius

I read whole tread and for me you lost at moment when you started to telling him about his sm. Aquarius don't like when you telling them what to do, especially when you two just met at that time. Capricorn is very grounded energy that wants to settle everything down and they want clarifications right away. That doesn't work with Aquarius. I was in relationship with Capricorn guy for 5 years and I'm Capricorn dominant.

Aquarius is hard to catch, because they understand that relationship isn't something that doesn't defines them. They can be single forever. Capricorns are made to run family and give new life to this world. It makes hard for those two to meet at this point. Especially when Aquarius isn't self aware and undeveloped.

Aquarius pursue people only if they truly interested, but that doesn't mean it will last. They often get obsessed at the beginning, because they love mistery and like to fantasise about great connection, which is something that destroys reality if they get into that to deep.

They can be interested and change their mind later when they get to know you. I they know more than you think. It often leads to a point where the other person is left and they don't know why.

Another thing is that Aquarius won't tell you he's not interested because they don't want to hurt people. It's stupid, I know but it is what it is.

Another thing is that Aquarius don't trust people easly so it takes forever for them to open up. I see here people often makes mistake with trying to push them to commit because the person who seeks advise is ready for the next step. Unfortunately Aquarius is hard to get and not for people who don't want to wait and let the love naturaly grow in Aquarius. They want to push it further which is kind of selfish. Every person has diffrent time frame to grow relationship with someone else.

The good news is that he still might be interested because if Aquarius likes someone they often pretend they're not interested. I was like that too but I stoped because it was something that often destroyed chance for great relation. It's stupid, but if Aquarius is not aware then he will do this kind of thing stupidly.

So my advice at this point is, do not try to control him. Don't push it forward just because you ready for next step and live in the moment. Stop being the one who is always iniciating the contact. You have to meet in the middle. If it doesn't work out then move forward. Noone should put their all in a situation where the other person is always passive. Doesn’t matter if you awoman or a man.

Try to be his friend first. My Cap ex wanted relationship from the beginning and he respected my ways and waited until I felt like getting closes to him.



I wish you luck 🙂

Thanks so much your description of them is on point. I will def back off and let him initiate. I dont want a relationship right away bc I dont know him that well. Let's see how it goes in person and I am willing to wait . I give him space a lot and I'm not really a clingy person.

I will keep you guys updated

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Posted by MyStarsShine

TBH he'd bore the arse off me....too predictabld. Surprise me! 🙃

I met a younger guy who chased me some and I said to him "go and chase some women your own age"'and he tells me "they're boring and you're mysterious and a bit intimidating". He then said "your hair😍" and took some of it in his hand, sniffed it and swooned 😀.

His friends told me he was in love with me......I didn't believe that for a minute but respected his approach.

He was a gorgeous guy....very sensual.....Taurus sun 😘

That's cute. My dad was like this. My mum is 7 years older and at the time they met she was 36 with two children. She said the same thing as you and his respond was " I don't like younger women. They stupid and fithy " 😂

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🙂

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From my experience, maybe it’s different for someone else but aqua guys don’t chase.. they initiate flirting and than you just draw to them like a magnet.

The aqua guy I talked too was interested and stayed interested.

He flirted

I flirted back, kept it friendly than backed off... a week or so passed by idk I forgot so I messaged him

He responded, than I asked him if he wanted to chill

He responded again but I got busy blah blah and didn’t message him back for a while

Once I did.. things progressed.

I gave him time in between of us not talking to ponder his thoughts and I guess he started wondering if I was interested or what I was doing. In reality, I’m just busy and I forget to respond.. yeah I’m bad about that shit 😂

Exactly my point . He did the exact same thing to me this aqua did to you . Was interested heavily in the beginning now he's acting awkward . Still responding to me and flirts back but runs away .

I give him time to ponder his thoughts but I think I won't talk to him until it's time to meet

What happened when you guys chilled ? Did he agree to meet ?

Oh yeah def!

It turned out to be awesome. We drank beer and talked on this upstairs open patio for hours that night then we hugged and said bye. I didn’t see him again for a month after but I didn’t freak out about it.. with time we started meeting up more until we got close and things got sexual. The connection was intense.

Now we cant be in the same room without things getting hot lol

The thing is I let him be WHO he is. Aqua man is an individual, loner in his thoughts, and enjoys knowing he can come and go. When I wouldn’t respond he knew that I had my own life and that intrigued him because it kept mystery. He would ask what I had been up too when we did meet up etc I wasn’t always messaging or on his ass. He said that when I was around he could breathe.

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Interesting . I am def learning from you . I am not that clingy but the only reason why I kept messaging him was to show him my interest . I'm pretty sure he knows I'm interested now

And who initiated the subsequent meet ups ? You or him?

What if it's the other way around ? Last time we spoke he left me on read and its been 3 days I'm just gonna back off. Should I be the one to Initiate the meet up ?

Sending 1 message every 3 days is clingy ? I basically just comment on his snapchat stories. Otherwise I hardly talk to him .

Girl I'm def not doing too much if its 1 message no ? I usually space out the message from every 3 days to evert 5 days now lol. Hes the one trying his best to get my attention in childish ways like posting stories similar to mine to see if I'd message him

One day I posted a story about a duck when i went the park. The the next morning he did the same probably wanted to see if I'd message him or something . Or just wants to know if I'm still interested .

It's weird. I feel like he acts like a mars in cancer his mars in aquarius is in the last degree :/ hes also been posting relationship pictures of hugging and stuff he never used to before even before he met me

I swear hes already attached

And who initiated the subsequent meet ups ? You or him?

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from first glance, there's a lot of positive synergy; Aquarius and capricorn have a unique understanding; both ruled by Saturn. Moon signs are trine, Mercury signs are completly off but that's not necessarily a total fail; your mercury is his moon and his mercury is your sun. When you both speak, you awaken his emotion and he awakens your ego. His lilith is conjunct your mars. This is real raw sexual attraction. His south node is conjunct your moon--soulmate territory. Your north node is his moon--soulmate territory (double whammy). Your moon is his venus, his moon is your sun sign.

**Without further investigation, and without knowing your actual birth date and chinese zodiac, this relationship has the potential to be one for the record books. My advice is play your cards correctly and adhere towards the traditional rules of dating. He's going to try and see if you're easy with the sex talk. Don't even play a little. Completely dodge it and reciprocate with your real character. Be committed to being friends. Be positive. Don't discuss personal problems in too much detail and become a buzzkill. The best relationships start out as friendships. The most lasting relationships establish respect first and foremost. Make small moments together (also, if you give in and sleep together, he might be tempted to reduce you to bragging rights to his friends at the racetrack. He could point you out sublty to his boys and describe every aching detail of what you did with him, plus exaggerations. You'll loose out on this experience, and, probably get a reputation at that racetrack that'll scare you from going back.

Do not contact him first, if he is relentless with the sex talk. Ever. When you do talk, and he is relentless, comment after comment with the sex talk after you've dodged it a lot, change the subject and recommend something really fun to do; a tour in the city, going to a theme park, etc. *Make him be friends first. If he doesn't chase after you. Be willing to walk away. He will come back, even if it takes time, because you're building it properly. And if he doesn't come back, don't worry. He'll always think about you until it affects him. Sometimes, childish guys reach out to people after they've matured, years down the line when they've "experienced what's out there, ::yeesh::" and realize you've proven worthy of respect.

**DO NOT sweat him. DO NOT be thirsty. DO NOT try and make him jealous by flirting with other guys in front of him. DO NOT have to be in a position to "explain yourself" for any reason. When you cave in and contact him, a guy's translation is you're a weak little victim who will compromise her standards in life and right now, you're willing to antee up meaningless sex to have some scraps of time with him, and that his whole "cool, race car driver" fascade he's accumulating was enough to knock you over. Your place in his life's history will be, "oh yeah, I remember that little ego boost" over drinks with his buddies from the neighborhood years from now.

Thats so true your advice hit me hard. I really needed someone to tell me this. This is the wisdom i need. I can tell maybe he's into power plays with his mars square pluto and i don't want to get into that knot.

You think i can make him be friends first ? Is it possible ? He already sees me as a sexual encounter . I'm getting discouraged but i will try my best.

should i contact him first for friendly talk ? or just back off altogether. Just clarifying. Maybe he's also trying to do the same ? Trying to see if I am interesting in him more than sex?? Because if he wanted he wouldnt have ignored me that day when i said "i wish" to when he said " come bite me"

Listen, I'm not going to get into a cycle of repeating myself. I answered every question you have. Keep rereading everything until it sinks in and you believe in yourself.

Good luck--

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Lol i like the way you talk. Very real.

Posted by hershey_messes

Yeah. I'll see how it goes . I dont get too attached easily. The hardest part is reaching his mind stimulating it

You don’t get attached easily but asked about the women on his friends list almost immediately? Your actions betray your words plus you’re doing the exact opposite of what MikeNYC advised. It’s not looking good.

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Sending 1 message every 3 days is clingy ? I basically just comment on his snapchat stories. Otherwise I hardly talk to him .

Girl I'm def not doing too much if its 1 message no ? I usually space out the message from every 3 days to evert 5 days now lol. Hes the one trying his best to get my attention in childish ways like posting stories similar to mine to see if I'd message him

One day I posted a story about a duck when i went the park. The the next morning he did the same probably wanted to see if I'd message him or something . Or just wants to know if I'm still interested .

It's weird. I feel like he acts like a mars in cancer his mars in aquarius is in the last degree :/ hes also been posting relationship pictures of hugging and stuff he never used to before even before he met me

I swear hes already attached

And who initiated the subsequent meet ups ? You or him?

You keep making things up. Quite delusional, not to be rude but you have no idea how he feels or what he thinks. Why don’t you listen to all the aquas in here telling you what it is, in addition to his actions. His actions says he isn’t interested.