Is he interested ? I'm losing myself (Page 2)

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from first glance, there's a lot of positive synergy; Aquarius and capricorn have a unique understanding; both ruled by Saturn. Moon signs are trine, Mercury signs are completly off but that's not necessarily a total fail; your mercury is his moon and his mercury is your sun. When you both speak, you awaken his emotion and he awakens your ego. His lilith is conjunct your mars. This is real raw sexual attraction. His south node is conjunct your moon--soulmate territory. Your north node is his moon--soulmate territory (double whammy). Your moon is his venus, his moon is your sun sign.

**Without further investigation, and without knowing your actual birth date and chinese zodiac, this relationship has the potential to be one for the record books. My advice is play your cards correctly and adhere towards the traditional rules of dating. He's going to try and see if you're easy with the sex talk. Don't even play a little. Completely dodge it and reciprocate with your real character. Be committed to being friends. Be positive. Don't discuss personal problems in too much detail and become a buzzkill. The best relationships start out as friendships. The most lasting relationships establish respect first and foremost. Make small moments together (also, if you give in and sleep together, he might be tempted to reduce you to bragging rights to his friends at the racetrack. He could point you out sublty to his boys and describe every aching detail of what you did with him, plus exaggerations. You'll loose out on this experience, and, probably get a reputation at that racetrack that'll scare you from going back.

Lolz i almost want to cry right now because of the amount of support I am getting. I hope you are all here when I finally meet him. Can't wait to tell you guys. you guys are the people i want to tell first 😄

Thanks so much for giving me a run down of our synastry. Makes sense why i am so drawn to him already. I'm gonna meet him somewhere that doesn't include his house and keep doing that until I can't hold back no more with the s*x.

Its gonna be hard to be friends online but I will try see if he reaches out after i back off. Last time we spoke i posted something about counselling to people who had depression due to covid and to feel free to send a message if anyone needed to talk about something and that i "don't bite". I saw he was the first one to view it and then i told him "i know i don't bite but if it was you i would " he asked me "bite where lol ? " Me: "nvm i know you'd like it" Him "come bite me"

then i said "i wish" . then he viewed my msg and didn't say anything. If he wanted he couldve continued sexting and asking for nudes. But he didnt. Mean anything or no ? we've sexted before though

You really shouldn't be giving your time away like that. I understand what this sounds like, but hear me out. Unless this donated time is going towards college credit, or counting as an internship towards a degree in socialwork, or psychology you're going for, it looks like you're a naive person who forfeits one of their most precious commodities away--time. You look like someone who doesn't value her own time or understand the value of it. A man's translation of that is a sucker who'se easy to be used (what else of her value is she too blind to see? Sex?). You have to shut down any attempt to tempt him from coming on too strong in the beginning.

Lastly, you're "not going to hold out on sex until you can't hold out any longer," You're going to hold out until there's a relationship in place, period. Until then, release just be slightly seductive. Emphasis on "slightly." If you're a tease who doesn't produce, guy lingo is "she's a little bitch." Don't be sexual if you can't produce. And your game plan is to wait. So don't be sexual. Be friendly.

That's allI got to say.

True its been a while since ive dated. That's why. I will def keep this in mind . Some of these things are refreshing my memory.

Hopefully it's not too late to change this around.

Joke off the biting comment you made. Say, "speaking of biting, what do you call someone who takes tiny bites out of human flesh? A Can-nibble." And then laugh it off. Say someone told you that corny joke which prompted you to make that silly biting comment because it was just stuck in your short term memory. Then, don't ever do it again and silently commit to building friendship.

You sound very young. Binge watch some classic comedy shows; Seinfeld, Friends, etc. have some fun little jokes to banter back and forth.

Good luck~

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Aha that was funny !! Yeah i need some new witty shows to watch. I'll keep those two in my mind. If you know any witty ones too let me know.

Thank you i will let you know how it goes. *fingers crossed* Talk to you soon

I'm mid 20's :p Not that young come on

Update : I initiated . (I know I know ) I'm learning to use the true art of humor lol

He posted a story about how hes gonna learn 5 languages by the end of quarantine .

I asked him "what languages "

Him "idk yet I'll see lol "

Me "well I speak 4 sarcasm , Harry Potter spells English and memes so...get to it "

Him "lmaoooo"

Idk sometimes I feel like hes holding back from talking to me. We will see how this goes

Posted by hershey_messes

Update : I initiated . (I know I know ) I'm learning to use the true art of humor lol

He posted a story about how hes gonna learn 5 languages by the end of quarantine .

I asked him "what languages "

Him "idk yet I'll see lol "

Me "well I speak 4 sarcasm , Harry Potter spells English and memes so...get to it "

Him "lmaoooo"

Idk sometimes I feel like hes holding back from talking to me. We will see how this goes

Aqua men.......two steps forward, one step back

I was with two......😬

Men do not like to be nagged about other girls. Especially aquas.

Sorry to interrupt, but omg can some of you read my post in the relationship forum. Because you all seem to know what youre talking about. Its the one by me of course, ,"molly94". 😂 thanks in advance

Posted by hershey_messes

Update : I initiated . (I know I know ) I'm learning to use the true art of humor lol

He posted a story about how hes gonna learn 5 languages by the end of quarantine .

I asked him "what languages "

Him "idk yet I'll see lol "

Me "well I speak 4 sarcasm , Harry Potter spells English and memes so...get to it "

Him "lmaoooo"

Idk sometimes I feel like hes holding back from talking to me. We will see how this goes

It seems like you're really into this guy.

I hope its not true but his responses are demonstrative of someone with not much interest, at the moment that is.

And if you want it to turn around and be more i would listen to the advice of some of the others, and not lead it into purely sexual thing.

I mean youre someone of value, so dont let him treat you as if you aren't.

So if you are still interested just talk about other things you like, and see what he is into. Then he may see you could potentially have something else too offer.

If not just leave him be.

😁

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Posted by MikeNYNYC

from first glance, there's a lot of positive synergy; Aquarius and capricorn have a unique understanding; both ruled by Saturn. Moon signs are trine, Mercury signs are completly off but that's not necessarily a total fail; your mercury is his moon and his mercury is your sun. When you both speak, you awaken his emotion and he awakens your ego. His lilith is conjunct your mars. This is real raw sexual attraction. His south node is conjunct your moon--soulmate territory. Your north node is his moon--soulmate territory (double whammy). Your moon is his venus, his moon is your sun sign.

**Without further investigation, and without knowing your actual birth date and chinese zodiac, this relationship has the potential to be one for the record books. My advice is play your cards correctly and adhere towards the traditional rules of dating. He's going to try and see if you're easy with the sex talk. Don't even play a little. Completely dodge it and reciprocate with your real character. Be committed to being friends. Be positive. Don't discuss personal problems in too much detail and become a buzzkill. The best relationships start out as friendships. The most lasting relationships establish respect first and foremost. Make small moments together (also, if you give in and sleep together, he might be tempted to reduce you to bragging rights to his friends at the racetrack. He could point you out sublty to his boys and describe every aching detail of what you did with him, plus exaggerations. You'll loose out on this experience, and, probably get a reputation at that racetrack that'll scare you from going back.

Lolz i almost want to cry right now because of the amount of support I am getting. I hope you are all here when I finally meet him. Can't wait to tell you guys. you guys are the people i want to tell first 😄

Thanks so much for giving me a run down of our synastry. Makes sense why i am so drawn to him already. I'm gonna meet him somewhere that doesn't include his house and keep doing that until I can't hold back no more with the s*x.

Its gonna be hard to be friends online but I will try see if he reaches out after i back off. Last time we spoke i posted something about counselling to people who had depression due to covid and to feel free to send a message if anyone needed to talk about something and that i "don't bite". I saw he was the first one to view it and then i told him "i know i don't bite but if it was you i would " he asked me "bite where lol ? " Me: "nvm i know you'd like it" Him "come bite me"

then i said "i wish" . then he viewed my msg and didn't say anything. If he wanted he couldve continued sexting and asking for nudes. But he didnt. Mean anything or no ? we've sexted before though

You really shouldn't be giving your time away like that. I understand what this sounds like, but hear me out. Unless this donated time is going towards college credit, or counting as an internship towards a degree in socialwork, or psychology you're going for, it looks like you're a naive person who forfeits one of their most precious commodities away--time. You look like someone who doesn't value her own time or understand the value of it. A man's translation of that is a sucker who'se easy to be used (what else of her value is she too blind to see? Sex?). You have to shut down any attempt to tempt him from coming on too strong in the beginning.

Lastly, you're "not going to hold out on sex until you can't hold out any longer," You're going to hold out until there's a relationship in place, period. Until then, release just be slightly seductive. Emphasis on "slightly." If you're a tease who doesn't produce, guy lingo is "she's a little bitch." Don't be sexual if you can't produce. And your game plan is to wait. So don't be sexual. Be friendly.

That's allI got to say.

True its been a while since ive dated. That's why. I will def keep this in mind . Some of these things are refreshing my memory.

Hopefully it's not too late to change this around.

Joke off the biting comment you made. Say, "speaking of biting, what do you call someone who takes tiny bites out of human flesh? A Can-nibble." And then laugh it off. Say someone told you that corny joke which prompted you to make that silly biting comment because it was just stuck in your short term memory. Then, don't ever do it again and silently commit to building friendship.

You sound very young. Binge watch some classic comedy shows; Seinfeld, Friends, etc. have some fun little jokes to banter back and forth.

Good luck~

Aha that was funny !! Yeah i need some new witty shows to watch. I'll keep those two in my mind. If you know any witty ones too let me know.

Thank you i will let you know how it goes. *fingers crossed* Talk to you soon

I'm mid 20's :p Not that young come on

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Same hereeee

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Update : I initiated . (I know I know ) I'm learning to use the true art of humor lol

He posted a story about how hes gonna learn 5 languages by the end of quarantine .

I asked him "what languages "

Him "idk yet I'll see lol "

Me "well I speak 4 sarcasm , Harry Potter spells English and memes so...get to it "

Him "lmaoooo"

Idk sometimes I feel like hes holding back from talking to me. We will see how this goes

His responses are very lacklustre. And ive had that myself before and its not exactly pleasant, i just deleted the persons after 😂. Because in this scenario it looks like youre chasing him and trying to gain his interest in you.

If you like him you like him though i guess, well you're very attracted to him, its more lust rather than like since you dont know him that well. But yeah as the others said dont lead with your sexual self😂, rewind, and start again as a person of value who has a lot to offer someone other than the sexual goods.

And if he doesn't see it and continues to give you indifferent responses, hes not the one for you. 😳

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Posted by hershey_messes

Update : I initiated . (I know I know ) I'm learning to use the true art of humor lol

He posted a story about how hes gonna learn 5 languages by the end of quarantine .

I asked him "what languages "

Him "idk yet I'll see lol "

Me "well I speak 4 sarcasm , Harry Potter spells English and memes so...get to it "

Him "lmaoooo"

Idk sometimes I feel like hes holding back from talking to me. We will see how this goes

Aqua men.......two steps forward, one step back

I was with two......😬

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Yeah I am going to expect that. It's my first time dealing with one...

I'm dealing with me one I'm surprised you dealt with two lol

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Posted by hershey_messes

Update : I initiated . (I know I know ) I'm learning to use the true art of humor lol

He posted a story about how hes gonna learn 5 languages by the end of quarantine .

I asked him "what languages "

Him "idk yet I'll see lol "

Me "well I speak 4 sarcasm , Harry Potter spells English and memes so...get to it "

Him "lmaoooo"

Idk sometimes I feel like hes holding back from talking to me. We will see how this goes

Aqua men.......two steps forward, one step back

I was with two......😬

Yeah I am going to expect that. It's my first time dealing with one...

I'm dealing with me one I'm surprised you dealt with two lol

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I often go back for seconds to make quite sure 😀

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Posted by hershey_messes

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by hershey_messes

Update : I initiated . (I know I know ) I'm learning to use the true art of humor lol

He posted a story about how hes gonna learn 5 languages by the end of quarantine .

I asked him "what languages "

Him "idk yet I'll see lol "

Me "well I speak 4 sarcasm , Harry Potter spells English and memes so...get to it "

Him "lmaoooo"

Idk sometimes I feel like hes holding back from talking to me. We will see how this goes

Aqua men.......two steps forward, one step back

I was with two......😬

Yeah I am going to expect that. It's my first time dealing with one...

I'm dealing with me one I'm surprised you dealt with two lol

I often go back for seconds to make quite sure 😀

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I'm not sure what you mean ? Sorry

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Posted by MyStarsShine

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Posted by hershey_messes

Update : I initiated . (I know I know ) I'm learning to use the true art of humor lol

He posted a story about how hes gonna learn 5 languages by the end of quarantine .

I asked him "what languages "

Him "idk yet I'll see lol "

Me "well I speak 4 sarcasm , Harry Potter spells English and memes so...get to it "

Him "lmaoooo"

Idk sometimes I feel like hes holding back from talking to me. We will see how this goes

Aqua men.......two steps forward, one step back

I was with two......😬

Yeah I am going to expect that. It's my first time dealing with one...

I'm dealing with me one I'm surprised you dealt with two lol

I often go back for seconds to make quite sure 😀

I'm not sure what you mean ? Sorry

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Lesson learned twice instead of once...

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Posted by hershey_messes

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by hershey_messes

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by hershey_messes

Update : I initiated . (I know I know ) I'm learning to use the true art of humor lol

He posted a story about how hes gonna learn 5 languages by the end of quarantine .

I asked him "what languages "

Him "idk yet I'll see lol "

Me "well I speak 4 sarcasm , Harry Potter spells English and memes so...get to it "

Him "lmaoooo"

Idk sometimes I feel like hes holding back from talking to me. We will see how this goes

Aqua men.......two steps forward, one step back

I was with two......😬

Yeah I am going to expect that. It's my first time dealing with one...

I'm dealing with me one I'm surprised you dealt with two lol

I often go back for seconds to make quite sure 😀

I'm not sure what you mean ? Sorry

Lesson learned twice instead of once...

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What did you learn lol ? Sounds intriguing

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Posted by hershey_messes

Update : I initiated . (I know I know ) I'm learning to use the true art of humor lol

He posted a story about how hes gonna learn 5 languages by the end of quarantine .

I asked him "what languages "

Him "idk yet I'll see lol "

Me "well I speak 4 sarcasm , Harry Potter spells English and memes so...get to it "

Him "lmaoooo"

Idk sometimes I feel like hes holding back from talking to me. We will see how this goes

Aqua men.......two steps forward, one step back

I was with two......😬

Yeah I am going to expect that. It's my first time dealing with one...

I'm dealing with me one I'm surprised you dealt with two lol

You are going to "expect that"? What does that mean? Your needs don't change because of the guy's sun sign, so neither should what you're okay with.

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I mean I expect hes gonna go back and forth one step fwd two steps back

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Posted by hershey_messes

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by hershey_messes

Update : I initiated . (I know I know ) I'm learning to use the true art of humor lol

He posted a story about how hes gonna learn 5 languages by the end of quarantine .

I asked him "what languages "

Him "idk yet I'll see lol "

Me "well I speak 4 sarcasm , Harry Potter spells English and memes so...get to it "

Him "lmaoooo"

Idk sometimes I feel like hes holding back from talking to me. We will see how this goes

Aqua men.......two steps forward, one step back

I was with two......😬

Yeah I am going to expect that. It's my first time dealing with one...

I'm dealing with me one I'm surprised you dealt with two lol

I often go back for seconds to make quite sure 😀

I'm not sure what you mean ? Sorry

Lesson learned twice instead of once...

What did you learn lol ? Sounds intriguing

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Incompatibility and not to get into rships with guys who can't connect emotionally...

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Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by hershey_messes

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by hershey_messes

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by hershey_messes

Update : I initiated . (I know I know ) I'm learning to use the true art of humor lol

He posted a story about how hes gonna learn 5 languages by the end of quarantine .

I asked him "what languages "

Him "idk yet I'll see lol "

Me "well I speak 4 sarcasm , Harry Potter spells English and memes so...get to it "

Him "lmaoooo"

Idk sometimes I feel like hes holding back from talking to me. We will see how this goes

Aqua men.......two steps forward, one step back

I was with two......😬

Yeah I am going to expect that. It's my first time dealing with one...

I'm dealing with me one I'm surprised you dealt with two lol

I often go back for seconds to make quite sure 😀

I'm not sure what you mean ? Sorry

Lesson learned twice instead of once...

What did you learn lol ? Sounds intriguing

Incompatibility and not to get into rships with guys who can't connect emotionally...

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True but I'm not emotional unless I'm on my period lol. As for incompatibility I learn with time what hes like and the only thing weird rn is him not doing much chasing ...I learned not to expect much chasing from an aquarius guy in the beginning

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Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by hershey_messes

Update : I initiated . (I know I know ) I'm learning to use the true art of humor lol

He posted a story about how hes gonna learn 5 languages by the end of quarantine .

I asked him "what languages "

Him "idk yet I'll see lol "

Me "well I speak 4 sarcasm , Harry Potter spells English and memes so...get to it "

Him "lmaoooo"

Idk sometimes I feel like hes holding back from talking to me. We will see how this goes

Aqua men.......two steps forward, one step back

I was with two......😬

Yeah I am going to expect that. It's my first time dealing with one...

I'm dealing with me one I'm surprised you dealt with two lol

I often go back for seconds to make quite sure 😀

I'm not sure what you mean ? Sorry

Lesson learned twice instead of once...

What did you learn lol ? Sounds intriguing

Incompatibility and not to get into rships with guys who can't connect emotionally...

True but I'm not emotional unless I'm on my period lol. As for incompatibility I learn with time what hes like and the only thing weird rn is him not doing much chasing ...I learned not to expect much chasing from an aquarius guy in the beginning

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You need an Aries for chasing 🔥🔥🔥🔥

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Posted by hershey_messes

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by hershey_messes

Update : I initiated . (I know I know ) I'm learning to use the true art of humor lol

He posted a story about how hes gonna learn 5 languages by the end of quarantine .

I asked him "what languages "

Him "idk yet I'll see lol "

Me "well I speak 4 sarcasm , Harry Potter spells English and memes so...get to it "

Him "lmaoooo"

Idk sometimes I feel like hes holding back from talking to me. We will see how this goes

Aqua men.......two steps forward, one step back

I was with two......😬

Yeah I am going to expect that. It's my first time dealing with one...

I'm dealing with me one I'm surprised you dealt with two lol

I often go back for seconds to make quite sure 😀

I'm not sure what you mean ? Sorry

Lesson learned twice instead of once...

What did you learn lol ? Sounds intriguing

Incompatibility and not to get into rships with guys who can't connect emotionally...

True but I'm not emotional unless I'm on my period lol. As for incompatibility I learn with time what hes like and the only thing weird rn is him not doing much chasing ...I learned not to expect much chasing from an aquarius guy in the beginning

You need an Aries for chasing 🔥🔥🔥🔥

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His venus is in Aries...does that count ? His moon is in Sag but Mars in Aqua with Virgo rising mercury in capricorn

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Update : I initiated . (I know I know ) I'm learning to use the true art of humor lol

He posted a story about how hes gonna learn 5 languages by the end of quarantine .

I asked him "what languages "

Him "idk yet I'll see lol "

Me "well I speak 4 sarcasm , Harry Potter spells English and memes so...get to it "

Him "lmaoooo"

Idk sometimes I feel like hes holding back from talking to me. We will see how this goes

Aqua men.......two steps forward, one step back

I was with two......😬

Yeah I am going to expect that. It's my first time dealing with one...

I'm dealing with me one I'm surprised you dealt with two lol

I often go back for seconds to make quite sure 😀

I'm not sure what you mean ? Sorry

Lesson learned twice instead of once...

What did you learn lol ? Sounds intriguing

Incompatibility and not to get into rships with guys who can't connect emotionally...

True but I'm not emotional unless I'm on my period lol. As for incompatibility I learn with time what hes like and the only thing weird rn is him not doing much chasing ...I learned not to expect much chasing from an aquarius guy in the beginning

You need an Aries for chasing 🔥🔥🔥🔥

His venus is in Aries...does that count ? His moon is in Sag but Mars in Aqua with Virgo rising mercury in capricorn

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Venus in Aries like sexy fun loving women .... Mars in Aqua can be kinky lol. He would look for an exciting love life...

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Update : I initiated . (I know I know ) I'm learning to use the true art of humor lol

He posted a story about how hes gonna learn 5 languages by the end of quarantine .

I asked him "what languages "

Him "idk yet I'll see lol "

Me "well I speak 4 sarcasm , Harry Potter spells English and memes so...get to it "

Him "lmaoooo"

Idk sometimes I feel like hes holding back from talking to me. We will see how this goes

Aqua men.......two steps forward, one step back

I was with two......😬

Yeah I am going to expect that. It's my first time dealing with one...

I'm dealing with me one I'm surprised you dealt with two lol

I often go back for seconds to make quite sure 😀

I'm not sure what you mean ? Sorry

Lesson learned twice instead of once...

What did you learn lol ? Sounds intriguing

Incompatibility and not to get into rships with guys who can't connect emotionally...

True but I'm not emotional unless I'm on my period lol. As for incompatibility I learn with time what hes like and the only thing weird rn is him not doing much chasing ...I learned not to expect much chasing from an aquarius guy in the beginning

You need an Aries for chasing 🔥🔥🔥🔥

His venus is in Aries...does that count ? His moon is in Sag but Mars in Aqua with Virgo rising mercury in capricorn

Venus in Aries like sexy fun loving women .... Mars in Aqua can be kinky lol. He would look for an exciting love life...

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My moon is in aries . I like fun tbh I dont like seriousness all the time . Lmao i think that's what he wants ....exciting love

Minor update :

The other day I posted a story about how I have been a long time lebron James fan. Last night he posted about lebron james may have a good strategy on the court but hes still not the goat

Lolllll. As you can see he wants to talk to me but doesnt wanna start the convo . Why are aquarius dudes like this...not used to it

I said lebron was MY goat and hes like "i'll be YOUR goat once you get this d*" Lol hes trying with the s*x talk guys

then i asked "you like sexting eh? '

hes like "thats the only thing we can do rn"

then he asked me "what you up to right now ? "

I just told him im reading and thats it lol

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Minor update :

The other day I posted a story about how I have been a long time lebron James fan. Last night he posted about lebron james may have a good strategy on the court but hes still not the goat

Lolllll. As you can see he wants to talk to me but doesnt wanna start the convo . Why are aquarius dudes like this...not used to it

I said lebron was MY goat and hes like "i'll be YOUR goat once you get this d*" Lol hes trying with the s*x talk guys

then i asked "you like sexting eh? '

hes like "thats the only thing we can do rn"

then he asked me "what you up to right now ? "

I just told him im reading and thats it lol

He just wants sex. Are you okay with that?

Aqua men make really nice fwb btw

sure but i dont want to be treated with disrespect. I want to be treated like a friend too

Should I drop him and see what he does ? Or just straight up ask him what he's looking for ?

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sure but i dont want to be treated with disrespect. I want to be treated like a friend too

Should I drop him and see what he does ? Or just straight up ask him what he's looking for ?

If you stop talking to him, I doubt he will chase you. Aquas have big egos. Even when they like you ALOT, they really don’t chase.



Just ask him what he’s looking for. He will definitely tell you the truth, be prepared for that and take it for what it is. The more important question you should be asking yourself and focusing on is what you want?

So i asked him what he's looking for. He said "i'm going with the flow, I don't want to put labels on anything yet. What about you? "

He said he doesn't want to put labels because then there's pressure. I think he's saying that because he knows I've been hurt before and he doesnt want to make me feel caged ?

That sounds about right.

Don’t be shy. Or too inclined to his suggestions. Tell him exactly what you are looking for.

If you don’t know what to say. I would respond by saying something like I’m interested in dating, friendship and something that would lead to a relationship. That way your covering all grounds but not sounding like your down for whatever or desperate to just jump in a relationship

Posted by CreativeCap

That sounds about right.

Don’t be shy. Or too inclined to his suggestions. Tell him exactly what you are looking for.

If you don’t know what to say. I would respond by saying something like I’m interested in dating, friendship and something that would lead to a relationship. That way your covering all grounds but not sounding like your down for whatever or desperate to just jump in a relationship

Thanks dear. Makes sense. I am very straight up

Also I told him if we have sex straight away it messes up the natural flow he's like "no actually if anything it makes things better lol. But dw we will chill first we're not gonna start right away"

He seems pretty desperate himself. He's also desperate to keep sexting too. Driving me nuts lol

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Posted by CreativeCap

That sounds about right.

Don’t be shy. Or too inclined to his suggestions. Tell him exactly what you are looking for.

If you don’t know what to say. I would respond by saying something like I’m interested in dating, friendship and something that would lead to a relationship. That way your covering all grounds but not sounding like your down for whatever or desperate to just jump in a relationship

Thanks dear. Makes sense. I am very straight up

Also I told him if we have sex straight away it messes up the natural flow he's like "no actually if anything it makes things better lol"

He seems pretty desperate himself

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He is definitely a player and doesn’t even try to hide it. I wouldn’t get my hopes up to high with this one

Just make sure he knows he needs to make an effort to get with you. Aquas like challenges too just like caps. Keep that in mind. Don’t let his terms supersede yours.

So far he said he's not seeing anyone else.

Thank you for your response and advise

Guys so he tried to get me to send him a sexy pic. But I said no I'm busy with my fam. Plus I dont wanna have sex with u right away I know that will happen if i send you sexy pics . Then hes like no def not we will chill first

Then we were teasing each other he disappeared and said "i just showered"

Idk maybe he was testing me to see how easy I'd be ? Lol

Then I asked him if he came ?

Now hes like "guess you'll never know since u didnt send something "

I dont care tbh im.glad I didnt give in because I know hes still interested

And now I'll see if hes truly interested

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Guys so he tried to get me to send him a sexy pic. But I said no I'm busy with my fam. Plus I dont wanna have sex with u right away I know that will happen if i send you sexy pics . Then hes like no def not we will chill first

Then we were teasing each other he disappeared and said "i just showered"

Idk maybe he was testing me to see how easy I'd be ? Lol

Then I asked him if he came ?

Now hes like "guess you'll never know since u didnt send something "

I dont care tbh im.glad I didnt give in because I know hes still interested

And now I'll see if hes truly interested

Why do you even care or even keep talking about or mentioning sexual activities with him?

At this point its quite obvious hes a sleaze and thats all he wants. If youre just as much of a creep go for it. But ig you have self respect, keep walking

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Guys so he tried to get me to send him a sexy pic. But I said no I'm busy with my fam. Plus I dont wanna have sex with u right away I know that will happen if i send you sexy pics . Then hes like no def not we will chill first

Then we were teasing each other he disappeared and said "i just showered"

Idk maybe he was testing me to see how easy I'd be ? Lol

Then I asked him if he came ?

Now hes like "guess you'll never know since u didnt send something "

I dont care tbh im.glad I didnt give in because I know hes still interested

And now I'll see if hes truly interested

Hes not truly interested. If he was he would message you more often and not keep talking about one thing

Move on with some dignity and find someone else before you fall in to his trap and become just a number. 😒

Wow two fire moons no wonder you hit it off and connected so well. The moon is our inner selves our mysterious dark side.

Wow two fire moons no wonder you hit it off and connected so well. The moon is our inner selves our mysterious dark side.

Yeah. I'll see how it goes . I dont get too attached easily. The hardest part is reaching his mind stimulating it

TBH he'd bore the arse off me....too predictabld. Surprise me! 🙃

I met a younger guy who chased me some and I said to him "go and chase some women your own age"'and he tells me "they're boring and you're mysterious and a bit intimidating". He then said "your hair😍" and took some of it in his hand, sniffed it and swooned 😀.

His friends told me he was in love with me......I didn't believe that for a minute but respected his approach.

He was a gorgeous guy....very sensual.....Taurus sun 😘

I’d be careful with aquas. What they say can be different from what they do. And how they act in the heat of the moment can be very different than what the truly want. From my experience, they get excited with ideas and fantasy, but they struggle to connect emotionally and avoid those feelings by creating space when it gets overwhelming. They are a free spirit and need someone that is also a free spirit. Freedom and open relationships is their preference.

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Posted by hershey_messes

Yeah. I'll see how it goes . I dont get too attached easily. The hardest part is reaching his mind stimulating it

I'm an aqua and I was with an aqua for 5 years. Lol

As far as sexting and being fwb, I've done it with him but it ultimately led to a relationship. It's very hard to explain but as far as sexting and flirting it needs to be natural. Not inhibited. After all aquas don't like boundaries. But you have to just give enough to keep him coming back until he just wants you and you only. I don't remember how I did it back then but I was a massive flirt. 😂 And all te other fwb I had (I had an aqua, a gem and a Libra) ended up wanting to commit as well. I don't send nudes. I just tease. They want to play, I play but they never really got anything from me.

If he says the word "d***" to you, tell him you don't like how it sounds and tell him u wanna call it somethingelse that's just between the two of you. If he tells you he just showered, ask him if it was hard. And he might say it was. And just say it was hard to shower—? How come? Lol. Just. Tease. And if he really gets frisky with messages tell him you're saving his messages for later use when you really really need it and can't hold off. Then say goodnight. I dunno but it worked out for me quite well. And when I'm not in the mood, I just respond with YAWN. then the guy just starts asking why I'm not interested and I'd just say I'm not in the mood for sextalk today. Any other interesting topics? The guy will try to talk about something or ask you something not sex related and it's your opportunity to show how interesting you are as a person behind all the teasing. He might try to get back to the sex talk but just say, I'm not really in the mood. Maybe tomorrow? For now I need something more stimulating. 😂

I was rambling isn't it? 😂 But I wanted to share how it worked out for me. Ahhh the good old days. Even my husband who is an air sign likes the tease somedays and we've been married for a while now and have kids. Lol 😂

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Haha you really were good at it. I might need to sharpen my skills

No not rambling at all. I liked reading what you wrote . Very interesting

Lol "YAWN"

And how did they ending up wanting to commit ? You stayed aloof ? Nothing affectionate at all ?

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TBH he'd bore the arse off me....too predictabld. Surprise me! 🙃

I met a younger guy who chased me some and I said to him "go and chase some women your own age"'and he tells me "they're boring and you're mysterious and a bit intimidating". He then said "your hair😍" and took some of it in his hand, sniffed it and swooned 😀.

His friends told me he was in love with me......I didn't believe that for a minute but respected his approach.

He was a gorgeous guy....very sensual.....Taurus sun 😘

I noticed he likes mature looking girls who have some sex appeal and are mysterious

Aha did you end updating him ?

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Posted by hershey_messes

Yeah. I'll see how it goes . I dont get too attached easily. The hardest part is reaching his mind stimulating it

Please tell me his name isn't Marky and he's not Australian. 😂 Coz he sounds like the Aqua who was my ex fwb from years ago. But then he's like mid 30's now. Omg. Lol

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No hes not lol. How did yours go ?

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Posted by MyStarsShine

TBH he'd bore the arse off me....too predictabld. Surprise me! 🙃

I met a younger guy who chased me some and I said to him "go and chase some women your own age"'and he tells me "they're boring and you're mysterious and a bit intimidating". He then said "your hair😍" and took some of it in his hand, sniffed it and swooned 😀.

His friends told me he was in love with me......I didn't believe that for a minute but respected his approach.

He was a gorgeous guy....very sensual.....Taurus sun 😘

I noticed he likes mature looking girls who have some sex appeal and are mysterious

Aha did you end updating him ?

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No, but did like his approach......not too obvious unlike the guy you're interested in......i wonder why a lot of men don't learn to be more creative and intelligent with women...instead of diving into the obvious sex thing 🙄

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Posted by hershey_messes

Yeah. I'll see how it goes . I dont get too attached easily. The hardest part is reaching his mind stimulating it

I'm an aqua and I was with an aqua for 5 years. Lol

As far as sexting and being fwb, I've done it with him but it ultimately led to a relationship. It's very hard to explain but as far as sexting and flirting it needs to be natural. Not inhibited. After all aquas don't like boundaries. But you have to just give enough to keep him coming back until he just wants you and you only. I don't remember how I did it back then but I was a massive flirt. 😂 And all te other fwb I had (I had an aqua, a gem and a Libra) ended up wanting to commit as well. I don't send nudes. I just tease. They want to play, I play but they never really got anything from me.

If he says the word "d***" to you, tell him you don't like how it sounds and tell him u wanna call it somethingelse that's just between the two of you. If he tells you he just showered, ask him if it was hard. And he might say it was. And just say it was hard to shower—? How come? Lol. Just. Tease. And if he really gets frisky with messages tell him you're saving his messages for later use when you really really need it and can't hold off. Then say goodnight. I dunno but it worked out for me quite well. And when I'm not in the mood, I just respond with YAWN. then the guy just starts asking why I'm not interested and I'd just say I'm not in the mood for sextalk today. Any other interesting topics? The guy will try to talk about something or ask you something not sex related and it's your opportunity to show how interesting you are as a person behind all the teasing. He might try to get back to the sex talk but just say, I'm not really in the mood. Maybe tomorrow? For now I need something more stimulating. 😂

I was rambling isn't it? 😂 But I wanted to share how it worked out for me. Ahhh the good old days. Even my husband who is an air sign likes the tease somedays and we've been married for a while now and have kids. Lol 😂

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Looks like youve been around the block (and back again), and you had the guts to insult m3 on my own thread when ive not even once had a fwb or a proper relationship, lol!!!! Funny.

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Posted by 7thHouse

Posted by hershey_messes

Yeah. I'll see how it goes . I dont get too attached easily. The hardest part is reaching his mind stimulating it

I'm an aqua and I was with an aqua for 5 years. Lol

As far as sexting and being fwb, I've done it with him but it ultimately led to a relationship. It's very hard to explain but as far as sexting and flirting it needs to be natural. Not inhibited. After all aquas don't like boundaries. But you have to just give enough to keep him coming back until he just wants you and you only. I don't remember how I did it back then but I was a massive flirt. 😂 And all te other fwb I had (I had an aqua, a gem and a Libra) ended up wanting to commit as well. I don't send nudes. I just tease. They want to play, I play but they never really got anything from me.

If he says the word "d***" to you, tell him you don't like how it sounds and tell him u wanna call it somethingelse that's just between the two of you. If he tells you he just showered, ask him if it was hard. And he might say it was. And just say it was hard to shower—? How come? Lol. Just. Tease. And if he really gets frisky with messages tell him you're saving his messages for later use when you really really need it and can't hold off. Then say goodnight. I dunno but it worked out for me quite well. And when I'm not in the mood, I just respond with YAWN. then the guy just starts asking why I'm not interested and I'd just say I'm not in the mood for sextalk today. Any other interesting topics? The guy will try to talk about something or ask you something not sex related and it's your opportunity to show how interesting you are as a person behind all the teasing. He might try to get back to the sex talk but just say, I'm not really in the mood. Maybe tomorrow? For now I need something more stimulating. 😂

I was rambling isn't it? 😂 But I wanted to share how it worked out for me. Ahhh the good old days. Even my husband who is an air sign likes the tease somedays and we've been married for a while now and have kids. Lol 😂

Looks like youve been around the block (and back again), and you had the guts to insult m3 on my own thread when ive not even once had a fwb or a proper relationship, lol!!!! Funny.

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Sorry, no one under 18 is allowed on these forums .

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Posted by molly94

Posted by 7thHouse

Posted by hershey_messes

Yeah. I'll see how it goes . I dont get too attached easily. The hardest part is reaching his mind stimulating it

I'm an aqua and I was with an aqua for 5 years. Lol

As far as sexting and being fwb, I've done it with him but it ultimately led to a relationship. It's very hard to explain but as far as sexting and flirting it needs to be natural. Not inhibited. After all aquas don't like boundaries. But you have to just give enough to keep him coming back until he just wants you and you only. I don't remember how I did it back then but I was a massive flirt. 😂 And all te other fwb I had (I had an aqua, a gem and a Libra) ended up wanting to commit as well. I don't send nudes. I just tease. They want to play, I play but they never really got anything from me.

If he says the word "d***" to you, tell him you don't like how it sounds and tell him u wanna call it somethingelse that's just between the two of you. If he tells you he just showered, ask him if it was hard. And he might say it was. And just say it was hard to shower—? How come? Lol. Just. Tease. And if he really gets frisky with messages tell him you're saving his messages for later use when you really really need it and can't hold off. Then say goodnight. I dunno but it worked out for me quite well. And when I'm not in the mood, I just respond with YAWN. then the guy just starts asking why I'm not interested and I'd just say I'm not in the mood for sextalk today. Any other interesting topics? The guy will try to talk about something or ask you something not sex related and it's your opportunity to show how interesting you are as a person behind all the teasing. He might try to get back to the sex talk but just say, I'm not really in the mood. Maybe tomorrow? For now I need something more stimulating. 😂

I was rambling isn't it? 😂 But I wanted to share how it worked out for me. Ahhh the good old days. Even my husband who is an air sign likes the tease somedays and we've been married for a while now and have kids. Lol 😂

Looks like youve been around the block (and back again), and you had the guts to insult m3 on my own thread when ive not even once had a fwb or a proper relationship, lol!!!! Funny.

Sorry, no one under 18 is allowed on these forums .

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Howw sad

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Posted by 7thHouse

Posted by hershey_messes

Yeah. I'll see how it goes . I dont get too attached easily. The hardest part is reaching his mind stimulating it

I'm an aqua and I was with an aqua for 5 years. Lol

As far as sexting and being fwb, I've done it with him but it ultimately led to a relationship. It's very hard to explain but as far as sexting and flirting it needs to be natural. Not inhibited. After all aquas don't like boundaries. But you have to just give enough to keep him coming back until he just wants you and you only. I don't remember how I did it back then but I was a massive flirt. 😂 And all te other fwb I had (I had an aqua, a gem and a Libra) ended up wanting to commit as well. I don't send nudes. I just tease. They want to play, I play but they never really got anything from me.

If he says the word "d***" to you, tell him you don't like how it sounds and tell him u wanna call it somethingelse that's just between the two of you. If he tells you he just showered, ask him if it was hard. And he might say it was. And just say it was hard to shower—? How come? Lol. Just. Tease. And if he really gets frisky with messages tell him you're saving his messages for later use when you really really need it and can't hold off. Then say goodnight. I dunno but it worked out for me quite well. And when I'm not in the mood, I just respond with YAWN. then the guy just starts asking why I'm not interested and I'd just say I'm not in the mood for sextalk today. Any other interesting topics? The guy will try to talk about something or ask you something not sex related and it's your opportunity to show how interesting you are as a person behind all the teasing. He might try to get back to the sex talk but just say, I'm not really in the mood. Maybe tomorrow? For now I need something more stimulating. 😂

I was rambling isn't it? 😂 But I wanted to share how it worked out for me. Ahhh the good old days. Even my husband who is an air sign likes the tease somedays and we've been married for a while now and have kids. Lol 😂

Looks like youve been around the block (and back again), and you had the guts to insult m3 on my own thread when ive not even once had a fwb or a proper relationship, lol!!!! Funny.

Oh and YES I HAVE THE GUTS TO INSULT YOU. I will insult you if I want and when I want. You started it by saying "shut up woman!" when I did not say what you wanted to hear. You are a very disrespectful person to so many people on here. It wasn't just towards me. You were spewing lies and being defensive and arguing with several users on here. You're such a loser.

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Huh. Calm down drama queen. Did you even read what you wrote first or you just on something?

I give respect to people who earn my respect. And even so despite how u acted i was still tolerating you

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Posted by 7thHouse

Posted by hershey_messes

Yeah. I'll see how it goes . I dont get too attached easily. The hardest part is reaching his mind stimulating it

I'm an aqua and I was with an aqua for 5 years. Lol

As far as sexting and being fwb, I've done it with him but it ultimately led to a relationship. It's very hard to explain but as far as sexting and flirting it needs to be natural. Not inhibited. After all aquas don't like boundaries. But you have to just give enough to keep him coming back until he just wants you and you only. I don't remember how I did it back then but I was a massive flirt. 😂 And all te other fwb I had (I had an aqua, a gem and a Libra) ended up wanting to commit as well. I don't send nudes. I just tease. They want to play, I play but they never really got anything from me.

If he says the word "d***" to you, tell him you don't like how it sounds and tell him u wanna call it somethingelse that's just between the two of you. If he tells you he just showered, ask him if it was hard. And he might say it was. And just say it was hard to shower—? How come? Lol. Just. Tease. And if he really gets frisky with messages tell him you're saving his messages for later use when you really really need it and can't hold off. Then say goodnight. I dunno but it worked out for me quite well. And when I'm not in the mood, I just respond with YAWN. then the guy just starts asking why I'm not interested and I'd just say I'm not in the mood for sextalk today. Any other interesting topics? The guy will try to talk about something or ask you something not sex related and it's your opportunity to show how interesting you are as a person behind all the teasing. He might try to get back to the sex talk but just say, I'm not really in the mood. Maybe tomorrow? For now I need something more stimulating. 😂

I was rambling isn't it? 😂 But I wanted to share how it worked out for me. Ahhh the good old days. Even my husband who is an air sign likes the tease somedays and we've been married for a while now and have kids. Lol 😂

Looks like youve been around the block (and back again), and you had the guts to insult m3 on my own thread when ive not even once had a fwb or a proper relationship, lol!!!! Funny.

Sorry, no one under 18 is allowed on these forums .

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Says the girl who has the logic of an 18 year old or less.

That guy is blatently wanting one thing with you. And i was trying to be nice by saying walk away from it. Shouldn't have bothered. Go for it !!!! Chase him to the ends of the earth. Get your leg over and let him dump you.

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Posted by hershey_messes

Yeah. I'll see how it goes . I dont get too attached easily. The hardest part is reaching his mind stimulating it

I'm an aqua and I was with an aqua for 5 years. Lol

As far as sexting and being fwb, I've done it with him but it ultimately led to a relationship. It's very hard to explain but as far as sexting and flirting it needs to be natural. Not inhibited. After all aquas don't like boundaries. But you have to just give enough to keep him coming back until he just wants you and you only. I don't remember how I did it back then but I was a massive flirt. 😂 And all te other fwb I had (I had an aqua, a gem and a Libra) ended up wanting to commit as well. I don't send nudes. I just tease. They want to play, I play but they never really got anything from me.

If he says the word "d***" to you, tell him you don't like how it sounds and tell him u wanna call it somethingelse that's just between the two of you. If he tells you he just showered, ask him if it was hard. And he might say it was. And just say it was hard to shower—? How come? Lol. Just. Tease. And if he really gets frisky with messages tell him you're saving his messages for later use when you really really need it and can't hold off. Then say goodnight. I dunno but it worked out for me quite well. And when I'm not in the mood, I just respond with YAWN. then the guy just starts asking why I'm not interested and I'd just say I'm not in the mood for sextalk today. Any other interesting topics? The guy will try to talk about something or ask you something not sex related and it's your opportunity to show how interesting you are as a person behind all the teasing. He might try to get back to the sex talk but just say, I'm not really in the mood. Maybe tomorrow? For now I need something more stimulating. 😂

I was rambling isn't it? 😂 But I wanted to share how it worked out for me. Ahhh the good old days. Even my husband who is an air sign likes the tease somedays and we've been married for a while now and have kids. Lol 😂

Looks like youve been around the block (and back again), and you had the guts to insult m3 on my own thread when ive not even once had a fwb or a proper relationship, lol!!!! Funny.

Oh and YES I HAVE THE GUTS TO INSULT YOU. I will insult you if I want and when I want. You started it by saying "shut up woman!" when I did not say what you wanted to hear. You are a very disrespectful person to so many people on here. It wasn't just towards me. You were spewing lies and being defensive and arguing with several users on here. You're such a loser.

Huh. Calm down drama queen. Did you even read what you wrote first or you just on something?

I give respect to people who earn my respect. And even so despite how u acted i was still tolerating you

Well didn't you get the gist when I did not respond to you anymore in your thread? I don't need to earn your respect. You're not that special. Tolerating me— Lol. Just lol. You're actually the drama queen. Do you actually think I need you? Why are you even here? You also begged people on a thread to go look at your thread as you needed advise and then you didn't hear what you wanted from some people so you got defensive and started arguing. Are you for real? No one wanted to talk to you anymore. That's why people stopped responding to your thread. Your need for attention is unbelievable. But sorry to say, you don't have what it takes to get a conversation going. You're not very interesting. So find someone else to talk to. Kthanksbye.

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I wasnt arguing with no one. Just the special cases.

There were actually some decent people on the thread, who i responded to in a polite manner, since they know how to conduct themselves.

For a 40 something year old you should know better.

Kthanks bye

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Posted by hershey_messes

Yeah. I'll see how it goes . I dont get too attached easily. The hardest part is reaching his mind stimulating it

I'm an aqua and I was with an aqua for 5 years. Lol

As far as sexting and being fwb, I've done it with him but it ultimately led to a relationship. It's very hard to explain but as far as sexting and flirting it needs to be natural. Not inhibited. After all aquas don't like boundaries. But you have to just give enough to keep him coming back until he just wants you and you only. I don't remember how I did it back then but I was a massive flirt. 😂 And all te other fwb I had (I had an aqua, a gem and a Libra) ended up wanting to commit as well. I don't send nudes. I just tease. They want to play, I play but they never really got anything from me.

If he says the word "d***" to you, tell him you don't like how it sounds and tell him u wanna call it somethingelse that's just between the two of you. If he tells you he just showered, ask him if it was hard. And he might say it was. And just say it was hard to shower—? How come? Lol. Just. Tease. And if he really gets frisky with messages tell him you're saving his messages for later use when you really really need it and can't hold off. Then say goodnight. I dunno but it worked out for me quite well. And when I'm not in the mood, I just respond with YAWN. then the guy just starts asking why I'm not interested and I'd just say I'm not in the mood for sextalk today. Any other interesting topics? The guy will try to talk about something or ask you something not sex related and it's your opportunity to show how interesting you are as a person behind all the teasing. He might try to get back to the sex talk but just say, I'm not really in the mood. Maybe tomorrow? For now I need something more stimulating. 😂

I was rambling isn't it? 😂 But I wanted to share how it worked out for me. Ahhh the good old days. Even my husband who is an air sign likes the tease somedays and we've been married for a while now and have kids. Lol 😂

Looks like youve been around the block (and back again), and you had the guts to insult m3 on my own thread when ive not even once had a fwb or a proper relationship, lol!!!! Funny.

Oh and YES I HAVE THE GUTS TO INSULT YOU. I will insult you if I want and when I want. You started it by saying "shut up woman!" when I did not say what you wanted to hear. You are a very disrespectful person to so many people on here. It wasn't just towards me. You were spewing lies and being defensive and arguing with several users on here. You're such a loser.

Huh. Calm down drama queen. Did you even read what you wrote first or you just on something?

I give respect to people who earn my respect. And even so despite how u acted i was still tolerating you

Well didn't you get the gist when I did not respond to you anymore in your thread? I don't need to earn your respect. You're not that special. Tolerating me— Lol. Just lol. You're actually the drama queen. Do you actually think I need you? Why are you even here? You also begged people on a thread to go look at your thread as you needed advise and then you didn't hear what you wanted from some people so you got defensive and started arguing. Are you for real? No one wanted to talk to you anymore. That's why people stopped responding to your thread. Your need for attention is unbelievable. But sorry to say, you don't have what it takes to get a conversation going. You're not very interesting. So find someone else to talk to. Kthanksbye.

I wasnt arguing with no one. Just the special cases.

There were actually some decent people on the thread, who i responded to in a polite manner, since they know how to conduct themselves.

For a 40 something year old you should know better.

Kthanks bye

WRONG. I'm not even 40 lol stupid bitch.

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10 years older than me at least.

Lol can dish plenty out but cant take it. I think we know who the real witch with a b is.

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Yeah. I'll see how it goes . I dont get too attached easily. The hardest part is reaching his mind stimulating it

I'm an aqua and I was with an aqua for 5 years. Lol

As far as sexting and being fwb, I've done it with him but it ultimately led to a relationship. It's very hard to explain but as far as sexting and flirting it needs to be natural. Not inhibited. After all aquas don't like boundaries. But you have to just give enough to keep him coming back until he just wants you and you only. I don't remember how I did it back then but I was a massive flirt. 😂 And all te other fwb I had (I had an aqua, a gem and a Libra) ended up wanting to commit as well. I don't send nudes. I just tease. They want to play, I play but they never really got anything from me.

If he says the word "d***" to you, tell him you don't like how it sounds and tell him u wanna call it somethingelse that's just between the two of you. If he tells you he just showered, ask him if it was hard. And he might say it was. And just say it was hard to shower—? How come? Lol. Just. Tease. And if he really gets frisky with messages tell him you're saving his messages for later use when you really really need it and can't hold off. Then say goodnight. I dunno but it worked out for me quite well. And when I'm not in the mood, I just respond with YAWN. then the guy just starts asking why I'm not interested and I'd just say I'm not in the mood for sextalk today. Any other interesting topics? The guy will try to talk about something or ask you something not sex related and it's your opportunity to show how interesting you are as a person behind all the teasing. He might try to get back to the sex talk but just say, I'm not really in the mood. Maybe tomorrow? For now I need something more stimulating. 😂

I was rambling isn't it? 😂 But I wanted to share how it worked out for me. Ahhh the good old days. Even my husband who is an air sign likes the tease somedays and we've been married for a while now and have kids. Lol 😂

Looks like youve been around the block (and back again), and you had the guts to insult m3 on my own thread when ive not even once had a fwb or a proper relationship, lol!!!! Funny.

Oh and YES I HAVE THE GUTS TO INSULT YOU. I will insult you if I want and when I want. You started it by saying "shut up woman!" when I did not say what you wanted to hear. You are a very disrespectful person to so many people on here. It wasn't just towards me. You were spewing lies and being defensive and arguing with several users on here. You're such a loser.

Huh. Calm down drama queen. Did you even read what you wrote first or you just on something?

I give respect to people who earn my respect. And even so despite how u acted i was still tolerating you

Well didn't you get the gist when I did not respond to you anymore in your thread? I don't need to earn your respect. You're not that special. Tolerating me— Lol. Just lol. You're actually the drama queen. Do you actually think I need you? Why are you even here? You also begged people on a thread to go look at your thread as you needed advise and then you didn't hear what you wanted from some people so you got defensive and started arguing. Are you for real? No one wanted to talk to you anymore. That's why people stopped responding to your thread. Your need for attention is unbelievable. But sorry to say, you don't have what it takes to get a conversation going. You're not very interesting. So find someone else to talk to. Kthanksbye.

I wasnt arguing with no one. Just the special cases.

There were actually some decent people on the thread, who i responded to in a polite manner, since they know how to conduct themselves.

For a 40 something year old you should know better.

Kthanks bye

WRONG. I'm not even 40 lol stupid bitch.

10 years older than me at least.

Lol can dish plenty out but cant take it. I think we know who the real witch with a b is.

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Leave child. Stop arguing on my thread . Go on reddit or some other kiddie thread. I'm here to discuss

Update: I think now the drama settled down on this thread lol. I'm here with a minor update for those who are following.

So I found his twitter, lately he has posting things like "state your intentions so i can act accordingly". Also things like "if two people really want to they can make it work" . Then he "liked" a post in which it was a video of tekashi 69 (a celeb) drinking alcohol and it said "when you don't miss the person you cut off but you still got love for them" Lol it was the other Leo girl who was obsessed with him. She basically tried locking him down in a relationship and he didn't like that

I'm guessing the other 2 tweets were related to me. I dont know how to act because he never texts me first yet when i message him he responds right away. And last time i messaged him goodnight with a yellow heart. I deleted it because he didnt respond so i sent a plain "goodnight" Lol

I'll keep you posted guys