taurusgirl9000
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My bf's ex
Posted by Smidge@smidge I've got an Aries Venus, so you know that's what I am thinking...
Oh fuck no!
I'd drop him immediately.
Posted by taurusgirl9000You are a placeholder until she comes back or something "better" comes along. So sorry to hear 😢
So I have been with this Aqua for about a year now. I know that his ex gf is extremely attractive. I only know because he has shown me pictures of her before. Without my asking, he has told me a lot about their relationship and the things that they did. They broke up only because she had to move to another country for work. Recently she has moved back but is living in a different city a few hours away. They were together for about two years but it seems like this was the longest relationship he has ever had.
At dinner last night, we somehow started talking about her. I really can't remember how. At one point he said, "She was so... exuberant. Like a Playboy model." I sat back in my chair and looked at him. He said, "No, but also she was very smart too. She had it all." Like he was trying to say that he wasn't shallow or something. Okay so what the fuck are you doing with me, then? is what I wanted to say. "I don't think I'm really your type," I said instead. "No, no, no," he said. "You are very clever too, you paint, you read..." Which just kind of made it worse because he didn't say something like, "You are beautiful too!"
I was in such a horrible mood about it last night that I didn't even want to attempt talking about it. I have broken up with this guy a few times over the last year but we keep getting back together. I really feel like he keeps saying stupid things that are adding up in my mind to create a case for a breakup!
Posted by AquaNextDoorthat's a bit too far.Posted by taurusgirl9000You are a placeholder until she comes back or something "better" comes along. So sorry to hear 😢
So I have been with this Aqua for about a year now. I know that his ex gf is extremely attractive. I only know because he has shown me pictures of her before. Without my asking, he has told me a lot about their relationship and the things that they did. They broke up only because she had to move to another country for work. Recently she has moved back but is living in a different city a few hours away. They were together for about two years but it seems like this was the longest relationship he has ever had.
At dinner last night, we somehow started talking about her. I really can't remember how. At one point he said, "She was so... exuberant. Like a Playboy model." I sat back in my chair and looked at him. He said, "No, but also she was very smart too. She had it all." Like he was trying to say that he wasn't shallow or something. Okay so what the fuck are you doing with me, then? is what I wanted to say. "I don't think I'm really your type," I said instead. "No, no, no," he said. "You are very clever too, you paint, you read..." Which just kind of made it worse because he didn't say something like, "You are beautiful too!"
I was in such a horrible mood about it last night that I didn't even want to attempt talking about it. I have broken up with this guy a few times over the last year but we keep getting back together. I really feel like he keeps saying stupid things that are adding up in my mind to create a case for a breakup!click to expand
Posted by AerialViewI really feel like if she were living in our city again, he would be trying to see her. I guess it's just a matter of time before that happens. I really don't feel happy in the relationship anymore, I just don't feel respected.Posted by AquaNextDoorthat's a bit too far.Posted by taurusgirl9000You are a placeholder until she comes back or something "better" comes along. So sorry to hear 😢
So I have been with this Aqua for about a year now. I know that his ex gf is extremely attractive. I only know because he has shown me pictures of her before. Without my asking, he has told me a lot about their relationship and the things that they did. They broke up only because she had to move to another country for work. Recently she has moved back but is living in a different city a few hours away. They were together for about two years but it seems like this was the longest relationship he has ever had.
At dinner last night, we somehow started talking about her. I really can't remember how. At one point he said, "She was so... exuberant. Like a Playboy model." I sat back in my chair and looked at him. He said, "No, but also she was very smart too. She had it all." Like he was trying to say that he wasn't shallow or something. Okay so what the fuck are you doing with me, then? is what I wanted to say. "I don't think I'm really your type," I said instead. "No, no, no," he said. "You are very clever too, you paint, you read..." Which just kind of made it worse because he didn't say something like, "You are beautiful too!"
I was in such a horrible mood about it last night that I didn't even want to attempt talking about it. I have broken up with this guy a few times over the last year but we keep getting back together. I really feel like he keeps saying stupid things that are adding up in my mind to create a case for a breakup!click to expand
No good...
Posted by GeminiGirl052388She's an Aries. A better match for him anyway. My parents are Aqua and Aries and are solid.
Drop him. He's not into you. What's his ex' sign?
Posted by AerialView
#moodkiller
Arnt u guys good at that? Aqua men esp r good with f King with ur head. Listen. He's testing you. Testing ur tolerance. How u handling ur emotion. If he wants to be with her he would! Now he's with you ( coz Taurus women r the best) Lol... so. Aqua men has the capability to make any independent strong women feel insecure. God I know! They just know how to. And they like it as well. Even though they preferred strong women, deep down they like a bit of drama. Stir a little pot to get ur reaction. To see how much u like or love him. Considering u broken up with him before. He knows u r not as into him. Right? ( based on ur last posts) so he will stir up some pots to test ur button. But if I were u I wud have said things like. Look buddy, if u love her so much wht don't u invite her over for diner so we all can have a threesome? lol.. jokes but be like, look the door is open, let me know if u feel like u wanna b with her and I will get everything ready for u.. 😉 ... it's disrespectful what he's doing so don't tolerate it ever.
Posted by taurusgirl9000You r not into him either are you? God sorry I hate Aries women but honestly I have given away the Aqua to Aries woman too. She can have him coz honestly I wudnt want him anyway lol... doesn't suit us taureansPosted by GeminiGirl052388She's an Aries. A better match for him anyway. My parents are Aqua and Aries and are solid.
Drop him. He's not into you. What's his ex' sign?click to expand
Posted by AerialViewPosted by AquaNextDoorthat's a bit too far.Posted by taurusgirl9000You are a placeholder until she comes back or something "better" comes along. So sorry to hear 😢
So I have been with this Aqua for about a year now. I know that his ex gf is extremely attractive. I only know because he has shown me pictures of her before. Without my asking, he has told me a lot about their relationship and the things that they did. They broke up only because she had to move to another country for work. Recently she has moved back but is living in a different city a few hours away. They were together for about two years but it seems like this was the longest relationship he has ever had.
At dinner last night, we somehow started talking about her. I really can't remember how. At one point he said, "She was so... exuberant. Like a Playboy model." I sat back in my chair and looked at him. He said, "No, but also she was very smart too. She had it all." Like he was trying to say that he wasn't shallow or something. Okay so what the fuck are you doing with me, then? is what I wanted to say. "I don't think I'm really your type," I said instead. "No, no, no," he said. "You are very clever too, you paint, you read..." Which just kind of made it worse because he didn't say something like, "You are beautiful too!"
I was in such a horrible mood about it last night that I didn't even want to attempt talking about it. I have broken up with this guy a few times over the last year but we keep getting back together. I really feel like he keeps saying stupid things that are adding up in my mind to create a case for a breakup!click to expand
Yay talking about coldness. Jesus. Where's some sympathy around this place
Posted by saweetz1988Thanks @saweetz1988 you're right. I have read a lot about Aqua men being superficial and objectifying women as a matter of course. They see nothing wrong with doing it. I guess I wanted to give him a chance or see if we could improve as a couple. I'm not really "jealous" I just feel disrespected and angry. She can have him.Posted by AerialView
#moodkiller
Arnt u guys good at that? Aqua men esp r good with f King with ur head. Listen. He's testing you. Testing ur tolerance. How u handling ur emotion. If he wants to be with her he would! Now he's with you ( coz Taurus women r the best) Lol... so. Aqua men has the capability to make any independent strong women feel insecure. God I know! They just know how to. And they like it as well. Even though they preferred strong women, deep down they like a bit of drama. Stir a little pot to get ur reaction. To see how much u like or love him. Considering u broken up with him before. He knows u r not as into him. Right? ( based on ur last posts) so he will stir up some pots to test ur button. But if I were u I wud have said things like. Look buddy, if u love her so much wht don't u invite her over for diner so we all can have a threesome? lol.. jokes but be like, look the door is open, let me know if u feel like u wanna b with her and I will get everything ready for u.. 😉 ... it's disrespectful what he's doing so don't tolerate it ever.
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Lmao! What a complete douche!!
I haven’t read any of your past posts. So I’m unfamiliar with the history. The fact that he’s completely oblivious and openly having this conversation with you is crazy. He’s carrying a torch for this women wether he realizes it or not.
I’m sure he does think she’s a woman with a lot positive of qualities but it’s also how they ended that’s magnifying this in his mind. SHE left him. In a manner where no one was the bad guy and there was no ill will. Those type of scenarios leave a “what if” feeling. Personally, I think that has a more haunting feeling on men than women.
Speaking from experience, yes, Aries and Aquarius do have an effortless connection. I can’t explain it. Natural bestfriends. We just get each other.
Besides all this, forget whatever “tests” he’s possibly running. Any results of that test all end in you being okay with disrespect. All for what?! To be with him?
Abort! Abort! They will reconnect sooner or later.
I haven’t read any of your past posts. So I’m unfamiliar with the history. The fact that he’s completely oblivious and openly having this conversation with you is crazy. He’s carrying a torch for this women wether he realizes it or not.
I’m sure he does think she’s a woman with a lot positive of qualities but it’s also how they ended that’s magnifying this in his mind. SHE left him. In a manner where no one was the bad guy and there was no ill will. Those type of scenarios leave a “what if” feeling. Personally, I think that has a more haunting feeling on men than women.
Speaking from experience, yes, Aries and Aquarius do have an effortless connection. I can’t explain it. Natural bestfriends. We just get each other.
Besides all this, forget whatever “tests” he’s possibly running. Any results of that test all end in you being okay with disrespect. All for what?! To be with him?
Abort! Abort! They will reconnect sooner or later.
There are a few of you girls on here, that haven't gotten the clue.
If a person (girl or guy) is REALLY over their ex, they are indifferent to them. If someone sits there talking positively or negatively about a person repeatedly, they aren't emotionally over the person, and you are just a rebound.
When will you women learn to demand more for yourself, then the minimum you get?
If a person (girl or guy) is REALLY over their ex, they are indifferent to them. If someone sits there talking positively or negatively about a person repeatedly, they aren't emotionally over the person, and you are just a rebound.
When will you women learn to demand more for yourself, then the minimum you get?
Someone up there^ said he's "testing" you.
Most men don't "test" women because that's time-consuming and they are lazy.
I just said this on another thread today... Aquarius will forever stick to one person and no other partner will live up to that one person, no matter what. If in their head, that person was "the one that got away" that other person will always hold their heart.
#Leavehim
#Dumphim
#DoBetter
#MakeYourselfHappy
Most men don't "test" women because that's time-consuming and they are lazy.
I just said this on another thread today... Aquarius will forever stick to one person and no other partner will live up to that one person, no matter what. If in their head, that person was "the one that got away" that other person will always hold their heart.
#Leavehim
#Dumphim
#DoBetter
#MakeYourselfHappy
Posted by taurusgirl9000I agree. Dump him. He's a rude, crude, dude! 😡
So I have been with this Aqua for about a year now. I know that his ex gf is extremely attractive. I only know because he has shown me pictures of her before. Without my asking, he has told me a lot about their relationship and the things that they did. They broke up only because she had to move to another country for work. Recently she has moved back but is living in a different city a few hours away. They were together for about two years but it seems like this was the longest relationship he has ever had.
At dinner last night, we somehow started talking about her. I really can't remember how. At one point he said, "She was so... exuberant. Like a Playboy model." I sat back in my chair and looked at him. He said, "No, but also she was very smart too. She had it all." Like he was trying to say that he wasn't shallow or something. Okay so what the fuck are you doing with me, then? is what I wanted to say. "I don't think I'm really your type," I said instead. "No, no, no," he said. "You are very clever too, you paint, you read..." Which just kind of made it worse because he didn't say something like, "You are beautiful too!"
I was in such a horrible mood about it last night that I didn't even want to attempt talking about it. I have broken up with this guy a few times over the last year but we keep getting back together. I really feel like he keeps saying stupid things that are adding up in my mind to create a case for a breakup!
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Eva
Posted by saweetz1988You’re such a hater.Posted by taurusgirl9000You r not into him either are you? God sorry I hate Aries women but honestly I have given away the Aqua to Aries woman too. She can have him coz honestly I wudnt want him anyway lol... doesn't suit us taureansPosted by GeminiGirl052388She's an Aries. A better match for him anyway. My parents are Aqua and Aries and are solid.
Drop him. He's not into you. What's his ex' sign?click to expand
Posted by glutton4punishmentThis is true!
Someone up there^ said he's "testing" you.
Most men don't "test" women because that's time-consuming and they are lazy.
I just said this on another thread today... Aquarius will forever stick to one person and no other partner will live up to that one person, no matter what. If in their head, that person was "the one that got away" that other person will always hold their heart.
#Leavehim
#Dumphim
#DoBetter
#MakeYourselfHappy
Posted by taurusgirl9000Posted by saweetz1988Thanks @saweetz1988 you're right. I have read a lot about Aqua men being superficial and objectifying women as a matter of course. They see nothing wrong with doing it. I guess I wanted to give him a chance or see if we could improve as a couple. I'm not really "jealous" I just feel disrespected and angry. She can have him.Posted by AerialView
#moodkiller
Arnt u guys good at that? Aqua men esp r good with f King with ur head. Listen. He's testing you. Testing ur tolerance. How u handling ur emotion. If he wants to be with her he would! Now he's with you ( coz Taurus women r the best) Lol... so. Aqua men has the capability to make any independent strong women feel insecure. God I know! They just know how to. And they like it as well. Even though they preferred strong women, deep down they like a bit of drama. Stir a little pot to get ur reaction. To see how much u like or love him. Considering u broken up with him before. He knows u r not as into him. Right? ( based on ur last posts) so he will stir up some pots to test ur button. But if I were u I wud have said things like. Look buddy, if u love her so much wht don't u invite her over for diner so we all can have a threesome? lol.. jokes but be like, look the door is open, let me know if u feel like u wanna b with her and I will get everything ready for u.. 😉 ... it's disrespectful what he's doing so don't tolerate it ever.
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Yes exactly how I feel with mine too. Wharvee I call him. He's the past anyway. Similar stuff. But slightly worst. I literally told him. Hey invite me to ur wedding coz u guys make a great couple. No thank. There's a quote. If a woman steals ur man, the better revenge is for her to have him coz real man can't be stolen. It's that simple. We Taurus are too loyal and too amazing of a heart to waste it on someone who doesn't see the value of what they have infront of them. Honestly. you r front cookie you know what to do. I been through hell with this one for a year last three months was hell. I also think he purposely did it to get reaction too but man it went way too far so now I'm like. Hey have him plz. It's your golden prize lol....!!!! no thanks we deserve a real ass man! Cap or Virgo or Pisces or maybe Scorpio... n Leo and ok maybe another boring Taurus man... good luck n pm me if u wanna chat !🙂
You r tough cookie! ****
Posted by Aries_LuminaryPosted by glutton4punishmentThis is true!
Someone up there^ said he's "testing" you.
Most men don't "test" women because that's time-consuming and they are lazy.
I just said this on another thread today... Aquarius will forever stick to one person and no other partner will live up to that one person, no matter what. If in their head, that person was "the one that got away" that other person will always hold their heart.
#Leavehim
#Dumphim
#DoBetter
#MakeYourselfHappy
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I think it's a bit of both. I think the insecure men still test and stir up bullcrap esp I read Aqua men r great at this. Bringing up the ex is simple disrespectful. And maybe she was the one who got Aqua. But even if she was why bring it to the current relationship unless he wanna see her reaction—? Come on.... Aqua men is never simple. They r not earth signs... eveything they say always have hidden meaning.... but what I agree is she deserves better..... 🙂🙂🙂 ... n the Aqua I was seeing did do many tests... he admitted it to me...
Eww bye Felicia 👋🏼👋🏼
He’s with you though. Trust him a little bit
Dump him. He's not over her.
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At dinner last night, we somehow started talking about her. I really can't remember how. At one point he said, "She was so... exuberant. Like a Playboy model." I sat back in my chair and looked at him. He said, "No, but also she was very smart too. She had it all." Like he was trying to say that he wasn't shallow or something. Okay so what the fuck are you doing with me, then? is what I wanted to say. "I don't think I'm really your type," I said instead. "No, no, no," he said. "You are very clever too, you paint, you read..." Which just kind of made it worse because he didn't say something like, "You are beautiful too!"
I was in such a horrible mood about it last night that I didn't even want to attempt talking about it. I have broken up with this guy a few times over the last year but we keep getting back together. I really feel like he keeps saying stupid things that are adding up in my mind to create a case for a breakup!