Questions on Aquarius Breakups

Hi All - So I have a few questions on how Aquarians handle break ups.

This past Wednesday my Aqua friend broke things off with his ex to be with me (prior they were on and off due to fighting when they were together). He actually sent a text to his ex in front of me stating that he is not the man for her and that they had more drama than good. He then turned to me and told me why he wanted to be with me - he stated the facts that we never fought, we get a long great, I'm independent, I have my sh*t straight and that he knew I was the better choice for him.

He is still going back and forth with the ex arguing with her. She told my Aqua guy that she slept with her ex, and then belittled him. She also had made crude comments about me and also threatened having her ex beat up my aqua guy. Since she is 4 months pregnant with his kid, he also threatened her on custody and such. All in all, it hasn't been a civil break up.

Ok so here are my questions for you Aquas on breakups:

1) When you break things off with someone, are you really done with them?

2) When you dump someone, and then they go sleep with their ex, belittle you and threaten you, does it make you really not want to get back with them?

3) In this case with my Aqua guy, he still engages in quarraling with he ex - Is this normal Aqua behavior after a breakup?

4) Whats your experience on dumping someone you once loved?

for me as a woman, done is done.

I don't even (it's just me) keep friendship with my ex's. It sounds cold, but if you knew and saw what they did, or how toxic the relationship was, there was no way. yuck. runnnnn awaayyyyy and hide out in the islands for good.

even if they weren't toxic, my last ex was a good man with strong morals there was still NO contact.

2) ew.. won't even consider it. so much fish in the sea....

so many people out there that would love you and treat you good!!! and you have so much love to give out there too!! find someone who will give you both respect and love.

3) your ex is strange. his ex has a strong hold on him, which is really sad. cause it sounds toxic.

4) my experience is elation, but only after a long time. I realized that it was elation and happiness. but it takes TIME. time heals all wounds.

(Not an Aqua) Basically an Aqua isn't done with someone they've loved until they are DONE with that person. That means no more contact whatsoever. It is hard for an Aqua to discard a person who they connected with deeply. If an Aqua truly loved their ex, there can be the push pull dynamic you're seeing now. I've heard Aquas claim up and down that they wanted nothing to do with their exes, then go back to them soon after.

The tell tale sign here is that the ex is still in the picture. It's even harder because now there's a child involved. The Aqua will probably want to be in the child's life, so the ex is never truly going to go away. This will be hard for the Aqua to truly let go.

My dear sweet Milani!

You are too sweet to deserve being treated as a doormat!

The woman in me cried NO! I have a sweet relation with an Aqua, we have never argued, but we have a clear past and we TALK! Please stay away of this drama, as he is only using you to clear his mind, but he won't!

An Aqua will never get past his family! She caught him! He was too weak to break free! He won;t get away from being a father! DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME!