Should I back off from this aqua man alitle bit? (Page 2)

Posted by Huldra
Reply and be straightforward about why you did not like him disappearing. Dont make it a crazyfest tho, be calm and reasonable.

"Of course I didn't reply" is a stupid fucking player card. It only breeds a vicious circle, don't be stupid.

Posted by 1thgirls
Do you think this is a good idea texting him like:

"Hey, I'm glad that you're still alive! 😄"

I really appreciate it

Posted by HappyCapper

Posted by 1thgirls
Do you think this is a good idea texting him like:

"Hey, I'm glad that you're still alive! 😄"

I think the best help you can give anyone is to help the person help him/herself.

Fact is, we are not going to be around for every text you send. Therefore I want you to really consider what you just wrote. Really. How do you think it sounds? Happy? Rude? Nice? Funny? Passive aggressive? sincere?

I would also recommend you to read this entire thread once more. Don't just skim it. Really read it and consider what's there.

Sorry for not answering your question directly, but I think this way is going to help you more in the long run. (if you after this still want my honest opinion on that text, I will give it to you, ofc, but...)

I sincerily wish you all the best!

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Posted by HappyCapper
Ultimately, it's not about what we think. If you feel that it's imortant to you that you keep in touch every day, then that's your choice, and if he is not on the same page, then maybe you shouldn't be together. Maybe take this as an oportunity to figure out what you want and what is acceptable to you. And yes, we all go a little crazy in this area of life at times - comes with the package.

...and do me a favor and look back at this thread a year or two from now - it's gonna make your day.

Posted by 1thgirls
Thanks everyone!!!!

I'm trying to be busy with myself, friends, work, family...
But you know I'm still thinking about him, but I feel like I'm getting stronger.

My thought about why he disappear on me maybe from last week that I told him I missed him after he asked me "Missing me already?"
Our conversations:
Me: "What are you doing? "
Him: "Missing me already?"
Me: "Yes! hahaha"
Him: "Do not get addict to it, ok?" (He always said this to me in a joking way)
Me: "haha.. I'm calling you now ok?"
Him: "I'm going to take a shower now"
Me: "talk with me first plss "
Him: "I'm going to take a shower now"
Me: "ok call me when you're done, ok?"
30 mins later
Him: "done"
Me: "skype ok? I'm outside right now" (I don't like talking on the phone with him at home.. and he knows it)
Him: "ok wait"
Me: "sure"

and we skyped for 7 mins, but he was busy doing his work a whole time while we're skyping.

After that, he disappears for almost a week now

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Posted by lisabethur8
jeez. don't you have any shame for yourself?

Omg y r u becoming so angry here

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