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It's just a bunch of undercover aquas making threads about themselves. 🙄

You must have really missed aquarius_man in Aries board 😄

He alone made about 50 threads there in his short time here 😂😂😂😂

I actually do miss him!!

I believe you lol

I only speak the truth! 🙂 You know you miss his rowdy ways around here too! lol

He used to go into most forums being a trouble maker and a troll! Too cute! 😆

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Honestly sometimes I find the Aqua board boring because it's always the same same issues. Maybe ladies should read up and learn before posting. At least come uo with something different, lol.

I would love to seemore Aqua guys on the forum, but they probably get bored too and find more stimulating stuff elsewhere.

There's a lot to love about these guys! Just not conventional stuff that a lot of girls expect. It actually takes some work on her part.

The Aqua guys on the forum are being very distant.

I think we need a new topic about why they don't talk to us.

Just give em a few days and they'll be be back like nothing happened. 😄

😂

Ok seriously i have a question for you... If your aqua gets some really awful news and then he pretends it's fine. Do you just avoid bringing it up and pretend nothing is wrong, Or do you ask how things are every now and then so they know you care but not push the subject...

I do this:

Or do you ask how things are every now and then so they know you care but not push the subject...

Hr used to clam up and not talk until it was dealt with. Niw that he knows I won't be critical or pushy about it, he opens up more freely.

Ok thank you. I was doing that but then yesterday i asked about his dads appointment and he told me his cancer diagnosis got way worse and i told him I'm here for him if he needs hugs or to talk or space or whatever he needs and he said relax that just part of life. So i left it at that. And today we're messaging as normal. I just didn't want him to think i don't care because that stuff makes me worry lots but i think i need to just leave it for a few days.

That was great. Just leave it alone until he talks about it or it's been quite a while.

Mine's dad died suddenly while in the hospital for a routine procedure and he didn't even tell me for at least a week. I had no clue.

Wow. That's... i don't even know if there's a word for it. A whole week!

I think my Aqua would be similar in that. He tells me things and i remember the details because he wont bring it up again and he'll pretend there's nothing going on unless i ask. So I'll ask how his dad is and he'll tell me the next appointment day and I remember so i know to check on that day. All day yesterday he didn't mention a thing until i asked how his appointment went. My memory is usually terrible but he remembers things like that for me so i magically remember everything thats important for him and forget everything else I'm supposed to remember so i write my own stuff down

I'd like to think that it would be different now. We had a different kind of relationship back then. Much closer now. But yeah, he just doesn't talk much about things that I would think he'd want to talk about ( mostly about family and relationship stuff).

Do you think it's because he doesn't want to think about it because it's emotionally overwhelming or because it doesn't matter if he can't do anything about to change it anyway

LOl I stopped trying to analyze it. Maybe both? I could ask him, and I think he would tell me but I'm happy accepting that it's just the way he is. I know that he will be bothered about stuff and sometimes he'll talk briefly about it. I offer words of encouragement or offer possible solutions and leave it be. I've learned when I should detach and when he really wants or needs my support. I guess just years of being together you get to that point.

Aquas are fascinating creatures. Fucking weird, but fascinating none the less. I think they're a little bit broken on the inside and need extra hugs. Even when the say they don't need one you gotta force one on them. Hugs so tight that they can't break free or escape and you just gotta tell them that they love it as they try to squirm their way out and try get loose 😂

So this is a great video I found a while back. Recently showed it to Mr Aqua (who doesn't *really* believe in Astro but is starting to get weirded out about it), and he said it was kind of scary how much he identified with it.

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Honestly sometimes I find the Aqua board boring because it's always the same same issues. Maybe ladies should read up and learn before posting. At least come uo with something different, lol.

I would love to seemore Aqua guys on the forum, but they probably get bored too and find more stimulating stuff elsewhere.

There's a lot to love about these guys! Just not conventional stuff that a lot of girls expect. It actually takes some work on her part.

The Aqua guys on the forum are being very distant.

I think we need a new topic about why they don't talk to us.

Just give em a few days and they'll be be back like nothing happened. 😄

😂

Ok seriously i have a question for you... If your aqua gets some really awful news and then he pretends it's fine. Do you just avoid bringing it up and pretend nothing is wrong, Or do you ask how things are every now and then so they know you care but not push the subject...

I do this:

Or do you ask how things are every now and then so they know you care but not push the subject...

Hr used to clam up and not talk until it was dealt with. Niw that he knows I won't be critical or pushy about it, he opens up more freely.

Ok thank you. I was doing that but then yesterday i asked about his dads appointment and he told me his cancer diagnosis got way worse and i told him I'm here for him if he needs hugs or to talk or space or whatever he needs and he said relax that just part of life. So i left it at that. And today we're messaging as normal. I just didn't want him to think i don't care because that stuff makes me worry lots but i think i need to just leave it for a few days.

That was great. Just leave it alone until he talks about it or it's been quite a while.

Mine's dad died suddenly while in the hospital for a routine procedure and he didn't even tell me for at least a week. I had no clue.

Wow. That's... i don't even know if there's a word for it. A whole week!

I think my Aqua would be similar in that. He tells me things and i remember the details because he wont bring it up again and he'll pretend there's nothing going on unless i ask. So I'll ask how his dad is and he'll tell me the next appointment day and I remember so i know to check on that day. All day yesterday he didn't mention a thing until i asked how his appointment went. My memory is usually terrible but he remembers things like that for me so i magically remember everything thats important for him and forget everything else I'm supposed to remember so i write my own stuff down

I'd like to think that it would be different now. We had a different kind of relationship back then. Much closer now. But yeah, he just doesn't talk much about things that I would think he'd want to talk about ( mostly about family and relationship stuff).

Do you think it's because he doesn't want to think about it because it's emotionally overwhelming or because it doesn't matter if he can't do anything about to change it anyway

LOl I stopped trying to analyze it. Maybe both? I could ask him, and I think he would tell me but I'm happy accepting that it's just the way he is. I know that he will be bothered about stuff and sometimes he'll talk briefly about it. I offer words of encouragement or offer possible solutions and leave it be. I've learned when I should detach and when he really wants or needs my support. I guess just years of being together you get to that point.

Aquas are fascinating creatures. Fucking weird, but fascinating none the less. I think they're a little bit broken on the inside and need extra hugs. Even when the say they don't need one you gotta force one on them. Hugs so tight that they can't break free or escape and you just gotta tell them that they love it as they try to squirm their way out and try get loose 😂

So this is a great video I found a while back. Recently showed it to Mr Aqua (who doesn't *really* believe in Astro but is starting to get weirded out about it), and he said it was kind of scary how much he identified with it.

he looks like those types that play darts in a bar or pool in a bar pub. lol

drinking beer and riding trucks or something...

blue jeans dirty.



he was saying here that a cancer woman really fucked up his world. lol

dont know the rest of his placements but he said he's mostly air, with virgo moon.

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Honestly sometimes I find the Aqua board boring because it's always the same same issues. Maybe ladies should read up and learn before posting. At least come uo with something different, lol.

I would love to seemore Aqua guys on the forum, but they probably get bored too and find more stimulating stuff elsewhere.

There's a lot to love about these guys! Just not conventional stuff that a lot of girls expect. It actually takes some work on her part.

The Aqua guys on the forum are being very distant.

I think we need a new topic about why they don't talk to us.

Just give em a few days and they'll be be back like nothing happened. 😄

😂

Ok seriously i have a question for you... If your aqua gets some really awful news and then he pretends it's fine. Do you just avoid bringing it up and pretend nothing is wrong, Or do you ask how things are every now and then so they know you care but not push the subject...

I do this:

Or do you ask how things are every now and then so they know you care but not push the subject...

Hr used to clam up and not talk until it was dealt with. Niw that he knows I won't be critical or pushy about it, he opens up more freely.

Ok thank you. I was doing that but then yesterday i asked about his dads appointment and he told me his cancer diagnosis got way worse and i told him I'm here for him if he needs hugs or to talk or space or whatever he needs and he said relax that just part of life. So i left it at that. And today we're messaging as normal. I just didn't want him to think i don't care because that stuff makes me worry lots but i think i need to just leave it for a few days.

That was great. Just leave it alone until he talks about it or it's been quite a while.

Mine's dad died suddenly while in the hospital for a routine procedure and he didn't even tell me for at least a week. I had no clue.

Wow. That's... i don't even know if there's a word for it. A whole week!

I think my Aqua would be similar in that. He tells me things and i remember the details because he wont bring it up again and he'll pretend there's nothing going on unless i ask. So I'll ask how his dad is and he'll tell me the next appointment day and I remember so i know to check on that day. All day yesterday he didn't mention a thing until i asked how his appointment went. My memory is usually terrible but he remembers things like that for me so i magically remember everything thats important for him and forget everything else I'm supposed to remember so i write my own stuff down

I'd like to think that it would be different now. We had a different kind of relationship back then. Much closer now. But yeah, he just doesn't talk much about things that I would think he'd want to talk about ( mostly about family and relationship stuff).

Do you think it's because he doesn't want to think about it because it's emotionally overwhelming or because it doesn't matter if he can't do anything about to change it anyway

LOl I stopped trying to analyze it. Maybe both? I could ask him, and I think he would tell me but I'm happy accepting that it's just the way he is. I know that he will be bothered about stuff and sometimes he'll talk briefly about it. I offer words of encouragement or offer possible solutions and leave it be. I've learned when I should detach and when he really wants or needs my support. I guess just years of being together you get to that point.

Aquas are fascinating creatures. Fucking weird, but fascinating none the less. I think they're a little bit broken on the inside and need extra hugs. Even when the say they don't need one you gotta force one on them. Hugs so tight that they can't break free or escape and you just gotta tell them that they love it as they try to squirm their way out and try get loose 😂

So this is a great video I found a while back. Recently showed it to Mr Aqua (who doesn't *really* believe in Astro but is starting to get weirded out about it), and he said it was kind of scary how much he identified with it.

he looks like those types that play darts in a bar or pool in a bar pub. lol

drinking beer and riding trucks or something...

blue jeans dirty.



he was saying here that a cancer woman really fucked up his world. lol

dont know the rest of his placements but he said he's mostly air, with virgo moon.

His presentation and personality is extremely close to Mr Aqua's. Taurus moon, Virgo rising. The pessimism shows, even though he's Aqua dominant. I think he saves that side of it for people he's close to (explained in the other video).

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Honestly sometimes I find the Aqua board boring because it's always the same same issues. Maybe ladies should read up and learn before posting. At least come uo with something different, lol.

I would love to seemore Aqua guys on the forum, but they probably get bored too and find more stimulating stuff elsewhere.

There's a lot to love about these guys! Just not conventional stuff that a lot of girls expect. It actually takes some work on her part.

The Aqua guys on the forum are being very distant.

I think we need a new topic about why they don't talk to us.

Just give em a few days and they'll be be back like nothing happened. 😄

😂

Ok seriously i have a question for you... If your aqua gets some really awful news and then he pretends it's fine. Do you just avoid bringing it up and pretend nothing is wrong, Or do you ask how things are every now and then so they know you care but not push the subject...

I do this:

Or do you ask how things are every now and then so they know you care but not push the subject...

Hr used to clam up and not talk until it was dealt with. Niw that he knows I won't be critical or pushy about it, he opens up more freely.

Ok thank you. I was doing that but then yesterday i asked about his dads appointment and he told me his cancer diagnosis got way worse and i told him I'm here for him if he needs hugs or to talk or space or whatever he needs and he said relax that just part of life. So i left it at that. And today we're messaging as normal. I just didn't want him to think i don't care because that stuff makes me worry lots but i think i need to just leave it for a few days.

That was great. Just leave it alone until he talks about it or it's been quite a while.

Mine's dad died suddenly while in the hospital for a routine procedure and he didn't even tell me for at least a week. I had no clue.

Wow. That's... i don't even know if there's a word for it. A whole week!

I think my Aqua would be similar in that. He tells me things and i remember the details because he wont bring it up again and he'll pretend there's nothing going on unless i ask. So I'll ask how his dad is and he'll tell me the next appointment day and I remember so i know to check on that day. All day yesterday he didn't mention a thing until i asked how his appointment went. My memory is usually terrible but he remembers things like that for me so i magically remember everything thats important for him and forget everything else I'm supposed to remember so i write my own stuff down

I'd like to think that it would be different now. We had a different kind of relationship back then. Much closer now. But yeah, he just doesn't talk much about things that I would think he'd want to talk about ( mostly about family and relationship stuff).

Do you think it's because he doesn't want to think about it because it's emotionally overwhelming or because it doesn't matter if he can't do anything about to change it anyway

LOl I stopped trying to analyze it. Maybe both? I could ask him, and I think he would tell me but I'm happy accepting that it's just the way he is. I know that he will be bothered about stuff and sometimes he'll talk briefly about it. I offer words of encouragement or offer possible solutions and leave it be. I've learned when I should detach and when he really wants or needs my support. I guess just years of being together you get to that point.

Aquas are fascinating creatures. Fucking weird, but fascinating none the less. I think they're a little bit broken on the inside and need extra hugs. Even when the say they don't need one you gotta force one on them. Hugs so tight that they can't break free or escape and you just gotta tell them that they love it as they try to squirm their way out and try get loose 😂

So this is a great video I found a while back. Recently showed it to Mr Aqua (who doesn't *really* believe in Astro but is starting to get weirded out about it), and he said it was kind of scary how much he identified with it.

he looks like those types that play darts in a bar or pool in a bar pub. lol

drinking beer and riding trucks or something...

blue jeans dirty.



he was saying here that a cancer woman really fucked up his world. lol

dont know the rest of his placements but he said he's mostly air, with virgo moon.

His presentation and personality is extremely close to Mr Aqua's. Taurus moon, Virgo rising. The pessimism shows, even though he's Aqua dominant. I think he saves that side of it for people he's close to (explained in the other video).

he can't get along with libra sun women though or libra dominant because he's crass and not well mannered.

a libra is gonna get grossed out. and he's not gonna change.

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Honestly sometimes I find the Aqua board boring because it's always the same same issues. Maybe ladies should read up and learn before posting. At least come uo with something different, lol.

I would love to seemore Aqua guys on the forum, but they probably get bored too and find more stimulating stuff elsewhere.

There's a lot to love about these guys! Just not conventional stuff that a lot of girls expect. It actually takes some work on her part.

The Aqua guys on the forum are being very distant.

I think we need a new topic about why they don't talk to us.

Just give em a few days and they'll be be back like nothing happened. 😄

😂

Ok seriously i have a question for you... If your aqua gets some really awful news and then he pretends it's fine. Do you just avoid bringing it up and pretend nothing is wrong, Or do you ask how things are every now and then so they know you care but not push the subject...

I do this:

Or do you ask how things are every now and then so they know you care but not push the subject...

Hr used to clam up and not talk until it was dealt with. Niw that he knows I won't be critical or pushy about it, he opens up more freely.

Ok thank you. I was doing that but then yesterday i asked about his dads appointment and he told me his cancer diagnosis got way worse and i told him I'm here for him if he needs hugs or to talk or space or whatever he needs and he said relax that just part of life. So i left it at that. And today we're messaging as normal. I just didn't want him to think i don't care because that stuff makes me worry lots but i think i need to just leave it for a few days.

That was great. Just leave it alone until he talks about it or it's been quite a while.

Mine's dad died suddenly while in the hospital for a routine procedure and he didn't even tell me for at least a week. I had no clue.

Wow. That's... i don't even know if there's a word for it. A whole week!

I think my Aqua would be similar in that. He tells me things and i remember the details because he wont bring it up again and he'll pretend there's nothing going on unless i ask. So I'll ask how his dad is and he'll tell me the next appointment day and I remember so i know to check on that day. All day yesterday he didn't mention a thing until i asked how his appointment went. My memory is usually terrible but he remembers things like that for me so i magically remember everything thats important for him and forget everything else I'm supposed to remember so i write my own stuff down

I'd like to think that it would be different now. We had a different kind of relationship back then. Much closer now. But yeah, he just doesn't talk much about things that I would think he'd want to talk about ( mostly about family and relationship stuff).

Do you think it's because he doesn't want to think about it because it's emotionally overwhelming or because it doesn't matter if he can't do anything about to change it anyway

LOl I stopped trying to analyze it. Maybe both? I could ask him, and I think he would tell me but I'm happy accepting that it's just the way he is. I know that he will be bothered about stuff and sometimes he'll talk briefly about it. I offer words of encouragement or offer possible solutions and leave it be. I've learned when I should detach and when he really wants or needs my support. I guess just years of being together you get to that point.

Aquas are fascinating creatures. Fucking weird, but fascinating none the less. I think they're a little bit broken on the inside and need extra hugs. Even when the say they don't need one you gotta force one on them. Hugs so tight that they can't break free or escape and you just gotta tell them that they love it as they try to squirm their way out and try get loose 😂

So this is a great video I found a while back. Recently showed it to Mr Aqua (who doesn't *really* believe in Astro but is starting to get weirded out about it), and he said it was kind of scary how much he identified with it.

he looks like those types that play darts in a bar or pool in a bar pub. lol

drinking beer and riding trucks or something...

blue jeans dirty.



he was saying here that a cancer woman really fucked up his world. lol

dont know the rest of his placements but he said he's mostly air, with virgo moon.

His presentation and personality is extremely close to Mr Aqua's. Taurus moon, Virgo rising. The pessimism shows, even though he's Aqua dominant. I think he saves that side of it for people he's close to (explained in the other video).

which video of his ?? he only uploaded a few.

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Honestly sometimes I find the Aqua board boring because it's always the same same issues. Maybe ladies should read up and learn before posting. At least come uo with something different, lol.

I would love to seemore Aqua guys on the forum, but they probably get bored too and find more stimulating stuff elsewhere.

There's a lot to love about these guys! Just not conventional stuff that a lot of girls expect. It actually takes some work on her part.

The Aqua guys on the forum are being very distant.

I think we need a new topic about why they don't talk to us.

Just give em a few days and they'll be be back like nothing happened. 😄

😂

Ok seriously i have a question for you... If your aqua gets some really awful news and then he pretends it's fine. Do you just avoid bringing it up and pretend nothing is wrong, Or do you ask how things are every now and then so they know you care but not push the subject...

I do this:

Or do you ask how things are every now and then so they know you care but not push the subject...

Hr used to clam up and not talk until it was dealt with. Niw that he knows I won't be critical or pushy about it, he opens up more freely.

Ok thank you. I was doing that but then yesterday i asked about his dads appointment and he told me his cancer diagnosis got way worse and i told him I'm here for him if he needs hugs or to talk or space or whatever he needs and he said relax that just part of life. So i left it at that. And today we're messaging as normal. I just didn't want him to think i don't care because that stuff makes me worry lots but i think i need to just leave it for a few days.

That was great. Just leave it alone until he talks about it or it's been quite a while.

Mine's dad died suddenly while in the hospital for a routine procedure and he didn't even tell me for at least a week. I had no clue.

Wow. That's... i don't even know if there's a word for it. A whole week!

I think my Aqua would be similar in that. He tells me things and i remember the details because he wont bring it up again and he'll pretend there's nothing going on unless i ask. So I'll ask how his dad is and he'll tell me the next appointment day and I remember so i know to check on that day. All day yesterday he didn't mention a thing until i asked how his appointment went. My memory is usually terrible but he remembers things like that for me so i magically remember everything thats important for him and forget everything else I'm supposed to remember so i write my own stuff down

I'd like to think that it would be different now. We had a different kind of relationship back then. Much closer now. But yeah, he just doesn't talk much about things that I would think he'd want to talk about ( mostly about family and relationship stuff).

Do you think it's because he doesn't want to think about it because it's emotionally overwhelming or because it doesn't matter if he can't do anything about to change it anyway

LOl I stopped trying to analyze it. Maybe both? I could ask him, and I think he would tell me but I'm happy accepting that it's just the way he is. I know that he will be bothered about stuff and sometimes he'll talk briefly about it. I offer words of encouragement or offer possible solutions and leave it be. I've learned when I should detach and when he really wants or needs my support. I guess just years of being together you get to that point.

Aquas are fascinating creatures. Fucking weird, but fascinating none the less. I think they're a little bit broken on the inside and need extra hugs. Even when the say they don't need one you gotta force one on them. Hugs so tight that they can't break free or escape and you just gotta tell them that they love it as they try to squirm their way out and try get loose 😂

So this is a great video I found a while back. Recently showed it to Mr Aqua (who doesn't *really* believe in Astro but is starting to get weirded out about it), and he said it was kind of scary how much he identified with it.

he looks like those types that play darts in a bar or pool in a bar pub. lol

drinking beer and riding trucks or something...

blue jeans dirty.



he was saying here that a cancer woman really fucked up his world. lol

dont know the rest of his placements but he said he's mostly air, with virgo moon.

His presentation and personality is extremely close to Mr Aqua's. Taurus moon, Virgo rising. The pessimism shows, even though he's Aqua dominant. I think he saves that side of it for people he's close to (explained in the other video).

he can't get along with libra sun women though or libra dominant because he's crass and not well mannered.

a libra is gonna get grossed out. and he's not gonna change.

Yeah, me being Libra dominant makes for issues sometimes but Mr Aqua also has an Aries mars, so rather than find him crass and unpolished, it's attractive (most of the time). I'm usually able to let it go without bothering me. Sometimes I'm crass too. I burp louder and longer than him, lol.

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Honestly sometimes I find the Aqua board boring because it's always the same same issues. Maybe ladies should read up and learn before posting. At least come uo with something different, lol.

I would love to seemore Aqua guys on the forum, but they probably get bored too and find more stimulating stuff elsewhere.

There's a lot to love about these guys! Just not conventional stuff that a lot of girls expect. It actually takes some work on her part.

The Aqua guys on the forum are being very distant.

I think we need a new topic about why they don't talk to us.

Just give em a few days and they'll be be back like nothing happened. 😄

😂

Ok seriously i have a question for you... If your aqua gets some really awful news and then he pretends it's fine. Do you just avoid bringing it up and pretend nothing is wrong, Or do you ask how things are every now and then so they know you care but not push the subject...

I do this:

Or do you ask how things are every now and then so they know you care but not push the subject...

Hr used to clam up and not talk until it was dealt with. Niw that he knows I won't be critical or pushy about it, he opens up more freely.

Ok thank you. I was doing that but then yesterday i asked about his dads appointment and he told me his cancer diagnosis got way worse and i told him I'm here for him if he needs hugs or to talk or space or whatever he needs and he said relax that just part of life. So i left it at that. And today we're messaging as normal. I just didn't want him to think i don't care because that stuff makes me worry lots but i think i need to just leave it for a few days.

That was great. Just leave it alone until he talks about it or it's been quite a while.

Mine's dad died suddenly while in the hospital for a routine procedure and he didn't even tell me for at least a week. I had no clue.

Wow. That's... i don't even know if there's a word for it. A whole week!

I think my Aqua would be similar in that. He tells me things and i remember the details because he wont bring it up again and he'll pretend there's nothing going on unless i ask. So I'll ask how his dad is and he'll tell me the next appointment day and I remember so i know to check on that day. All day yesterday he didn't mention a thing until i asked how his appointment went. My memory is usually terrible but he remembers things like that for me so i magically remember everything thats important for him and forget everything else I'm supposed to remember so i write my own stuff down

I'd like to think that it would be different now. We had a different kind of relationship back then. Much closer now. But yeah, he just doesn't talk much about things that I would think he'd want to talk about ( mostly about family and relationship stuff).

Do you think it's because he doesn't want to think about it because it's emotionally overwhelming or because it doesn't matter if he can't do anything about to change it anyway

LOl I stopped trying to analyze it. Maybe both? I could ask him, and I think he would tell me but I'm happy accepting that it's just the way he is. I know that he will be bothered about stuff and sometimes he'll talk briefly about it. I offer words of encouragement or offer possible solutions and leave it be. I've learned when I should detach and when he really wants or needs my support. I guess just years of being together you get to that point.

Aquas are fascinating creatures. Fucking weird, but fascinating none the less. I think they're a little bit broken on the inside and need extra hugs. Even when the say they don't need one you gotta force one on them. Hugs so tight that they can't break free or escape and you just gotta tell them that they love it as they try to squirm their way out and try get loose 😂

So this is a great video I found a while back. Recently showed it to Mr Aqua (who doesn't *really* believe in Astro but is starting to get weirded out about it), and he said it was kind of scary how much he identified with it.

he looks like those types that play darts in a bar or pool in a bar pub. lol

drinking beer and riding trucks or something...

blue jeans dirty.



he was saying here that a cancer woman really fucked up his world. lol

dont know the rest of his placements but he said he's mostly air, with virgo moon.

His presentation and personality is extremely close to Mr Aqua's. Taurus moon, Virgo rising. The pessimism shows, even though he's Aqua dominant. I think he saves that side of it for people he's close to (explained in the other video).

he can't get along with libra sun women though or libra dominant because he's crass and not well mannered.

a libra is gonna get grossed out. and he's not gonna change.

Yeah, me being Libra dominant makes for issues sometimes but Mr Aqua also has an Aries mars, so rather than find him crass and unpolished, it's attractive (most of the time). I'm usually able to let it go without bothering me. Sometimes I'm crass too. I burp louder and longer than him, lol.

does not your aqua have libra somewhere? libra rising? or libra stellium outer planets?

i remember he is taurus moon...that's usually beauty loving



but it's not about burping or anything like that..

it's manners, like holding the door for her, when he doesn't do that. Or just proper manners overall...remembering to get her something at the store ..he's TOO self centered.

and she is going to reprimand him for his LACK of manners.

and he finds that ridiculous.

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Honestly sometimes I find the Aqua board boring because it's always the same same issues. Maybe ladies should read up and learn before posting. At least come uo with something different, lol.

I would love to seemore Aqua guys on the forum, but they probably get bored too and find more stimulating stuff elsewhere.

There's a lot to love about these guys! Just not conventional stuff that a lot of girls expect. It actually takes some work on her part.

The Aqua guys on the forum are being very distant.

I think we need a new topic about why they don't talk to us.

Just give em a few days and they'll be be back like nothing happened. 😄

😂

Ok seriously i have a question for you... If your aqua gets some really awful news and then he pretends it's fine. Do you just avoid bringing it up and pretend nothing is wrong, Or do you ask how things are every now and then so they know you care but not push the subject...

I do this:

Or do you ask how things are every now and then so they know you care but not push the subject...

Hr used to clam up and not talk until it was dealt with. Niw that he knows I won't be critical or pushy about it, he opens up more freely.

Ok thank you. I was doing that but then yesterday i asked about his dads appointment and he told me his cancer diagnosis got way worse and i told him I'm here for him if he needs hugs or to talk or space or whatever he needs and he said relax that just part of life. So i left it at that. And today we're messaging as normal. I just didn't want him to think i don't care because that stuff makes me worry lots but i think i need to just leave it for a few days.

That was great. Just leave it alone until he talks about it or it's been quite a while.

Mine's dad died suddenly while in the hospital for a routine procedure and he didn't even tell me for at least a week. I had no clue.

Wow. That's... i don't even know if there's a word for it. A whole week!

I think my Aqua would be similar in that. He tells me things and i remember the details because he wont bring it up again and he'll pretend there's nothing going on unless i ask. So I'll ask how his dad is and he'll tell me the next appointment day and I remember so i know to check on that day. All day yesterday he didn't mention a thing until i asked how his appointment went. My memory is usually terrible but he remembers things like that for me so i magically remember everything thats important for him and forget everything else I'm supposed to remember so i write my own stuff down

I'd like to think that it would be different now. We had a different kind of relationship back then. Much closer now. But yeah, he just doesn't talk much about things that I would think he'd want to talk about ( mostly about family and relationship stuff).

Do you think it's because he doesn't want to think about it because it's emotionally overwhelming or because it doesn't matter if he can't do anything about to change it anyway

LOl I stopped trying to analyze it. Maybe both? I could ask him, and I think he would tell me but I'm happy accepting that it's just the way he is. I know that he will be bothered about stuff and sometimes he'll talk briefly about it. I offer words of encouragement or offer possible solutions and leave it be. I've learned when I should detach and when he really wants or needs my support. I guess just years of being together you get to that point.

Aquas are fascinating creatures. Fucking weird, but fascinating none the less. I think they're a little bit broken on the inside and need extra hugs. Even when the say they don't need one you gotta force one on them. Hugs so tight that they can't break free or escape and you just gotta tell them that they love it as they try to squirm their way out and try get loose 😂

So this is a great video I found a while back. Recently showed it to Mr Aqua (who doesn't *really* believe in Astro but is starting to get weirded out about it), and he said it was kind of scary how much he identified with it.

he looks like those types that play darts in a bar or pool in a bar pub. lol

drinking beer and riding trucks or something...

blue jeans dirty.



he was saying here that a cancer woman really fucked up his world. lol

dont know the rest of his placements but he said he's mostly air, with virgo moon.

His presentation and personality is extremely close to Mr Aqua's. Taurus moon, Virgo rising. The pessimism shows, even though he's Aqua dominant. I think he saves that side of it for people he's close to (explained in the other video).

he can't get along with libra sun women though or libra dominant because he's crass and not well mannered.

a libra is gonna get grossed out. and he's not gonna change.

Yeah, me being Libra dominant makes for issues sometimes but Mr Aqua also has an Aries mars, so rather than find him crass and unpolished, it's attractive (most of the time). I'm usually able to let it go without bothering me. Sometimes I'm crass too. I burp louder and longer than him, lol.

does not your aqua have libra somewhere? libra rising? or libra stellium outer planets?

i remember he is taurus moon...that's usually beauty loving



but it's not about burping or anything like that..

it's manners, like holding the door for her, when he doesn't do that. Or just proper manners overall...remembering to get her something at the store ..he's TOO self centered.

and she is going to reprimand him for his LACK of manners.

and he finds that ridiculous.

He doesn't have any Libra at all.

He will do things like hold the door or pull out my chair for dinner when we're out, but he's also not above going and getting something to eat before I get home or while he's out and not asking if I want anything. Yeah, that pisses me off.

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Distance and aqua seems be the common theme. The advice is always the same but I'm doing the opposite of everything people say so that it works out 🤷

No drama- I'm doing drama.

Don't call - he's copping calls

Give him space - i threaten to rock up and throw rocks at his window, come to his work and be sitting on the end of his bed staring at him when he wakes up in the morning.

Don't fight - I'm going in with wild fire to burn shit up

I think I'm doing alright so far.

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It is getting crazy!!! What is going on ?😜😂

Every time I check the forums, there’s a new one asking advice about an aqua man.

It’s the time of the year? Or what? 😬

It's cuffing season "Valentine's Day Edition" ... 😆

Then why are they all complaining? 😄

Aqua disappearing act makes it impossible for them to slap the cuffs on 'em! 😄

😂 Never had that problem my self. They are always very willing to stay near me

They feel safe and secure around you ... 😄

As opposed to the serial complainers ... 😛

Anyone who has had the misfortune of having to chew their non-dominant arm off in order to escape a lover's Venus Fly Trap for a bed was most certainly NOT and Aqua. They just won't put themselves into such a predicament. No safety?!? No security?!? Loss of freedom; possibly a limb, too?!?

Hard pass on that shit ... *power walks away* ... 🙂

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Distance and aqua seems be the common theme. The advice is always the same but I'm doing the opposite of everything people say so that it works out 🤷

No drama- I'm doing drama.

Don't call - he's copping calls

Give him space - i threaten to rock up and throw rocks at his window, come to his work and be sitting on the end of his bed staring at him when he wakes up in the morning.

Don't fight - I'm going in with wild fire to burn shit up

I think I'm doing alright so far.

lol reminds me of this video I watched yesterday!

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and a libra/libra dominant man in general is going to be PROPER...because it's in their DNA..

there's something about libra that screams manners..

I'm a Libra dominant Cap and I'm really big on this. It's not even a conscious effort, either. I'll hold doors open, rise to meet or address somebody, walk people out to their vehicles, and -- this one always gets me stared at or questioned -- I can't enter a car until everybody else has. Period. Especially the driver. I'll even stand there with the door open and be told, "Go ahead and get in" and I won't. It just doesn't feel right - it's so improper and foreign to me. Not being the last one seated -- be it in a vehicle or at a table -- is not an option. It can't be helped! LOL

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It is getting crazy!!! What is going on ?😜😂

Every time I check the forums, there’s a new one asking advice about an aqua man.

It’s the time of the year? Or what? 😬

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It is getting crazy!!! What is going on ?😜😂

Every time I check the forums, there’s a new one asking advice about an aqua man.

It’s the time of the year? Or what? 😬

maybe it's the usual uncertainty: should I send him birthday good wishes or not?

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Distance and aqua seems be the common theme. The advice is always the same but I'm doing the opposite of everything people say so that it works out 🤷

No drama- I'm doing drama.

Don't call - he's copping calls

Give him space - i threaten to rock up and throw rocks at his window, come to his work and be sitting on the end of his bed staring at him when he wakes up in the morning.

Don't fight - I'm going in with wild fire to burn shit up

I think I'm doing alright so far.

All the aquarius I have had relationships with, they never needed space.

They need freedom. You can’t change them. You can’t stop them being who they want to be.

But never space. I need far more space than any of them.

So true! We just need freedom.

Big distinction!

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It is getting crazy!!! What is going on ?😜😂

Every time I check the forums, there’s a new one asking advice about an aqua man.

It’s the time of the year? Or what? 😬

maybe it's the usual uncertainty: should I send him birthday good wishes or not?

Oh, I would do that for sure 😄 No need to think about it.

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It is getting crazy!!! What is going on ?😜😂

Every time I check the forums, there’s a new one asking advice about an aqua man.

It’s the time of the year? Or what? 😬

maybe it's the usual uncertainty: should I send him birthday good wishes or not?

Oh, I would do that for sure 😄 No need to think about it.

ok, are you one of those advice seekers?

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It is getting crazy!!! What is going on ?😜😂

Every time I check the forums, there’s a new one asking advice about an aqua man.

It’s the time of the year? Or what? 😬

maybe it's the usual uncertainty: should I send him birthday good wishes or not?

Oh, I would do that for sure 😄 No need to think about it.

ok, are you one of those advice seekers?

No 😄 I normally give advice to them

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It is getting crazy!!! What is going on ?😜😂

Every time I check the forums, there’s a new one asking advice about an aqua man.

It’s the time of the year? Or what? 😬

maybe it's the usual uncertainty: should I send him birthday good wishes or not?

Oh, I would do that for sure 😄 No need to think about it.

ok, are you one of those advice seekers?

No 😄 I normally give advice to them

cause they want to know: birthday wish or wut|not?

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Distance and aqua seems be the common theme. The advice is always the same but I'm doing the opposite of everything people say so that it works out 🤷

No drama- I'm doing drama.

Don't call - he's copping calls

Give him space - i threaten to rock up and throw rocks at his window, come to his work and be sitting on the end of his bed staring at him when he wakes up in the morning.

Don't fight - I'm going in with wild fire to burn shit up

I think I'm doing alright so far.

lol reminds me of this video I watched yesterday!

actually that's dumb because someone who makes someone wait for answers and if you're in a relationship, you're not gonna last.

you both want answers now.

it's called compromise and getting together...not running away from eachother because of lack of confrontation.

i guess for her it is like that.

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and a libra/libra dominant man in general is going to be PROPER...because it's in their DNA..

there's something about libra that screams manners..

I'm a Libra dominant Cap and I'm really big on this. It's not even a conscious effort, either. I'll hold doors open, rise to meet or address somebody, walk people out to their vehicles, and -- this one always gets me stared at or questioned -- I can't enter a car until everybody else has. Period. Especially the driver. I'll even stand there with the door open and be told, "Go ahead and get in" and I won't. It just doesn't feel right - it's so improper and foreign to me. Not being the last one seated -- be it in a vehicle or at a table -- is not an option. It can't be helped! LOL

then why are you single? i never read you talking about your girl here, or that you're married or have a girlfriend, pernament woman... cause damn, there should be TONS of women wanting you right now.

are you trying to hold up for the right one? smh.



@Sultrykitty. what do you think? you wrote your man doesn't have consideration at times, what do you think of this guy? he sounds so considerate.

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and a libra/libra dominant man in general is going to be PROPER...because it's in their DNA..

there's something about libra that screams manners..

I'm a Libra dominant Cap and I'm really big on this. It's not even a conscious effort, either. I'll hold doors open, rise to meet or address somebody, walk people out to their vehicles, and -- this one always gets me stared at or questioned -- I can't enter a car until everybody else has. Period. Especially the driver. I'll even stand there with the door open and be told, "Go ahead and get in" and I won't. It just doesn't feel right - it's so improper and foreign to me. Not being the last one seated -- be it in a vehicle or at a table -- is not an option. It can't be helped! LOL

then why are you single? i never read you talking about your girl here, or that you're married or have a girlfriend, pernament woman... cause damn, there should be TONS of women wanting you right now.

are you trying to hold up for the right one? smh.



@Sultrykitty. what do you think? you wrote your man doesn't have consideration at times, what do you think of this guy? he sounds so considerate.

Yes

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and a libra/libra dominant man in general is going to be PROPER...because it's in their DNA..

there's something about libra that screams manners..

I'm a Libra dominant Cap and I'm really big on this. It's not even a conscious effort, either. I'll hold doors open, rise to meet or address somebody, walk people out to their vehicles, and -- this one always gets me stared at or questioned -- I can't enter a car until everybody else has. Period. Especially the driver. I'll even stand there with the door open and be told, "Go ahead and get in" and I won't. It just doesn't feel right - it's so improper and foreign to me. Not being the last one seated -- be it in a vehicle or at a table -- is not an option. It can't be helped! LOL

then why are you single? i never read you talking about your girl here, or that you're married or have a girlfriend, pernament woman... cause damn, there should be TONS of women wanting you right now.

are you trying to hold up for the right one? smh.



@Sultrykitty. what do you think? you wrote your man doesn't have consideration at times, what do you think of this guy? he sounds so considerate.

Yes

lol is he the type you'd go for?

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It is getting crazy!!! What is going on ?😜😂

Every time I check the forums, there’s a new one asking advice about an aqua man.

It’s the time of the year? Or what? 😬

It's cuffing season "Valentine's Day Edition" ... 😆

Then why are they all complaining? 😄

Aqua disappearing act makes it impossible for them to slap the cuffs on 'em! 😄

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Posted by pisceswoman123
It is getting crazy!!! What is going on ?😜😂

Every time I check the forums, there’s a new one asking advice about an aqua man.

It’s the time of the year? Or what? 😬

maybe it's the usual uncertainty: should I send him birthday good wishes or not?

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and a libra/libra dominant man in general is going to be PROPER...because it's in their DNA..

there's something about libra that screams manners..

I'm a Libra dominant Cap and I'm really big on this. It's not even a conscious effort, either. I'll hold doors open, rise to meet or address somebody, walk people out to their vehicles, and -- this one always gets me stared at or questioned -- I can't enter a car until everybody else has. Period. Especially the driver. I'll even stand there with the door open and be told, "Go ahead and get in" and I won't. It just doesn't feel right - it's so improper and foreign to me. Not being the last one seated -- be it in a vehicle or at a table -- is not an option. It can't be helped! LOL

then why are you single? i never read you talking about your girl here, or that you're married or have a girlfriend, pernament woman... cause damn, there should be TONS of women wanting you right now.

are you trying to hold up for the right one? smh.



@Sultrykitty. what do you think? you wrote your man doesn't have consideration at times, what do you think of this guy? he sounds so considerate.

Yes

lol is he the type you'd go for?

Let's just say that 4 years ago, I almost went over the cliff with a Libra dominant Scorpio with a Virgo moon.

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and a libra/libra dominant man in general is going to be PROPER...because it's in their DNA..

there's something about libra that screams manners..

I'm a Libra dominant Cap and I'm really big on this. It's not even a conscious effort, either. I'll hold doors open, rise to meet or address somebody, walk people out to their vehicles, and -- this one always gets me stared at or questioned -- I can't enter a car until everybody else has. Period. Especially the driver. I'll even stand there with the door open and be told, "Go ahead and get in" and I won't. It just doesn't feel right - it's so improper and foreign to me. Not being the last one seated -- be it in a vehicle or at a table -- is not an option. It can't be helped! LOL

then why are you single? i never read you talking about your girl here, or that you're married or have a girlfriend, pernament woman... cause damn, there should be TONS of women wanting you right now.

are you trying to hold up for the right one? smh.



@Sultrykitty. what do you think? you wrote your man doesn't have consideration at times, what do you think of this guy? he sounds so considerate.

Yes

lol is he the type you'd go for?

Let's just say that 4 years ago, I almost went over the cliff with a Libra dominant Scorpio with a Virgo moon.

why didnt you go for him then?? what happned

because you seem to be unhappy with your aqua. like you're never satisfied, there's always something wrong with him. then you convince yourself it's okay i dont mind

then later you get upset.

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and a libra/libra dominant man in general is going to be PROPER...because it's in their DNA..

there's something about libra that screams manners..

I'm a Libra dominant Cap and I'm really big on this. It's not even a conscious effort, either. I'll hold doors open, rise to meet or address somebody, walk people out to their vehicles, and -- this one always gets me stared at or questioned -- I can't enter a car until everybody else has. Period. Especially the driver. I'll even stand there with the door open and be told, "Go ahead and get in" and I won't. It just doesn't feel right - it's so improper and foreign to me. Not being the last one seated -- be it in a vehicle or at a table -- is not an option. It can't be helped! LOL

then why are you single? i never read you talking about your girl here, or that you're married or have a girlfriend, pernament woman... cause damn, there should be TONS of women wanting you right now.

are you trying to hold up for the right one? smh.



@Sultrykitty. what do you think? you wrote your man doesn't have consideration at times, what do you think of this guy? he sounds so considerate.

Yes

lol is he the type you'd go for?

Let's just say that 4 years ago, I almost went over the cliff with a Libra dominant Scorpio with a Virgo moon.

why didnt you go for him then?? what happned

because you seem to be unhappy with your aqua. like you're never satisfied, there's always something wrong with him. then you convince yourself it's okay i dont mind

then later you get upset.

I think you may read too much dissatisfaction into some of the things I say, and where I may be miffed, I don’t get upset.

For years before this we were unhappy which is why we considered breaking up but I wouldn't break up to go be with someone else. Since then, our relationship has pretty much been repaired so there's no real issue except thayt sometimes we get on each other's nerves. It happens and it's not a reason to drop the relationship.

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and a libra/libra dominant man in general is going to be PROPER...because it's in their DNA..

there's something about libra that screams manners..

I'm a Libra dominant Cap and I'm really big on this. It's not even a conscious effort, either. I'll hold doors open, rise to meet or address somebody, walk people out to their vehicles, and -- this one always gets me stared at or questioned -- I can't enter a car until everybody else has. Period. Especially the driver. I'll even stand there with the door open and be told, "Go ahead and get in" and I won't. It just doesn't feel right - it's so improper and foreign to me. Not being the last one seated -- be it in a vehicle or at a table -- is not an option. It can't be helped! LOL

then why are you single? i never read you talking about your girl here, or that you're married or have a girlfriend, pernament woman... cause damn, there should be TONS of women wanting you right now.

are you trying to hold up for the right one? smh.



@Sultrykitty. what do you think? you wrote your man doesn't have consideration at times, what do you think of this guy? he sounds so considerate.

Yes

lol is he the type you'd go for?

Let's just say that 4 years ago, I almost went over the cliff with a Libra dominant Scorpio with a Virgo moon.

why didnt you go for him then?? what happned

because you seem to be unhappy with your aqua. like you're never satisfied, there's always something wrong with him. then you convince yourself it's okay i dont mind

then later you get upset.

Don't you ever have problems with your partner that frustrate you or make you upset or upset him? No relationship is without it's problems. Isn't that just part of a healthy and normal part of a relationship...

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Posted by lisabethur8
and a libra/libra dominant man in general is going to be PROPER...because it's in their DNA..

there's something about libra that screams manners..

I'm a Libra dominant Cap and I'm really big on this. It's not even a conscious effort, either. I'll hold doors open, rise to meet or address somebody, walk people out to their vehicles, and -- this one always gets me stared at or questioned -- I can't enter a car until everybody else has. Period. Especially the driver. I'll even stand there with the door open and be told, "Go ahead and get in" and I won't. It just doesn't feel right - it's so improper and foreign to me. Not being the last one seated -- be it in a vehicle or at a table -- is not an option. It can't be helped! LOL

then why are you single? i never read you talking about your girl here, or that you're married or have a girlfriend, pernament woman... cause damn, there should be TONS of women wanting you right now.

are you trying to hold up for the right one? smh.



@Sultrykitty. what do you think? you wrote your man doesn't have consideration at times, what do you think of this guy? he sounds so considerate.

Yes

lol is he the type you'd go for?

Let's just say that 4 years ago, I almost went over the cliff with a Libra dominant Scorpio with a Virgo moon.

why didnt you go for him then?? what happned

because you seem to be unhappy with your aqua. like you're never satisfied, there's always something wrong with him. then you convince yourself it's okay i dont mind

then later you get upset.

I think you may read too much dissatisfaction into some of the things I say, and where I may be miffed, I don’t get upset.

For years before this we were unhappy which is why we considered breaking up but I wouldn't break up to go be with someone else. Since then, our relationship has pretty much been repaired so there's no real issue except thayt sometimes we get on each other's nerves. It happens and it's not a reason to drop the relationship.

it just seems a recurring theme, that's all. dont get upset and offended. it's just an observation.

if you were truly satisfied and happy you wouldnt have this many complaints.

marriage OR relationships aren't that hard, it's usually easy peasy if it's harmonious.

yes there's ups and downs and frustations but not enough to start talking "I would have been with this other guy who is a scorpio...." because you are unhappy deep down.

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and a libra/libra dominant man in general is going to be PROPER...because it's in their DNA..

there's something about libra that screams manners..

I'm a Libra dominant Cap and I'm really big on this. It's not even a conscious effort, either. I'll hold doors open, rise to meet or address somebody, walk people out to their vehicles, and -- this one always gets me stared at or questioned -- I can't enter a car until everybody else has. Period. Especially the driver. I'll even stand there with the door open and be told, "Go ahead and get in" and I won't. It just doesn't feel right - it's so improper and foreign to me. Not being the last one seated -- be it in a vehicle or at a table -- is not an option. It can't be helped! LOL

then why are you single? i never read you talking about your girl here, or that you're married or have a girlfriend, pernament woman... cause damn, there should be TONS of women wanting you right now.

are you trying to hold up for the right one? smh.



@Sultrykitty. what do you think? you wrote your man doesn't have consideration at times, what do you think of this guy? he sounds so considerate.

Yes

lol is he the type you'd go for?

Let's just say that 4 years ago, I almost went over the cliff with a Libra dominant Scorpio with a Virgo moon.

why didnt you go for him then?? what happned

because you seem to be unhappy with your aqua. like you're never satisfied, there's always something wrong with him. then you convince yourself it's okay i dont mind

then later you get upset.

I think you may read too much dissatisfaction into some of the things I say, and where I may be miffed, I don’t get upset.

For years before this we were unhappy which is why we considered breaking up but I wouldn't break up to go be with someone else. Since then, our relationship has pretty much been repaired so there's no real issue except thayt sometimes we get on each other's nerves. It happens and it's not a reason to drop the relationship.

it just seems a recurring theme, that's all. dont get upset and offended. it's just an observation.

if you were truly satisfied and happy you wouldnt have this many complaints.

marriage OR relationships aren't that hard, it's usually easy peasy if it's harmonious.

yes there's ups and downs and frustations but not enough to start talking "I would have been with this other guy who is a scorpio...." because you are unhappy deep down.

I only take offense because you constantly bring it up. It's like either your reading comprehension or your memory retention (or both) sucks ass. 4 years ago is a long time, and you asked and I was honest enough to answer. Clearly you choose to only assimilate the negative posts I've made and completely disregard where I've said lots of great things about him and our relationship. Get off my tits about it.

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and a libra/libra dominant man in general is going to be PROPER...because it's in their DNA..

there's something about libra that screams manners..

I'm a Libra dominant Cap and I'm really big on this. It's not even a conscious effort, either. I'll hold doors open, rise to meet or address somebody, walk people out to their vehicles, and -- this one always gets me stared at or questioned -- I can't enter a car until everybody else has. Period. Especially the driver. I'll even stand there with the door open and be told, "Go ahead and get in" and I won't. It just doesn't feel right - it's so improper and foreign to me. Not being the last one seated -- be it in a vehicle or at a table -- is not an option. It can't be helped! LOL

then why are you single? i never read you talking about your girl here, or that you're married or have a girlfriend, pernament woman... cause damn, there should be TONS of women wanting you right now.

are you trying to hold up for the right one? smh.



@Sultrykitty. what do you think? you wrote your man doesn't have consideration at times, what do you think of this guy? he sounds so considerate.

Yes

lol is he the type you'd go for?

Let's just say that 4 years ago, I almost went over the cliff with a Libra dominant Scorpio with a Virgo moon.

why didnt you go for him then?? what happned

because you seem to be unhappy with your aqua. like you're never satisfied, there's always something wrong with him. then you convince yourself it's okay i dont mind

then later you get upset.

I think you may read too much dissatisfaction into some of the things I say, and where I may be miffed, I don’t get upset.

For years before this we were unhappy which is why we considered breaking up but I wouldn't break up to go be with someone else. Since then, our relationship has pretty much been repaired so there's no real issue except thayt sometimes we get on each other's nerves. It happens and it's not a reason to drop the relationship.

it just seems a recurring theme, that's all. dont get upset and offended. it's just an observation.

if you were truly satisfied and happy you wouldnt have this many complaints.

marriage OR relationships aren't that hard, it's usually easy peasy if it's harmonious.

yes there's ups and downs and frustations but not enough to start talking "I would have been with this other guy who is a scorpio...." because you are unhappy deep down.

I only take offense because you constantly bring it up. It's like either your reading comprehension or your memory retention (or both) sucks ass. 4 years ago is a long time, and you asked and I was honest enough to answer. Clearly you choose to only assimilate the negative posts I've made and completely disregard where I've said lots of great things about him and our relationship. Get off my tits about it.

if i were a man and my woman went on a forum complaining and talkign about wanting another man pining after him and youre still together cause the way you talk is that you're broken up.

i sometimes wonder if you're still together.

but if i were him i would be wanting to find a way to leave cause you are not happy deep down.

and because nothing can make you happy because of who he is.

you either accept him or you dont.

it's a two way street. i mean he's not here to defend himself.

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and a libra/libra dominant man in general is going to be PROPER...because it's in their DNA..

there's something about libra that screams manners..

I'm a Libra dominant Cap and I'm really big on this. It's not even a conscious effort, either. I'll hold doors open, rise to meet or address somebody, walk people out to their vehicles, and -- this one always gets me stared at or questioned -- I can't enter a car until everybody else has. Period. Especially the driver. I'll even stand there with the door open and be told, "Go ahead and get in" and I won't. It just doesn't feel right - it's so improper and foreign to me. Not being the last one seated -- be it in a vehicle or at a table -- is not an option. It can't be helped! LOL

then why are you single? i never read you talking about your girl here, or that you're married or have a girlfriend, pernament woman... cause damn, there should be TONS of women wanting you right now.

are you trying to hold up for the right one? smh.



@Sultrykitty. what do you think? you wrote your man doesn't have consideration at times, what do you think of this guy? he sounds so considerate.

Yes

lol is he the type you'd go for?

Let's just say that 4 years ago, I almost went over the cliff with a Libra dominant Scorpio with a Virgo moon.

why didnt you go for him then?? what happned

because you seem to be unhappy with your aqua. like you're never satisfied, there's always something wrong with him. then you convince yourself it's okay i dont mind

then later you get upset.

I think you may read too much dissatisfaction into some of the things I say, and where I may be miffed, I don’t get upset.

For years before this we were unhappy which is why we considered breaking up but I wouldn't break up to go be with someone else. Since then, our relationship has pretty much been repaired so there's no real issue except thayt sometimes we get on each other's nerves. It happens and it's not a reason to drop the relationship.

it just seems a recurring theme, that's all. dont get upset and offended. it's just an observation.

if you were truly satisfied and happy you wouldnt have this many complaints.

marriage OR relationships aren't that hard, it's usually easy peasy if it's harmonious.

yes there's ups and downs and frustations but not enough to start talking "I would have been with this other guy who is a scorpio...." because you are unhappy deep down.

I only take offense because you constantly bring it up. It's like either your reading comprehension or your memory retention (or both) sucks ass. 4 years ago is a long time, and you asked and I was honest enough to answer. Clearly you choose to only assimilate the negative posts I've made and completely disregard where I've said lots of great things about him and our relationship. Get off my tits about it.

if i were a man and my woman went on a forum complaining and talkign about wanting another man pining after him and youre still together cause the way you talk is that you're broken up.

i sometimes wonder if you're still together.

but if i were him i would be wanting to find a way to leave cause you are not happy deep down.

and because nothing can make you happy because of who he is.

you either accept him or you dont.

it's a two way street. i mean he's not here to defend himself.

Jesus F Christ. You're a fuckin idiot. I try to make consessions for people but you just don't let up.

1) where am I pining fpr someone else?

2) where have I said I'm miserable and want out?

3) how do you know Mr Aqua wasn't aware of the situation?

You assume to know a lot of things but you're really off the mark and I would really, REALLY appreciate it if you would actually READ amd COMPREHEND what is written here.

I have told you this before, this is the last time. It's only a recurring theme because that's what you want to see.

Yes, for many years we were both really unhappy, for various reasons we both contributed to the the lack of caring and intimacy in our relationship. Sometimes he wanted to leave, sometimes I did. For whatever reasons we both decided to stay. When things were really bad, I ended up working with someone and we clicked. We developed a friendship. Never cheated, never were alone together. My feelings for this person were such that it made me think it would be best to leave. But after several months of talking and a month of very deep and agonizing soul searching together, we decided to really work on our relationship and things have been good ever since. Sure we have spats but they aren't anything that other relationships don't have.

I shouldn't have to give you the blow by blow, but the one thing I can't stand is stupid people making stupid assumptions.

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and a libra/libra dominant man in general is going to be PROPER...because it's in their DNA..

there's something about libra that screams manners..

I'm a Libra dominant Cap and I'm really big on this. It's not even a conscious effort, either. I'll hold doors open, rise to meet or address somebody, walk people out to their vehicles, and -- this one always gets me stared at or questioned -- I can't enter a car until everybody else has. Period. Especially the driver. I'll even stand there with the door open and be told, "Go ahead and get in" and I won't. It just doesn't feel right - it's so improper and foreign to me. Not being the last one seated -- be it in a vehicle or at a table -- is not an option. It can't be helped! LOL

then why are you single? i never read you talking about your girl here, or that you're married or have a girlfriend, pernament woman... cause damn, there should be TONS of women wanting you right now.

are you trying to hold up for the right one? smh.



@Sultrykitty. what do you think? you wrote your man doesn't have consideration at times, what do you think of this guy? he sounds so considerate.

Yes

lol is he the type you'd go for?

Let's just say that 4 years ago, I almost went over the cliff with a Libra dominant Scorpio with a Virgo moon.

why didnt you go for him then?? what happned

because you seem to be unhappy with your aqua. like you're never satisfied, there's always something wrong with him. then you convince yourself it's okay i dont mind

then later you get upset.

I think you may read too much dissatisfaction into some of the things I say, and where I may be miffed, I don’t get upset.

For years before this we were unhappy which is why we considered breaking up but I wouldn't break up to go be with someone else. Since then, our relationship has pretty much been repaired so there's no real issue except thayt sometimes we get on each other's nerves. It happens and it's not a reason to drop the relationship.

it just seems a recurring theme, that's all. dont get upset and offended. it's just an observation.

if you were truly satisfied and happy you wouldnt have this many complaints.

marriage OR relationships aren't that hard, it's usually easy peasy if it's harmonious.

yes there's ups and downs and frustations but not enough to start talking "I would have been with this other guy who is a scorpio...." because you are unhappy deep down.

I only take offense because you constantly bring it up. It's like either your reading comprehension or your memory retention (or both) sucks ass. 4 years ago is a long time, and you asked and I was honest enough to answer. Clearly you choose to only assimilate the negative posts I've made and completely disregard where I've said lots of great things about him and our relationship. Get off my tits about it.

if i were a man and my woman went on a forum complaining and talkign about wanting another man pining after him and youre still together cause the way you talk is that you're broken up.

i sometimes wonder if you're still together.

but if i were him i would be wanting to find a way to leave cause you are not happy deep down.

and because nothing can make you happy because of who he is.

you either accept him or you dont.

it's a two way street. i mean he's not here to defend himself.

Jesus F Christ. You're a fuckin idiot. I try to make consessions for people but you just don't let up.

1) where am I pining fpr someone else?

2) where have I said I'm miserable and want out?

3) how do you know Mr Aqua wasn't aware of the situation?

You assume to know a lot of things but you're really off the mark and I would really, REALLY appreciate it if you would actually READ amd COMPREHEND what is written here.

I have told you this before, this is the last time. It's only a recurring theme because that's what you want to see.

Yes, for many years we were both really unhappy, for various reasons we both contributed to the the lack of caring and intimacy in our relationship. Sometimes he wanted to leave, sometimes I did. For whatever reasons we both decided to stay. When things were really bad, I ended up working with someone and we clicked. We developed a friendship. Never cheated, never were alone together. My feelings for this person were such that it made me think it would be best to leave. But after several months of talking and a month of very deep and agonizing soul searching together, we decided to really work on our relationship and things have been good ever since. Sure we have spats but they aren't anything that other relationships don't have.

I shouldn't have to give you the blow by blow, but the one thing I can't stand is stupid people making stupid assumptions.

well i didnt know all that.

but if i were in your shoes and i was truly miserable, i would confront him and tell him deep in my heart i'm UNHAPPY as fuck and if this doesn't let up ...i'm leaving.

1) you are pining for someone. you talked about the other guy who you met and your heart stirred and you were thinking of him, and that maybe he could help you ESCAPE from the current guy you are with cause you are super miserable.

2) you just said you're miserable, now and in our discussions. it's not hard to see.

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and a libra/libra dominant man in general is going to be PROPER...because it's in their DNA..

there's something about libra that screams manners..

I'm a Libra dominant Cap and I'm really big on this. It's not even a conscious effort, either. I'll hold doors open, rise to meet or address somebody, walk people out to their vehicles, and -- this one always gets me stared at or questioned -- I can't enter a car until everybody else has. Period. Especially the driver. I'll even stand there with the door open and be told, "Go ahead and get in" and I won't. It just doesn't feel right - it's so improper and foreign to me. Not being the last one seated -- be it in a vehicle or at a table -- is not an option. It can't be helped! LOL

then why are you single? i never read you talking about your girl here, or that you're married or have a girlfriend, pernament woman... cause damn, there should be TONS of women wanting you right now.

are you trying to hold up for the right one? smh.



@Sultrykitty. what do you think? you wrote your man doesn't have consideration at times, what do you think of this guy? he sounds so considerate.

Yes

lol is he the type you'd go for?

Let's just say that 4 years ago, I almost went over the cliff with a Libra dominant Scorpio with a Virgo moon.

why didnt you go for him then?? what happned

because you seem to be unhappy with your aqua. like you're never satisfied, there's always something wrong with him. then you convince yourself it's okay i dont mind

then later you get upset.

Don't you ever have problems with your partner that frustrate you or make you upset or upset him? No relationship is without it's problems. Isn't that just part of a healthy and normal part of a relationship...

i know you're defending, but i wasn't saying anything bad or mean, just observing.

and yes, marriage AND relationships are work.



but it also should EASY PEASY too...harmony.

if there's problems and wishing for another man and pining other men....there's something deep down sadness. that's unfulfillment.



the only pining i think of, is writing my novel. i PINE for that.

in romance i'm fine because all other men do not compare.



edit - and i deeply am sad for you all if you really really feel SADNESS and pining for someone else and wishing for someone else 😢

because of a LACK. it's horrible. if that is the case 😢

I only asked because you've asked me the same thing before. So i thought it's because you don't agree with an Aqua man Leo woman pairing or maybe you don't have problems or just don't notice them in your own relationship. I'll admit, when you asked me, i started getting all these doubts running through my head and thinking maybe you're right. But then i thought about it some more and realised neither of us has ever done anything to intentionally hurt the other or make the other feel insecure or threaten to leave. We've never lied or been dishonest and never exchanged harsh words. So there's no deep wounds or hurt. Just confusion as we try to understand what things mean. Leo is different to Aqua, if we don't care we become indifferent and just agree with whatever because we can't be bothered wasting our energy on someone that can't bend. When we care we are easily hurt and frustrated and feel things. We express stuff. Even things you see as negative aren't necessarily bad things to us. Pain makes you know your alive. A fight that's resolved makes you feel unbreakable. Tears means you love them. When we stop feeling, that's when our love is dead.

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No, I suggested that you keep doing it and don't bother being an armchair psychiatrist. You're better at the celebrity couples thing than the real life ones.

And thanks for the compliment.

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and a libra/libra dominant man in general is going to be PROPER...because it's in their DNA..

there's something about libra that screams manners..

I'm a Libra dominant Cap and I'm really big on this. It's not even a conscious effort, either. I'll hold doors open, rise to meet or address somebody, walk people out to their vehicles, and -- this one always gets me stared at or questioned -- I can't enter a car until everybody else has. Period. Especially the driver. I'll even stand there with the door open and be told, "Go ahead and get in" and I won't. It just doesn't feel right - it's so improper and foreign to me. Not being the last one seated -- be it in a vehicle or at a table -- is not an option. It can't be helped! LOL

then why are you single? i never read you talking about your girl here, or that you're married or have a girlfriend, pernament woman... cause damn, there should be TONS of women wanting you right now.

are you trying to hold up for the right one? smh.



@Sultrykitty. what do you think? you wrote your man doesn't have consideration at times, what do you think of this guy? he sounds so considerate.

Yes

lol is he the type you'd go for?

Let's just say that 4 years ago, I almost went over the cliff with a Libra dominant Scorpio with a Virgo moon.

why didnt you go for him then?? what happned

because you seem to be unhappy with your aqua. like you're never satisfied, there's always something wrong with him. then you convince yourself it's okay i dont mind

then later you get upset.

Don't you ever have problems with your partner that frustrate you or make you upset or upset him? No relationship is without it's problems. Isn't that just part of a healthy and normal part of a relationship...

i know you're defending, but i wasn't saying anything bad or mean, just observing.

and yes, marriage AND relationships are work.



but it also should EASY PEASY too...harmony.

if there's problems and wishing for another man and pining other men....there's something deep down sadness. that's unfulfillment.



the only pining i think of, is writing my novel. i PINE for that.

in romance i'm fine because all other men do not compare.



edit - and i deeply am sad for you all if you really really feel SADNESS and pining for someone else and wishing for someone else 😢

because of a LACK. it's horrible. if that is the case 😢

I only asked because you've asked me the same thing before. So i thought it's because you don't agree with an Aqua man Leo woman pairing or maybe you don't have problems or just don't notice them in your own relationship. I'll admit, when you asked me, i started getting all these doubts running through my head and thinking maybe you're right. But then i thought about it some more and realised neither of us has ever done anything to intentionally hurt the other or make the other feel insecure or threaten to leave. We've never lied or been dishonest and never exchanged harsh words. So there's no deep wounds or hurt. Just confusion as we try to understand what things mean. Leo is different to Aqua, if we don't care we become indifferent and just agree with whatever because we can't be bothered wasting our energy on someone that can't bend. When we care we are easily hurt and frustrated and feel things. We express stuff. Even things you see as negative aren't necessarily bad things to us. Pain makes you know your alive. A fight that's resolved makes you feel unbreakable. Tears means you love them. When we stop feeling, that's when our love is dead.

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and a libra/libra dominant man in general is going to be PROPER...because it's in their DNA..

there's something about libra that screams manners..

I'm a Libra dominant Cap and I'm really big on this. It's not even a conscious effort, either. I'll hold doors open, rise to meet or address somebody, walk people out to their vehicles, and -- this one always gets me stared at or questioned -- I can't enter a car until everybody else has. Period. Especially the driver. I'll even stand there with the door open and be told, "Go ahead and get in" and I won't. It just doesn't feel right - it's so improper and foreign to me. Not being the last one seated -- be it in a vehicle or at a table -- is not an option. It can't be helped! LOL

then why are you single? i never read you talking about your girl here, or that you're married or have a girlfriend, pernament woman... cause damn, there should be TONS of women wanting you right now.

are you trying to hold up for the right one? smh.



@Sultrykitty. what do you think? you wrote your man doesn't have consideration at times, what do you think of this guy? he sounds so considerate.

Yes

lol is he the type you'd go for?

Let's just say that 4 years ago, I almost went over the cliff with a Libra dominant Scorpio with a Virgo moon.

why didnt you go for him then?? what happned

because you seem to be unhappy with your aqua. like you're never satisfied, there's always something wrong with him. then you convince yourself it's okay i dont mind

then later you get upset.

Don't you ever have problems with your partner that frustrate you or make you upset or upset him? No relationship is without it's problems. Isn't that just part of a healthy and normal part of a relationship...

i know you're defending, but i wasn't saying anything bad or mean, just observing.

and yes, marriage AND relationships are work.



but it also should EASY PEASY too...harmony.

if there's problems and wishing for another man and pining other men....there's something deep down sadness. that's unfulfillment.



the only pining i think of, is writing my novel. i PINE for that.

in romance i'm fine because all other men do not compare.



edit - and i deeply am sad for you all if you really really feel SADNESS and pining for someone else and wishing for someone else 😢

because of a LACK. it's horrible. if that is the case 😢

I only asked because you've asked me the same thing before. So i thought it's because you don't agree with an Aqua man Leo woman pairing or maybe you don't have problems or just don't notice them in your own relationship. I'll admit, when you asked me, i started getting all these doubts running through my head and thinking maybe you're right. But then i thought about it some more and realised neither of us has ever done anything to intentionally hurt the other or make the other feel insecure or threaten to leave. We've never lied or been dishonest and never exchanged harsh words. So there's no deep wounds or hurt. Just confusion as we try to understand what things mean. Leo is different to Aqua, if we don't care we become indifferent and just agree with whatever because we can't be bothered wasting our energy on someone that can't bend. When we care we are easily hurt and frustrated and feel things. We express stuff. Even things you see as negative aren't necessarily bad things to us. Pain makes you know your alive. A fight that's resolved makes you feel unbreakable. Tears means you love them. When we stop feeling, that's when our love is dead.

you never mentioned he beat you or he went off cheating or anything bad.

i was just commenting on your topic because the cancer and the boob operation.

it really happened in real life, with someone we know in our family.



and i agree with you on tears and pain and suffering.

You asked me a few weeks ago in a different topic. You said i sound unhappy with him because i complain. It was just that you said the same thing to sultrykitty so it seemed like painting with the same brush

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and a libra/libra dominant man in general is going to be PROPER...because it's in their DNA..

there's something about libra that screams manners..

I'm a Libra dominant Cap and I'm really big on this. It's not even a conscious effort, either. I'll hold doors open, rise to meet or address somebody, walk people out to their vehicles, and -- this one always gets me stared at or questioned -- I can't enter a car until everybody else has. Period. Especially the driver. I'll even stand there with the door open and be told, "Go ahead and get in" and I won't. It just doesn't feel right - it's so improper and foreign to me. Not being the last one seated -- be it in a vehicle or at a table -- is not an option. It can't be helped! LOL

then why are you single? i never read you talking about your girl here, or that you're married or have a girlfriend, pernament woman... cause damn, there should be TONS of women wanting you right now.

are you trying to hold up for the right one? smh.



@Sultrykitty. what do you think? you wrote your man doesn't have consideration at times, what do you think of this guy? he sounds so considerate.

Yes

lol is he the type you'd go for?

Let's just say that 4 years ago, I almost went over the cliff with a Libra dominant Scorpio with a Virgo moon.

why didnt you go for him then?? what happned

because you seem to be unhappy with your aqua. like you're never satisfied, there's always something wrong with him. then you convince yourself it's okay i dont mind

then later you get upset.

Don't you ever have problems with your partner that frustrate you or make you upset or upset him? No relationship is without it's problems. Isn't that just part of a healthy and normal part of a relationship...

i know you're defending, but i wasn't saying anything bad or mean, just observing.

and yes, marriage AND relationships are work.



but it also should EASY PEASY too...harmony.

if there's problems and wishing for another man and pining other men....there's something deep down sadness. that's unfulfillment.



the only pining i think of, is writing my novel. i PINE for that.

in romance i'm fine because all other men do not compare.



edit - and i deeply am sad for you all if you really really feel SADNESS and pining for someone else and wishing for someone else 😢

because of a LACK. it's horrible. if that is the case 😢

I only asked because you've asked me the same thing before. So i thought it's because you don't agree with an Aqua man Leo woman pairing or maybe you don't have problems or just don't notice them in your own relationship. I'll admit, when you asked me, i started getting all these doubts running through my head and thinking maybe you're right. But then i thought about it some more and realised neither of us has ever done anything to intentionally hurt the other or make the other feel insecure or threaten to leave. We've never lied or been dishonest and never exchanged harsh words. So there's no deep wounds or hurt. Just confusion as we try to understand what things mean. Leo is different to Aqua, if we don't care we become indifferent and just agree with whatever because we can't be bothered wasting our energy on someone that can't bend. When we care we are easily hurt and frustrated and feel things. We express stuff. Even things you see as negative aren't necessarily bad things to us. Pain makes you know your alive. A fight that's resolved makes you feel unbreakable. Tears means you love them. When we stop feeling, that's when our love is dead.

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Some relationships teach you, some are just meant to be enjoyed. I'm sure relationships like Lisa's a great for people who aren't good with confrontation and are generally good relationships to have, but relationships with tension aren't necessarily abusive or ones where people do nothing but fight and are miserable. Some are fine with one, some are fine with the other.

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hello hello,

hows this aqua thread going

--- relax, breath, inhale exhale



sending hugs

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full moon was just around the corner yesterday. hope everyone is well

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and a libra/libra dominant man in general is going to be PROPER...because it's in their DNA..

there's something about libra that screams manners..

I'm a Libra dominant Cap and I'm really big on this. It's not even a conscious effort, either. I'll hold doors open, rise to meet or address somebody, walk people out to their vehicles, and -- this one always gets me stared at or questioned -- I can't enter a car until everybody else has. Period. Especially the driver. I'll even stand there with the door open and be told, "Go ahead and get in" and I won't. It just doesn't feel right - it's so improper and foreign to me. Not being the last one seated -- be it in a vehicle or at a table -- is not an option. It can't be helped! LOL

then why are you single? i never read you talking about your girl here, or that you're married or have a girlfriend, pernament woman... cause damn, there should be TONS of women wanting you right now.

are you trying to hold up for the right one? smh.



@Sultrykitty. what do you think? you wrote your man doesn't have consideration at times, what do you think of this guy? he sounds so considerate.

Yes

lol is he the type you'd go for?

Let's just say that 4 years ago, I almost went over the cliff with a Libra dominant Scorpio with a Virgo moon.

why didnt you go for him then?? what happned

because you seem to be unhappy with your aqua. like you're never satisfied, there's always something wrong with him. then you convince yourself it's okay i dont mind

then later you get upset.

Don't you ever have problems with your partner that frustrate you or make you upset or upset him? No relationship is without it's problems. Isn't that just part of a healthy and normal part of a relationship...

i know you're defending, but i wasn't saying anything bad or mean, just observing.

and yes, marriage AND relationships are work.



but it also should EASY PEASY too...harmony.

if there's problems and wishing for another man and pining other men....there's something deep down sadness. that's unfulfillment.



the only pining i think of, is writing my novel. i PINE for that.

in romance i'm fine because all other men do not compare.



edit - and i deeply am sad for you all if you really really feel SADNESS and pining for someone else and wishing for someone else 😢

because of a LACK. it's horrible. if that is the case 😢

I only asked because you've asked me the same thing before. So i thought it's because you don't agree with an Aqua man Leo woman pairing or maybe you don't have problems or just don't notice them in your own relationship. I'll admit, when you asked me, i started getting all these doubts running through my head and thinking maybe you're right. But then i thought about it some more and realised neither of us has ever done anything to intentionally hurt the other or make the other feel insecure or threaten to leave. We've never lied or been dishonest and never exchanged harsh words. So there's no deep wounds or hurt. Just confusion as we try to understand what things mean. Leo is different to Aqua, if we don't care we become indifferent and just agree with whatever because we can't be bothered wasting our energy on someone that can't bend. When we care we are easily hurt and frustrated and feel things. We express stuff. Even things you see as negative aren't necessarily bad things to us. Pain makes you know your alive. A fight that's resolved makes you feel unbreakable. Tears means you love them. When we stop feeling, that's when our love is dead.

you never mentioned he beat you or he went off cheating or anything bad.

i was just commenting on your topic because the cancer and the boob operation.

it really happened in real life, with someone we know in our family.



and i agree with you on tears and pain and suffering.

You asked me a few weeks ago in a different topic. You said i sound unhappy with him because i complain. It was just that you said the same thing to sultrykitty so it seemed like painting with the same brush

4 days later. lol did you all have a good leo moon evening??

i got you both mixed up at times online. you have similar energies. lol

but i do remember sultrykitty's complaints in the past with her Aqua man being not good with financial or that they had problems financially and she was the one making more money. but she's ok with it and they're doing fine. i'm earth dominant so i need a partner to be making lots of money if i'm NOT making any or making very little. I don't like being poor at all. gross. i hate it. i want to have things and live nicely at least. if my man can't provide that and i have to sacrifice, then i'm gonna be the one working my ass off, and not being with anyone.

but i dont avoid leo sun women though, lol so i'm different than those aquas the statistics were talking about.

i know you all have "bite" because fiery women usually do. i'm very familiar with it.

The sultrykitten and i share a few placements and both have an aquaman. Someone else said i remind them of her too. Maybe she's future me 😂

I probably have more fire but my mars is cancer so i don't fight very well. 🦀

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