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haffo
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Cappysweetie

Thank you for your kind words.

I start to belive that the age between 18-25 is the age of "revelations". It's the age where you find out the real faces of your parents and decide what to do with them. It's the most difficult part of the life Cappysweetie. After this part, you take control of your life and become independant. This is the price you have to pay for your independence. I'm sure you will deal with it pretty fine.


Good luck.
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Cappysweetie, There are all kinds of abuse, Emotional/verbal,etc.. and what you have described appears serious! May I suggest that you check out the school's health clinic. Certainly they have experienced people who deal with many problems students there are facing..and/or point you in the right direction.. I see you are very busy and time is a factor, but reaching out to services the school already provides will give you support and likely help you to better clarify your options. I get the phrase, "A LEAP OF FAITH". You'd be suprised who's out there ready and willing to assist you.
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What is the rational for dicking around with people like that? Did you ever ask him? Sounds pretty stupid to me.

Exactly! And the last part in your sentense do pretty explain the reason. You said sound pretty stupid. Very true. They are stupid and that why act in stupid way. You will not have any reason from stupid people will ya?

My father always wanted to be "king" in the house. And everyone should have "kissed his ass" and nobody should have any chance for complaining. It's a control game that many people feel great when do it. This is kind of behaviour that people use against their families especially when they hate them. Of course, even though they hate them, they still deny to leave them alone, because they are stupid, they do not understand that they should move on, and continur to psychologically torture them.

Actually I belive her mother is kinda allowing this situation to grow to this level. She should have told him to shut the fuck up and take care of his own business, but she wont. Why? Because she does not understand herself why she should? Two dumb people get along and find stupid fullfillment in their lives that benefits only to them (well actually they do not benefit from each other, they seemingly do, but in fact they just psychologically torture each other).

Primegen, there are too many stupid people in the world. You should have be grateful to your parents if you didn't deal with such shit with them, because such people are really very very few in numbers.

The world is full of idiots, which is my favourite quote.